How I spot a cuckold couple "in the wild"

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How I spot a cuckold couple "in the wild"

Unread post by firef503 » Thu Jul 03, 2025 9:41 am

Before we start arguments about "I do this with my wife and we are not ______." I am NOT saying any of this is a for sure sign you are a cuckold couple. These are just hints I look for that MIGHT help tip the odds in my favor for me finding a cuckold couple. I'm posting in this group to be an asset to cuckolds out there on what a bull might look for in your relationship if you are the type that prefers she gets picked up on "in the wild."

First step is location for what I call "hunting ground." I also consider "in the wild" anything that isn't a website where that is mentioned first and foremost. An obvious one being a hotel pool. If she is there to show off her new fake tits and is looking around while her pale husband sits there bored. In Vegas I like to "hunt" at the aria and cosmo. Those casinos were specifically designed and built to attract women. If you see a couple staying at either one, there's a good chance that was the wife's decision or from a husband that caters to his wife's needs. If it's the wife's decision that increases the chance it's either a female led relationship. If it's a husband that caters to his wife's needs that can be a sign of a cuckold couple.

I look for hints at least of a wife with a wondering eye. A wife that is hotter. A wife that dresses much nicer than her husband. A wife that is taller. A husband that seems shy and looks like he might have a tough time making decisions. A husband that is looking around the room mostly at other guys to look at other guys for her. Sometimes you can even see him specifically point out other people. A wife that is "peacocking" dressing to the 9s. Fake tits is a big hint she at least wants attention from other males. I've even seen them where husband brings her drinks and checks in periodically but they have short discussions and have an obvious plan for the husband to "secretly" wait on the other side of the room and watch discretely from a distance hoping a guy will come pick her up. I've had a husband and wife where the wife was showing up. The attire was my hint so I came up and started talking to her. The husband immediately bolted, making it obvious they had a plan in place to let her chat with a guy.

As far as me testing the waters. Start with an innocent conversation. Bring up something that would appear she might criticize her husband for. Like if I have dirty callused hands make a comment about working for a living and if she comes back with something like, "my husband can't fix anything." There's a hint. I'll throw out a compliment directed at him how hot is wife is. I might ask her to dance. This might even turn into jabs at him just to see how he would react, "your wife is hot, she's obviously way out of your league!" Sometimes I've even just flat out ask, "are you a swinger couple?" I've definitely offended a lot more than impressed with that. But sometime I get what I'm looking for. If it's a no, it's a no everytime. If it's anything but a no it's possible with a reply like, "why would you think that?" More often than not that means "we'd discussed this sort of thing before" but they don't want to reveal it right away so they are stalling. Even if you fall flat on that guess it never hurts to throw it out. He might reply, "NO! Why would you think that!" I've made something up before even, "well I noticed your wife had gold hoop earnings that's usually sort of an underground "we are swingers advertisement." Even though you missed, you did plant an idea in her head and will likely give them a discussion later. I asked this question once to a couple that goes to the same annual event I go to every year. They replied, "No why would you think that!" It prompted a discussion with them. The next year she immediate found me and told me her husband has given her a free pass with me. I responded with something to the effect of "that's great! I can't wait to get together later." She was slightly disappointed and told me she wanted it NOW!" So of course we immediately left.

The results always vary. Although cuck couples are by no means the norm, they are out there. I've heard a stat once 10-15% of married couples are open. While Im not going to argue accuracy of results that seems to be about what I've found. But that does mean I have a lot of swings and misses. You don't know unless you try. I've uncovered swingers, cuckold couples, wives that give me their number as soon as husband leaves and tell me to get ahold of them tomorrow around noon when their husband is gone, I've talked couples into giving it a try when they never thought about it, i've even taken a girlfriend right from the boyfriend.

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Re: How I spot a cuckold couple "in the wild"

Unread post by humadumdum » Thu Jul 03, 2025 12:51 pm

You're a hero.

It was someone just like you who picked up my wife when we were on vacation, right in front of me and with my blessing. We had done all kinds of dirty talk in the past, but I don't think we knew we were ready for it. But somehow he did.

Easily the most erotic experience of my life.

Keep doing what you're doing.

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Re: How I spot a cuckold couple "in the wild"

Unread post by Flcuck4herand » Sat Jul 05, 2025 12:28 pm

Good info thanks. We only look online now but you never know

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Re: How I spot a cuckold couple "in the wild"

Unread post by Flcuck4herand » Sat Jul 05, 2025 12:29 pm

Good info thanks. We only look online now but you never know

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Re: How I spot a cuckold couple "in the wild"

Unread post by ferrisandrews » Sat Jul 05, 2025 1:03 pm

firef503 wrote:
Thu Jul 03, 2025 9:41 am
... This might even turn into jabs at him just to see how he would react, "your wife is hot, she's obviously way out of your league!" ...
My favorite.

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