The Fantastic Exploits of 1FoxxyCajun's HotWife Journey

[Entropy]

Hello all.
I would like to use this thread to continue the story of our journey into the HotWife lifestyle. We did an introduction in the New Members section here
viewtopic.php?t=77289

To continue the story, we decided to have a second encounter with the 3rd we had met with before. We can call him Guy1.
Guy1 is a married man with a family. While he had been in the lifestyle for a couple of decades, his wife only participated on a rare occasion. She was more of a cuckqueen, enjoying that other women wanted her husband and becoming aroused by the tales of his adventures. He had quite the tale after our first encounter. He shared with us her reaction after hearing our sexy misdeeds in the backseat of the car. She was very turned on and he was getting a lot of attention from her. He was definitely as ready as we were for another encounter.

We decided to meet up at a hotel this time instead of in the back of our car. Due to his weekend family obligations we agreed on a week night rendezvous. Still being new to this, we were unsure of how things would go. Our first encounter was so exciting, but there was still apprehension from both of us where this might go or how we would feel about one another afterwards. We decided to put vacation time and take the rest of the week off. After all, why deal with work when you can spend that time together reminiscing about a brand new experience. A meeting time was set. A hotel was booked.

She wanted to look extra sexy for the occasion. A new and very sexy dress was acquired. The dress was small and tight. The top was low, and if you have seen foxxy’s avatar you will know that there is a lot to show up top. The bottom of the dress high. Her beautiful thick thighs on full display and her ass barely covered. Simply stunning.

We checked into the hotel. Foxxy changed into the sexy dress and took a shot of tequila. It wasn’t long before there was a knock at the door. I opened the door and greeted Guy1. She stepped out from behind me and his eyes went wide. She spun around for us. Guy1 and I took in the sight. The three of us engaged in some sexy banter. He had bought a bottle of champagne to celebrate the occasion. A very classy move on his part. We opened the bottle and had a glass each. The mood was set.

Foxxy began by taking turns kissing us. She was filled with desire, enjoying touching us as we ran our hands all over her. As she reached for our cocks through our pants, we slid our hands down the top and up the bottom of her tight dress. She was already lost in lust.

She took Guy1’s hand and led him to the bed. His clothes were pulled off quickly and she was on him. Foxxy reached over to me and pulled me closer. Soon my clothes were off and both our cocks were in her mouth. I had never seen my wife quite like this. She was so ready to take our cocks. She pushed me onto the second bed in the room and began to explore with her new partner. Stroking his body and sucking his cock. They were kissing. He was sucking her breast and touching her body as I watched. I was so hard, watching my wife like I had never seen her before.

A condom went on his cock and she started to fuck him. It was easy to tell that the excitement of taking a new cock was driving her wild. She beckoned me over to the bed they were fucking and took my cock in her mouth. After that we took turns fucking her while she sucked the other. Passing her back and forth, fucking her pussy and mouth in every position. Foxxy was in a lust filled heaven, as was I. He came on her face while I was fucking her, which led me to add my cum to her face quickly afterwards.
After the deed was done, we all three took turns cleaning up in the shower. He left, back home to his wife. We were spent and went to sleep in the room in each others arms.

My wife and I have been together for a long time and our sex life has been very adventurous. Still the things I saw her do that night were straight out of a fantasy. I could think of all the times I had seen some porn and fantasized about my wife as the star. That night she was that star. Both beautiful and sexy. My love and lust for my wife has always been strong. She is a wonderful and an incredibly sexy woman. After that night though I felt something new for her.

First I felt a level of closeness beyond what I already felt from over 20 years of marriage. This was completely unexpected. It is hard thing to explain, especially here. However there it was, we had shared something most couples could not. For us, the bond and openness that we share in our relationship had allowed us to do this. Now it was unbroken and even stronger. Before we started an experienced couple had shared with us that the lifestyle will either bring you closer together as couple or destroy your relationship. I couldn’t agree more.

The other thing I felt was an overwhelming lust for my wife. This encounter had shown us both that there was another level of sexual adventure that we could explore together. If you have enjoyed this and want more, we would be happy to share our adventure with the like minded here on the forum.

The last thing I will add to this part of our story is the next day. We checked out of the hotel, got into the car, and went on the search for some breakfast. We began to share our feelings of the night before and Foxxy turned to me and said “The thing I’m most upset about is that we don’t already have another 3way set up.” I am a very lucky man.

Thanks for reading,
Entropy

[1FoxxyCajun]

I’ll add a little to the story. But first I want to say thanks babe, that was a wonderful and very sweet & sexy retelling! Love you.

I was excited and nervous. Not only because of what we were doing but how we were doing it. I had never had any kind of threesome and didn’t know what to expect. It turns out being the F in an MFM is exhilarating yet exhausting all at once. I was working double time. In my fantasy that’s not what it looked like LOL; in my fantasy I was barely lifting a finger yet being pleasured by two men. But what happened here is that I took on a performative role that comes naturally to me. I was consumed with an unexpected raw desire to give pleasure as best as possible. I felt submissive yet empowered all at once. I probably stretched myself too far here. I was inexperienced and drunk with lust. But I felt safe because I knew hubby had my back.

Today I understand how much power I hold in these situations and how to better direct my energy. I can create my original fantasy when I want to and make them please me like a queen, but it takes choosing the right thirds for that to work well.

After this experience, I felt even closer with my husband and was amazed by his adoration. It was hard to understand his compersion at first. I was not made the same way and we both accept that. There are many strange emotions I felt in the beginning that I had to take time to dissect. I recommend to anyone starting any kind of ENM play to not skip that part. After us both understanding our actions and emotions, things fell into place and we started to feel comfortable on our new journey together. Also I’ve got to say, sharing a secret sexy life with your best friend is so much fun!!

[Wantsomefunto]

Great story can’t wait to hear more

[curious42too]

Love this!

[superb101]

more, please!

[socalguy100]

Hot story!!

[jane]

so excited to see where this leads for you two

[hwlurker88]

Very nice to have both the husband and wife giving their perspectives/experiences of the stories! I'm always fascinated by what turned the husband on the most versus what turned the wife on the most! Also, if I could possibly be so bold as to throw in a request, if either of you remember the details of the conversations you shared after the encounters, those would be great. I'm always interested in the feelings/conversations between the spouses once the moment has passed. What are some of the bumps on the road, or new doors that opened up, due to these experiences?

[Entropy]

Thanks everyone for taking the time to read and a special thanks to those who have left comments. We enjoy sharing our experiences and knowing you are enjoying our story encourages us to continue sharing.

hwlurker88 I will give what I feel comfortable sharing.

First, we discussed our boundaries and goals for what we were going to do beforehand. We believe the only way to do any ENM relationship is to fully open ourselves to each other. There were a lot of discussions about what we expected of each other and of ourselves. This opening up has been the best part of this HotWife experience for the both of us.

Another thing we discussed in depth beforehand was what happened when one of us made a discission in the moment the other did not like or if one of us took something too far. We decided to accept last minute discissions made on the spot and to discuss afterwards without anger or jealousy. You can't plan for everything. When one of us makes a decision in the moment it is important to accept and move forward. We discuss these things in detail and how we feel afterwards.

After the fun encounter is done, we take time to sit down and talk about what we did and did not like. Even though we had a great time, mistakes were made. We were both overly exited. I may have suggested some things in this particular encounter that she was nowhere near ready for. As she stated earlier, she had no idea it would be so much work for her. I had no idea that she was being stressed to keep up. Because of the discussions had we were able to make the next encounter even better. Every time we do this, we gain experience and are able to experiment more and grow our sexuality.

The other important thing we discuss after each encounter is an emotional check in. We have poured our feelings on the situation out to each other. It is very bonding to share our feelings with each other without judgement or expectation.

So far, we have enjoyed our encounters good and great. We are always grateful to the people we have shared that moment with, even when it didn't go as planned or was less than perfect.

This may not be the level of detail that you desired, but hopefully it is worth the read.

Cheers

[1FoxxyCajun]

Next we met up with a new guy that we found online, we’ll call him Farm Boy. Farm Boy was attractive, in his early 30s and very tall. He had previous experience in the lifestyle and was currently single but let us know he was looking for a girlfriend. The three of us met up at a sports bar/restaurant and had a good chat. We decided to meet up again for some sexy fun a few days later, and he gave me a little kiss as we walked to our car.

I had an idea for us to go play pool with this guy, as I thought it’d be a fun activity. He agreed, and so we met at a pool hall/bar and played a couple of games. He was charming and a good flirt with a great smile. I could tell he was attracted to me but I’m not sure if he was put off by my height; I’m a short woman and he kept calling me “tiny” like it was unusual.

Once we got to the hotel room, I instructed Farm Boy and Hubby to take off their clothes. That was the end of me being in charge because they immediately came at me from both sides as I sat on the bed. It was very erotic. Their hands, their mouths… it was a little rough in a good way. Things turned into a blur for me but at one point I became overwhelmed and requested that they take turns. This helped me focus better on each of them and I was then really able to enjoy myself. I really liked a sex position he put me in that I wasn’t used to, missionary with my knees folded close to my torso in a criss-cross fashion. It felt really good and if he would’ve kept going I could have had a straight PIV orgasm which is very rare for me. But it didn’t happen. Instead he came on my face which I thought was very hot, then hubby and I went at it again as he went to shower. Hubby also came on my face haha. We were making out the whole time. Farm Boy once out of the shower was turned on again so we started round two but it died down when he decided he wasn’t gonna cum again.

While hubby was showering Farm Boy admitted to me that he didn’t like playing pool. I said well we didn’t have to play pool, we could’ve done something else. I wish he would’ve been more assertive about that beforehand but whatever. He said while looking at me sweetly that he had no regrets, and I thought the night had gone very well overall. I especially liked that he was a great kisser, better than Guy1. Kissing talent is important to me.

We made plans to go dancing for our next meetup, but he never would set a date. Eventually we realized that he had ghosted us slowly. Even today I am haunted by Farm Boy. Boooooooo. He was very sexy before he lost my respect. Why did he disappear into thin air? Did he find a girlfriend? Did he not enjoy our threeway? Did he think me too short? Was he only looking for one night and lied to us about that? We will probably never know. It was experience gained however. Hot Tip: If you don’t want to meet up again, just tell her. She can take it.

[jane]

you are both remarkably well adjusted already going into this

[hwlurker88]

Thanks everyone for taking the time to read and a special thanks to those who have left comments. We enjoy sharing our experiences and knowing you are enjoying our story encourages us to continue sharing.

hwlurker88 I will give what I feel comfortable sharing.

First, we discussed our boundaries and goals for what we were going to do beforehand. We believe the only way to do any ENM relationship is to fully open ourselves to each other. There were a lot of discussions about what we expected of each other and of ourselves. This opening up has been the best part of this HotWife experience for the both of us.

Another thing we discussed in depth beforehand was what happened when one of us made a discission in the moment the other did not like or if one of us took something too far. We decided to accept last minute discissions made on the spot and to discuss afterwards without anger or jealousy. You can't plan for everything. When one of us makes a decision in the moment it is important to accept and move forward. We discuss these things in detail and how we feel afterwards.

After the fun encounter is done, we take time to sit down and talk about what we did and did not like. Even though we had a great time, mistakes were made. We were both overly exited. I may have suggested some things in this particular encounter that she was nowhere near ready for. As she stated earlier, she had no idea it would be so much work for her. I had no idea that she was being stressed to keep up. Because of the discussions had we were able to make the next encounter even better. Every time we do this, we gain experience and are able to experiment more and grow our sexuality.

The other important thing we discuss after each encounter is an emotional check in. We have poured our feelings on the situation out to each other. It is very bonding to share our feelings with each other without judgement or expectation.

So far, we have enjoyed our encounters good and great. We are always grateful to the people we have shared that moment with, even when it didn't go as planned or was less than perfect.

This may not be the level of detail that you desired, but hopefully it is worth the read.

Cheers

Thanks Entropy! I appreciate the look behind the curtain! All of this is good information for me to take in as I ponder this potential future with my wife! I like to find out the various ways different couples navigate this lifestyle. Obviously the overriding key is communication. But I find that there are many nuances between how couples communicate.

What was your experience like for the story your very attractive wife just told us?

[zoe]

Things turned into a blur for me but at one point I became overwhelmed and requested that they take turns. This helped me focus better on each of them

I guess being spit roasted takes a bit of practice

[Entropy]

Thanks everyone for taking the time to read and a special thanks to those who have left comments. We enjoy sharing our experiences and knowing you are enjoying our story encourages us to continue sharing.

hwlurker88 I will give what I feel comfortable sharing.

First, we discussed our boundaries and goals for what we were going to do beforehand. We believe the only way to do any ENM relationship is to fully open ourselves to each other. There were a lot of discussions about what we expected of each other and of ourselves. This opening up has been the best part of this HotWife experience for the both of us.

Another thing we discussed in depth beforehand was what happened when one of us made a discission in the moment the other did not like or if one of us took something too far. We decided to accept last minute discissions made on the spot and to discuss afterwards without anger or jealousy. You can't plan for everything. When one of us makes a decision in the moment it is important to accept and move forward. We discuss these things in detail and how we feel afterwards.

After the fun encounter is done, we take time to sit down and talk about what we did and did not like. Even though we had a great time, mistakes were made. We were both overly exited. I may have suggested some things in this particular encounter that she was nowhere near ready for. As she stated earlier, she had no idea it would be so much work for her. I had no idea that she was being stressed to keep up. Because of the discussions had we were able to make the next encounter even better. Every time we do this, we gain experience and are able to experiment more and grow our sexuality.

The other important thing we discuss after each encounter is an emotional check in. We have poured our feelings on the situation out to each other. It is very bonding to share our feelings with each other without judgement or expectation.

So far, we have enjoyed our encounters good and great. We are always grateful to the people we have shared that moment with, even when it didn't go as planned or was less than perfect.

This may not be the level of detail that you desired, but hopefully it is worth the read.

Cheers

Thanks Entropy! I appreciate the look behind the curtain! All of this is good information for me to take in as I ponder this potential future with my wife! I like to find out the various ways different couples navigate this lifestyle. Obviously the overriding key is communication. But I find that there are many nuances between how couples communicate.

What was your experience like for the story your very attractive wife just told us?

All I can say is what has worked for us. Over a decade ago I initially brought this lifestyle up to Foxxy. TBH neither of us were ready then.

About 2019 we tried our hand at going to a swinger club near where we lived at the time. We still were not ready, and then 2020 happened. After that the idea seemed to run its course.

Only this last summer did Foxxy come to me and ask if I was still interested. Being patient, understanding, and open with each other is what has gotten us here and it has been worth the wait.

If your wife is at all interested, I think the best thing is keep communicating and let her know how you feel. Foxxy believed that I would be too jealous afterward, or that I was using it as a ploy to sleep with other women. She knows where I stand with now for sure. I don't get jealous because we are doing this together. I would sleep with another woman, but only if it turned her on.

As far as this encounter with Farm Boy, it was hot. She was very turned on by him, more so than Guy1. We seemed to really get along and work well together. The sex was great, she enjoyed herself so much. It was a huge turn on to fuck her after he had cum on her. This was a fantasy come true to add mine when I was done. Seeing my wife in so much pleasure was fantastic.
We were still very new in this lifestyle and we must have made some mistake that scared him off. She was very excited to see him again, but it never happened. If he would have said he was uninterested in another encounter we would have understood. It changed the way she felt about the encounter. The sex was still really hot. lol

Cheers

[1FoxxyCajun]

you are both remarkably well adjusted already going into this

Thank you!! We did research

I guess being spit roasted takes a bit of practice

For me it did LOL! I found it confusing, didn't know what to focus on. Had to get used to it.

[venus-can99]

Foxy & Entropy - just found your threads and needless to say- very enjoyable. Love the way both of you provide your perspectives which makes for a great read.
Looking forward to reading more of your adventures.
Have you thought of having a “steady boyfriend” - someone who you both like and he is respectful of yo and your relationships ?

[1FoxxyCajun]

Foxy & Entropy - just found your threads and needless to say- very enjoyable. Love the way both of you provide your perspectives which makes for a great read.
Looking forward to reading more of your adventures.
Have you thought of having a “steady boyfriend” - someone who you both like and he is respectful of yo and your relationships ?

Thank you!

We do currently have 2 "regulars" who we both hang out with, but I wouldn't personally call them boyfriends. We just haven't written about them yet. More to come!

[Entropy]

Have you thought of having a “steady boyfriend” - someone who you both like and he is respectful of yo and your relationships ?

We have been pretty lucky so far, although there is a lot of chaff one must sift through. All of our encounters have met something we were looking for.
Both of our current regulars are respectful of our relationship. We are clear with our intentions from the beginning. We show them the respect that we wish them to show us. We don't ask them to be exclusive, and we let them know they are not our only 3rd. We do test regularly and ask our partners do as well. Both have different demeaners and physiques. The thing that they have in common is that we enjoy their company and they enjoy ours both in and out of the bedroom. Also, both are able to make her cum
As of right now they seem happy in their own particular way of being part of the relationship.
Mrs. Foxxy is grateful to have a couple of guys she can get fucked by.

[Entropy]

For our next adventure we can share the story of a guy we will call BDH (Big Dick Hispanic). As the name implies, this guy has a huge dick. Foxxy found him online and started chatting. It took some time to meet in person due to issues back and forth. Also, he had to drive a long distance to meet up. Some tension had built up between them. I could sense she was eager to meet. First he was tall, dark and handsome. Like anyone, Foxxy can be a real sucker for a good looker. Second, she had never tried such a large dick. Her curiosity was in full swing.

For the date Foxxy had put on a very sexy dress that showed a nice view of her cleavage. Since this was a first meet up and in a public place she didn’t want to show too much. Still the dress was tight, form fitting to her curves, and lots of cleavage. It was more than enough to turn heads.

We met and found a relatively quiet part of a bar to get to know each other. It can be difficult to find somewhere that is at the same time quiet enough to hear each other easily, but loud enough to keep your conversation private. We found an area and had a round of drinks.

The good, in conversation he was a very nice, intelligent, and interesting guy. The bad, he was a bit awkward and not as flirty as Mrs. Foxxy likes. He would occasionally throw out a complement about how good she looked and give a nervous laugh. We do not normally have sex on the first date, but it is always an option if she feels inclined. After some conversing, Foxxy let him know that she was ready and willing. I booked a hotel near by, and we headed off. In the car ride to the hotel she explained she really wanted to try a big cock.

Once in the hotel, the action started. At this point I knew to let her explore her new lover for the night and wait to be called in. They started with some kissing and she unbuttoned and unzipped his pants. She pulled out is huge cock and held it in her hand. He was hard and it was very large. She stroked it and seemed to admire it a bit. There was both lust and apprehension in her eyes. She looked and him and let him know that she had never been with anyone nearly that large before. He could see the slightly worried but curious look in her eyes. It was agreed upon to start easy and see how far it would go. She stripped him the rest of the way. Her clothes soon followed and she proceeded to take his cock in her mouth. Despite her worries she handled that massive cock like she did it every day. She did her best to fit the whole thing in her mouth and got pretty damn close. The look on his face and his verbal reaction let it be known that this was more than most women could take.

Next he returned the favor and went down on her. Her body twisted in pleasure. Her moans filled the room. She looked at me with eyes that made the gesture to come to her unnecessary. My cock was in her mouth as he ate her pussy. Both he and I groped her body, moving over her thighs, hips, stomach, and ample breasts.

Soon she wanted his giant cock inside of her. She had him lay on his back and she straddled him in cowgirl. She lowered her body onto his cock slowly at first. The look on her face was back and forth from the pleasure of being completely filled with his cock, to the discomfort of also being completely filled with his cock. After it was inside of her and she had become accustomed to its very different feel, she changed again. She began to fuck him sliding up and down on his cock slowly but picking up speed. His cock had been in and out of her pussy several times when she hit a stride on top of him and really started fucking him. My cock was back in her mouth as she took him fully inside of her pussy. She slammed her pussy down on his cock over and over again, letting out sexy moans past my cock in her mouth.

He came into the condom and she dismounted him. She was not done being fucked though. I was quick to pick up where he had left off. I put her on her back missionary style and started fucking her. BDH watched us for a short while before he was hard again. Stamina and size were definitely his strong points. Now I was fucking her with an absolutely amazing view of her sucking his massive cock. The difference in size between him and I was huge, but she was taking that cock like she had done it all her life. She was stroking and sucking his cock as I fucked her hard.

Now we switched places and I gave him another turn at fucking her again. This time laying on her back I was able to get a new view of his cock entering her. She reached up to me and took my cock in her mouth as he began to fuck her. By this time she was taking his cock with no problem as he rammed into her. Eventually he was spent. She climbed on me and I fucked Foxxy until I came.

It was very hot to see her take such a huge cock. She had her doubts that she could handle it, but in the end enjoyed trying something new. As it is though, Foxxy still isn’t a size queen. She still enjoys an average and occasionally a large cock. I can’t stress this enough though, this guy wasn’t large, he was huge. We ultimately chose not to repeat with BDH. He just didn’t have the personality that we were looking for. A huge cock can get you laid once as a curiosity, but only personality can keep a woman wanting more.

Cheers

[jane]

very descriptive and hot !

[Entropy]

Thanks Jane. Glad you enjoyed.

[hwlurker88]

Wow! To bad he wasn't the right personality. But, as I tell my wife, big boobs deserve a big cock! And from Foxxy's profile Pic, she definetly deserves a huge cock! Can't wait for Foxxy's side of the story!!

[1FoxxyCajun]

I very much do not regret our fun with BDH. He was a very nice guy and made me feel at ease. That is huge for me, huger than a huge cock. If I don't feel safe and comfortable I'm just not gonna have a good time.

To me a cock is a cock and I love all the sizes and shapes I've had the pleasure of touching. Different sizes are good for different things. Some hit my g spot perfectly, some my a spot. Some are very beautiful but they don't always feel right or good. Some look not as impressive but they give me exactly what I want. In other words, it's how you use it. I'm not a size queen but I will say that I do have a preference for cut from my experiences so far. I won't turn down guys just because they are uncut, but I enjoy oral more with cut guys.

BDH was cut btw and the oral was still a challenge not only because of length but his girth was massive. My mouth only opens so wide and my jaw cannot unhinge like a snake's. But I still think I did a good job to the best of my ability. In retrospect I'm not surprised I could fit him inside me. I mean, a baby came out of there once. It did feel good but not as good as some others I've had. One thing I noticed was that it was more flexible even when completely hard which I guess makes sense, and I read that this is a thing. I think I'm the most turned on from average to large sized cocks with big tips that get super rock hard. With this guy I didn't get close to cumming at all even though I was having lots of fun. That may not be his cock's fault but from the fact that I felt more friendly with him than sensual; the chemistry was not very powerful between us but I'm still very happy we did this and it's a great memory. The fact that Entropy was there to fuck me exactly how I like it made it so much better too, and he makes sure to give me an orgasm whoever we're with.

[hwlurker88]

That seems to be the concensus for most woman on here. While there are definitely size queens out there, it appears that most woman are more concerned about the connection versus cock size. As it's been said continually, guys are more excited about dick size than most woman are. But it also appears as though if a woman can have a 10/10 emotional connection with 2 guys, they would probably want to fuck both, but if they had to chose one, they just might take the 8 inch dick over the 6 inch dick. But since my wife really enjoys size, I might be biased in my evaluation!

Thanks for your perspective on your experience!

[HotwifeBabs]

I very much do not regret our fun with BDH. He was a very nice guy and made me feel at ease. That is huge for me, huger than a huge cock. If I don't feel safe and comfortable I'm just not gonna have a good time.

To me a cock is a cock and I love all the sizes and shapes I've had the pleasure of touching. Different sizes are good for different things. Some hit my g spot perfectly, some my a spot. Some are very beautiful but they don't always feel right or good. Some look not as impressive but they give me exactly what I want. In other words, it's how you use it. I'm not a size queen but I will say that I do have a preference for cut from my experiences so far. I won't turn down guys just because they are uncut, but I enjoy oral more with cut guys.

BDH was cut btw and the oral was still a challenge not only because of length but his girth was massive. My mouth only opens so wide and my jaw cannot unhinge like a snake's. But I still think I did a good job to the best of my ability. In retrospect I'm not surprised I could fit him inside me. I mean, a baby came out of there once. It did feel good but not as good as some others I've had. One thing I noticed was that it was more flexible even when completely hard which I guess makes sense, and I read that this is a thing. I think I'm the most turned on from average to large sized cocks with big tips that get super rock hard. With this guy I didn't get close to cumming at all even though I was having lots of fun. That may not be his cock's fault but from the fact that I felt more friendly with him than sensual; the chemistry was not very powerful between us but I'm still very happy we did this and it's a great memory. The fact that Entropy was there to fuck me exactly how I like it made it so much better too, and he makes sure to give me an orgasm whoever we're with.

Sounds like a hot night. Spanish guys make me melt, especially if they are hung.