Our "Deal"

[Stokedhubby]

My wife has been aware of my desire to share her since before we were married over 30 years ago. She has always told me no and that she would NEVER have sex with another man. As the years have passed and her overall interest in sex is fading, I still have my desires. We often share in pillow talk that involve me telling her what I would like to see or her teasing what she might do someday. Her latest scenario to tease me is to tell me that if she was with another man, she would want me to clean her up. I love the idea, but I dont know if I could actually do it. In the heat of the moment a couple of weeks back, I told her that our "deal" would be a simple task for me to complete and then she would have to fuck another man while I watch and join in. I told her I would clean her up after we had sex for 50 times and then she would have to do the deed with a new person. She teased back and asked if I would start with the cleanup that time. I instantly dived in and cleaned her up to another orgasm and as I was rising up and wiping my chin off, I simply stated "Well, only 49 more and I get to watch you." She just laughed and walked away. We had sex a couple of times during the next week and she asked if I was going to reduce the number and clean her up each time. I actually did clean her up on another occasion and she reminded me that it was only 48 more creampies. We were traveling recently and she brought it up as we were going to bed. Since she brought it up, it made it much easier and my number is down to 47. I wonder if we play this game to its conclusion if she might actually pay off for me. We have been around family and limited opportunity to have sex. I dont know if it gets easier to clean up a creampie with more experience, but this goal is quite the motivator so far.

[Scud Farcus]

That's perfect! Simple conditioning. It turned my wife on to watch me eat my cum, both cream pies and whenever I masturbate. She challenged me to eat all of the cum I produced for a week. She gave me hand jobs in the morning to make sure I was diligent in my duties. During this time in my life I was cuming at least 3 to 4 times a day.
The first week was difficult but I started enjoying the taste and the post nut lack of interest subsided. I was properly rewarded for achieving my first goal.

Next challenge - all cum for 1 month! This was much easier than the first week. They say, "it only feels kinky the first time ". By the 3rd week, I was looking forward to my next load. 4th week and I was craving it. That's been a bunch of years ago and have gobbled more cum that I can imagine.
She has not cucked me yet to my knowledge but I welcome my first cleanup of another man.

FARCUS

[nevertoolate]

You two have a wonderful deal! Yes she is conditioning you and testing your willingness. If you can get past your own, post ejaculation, it will be very easy and familiar after she is with her lover.

This is very primal pleasure. I hope you both enjoy it!

[vicouple]

We were traveling recently and she brought it up as we were going to bed. Since she brought it up, it made it much easier and my number is down to 47. I wonder if we play this game to its conclusion if she might actually pay off for me. We have been around family and limited opportunity to have sex. I dont know if it gets easier to clean up a creampie with more experience, but this goal is quite the motivator so far.

Super hot game and plan. Hope it works out for you.

[CapeCoralHubby]

How is your count going?

[Stokedhubby]

Stuck at 46 and still struggle with losing the urge after I orgasm. She encourages me each time we have sex, but nearly every time, I opt out. It is still fun to hear her talk about our deal and "our deal".

[Freddy314]

I think you set the bar too high. I think 15 or 20 sessions would have been enough. Can you imagine the intensity you guys would be feeling if you were already working toward single digits? On the plus side, by the time you get to zero, she will probably be so used to the idea that she will fuck someone with no hesitation.

[Flint]

Stuck at 46 and still struggle with losing the urge after I orgasm. She encourages me each time we have sex, but nearly every time, I opt out. It is still fun to hear her talk about our deal and "our deal".

How can you resist? Focus on the end-game; if I could secure such as agreement with my wife, I'd be doing her every night!

[Swe_male]

Stuck at 46 and still struggle with losing the urge after I orgasm. She encourages me each time we have sex, but nearly every time, I opt out. It is still fun to hear her talk about our deal and "our deal".

If you want the goal you need to play the game.

[Shiphead]

That's pretty hot. A great motivator. Will she hold up her end of the deal when you get to zero?
You should add a little side game. Maybe every 5 clean ups, she should flirt on the Internet. At 10 she should show her tits to someone. Online or in person. Make sure you are talking and find out who she would want to fuck. What kind of man she wants. Big cock? Make her talk about everything. It should make it easier get her going and getting ready to fuck another guy.

[Midnight Joker]

Nothing makes my wife cum harder than when I clean up. Nothing wrong with skipping a cleanup. That will just give you more time to plant the seed in other ways. Be sure to talk about what you're doing....he gave you a big load, so much cum, his cum tastes so good, etc. Make sure she knows you want her to cuck you...can't wait until she cucks you....can't wait until another man fucks her. All good talk that should make her cum hard, reinforcing cucking with pleasure.

[CuriousHusband91941]

As a guy who loves joi and cei videos, this game countdown is brilliant. I think the first time I ever considered cei was a Tara Tainton video. Still my favorite today but it is difficult to find. Because this is related to hotwifing and cuckolding, the act is that much more intoxicating.

[Rip_isback]

Stuck at 46 and still struggle with losing the urge after I orgasm. She encourages me each time we have sex, but nearly every time, I opt out. It is still fun to hear her talk about our deal and "our deal".

Hey Stoked ...
Thanks, this is such a fun thread!
It sounds like you've got a wonderful wife that seems to share your joint physical and mental sex play. This sounds like a great basis for moving this deal along. In reading this thread, I noted the encouragement that your wife is providing you.

I'm wondering if she wouldn't like to take a more active role in moving this along. Right now, it seems as though you two have sex and it's up to you to provide the drive to clean her up. We all know of Postcoital dysphoria (PCD), or "post-sex blues" that occurs in men after having sex with their partners and they just want to lay there recovering. This may be the perfect opportunity to talk to your wife about being a little dominant in demanding additional pleasures from you. Maybe you to could talk with her about encouraging clean up from you by straddling your face after having sex ... perhaps taking this as far as being a bit of a domme of sorts. This could lead to changing her attitude about her own sexuality and having greater expectations from you ... both great things in a hot wife/cuck relationship.

In your initial post, you said, "Her latest scenario to tease me is to tell me that if she was with another man, she would want me to clean her up. I love the idea, but I dont know if I could actually do it." This could be an very positive way to make her more demanding and you more submissive to her.

Also, I agree with Freddy314 in saying "I think you set the bar too high." However, what's done is done unless you just float the idea out there to your wife and she pushes for a change in the number of sessions. I also think that you two could have a lot of intermediate fun by looking at the idea suggested by Shiphead in having some side games as you get to predefined milestones. 50 is just too far off but maybe some flirting or internet camera play after 10 sessions will keep the juices flowing on both of your parts. Also if you set the right intermediate fun activities, it could grease the skids of sorts ... so at 50, it's not completely like throwing a light switch in a dark room.

Have fun ... and keep that woman engaged! Looking forward to further reports!

[MartasBoy]

Stuck at 46 and still struggle with losing the urge after I orgasm. She encourages me each time we have sex, but nearly every time, I opt out. It is still fun to hear her talk about our deal and "our deal".

Well dude, I think you have to just soldier through and force yourself to do this. I would not be able to stand the suspense as I dropped into the teens, anticipating what would come next. At that point she should feel compelled to keep her promise, and that means you start creating profiles for her online, going out to upscale bars with her dressed to the nines, seeing if guys will hit on her. I think you got to keep up your effort no matter what.

I know about the post coital drop in motivation, but before you reach that point, you need to start meditating on the plan by thinking to yourself, "Right now I'm really excited about doing this. I know my motivation will drop after I come, but I need to be prepared to dive in immediately afterward and do this, because it is important to me to be working toward a goal."

The other option you have is to fake an orgasm, and then simulate cleaning her up to up your numbers.