Taking it slow, then perimenopause hits!

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smithbud2010
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Taking it slow, then perimenopause hits!

Unread post by smithbud2010 » Mon Aug 04, 2025 5:59 am

Its at a standstill, at first she seemed to be getting ready but with perimenopause, she is reluctant to even having sex, forget about getting into the lifestyle. Any one, any experience you can share?

Treat yourself girl
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Re: Taking it slow, then perimenopause hits!

Unread post by Treat yourself girl » Thu Aug 07, 2025 1:51 pm

smithbud2010 wrote:
Mon Aug 04, 2025 5:59 am
Its at a standstill, at first she seemed to be getting ready but with perimenopause, she is reluctant to even having sex, forget about getting into the lifestyle. Any one, any experience you can share?
Don't give up yet. I have a work colleague who hit the menopause. It made her crave sex like never before. Her husband couldn't keep up with her and he gave her permission to play away. She's rampant and fucks more now than when she was a randy teenager.

wannabe72
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Re: Taking it slow, then perimenopause hits!

Unread post by wannabe72 » Tue Oct 28, 2025 2:03 pm

Agree. Do not give up.

My wife also in perimenopause, our sex life is not really existent. I told her I wanted us to focus more on it and she agreed. I then brought up taking her to a cougar bar (we did not know it was one until we got there and saw the show! Bartenders were very flirty and touchy, kssing some of the women as they arrived or left.

While there a younger bartender openly flirted with her (she clearly enjoyed the attention then). I told her I want to take her to the "cougar bar" again and show her off. In short, she became giddy and excited. She agreed to show some skin (likely low cut or semi sheer top as she is busty) and flirt. I'm super excited! Keep your fingers crossed for me, as I will for you!

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