should I let my wife have a one night stand?

[BadCandy]

My wife wants to have a one night stand with a stranger, and she left it up to me if she does.

her and I have been together since 2019, and up until a few months ago we had been pretty vanilla and monogamous... though I had opened up to her about my fantasy of her being with another man. I posted another thread about how that led to her hooking up with her ex a few months ago. they have been fucking regularly since then. its purely sexual. thats why they broken up, cause there was no romantic feelings on either side... but I have seen them have sex many times now, and its hot as fuck! ...since they started fucking, her and i have been having less sex, but when we do have sex its WAY hotter than it was before! ...and I dont mind letting her ex have her more than I do!

but now that she has been fucking both me and her ex for a few months, she has brought up multiple times that she wants to experience a stranger. she said its been almost 10 years since shes had anyone but me or her ex (6 years with me, 2 and half with her ex before me, and single for a year before that)... and she figures since im so okay with her having sex with her ex, maybe i'd be okay with her hooking up with a stranger for a one night stand.

she left it up to me. she said she wants to try it, but doesnt want to ruin our marriage. she feels lucky i let her sleep with her ex, and will be happy with just that if thats all she can have... but figured it was worth asking...

now, i have been wanting to be a cuck for years! i was a wannabe for the longest time! I just get so worked up at the thought of another man's dick in my wife! ...I'm actually very happy that I am a cuck now! my wife is having regular sex with her ex! ...like 2 or 3 times a week! some times I'm there and I get to watch, sometimes I give them privacy...

so... the question is... should I let her have a one night stand? ...would it potentially ruin what we have going already? ...would it ruin it if i didnt let her do it? ...i believe her when she says she wont do it if im not comfortable with it...

those of you with more experience at this than me... what do you think i should do?

[namitha157]

If she is already been having sex with another man.
This shouldn't be different right?

[Wannabee]

I don't have the experience of others, but what is the down side of her hooking up with a new man?

[iluvmyhw]

one night stands can be exciting you can work out the details of the safety end of it

[luvwives999]

Your wife should be able to do as she pleases. It's her body, her needs, the only thing I would ask if it was me, is that she tells me everything and is honest with me.

[BadCandy]

I don't have the experience of others, but what is the down side of her hooking up with a new man?

I honestly dont know. We've never done this before. I'm nerw to being a cuck... Lisa and I felt that if she were going to sleep with another man it'd be better that it's someone she knows and trusts, rather than some random guy... thats what led to her hooking up with her ex... I don't know if theres much difference... perhaps other than safety concerns... about a one night stand... thats why im asking

[namitha157]

I think it will be good for her and you can't really stop her. Now that she has already had sex with other men she isnt rely yours anymore.

[Tamilcuck]

When my wife and first bull stopped as he had to go outstation, she was quite broken up and in her quest to find a new bull, she went through abt 40 guys. Mostly 1 night stands. Was exciting for her but sex wise not all were very good. Most made her cum and penis wise all were bigger than me. But she I ly found true happiness when she met her bf. For her, a young guy with a very big cock was important and he too was in love with her.

As your wife progresses, hopefully she will find her type and then the connection will lead to better sex.

[naivecuck2]

Be careful what you wish for because my ex became addicted to sex with a former high school boyfriend who required that she be naked whenever she was at his apartment and that she could not wear any jewelry including her wedding ring...symbolic that he owned her body...he fucked her 4-5 times per week, 2-3 times per day, while I was at work and our two daughters were in elementary school. I naively gave her a "hall pass", before the movie, believing that her dinner date with a guy that she had not seen or heard from in about 17 years...that first date, would be one and done...that first date made me a two year cuck because it culminated, in a hotel bed, with her first orgasm/s!!

[Tamilcuck]

Be careful what you wish for because my ex became addicted to sex with a former high school boyfriend who required that she be naked whenever she was at his apartment and that she could not wear any jewelry including her wedding ring...symbolic that he owned her body...he fucked her 4-5 times per week, 2-3 times per day, while I was at work and our two daughters were in elementary school. I naively gave her a "hall pass", before the movie, believing that her dinner date with a guy that she had not seen or heard from in about 17 years...that first date, would be one and done...that first date made me a two year cuck because it culminated, in a hotel bed, with her first orgasm/s!!

Hi naive. Is she still seeing him or has she stopped or. Ow has another bf?

[ferrisandrews]

Yes I think you should encourage her. She's already seeing both of you and wants to expand her sexual horizons, absolutely she should move forward with it. As unsexy as it is, you may have to revisit the sexual safety discussion since she's probably used to no condoms with you guys.

[venus-can99]

Just my 2 cents from someone who is not an the LS - ONS sounds good in theory but I am sure her safety is top of mind for you.

[Kate88]

One night stand can be really hot and fun, depending on a guy. Best to keep safe and use condoms. Also she could text you once she meets someone and goes to his place, for safety. Highly recommended!

[CuckedbyNikki]

One night stands are super fun, especially when i'm not accompanying Nikki. I roam around hard all the time imagining what she might be doing and she keep this excitement built from her side as well.
Make a set of rules like
Sharing location, checking on her through texts, returning home by particular time. And more you guys can include as per your convinience.

[naivecuck2]

Be careful what you wish for because my ex became addicted to sex with a former high school boyfriend who required that she be naked whenever she was at his apartment and that she could not wear any jewelry including her wedding ring...symbolic that he owned her body...he fucked her 4-5 times per week, 2-3 times per day, while I was at work and our two daughters were in elementary school. I naively gave her a "hall pass", before the movie, believing that her dinner date with a guy that she had not seen or heard from in about 17 years...that first date, would be one and done...that first date made me a two year cuck because it culminated, in a hotel bed, with her first orgasm/s!!

Hi naive. Is she still seeing him or has she stopped or. Ow has another bf?

After our divorce, he demanded that he have exclusive use of her car and she dumped him...we are now both remarried but not to each other.

[naivecuck2]

Be careful what you wish for because my ex became addicted to sex with a former high school boyfriend who required that she be naked whenever she was at his apartment and that she could not wear any jewelry including her wedding ring...symbolic that he owned her body...he fucked her 4-5 times per week, 2-3 times per day, while I was at work and our two daughters were in elementary school. I naively gave her a "hall pass", before the movie, believing that her dinner date with a guy that she had not seen or heard from in about 17 years...that first date, would be one and done...that first date made me a two year cuck because it culminated, in a hotel bed, with her first orgasm/s!!

Hi naive. Is she still seeing him or has she stopped or. Ow has another bf?

After our divorce, he demanded that he have exclusive use of her car and she dumped him...we are now both remarried but not to each other.

[AZPainter]

I have to agree with most others here, in that one nightstands can be very exciting and fun for both your wife and who ever the stranger might be. My wife had quite a few of these and loved most of them. Sure a dud can show up when picking a man up at random. Maybe in a nicer bar or club where you can watch how it starts plus make her feel safe with you watching from a distance. I suggest you go in separately, of course. There are other ways like on line dating sites, but then you never are sure what she will get until they meet face to face and that might be more awkward than just meeting a stranger in person. I would think online being may have the higher possibility for disappointment. There was no internet when I was a cuck, so I don't really know that much about online sites. Just my thoughts, but why not? She is already sleeping with you and her ex. I strongly suggest she has protection and insist he uses one to be safe.

[surry]

Does she want to fuck a coworker or a friend that you both know, or does she want to find someone herself? She is already fucking her EX. What would the EX say about it?
Can you two work out a cheating game, where she is going to cheat on you? You do not know when. She can look and find someone and fuck them behind your back. Afterward, she can tell you how she cheated on you and loved her freedom. This cheating game is exciting for her and you as a cuckold. She has to save any text or details for you so she can prove she cucked you.

[Lilalicker]

She is going to do it anyway, might as well be in on the fun

[Lilalicker]

She is going to do it anyway, might as well be in on the fun

[BCiym]

Karen has a long history of sleeping with men she’s met at conferences and on business trips that goes back to when we were engaged. She never asked me to weigh in on her choice of partners and I think it would really change the nature of my cuckolding if she did (it would definitely cross a line with us if I tried to have input!).
It was brought up before, but I think safety is what comes first.

[subbieCuck]

Strangers are tricky, whatever you decide remember: safety first.

[manmuscle]

I am going to parse the words from "stranger" to "strange". I suggest she wants some strange but she seems to want to know them somewhat, such as her ex and guys she meets at a conference.

Help her find some strange. There are plenty of lifestyle sites to post ads and bluntly look for what she wants. Even the part that you may be involved and you are into being cuckolded. If you find the right person, it could be fun for all involved.

Helping her find the strange and facilitating the meeting could be hot. I have done this and even prepared her for the meeting with all the right outfits and even getting her dressed. I got to watch him unwrap her like an xmas present and she loved being watched/putting on a show. Every couple is a bit different, but you are adults and can be open about what you want.

[ucaneffher]

My wife wants to have a one night stand with a stranger, and she left it up to me if she does.

her and I have been together since 2019, and up until a few months ago we had been pretty vanilla and monogamous... though I had opened up to her about my fantasy of her being with another man. I posted another thread about how that led to her hooking up with her ex a few months ago. they have been fucking regularly since then. its purely sexual. thats why they broken up, cause there was no romantic feelings on either side... but I have seen them have sex many times now, and its hot as fuck! ...since they started fucking, her and i have been having less sex, but when we do have sex its WAY hotter than it was before! ...and I dont mind letting her ex have her more than I do!

but now that she has been fucking both me and her ex for a few months, she has brought up multiple times that she wants to experience a stranger. she said its been almost 10 years since shes had anyone but me or her ex (6 years with me, 2 and half with her ex before me, and single for a year before that)... and she figures since im so okay with her having sex with her ex, maybe i'd be okay with her hooking up with a stranger for a one night stand.

she left it up to me. she said she wants to try it, but doesnt want to ruin our marriage. she feels lucky i let her sleep with her ex, and will be happy with just that if thats all she can have... but figured it was worth asking...

now, i have been wanting to be a cuck for years! i was a wannabe for the longest time! I just get so worked up at the thought of another man's dick in my wife! ...I'm actually very happy that I am a cuck now! my wife is having regular sex with her ex! ...like 2 or 3 times a week! some times I'm there and I get to watch, sometimes I give them privacy...

so... the question is... should I let her have a one night stand? ...would it potentially ruin what we have going already? ...would it ruin it if i didnt let her do it? ...i believe her when she says she wont do it if im not comfortable with it...

those of you with more experience at this than me... what do you think i should do?

My wife wants to have a one night stand with a stranger, and she left it up to me if she does.

her and I have been together since 2019, and up until a few months ago we had been pretty vanilla and monogamous... though I had opened up to her about my fantasy of her being with another man. I posted another thread about how that led to her hooking up with her ex a few months ago. they have been fucking regularly since then. its purely sexual. thats why they broken up, cause there was no romantic feelings on either side... but I have seen them have sex many times now, and its hot as fuck! ...since they started fucking, her and i have been having less sex, but when we do have sex its WAY hotter than it was before! ...and I dont mind letting her ex have her more than I do!

but now that she has been fucking both me and her ex for a few months, she has brought up multiple times that she wants to experience a stranger. she said its been almost 10 years since shes had anyone but me or her ex (6 years with me, 2 and half with her ex before me, and single for a year before that)... and she figures since im so okay with her having sex with her ex, maybe i'd be okay with her hooking up with a stranger for a one night stand.

she left it up to me. she said she wants to try it, but doesnt want to ruin our marriage. she feels lucky i let her sleep with her ex, and will be happy with just that if thats all she can have... but figured it was worth asking...

now, i have been wanting to be a cuck for years! i was a wannabe for the longest time! I just get so worked up at the thought of another man's dick in my wife! ...I'm actually very happy that I am a cuck now! my wife is having regular sex with her ex! ...like 2 or 3 times a week! some times I'm there and I get to watch, sometimes I give them privacy...

so... the question is... should I let her have a one night stand? ...would it potentially ruin what we have going already? ...would it ruin it if i didnt let her do it? ...i believe her when she says she wont do it if im not comfortable with it...

those of you with more experience at this than me... what do you think i should do?

It sounds like you two have found a good sweet spot where the ex is very frequently and consistently taking care of her sexual needs and vice versa. The fact that this has sparked her curiosity of sex for other men is a good thing, in my opinion at least. The way I see it, her ex can have her the normal days that he already has her and she can still try a new flavor. Maybe she will like it and continue having both flavors frequently after that.

It's always nice to have options and variety, especially if one man gets sick or is busy. My hot gf had nearly 2 dozen fuck buddies on standby and she saw probably 6 to 10 of them on a monthly basis. She had her favorites but still spent many hours away with the others every week.

As a cuck, I loved seeing my GFs schedule fill up. I loved it when she saw a variety of men throughout the week. One night stands oftentimes turn into friendships if there's chemistry between the two.

Lastly, hunting for a ONS can be a fun activity between you and your wife. Go out together to a bar or a club and let her roam free. You can watch her out on her single girl act and single girl sexy outfit. If she meets a guy, she can just say you are her cousin, friend, friends boyfriend, etc... You can go to a motel or hotel after and just let her go in and do her thing while you wait outside for them. If she likes it, keep the guys info and call him for sex later, repeat, enjoy.

[wifelver]

If that’s what she wants then why not?
Just be sure she’s safe, checks in with you, etc…. Seems like a no brainer to me.