Money for Bull

[surry]

There was a thread going around titled, "how much would a bull pay to fuck a wife?"

And it led to some interesting debate on the topic of who should take financial responsibility for relations between wives and bulls.

So what do you think?

Would you pay a bull to fuck your wife and if you wouldn't why not?

[SubSnuggler]

Value of a Hotwife = $$$ to $$$$
Value of men to fuck Hotwife = 0 to $

In the social value equation, hotwives have all the value. There are tons of men wanting to fuck one, making the individual value of a potential bull almost zero. They are too easy to find!

Maybe in the sense of some sort of humiliation gambit?

A hotwife paying for a room happens occasionally, when they want 'to control the space' for safety or discretion, but other than that if a dude wants to play, he's gonna have to pay.

[IPV6]

Micro or Macro Social Economics by Profressor SubSnuggler. Lol. Spot on!

[njprofessor]

This is an interesting post, especially since I am the one that started that thread on a different site.

And some people were very angry with me because they said that a husband should not pay a bull to have sex with his wife. In their opinion, they felt "sex" was the reward. The problem is married men don't seem to understand how easy it is for a bull to meet women for sex. I have been a bull for many couples. I like cuckold couples the most, because I like the dynamic and when the couples is on the same page and they have really good communication skills - everything is really easy and drama free.

Im sure most women would agree - drama free is much better than DRAMA filled, which is what the dating world is like. And talking to most single women is just drama, drama, drama.

But I have a life. I run a business, I have friends and I also have hobbies and interests.

Yes, I like sex, but I'm not motivated by sex. And I honestly don't think a lot of married guys think about it. They are so desperate and horny that when they look at their wives, all they see is a sex object. But that's not how I look at a married woman. I see a beautiful woman, but then I also see all the strings attached.

What I want is for a husband to remove as many strings as possible.

I don't have requirement, but when a husband pays for a hotel room. That's a nice gesture.
When a husband takes me out to dinner or pays for takeout and drinks, so I can hydrate while fucking his wife. Again, that's a nice touch.
I have never accepted money for sex, that would be illegal, but I did have a couple husbands buy me a few gifts and one took me on a vacation once.
And very briefly, I had a wealthy couple let me stay in their really fancy penthouse apt for a while and I could fuck the wife whenever I wanted.

But Im sure someone on here will get mad at me for reality.

So nows your chance to voice your negativity.

[ferrisandrews]

All things being equal, I'm generally in support of the bull (or Dom!) being paid for his services, with some critical caveats.

The husband should know how his wife would feel about that arrangement and wouldn't go there if there was a chance this might hurt her feelings or give her the ick. On one hand, some may assume that any sex with the wife is payment enough (and perhaps they are right!). Some experienced hotwives who have come to appreciate just how difficult a consistent and quality lover is (and wouldn't feel as though any compensation or payment would reflect on her or her desirability in any way) may approve of the arrangement to eliminate the constant headaches of lining up yet another stranger because the last one found a girlfriend. Both husband and wife should feel comfortable with the notion that the bull is an important and demanding role to be filled, and perhaps it's worth paying a fee to avoid hopping back on the dating carousel. If the couple is good with that, then it's just a question of how to compensate him legally. If local laws won't permit the direct exchange of cash, maybe favors, trades, or services might be an equivalent form of payment.

If this payment idea doesn't work for either the husband or the wife, consider offering exclusivity or other benefits to the bull.

Bulls (and Doms!) are rare and fickle for a reason. It takes a lot of emotional maturity, intelligence, confidence, and skill (as well as fortitude!) to learn what needs to be discovered, and to have the will to push through awkwardness and occasional inconvenience to be a consistent lover to her (and Dom for him if appropriate). Leading is challenging, and although I'm sure the sex with her is fantastic and the ownership over him (if he's a cuck) is a power trip, it doesn't seem unreasonable for him to receive some form of compensation.

If you view the bull as a family friend or neighbor with benefits, then this idea of paying for his services may not at all align with the perception of the relationship. If you view the bull as a specialist offering his services to the benefit of both the husband and wife, then (at least in my mind) he should be treated like any specialist you'd see for a medical condition, a mechanical issue, or a home remodeling need. It's strange to think you could dial a number and schedule a visit by a bull the same as you would for someone who's replacing your water heater (sometime between 10 and 12 on Tuesday!), so it just depends on the relationship and expectations.

[ferrisandrews]

This is an interesting post, especially since I am the one that started that thread on a different site.

Btw, which site was it?