Not the usual hotwife beginnings

[CuckInTheMaking]

Hey everyone,

Longtime lurker, first-time poster. I’ve read so many incredible stories here about wives being seduced by coworkers, trainers, and exes but I never expected my wife to end up in the arms of someone with real power. This isn’t just some gym buddy or college ex. This is a man who could ruin careers with a phone call. And now? He’s taking my wife on dates.

Here’s how it happened. My wife Elena, works in PR. Normally, her job is pretty low-key—press releases, client meetings, the usual. But last month, her firm was asked to help with a high-profile fundraiser for a politician (we’ll call him M). She wasn’t even supposed to go, her boss was handling it but at the last minute, he got sick and asked Elena to fill in. I remember her that night: a fitted black dress, heels, hair done just right. She looked expensive. I joked, "You’re gonna turn heads tonight," and she laughed it off. But part of me wondered… what if she did?

When she got home, she was buzzing. Not just from the champagne, but from him. She said I’ll never believe who kept finding excuses to talk to her grinning. Turns out, M had spent half the evening at her side, ignoring donors to ask about her, where she was from, what she liked to do, even if she was happy in her marriage. She said he was so… intense. Like he was trying to read her mind. I felt that first rush of jealousy but also excitement. This wasn’t just some guy. This was a man who could have anyone. And he wanted her.

Over the next two weeks, Elena started getting emails from his office. At first, they were professional, thank-you notes for the event, requests for PR advice. Then, they got personal."You have a rare combination of intelligence and beauty. Most people only have one." She showed me the message, biting her lip. "Is this… inappropriate?"

I could’ve said yes. I should’ve said yes. But instead, I grinned. "He’s testing the waters. See how you respond." She texted back something playful but noncommittal. "Flattery will get you everywhere, M." His reply? "Let’s find out." That’s when I knew this was real.

A week later, an invitation arrived: a private dinner at one of the most exclusive restaurants in the city. No staff, no donors—just him.
Elena was nervous. What if someone sees us? What if this is a mistake? I could’ve shut it down. But the thought of her sitting across from him, dressed to kill, while he undressed her with his eyes. I needed it to happen. So I did what any good cuck would do: I helped.
"Wear the red dress," I told her. "The one that hugs your hips. And no bra." She blushed but didn’t say no.I even dropped her off at the restaurant, watching as she walked inside, her heels clicking on the pavement. My wife. His date.

I won’t lie—I expected her home by 11. But midnight came and went. Then 1 AM. My phone stayed silent. When she finally walked in at 2:30, her lipstick was smudged. She said they just talked. I was like just talked. She paused then smirked and said Mostly. Turns out, they had stayed at the restaurant until the staff politely kicked them out. Then, they’d walked to a nearby park, where he kissed her under a streetlamp.

She admitted He’s… different. The way he looks at her, it’s like he’s already planning what he’ll do next. And what was next?
That was two weeks ago. Since then:

• He’s sent a car for her twice (black SUV, tinted windows)

• She’s ‘working late’ more often (but her phone goes dead for hours).

• I found a hotel key card in her purse (she swore it was ‘just in case’).

Friday night, she came home with a hickey on her thigh. "He got carried away."

I should feel jealous. And I do. But more than that? I’m addicted to this.

I don’t know yet. But I do know this:
He’s not the type to share long-term. If this continues, he’ll want more control
The risk of exposure is real.
I’m not sure I can stop it anymore. And honestly? I don’t want to

Has anyone else been in this situation? A hotwife dynamic with someone this powerful? How did you handle it?

Update coming soon. Maybe with pics… if she lets me

[Restarting]

This is Elena's first experience as a hotwife, correct?
Has she told you she fucked him? Has she asked you how you feel about it?
If you think she is holding anything back from you, a serious conversation is needed (unless you want to be kept in the dark). Better to establish full communication between yourselves. Sharing the experience is a beautiful thing.

[CuckInTheMaking]

This is Elena's first experience as a hotwife, correct?
Has she told you she fucked him? Has she asked you how you feel about it?
If you think she is holding anything back from you, a serious conversation is needed (unless you want to be kept in the dark). Better to establish full communication between yourselves. Sharing the experience is a beautiful thing.

Yes. Before M, Elena had never crossed the line into full hotwife territory. She’d flirted, enjoyed attention, and even teased me about harmless crushes but she’d never acted on it. This is her first time fucking another man, her first time coming home with another man’s marks on her body. The novelty is part of what makes this so intoxicating. She’s discovering her power the way men like M react to her, the way she can control me with just a smirk. But it’s also terrifying.

She told me but not right away. At first, it was just hints - He’s… persistent, You’d be surprised how convincing he can be, didn’t say no. Then, after the hotel key card, I pushed. She just said yes. No details. No apologies. Just yes. As for my feelings? She hasn’t asked. Not directly. But she watches me. The way I react when she mentions his name. The way my hands shake when I undress her and find new bruises.

You’re right. And part of me wants that the raw honesty, the shared thrill, the trust. But with M? It’s complicated. He controls the narrative. Elena says he prefers secrecy. She’s changing. The more time she spends with him, the less she volunteers. I have to pull it out of her.

Last night, I tried.She hesitated. Then she said He fucked me against the window. And he made me say his name. It was something. But not enough.

How do you reclaim the dynamic when the third holds all the power?

[BallSpanking]

Well, you had better be clear to Elena where you would draw the line as her cuck husband. She will immediately understand she has a green light. The rest should just be a matter of time and opportunity, assuming the Elena and Mr M must yet satisfy their ... curiosity.

If Elena is willing to have your help, do your best to suggest 'romantic' things that Elena loves as the hook that threads the fabric of a more wanton storyline.

You can be sure she is already having fantasies about it ...

[CuckInTheMaking]

Well, you had better be clear to Elena where you would draw the line as her cuck husband. She will immediately understand she has a green light. The rest should just be a matter of time and opportunity, assuming the Elena and Mr M must yet satisfy their ... curiosity.

If Elena is willing to have your help, do your best to suggest 'romantic' things that Elena loves as the hook that threads the fabric of a more wanton storyline.

You can be sure she is already having fantasies about it ...

Elena already knows she has a green light. And that’s the terrifying (or thrilling?) part. The moment I grinned at that first email instead of shutting it down, the line vanished. Now? It’s not about if but how far. As for ‘romantic’ hooks… oh, she’s already ahead of me. Last week, I ‘accidentally’ left her favorite lingerie (the black lace set M complimented) on her pillow with a note: ‘Wear this for him. Then come home and tell me exactly what he said.’
She did. And she didn’t come home until morning. She came home at 3 AM, the lace torn at the thigh. Asked her if she liked it. She said she needed it. Not yes. Not no. Just the truth. the worst part? I’m hard just typing this

The fantasies aren’t just hers anymore. They’re ours. Or maybe his. I’m still figuring that out.

[Dream Weaver]

....
I’m not sure I can stop it anymore. And honestly? I don’t want to

Has anyone else been in this situation? A hotwife dynamic with someone this powerful? How did you handle it?

Update coming soon. Maybe with pics… if she lets me

Man, you're not going to get many who will answer yes to this. I mean, it's pretty unique?!

But it's a great beginning. Tell us more!

[Cobra1000]

Holy fuck this is hot

[CuckInTheMaking]

Elena casually mentioned yesterday that M is flying to a conference in Miami this Thursday. she said just 2 night avoiding my eyes When I joked, "Hope the hotel has good room service she froze then smirked. Bingo.

I thought I’d be sitting at home, refreshing my phone, waiting for updates. I was wrong. Today, my phone rang. Unknown number.
M’s EA called me . "M thought you might want to join for the weekend. Separate room, of course." The way she said it. dripping with implication made my stomach flip. You know exactly what this is. Is this a test? A power play? A reward?

I haven’t answered yet. is she already imagining me there watching, listening, waiting while M takes her in ways I never could. Part of me wants to. Badly. The thought of being in the same hotel, knowing they’re just a few floors away… knowing he’s undressing her, touching her, making her moan his name. But another part wonders: What happens when the door closes? Will I get accidental texts. Or will I just lie there, straining to hear through the walls, imagining every gasp, every thrust.

What do you think, guys? Should I go to Miami. What do you think M’s real game is.

[Restarting]

This is Elena's first experience as a hotwife, correct?
Has she told you she fucked him? Has she asked you how you feel about it?
If you think she is holding anything back from you, a serious conversation is needed (unless you want to be kept in the dark). Better to establish full communication between yourselves. Sharing the experience is a beautiful thing.

Yes. Before M, Elena had never crossed the line into full hotwife territory. She’d flirted, enjoyed attention, and even teased me about harmless crushes but she’d never acted on it. This is her first time fucking another man, her first time coming home with another man’s marks on her body. The novelty is part of what makes this so intoxicating. She’s discovering her power the way men like M react to her, the way she can control me with just a smirk. But it’s also terrifying.

She told me but not right away. At first, it was just hints - He’s… persistent, You’d be surprised how convincing he can be, didn’t say no. Then, after the hotel key card, I pushed. She just said yes. No details. No apologies. Just yes. As for my feelings? She hasn’t asked. Not directly. But she watches me. The way I react when she mentions his name. The way my hands shake when I undress her and find new bruises.

You’re right. And part of me wants that the raw honesty, the shared thrill, the trust. But with M? It’s complicated. He controls the narrative. Elena says he prefers secrecy. She’s changing. The more time she spends with him, the less she volunteers. I have to pull it out of her.

Last night, I tried.She hesitated. Then she said He fucked me against the window. And he made me say his name. It was something. But not enough.

How do you reclaim the dynamic when the third holds all the power?

Since you've asked for a Dr. Restarting consultation, prepare to take a drink from the fire hydrant!

Seriously, I'm no expert and every relationship is different. I'll admit I come from the perspective of a stag rather than cuckhold relationship so my personal preferences might drastically differ from yours. My views do rely on experiences in my marriage of over 50 years.

For me, trust is foundational to a successful marriage, much less the lifestyle. Trust requires communication, particularly about the topics that you find difficult to introduce. You'll be hard pressed to find peace in any arrangement if you can't count on the honesty and trust of your wife. Conversely, your wife owes you the trust to be able to hear you and express herself freely, too.

When entering the lifestyle it is helpful to establish boundaries with which both of you are comfortable.
Views, preferences and desires are likely to evolve for both of you. Every change should be integrated into your discussions as you go.

For me, if a third doesn't meet my requirements, it's a nonstarter, he's out of there. Plenty of fish in the sea. But that's just me (and my boundaries).

Honestly, you probably would have been better off having these discussions before action began. Now that it has, it becomes more of a negotiation than a what-if fantasy discussion. That's OK.

But it's time to get on the same page.
The most important element of preparation for your discussion is, to the best of your ability, figure out what you want.
Do you want to share in her experiences or be left out?
Are you looking for a full report or a recording? Would you like to view in person?
What else is important to you?

Here's one framework to consider:
Try to avoid making judgements during discussions.
Ask her how she feels about everything that has happened.
Ask her what she has liked the most.
Ask her if she has other things in mind.
Does she have any reservation about discussing anything?

Tell her what you like about her adventures and want more. More for her and more for both of you.
Tell her what you want.
Ask her if she has any problems with your desires.

Identify areas of agreement.
Define areas at issue
Think about everything after each discussion

Return to each issue until you both fully agree.

This has to be 100% win/win for both of you.
I'd caution against compromise that might lead unhappiness for one or both of you. Listen empathetically but be true to yourselves.

Ultimately, you may feel you've reached an impasse on an issue.
Keep in mind that she now has the incredible force of New Relationship Energy to contend with. It's powerful but mostly temporary. Try to give her some slack in the discussions to allow her to bask in the excitement she's experienced. Initially, it can certainly taint her views and objectivity, though.

In my opinion, this is where it gets real. It's not a negotiation unless you are willing to walk away.
Compromise is not always the best choice.
As long as either one of you want to dialog to continue, keep talking until you've reached resolution.

After that, it moves from a lifestyle discussion to a marital discussion.

Update: The Miami development may add urgency to this discussion but your issues won't be resolved in a single sitting.
To answer the question about going: ideally, the brakes should be applied in this experiment as much as they can at this point. Expanding the relationship might be premature. M's game seems to be power. You decision to succumb will determine the direction of the lifestyle and your relationship with your wife. It's an important decision.

I hope this is beneficial to you and Elena.

[CuckInTheMaking]

First off, thank you for such a thorough and considered response, I genuinely appreciate the wisdom here, especially from someone with decades of experience. You’re absolutely right about trust and communication being the bedrock of this dynamic. And you’ve given me a lot to reflect on.

That said, I’ll admit: the unpredictability of this situation is what’s electrifying. M doesn’t operate on rules, he rewrites them. Elena’s never been the type to hide things from me, but with him? She’s flushed when she comes home, biting back smiles, her stories just a little too polished. It’s intoxicating.

We did talk boundaries early in our marriage (no exes, no coworkers, always protection). But M? He’s neither. He’s a category of his own.

About Miami, You’re right, it’s a pivot point. But part of me wonders, if I stop this now, will she resent me? Or worse… do it anyway and stop telling me? At least this way, I’m still in the loop, even if the loop is He booked us a suite. Don’t wait up.

This might be the riskiest thing we’ve ever done. But the way she arches when his name comes up? Worth every heartbeat of panic.

[BallSpanking]

I would suggest you turn down M's invitation. The more you accept from him, the more he will control your wife. Clearly she will be joining him in Miami, and fucking him all night for two nights. Maybe her privacy should count more than your kink, let them enjoy themselves, and stake out a space where you can still retain self respect and independence.

[CuckInTheMaking]

I appreciate the advice, and I think you're spot on. This whole thing has snowballed way beyond what I ever imagined. At first, it was exciting the attention, the power dynamic, the taboo of it all. But now? It feels like I'm standing on the tracks watching a freight train barrel toward me.

The messed-up part is, part of me still wants to go. Not just to watch, but to prove I can handle it. But that's exactly what he's counting on, isn't it? The more I play along, the more he rewires this from our fantasy into his reality. And Elena... I don't even recognize her texts anymore. She used to tease me about him; now she just tells me where she'll be and when she'll be back

That said, if anyone’s been in this exact nightmare and found a way to claw back equilibrium… I’m all ears

[leggysman]

She'll definitely go, of course. You too maybe, depending on the story's direction of travel. The well-intended advice above is really neither here nor there, but the engagement is essential.

[Dream Weaver]

She's obvious already banging him. At this point it's just negotiating terms.

[CuckInTheMaking]

So I decided I'm not going with her. I phoned M's EA and politely declined the offer. She said M will be disappointed.

I got home early that night, hoping to catch Elena before she started packing.I didn’t make it. Elena stood in front of our bed, a half-packed suitcase open beside her. She was unzipping sleek black garment bag, the dress inside was expensive. The kind of thing she’d never buy for herself. I asked where she'd get that. She said M sent it and said it looked stunning on her. She said it like it was nothing like it was normal for another man to buy my wife clothes. I was like you're really taking it, her reply - it's only dress. She also bagged the red lace lingerie the set he bought for her last week. I was curious why she didn't get any swimsuits - we won't be leaving the room much.

I'm not letting her go without conditions. Not this time. We sat at the kitchen table. I told her we need rules, she arched eyebrow " we have rules". Yeah but not his, ours. So I laid it out: texts regularly no exception, if she ignores me I call the hotel. She smirked and asked If I'm joking. I wasn't
Calls - morning and night, video chat at least one and speaker, if I'd asked she put me on speaker let me hear them together.

She was like " you don't mean that". Bonus - no deleted messages, location sharing stays.

They're leaving tomorrow morning, they're flying private.

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

I think now would be a good time to share her with us. Any photos of her to share discretely?

[CuckInTheMaking]

I think now would be a good time to share her with us. Any photos of her to share discretely?

Did it.

[BallSpanking]

Your wife is sensationally sexy.
She will be a very sought after HotWife, and have her pick of all the endowed Alpha men! 🥵
Please post more pics of her beauty.

[CuckInTheMaking]

Your wife is sensationally sexy.
She will be a very sought after HotWife, and have her pick of all the endowed Alpha men! 🥵
Please post more pics of her beauty.

Maybe she returns if she's in mood to let me share more

[BallSpanking]

Maybe a nice bottle of red wine will lead her to relax, and have some fun ...

[elina]

Dear CuckInTheMaking

I just found this thread and the post with the picture you were allowed to share.
The fact that you were allowed to share shows that She is aware that you are posting here, is She also reading this?

What I find challenging here is that we know very little of how the Lady perceives the situation.
Apparantly, She is enjoying Herself with Her new bull.
Also, the way I read the story it is also clear that CuckInTheMaking has more than passively accepted this, he has on several occasions actively supported Her, made suggestions for Lingerie and in one case at least made his Wife, Hotwife, on Her way to become a Cuckoldress? wear an incredibly Hot Red Dress when going for dinner with Her bull.

The Lady though is not fully open with Her cuck, I can fully understand how challenging this must be for CuckInTheMaking.
We also know that the male pursuing this Lady is powerful and clearly well off financially, we don't know his intent or what he has instructed his new Mistress to tell Her husband and what not.

I pesonally think that it was a mistake by CuckInTheMaking to reject the invitation to travel with his Hotwife and Her lover this weekend. There is a high likelihood that the Bull would have used this opportunity to communicate expectations to the cuck and for the Lady to come clean about what is taking place. That was missed.

I would suggest that when the Lady returns, if She is still not openly sharing, maybe CuckInTheMaking should write a letter of appology to the Bull for not accepting his generous invitation. Simply state that the situation is quite new for you and you were a bit overwhelmed by the whole thing. Then indicate your willingness to meet him and get to know him. Make sure to run it by the Wife and accept Her input, and then ask Her to bring it along the next time She goes to meet Her lover.

Just my thoughts
elina
(submissive male)

[Whenwillshe]

She is i credibly hot.
I have concern about his level of control.
Seems she may be ignoring your relationship with the NRE.
That can end poorly.

[allways]

Nice photo. Its a shame you didn't go with her.

[Sergio2701]

Were is her photo ?

[Restarting]

I'm not letting her go without conditions. Not this time. We sat at the kitchen table. I told her we need rules, she arched eyebrow " we have rules". Yeah but not his, ours. So I laid it out: texts regularly no exception, if she ignores me I call the hotel. She smirked and asked If I'm joking. I wasn't
Calls - morning and night, video chat at least one and speaker, if I'd asked she put me on speaker let me hear them together.

She was like " you don't mean that". Bonus - no deleted messages, location sharing stays.

They're leaving tomorrow morning, they're flying private.

The uncertainty is exhilarating,
You may think you know everything about your wife, but then discover that you didn't know her at all, it was an illusion. Clarity can emerge, for the better. Hopefully much better!

If your relationship was already on solid ground before M, your courage to speak clearly will pay dividends in your marriage, for the rest of your lives, congratulations! To me, this is very promising for your journey together. Obviously, you've been giving a lot of thought to what you want. Excellent!

I don't know you, but this seems like you are being true to yourself. Living your own lie inevitably leads to resentment.
Not having that conversation would have been selfish. It's unreasonable to expect her to know exactly how you feel without saying it. If you want her to be 100% honest and open with you, it's unfair if you're not the same with her. It's amazing how unbridled communication lifts so much pressure from a relationship that you probably didn't recognize existed.

She may not even know how she feels about these new "conditions" right now. Remember NRE can be blinding, especially initially. So, her thinking will be clouded, especially short term. If you are on solid ground she will respect your boundaries. Any negative reaction to your "demands" are likely to soften over time. Her decisions moving forward are now properly informed, though.

In the meantime, buckle up. Prepare for your mind to be scrambled every minute she's away.

BTW: You have one incredibly gorgeous wife!