What type of sex work would you be okay with your wife doing, if any?

[Wifewithothers]

Would you be okay with your wife doing sex work? What kind?

[Wifewithothers]

You forgot selling used panties.

Covered by "other"

[Lugnut]

My wife and I discussed her escorting for one or two mature clients on several occasions over the years. Every time we had the conversation she considered it carefully, but ultimately decided that no, she didn't like the idea. She was, however, quite open to fucking her boss on the regular for a pay raise and/or a promotion. The opportunity never presented itself, however, so she never did it.

I never thought there was a great distinction between those two ideas, but she thought there was. Ah well.

[Wifewithothers]

Mary, like many women has had the fantasy of selling herself for sex. Fresh out of college she had a few sort of experiences, trading bjs for rent breaks with her landlord, she managed a jewelry kiosk and a supplier has a bracelet she really wanted but didn't have money for he was not shy about offering it to her in exchange for three or four bjs,.

At one job she had for a retail/commercial space construction and management company she fooled around some with her boss and some coworkers. She travelled some for business and a few times was used as a deal sweetener or fuck clients or potential clients because she wanted to.

At one point she did look into working at an escort service , even had an interview set up, but then the local LE cracked down hard on them.

Later in life, she found out a friend of hers worked part time at a happy ending place. Intrigued, she decided and I was ok with it) giving that a try. Didn't know how long she would stay a day , a week, a month ...ended up about 3 years. Mostly it was hand jobs, but she did get topless, nude, let guys touch/finger her, some bjs, even did some full service. Even had to give some freebies to a cop or several

[annsman]

I would be happy with my wife doing any of those listed, but in reality I’m sure she would only be interested in three of them.

She has done paid nude modelling several times for professional and amateur photographers and appeared in a few top shelf magazines.
For a year or so she would give an ex-boyfriend hand relief fairly regularly when he didn’t have a girlfriend, the again years later after he split up with his wife. At first she pretended that she was just comforting a friend, before admitting doing it turned her on and also she enjoyed exciting me by telling me about it.
She had a long term fantasy of having two or three regular clients who would pay her for sex and after reading about the “girlfriend experience” thought it would be erotic to have a lover who paid her a monthly amount as a retainer to be available to him whenever he wanted her. In both fantasy scenarios she naturally found the men very attractive. It stayed as fantasy, but I would have gone along with it if she wanted to try it for real.

[AdamGunn]

The reason I selected 'none' is that escort servicing, (or something less upscale than that) might lead to problems with the authorities, and we certainly didn't need that.

[Wifewithothers]

The reason I selected 'none' is that escort servicing, (or something less upscale than that) might lead to problems with the authorities, and we certainly didn't need that.

What about options like selling foot pictures?

[Stevnkellie]

My wife and I discussed her escorting for one or two mature clients on several occasions over the years. Every time we had the conversation she considered it carefully, but ultimately decided that no, she didn't like the idea. She was, however, quite open to fucking her boss on the regular for a pay raise and/or a promotion. The opportunity never presented itself, however, so she never did it.

I never thought there was a great distinction between those two ideas, but she thought there was. Ah well.

Great insight your brought about your wife. I can understand how it would be very tempting to be an escort for clients on different occasions. Those never came to fruition? She did entertain the idea which is great, as I know my wife has thought about doing too (maybe has even followed through that I don’t know about). Were they just undesirable or would it be too awkward going forward as they are clients and would expect it often?
Now to her boss-he must have been desirable or known to play around if she was/is open to fucking him regularly. Good for her to let you know her willingness to spread for him.

[Stevnkellie]

I had never thought about my wife being an escort or being a prostitute for a night, until I read one story that got my mind thinking. A couple like most of us was into trying different things and he, like me, was a big voyeur of watching his wife with others. This sounded like an amazing way to do it.
They had met a girl at a bar who told them it was her night off from working as a call girl. She explained it was a safe place run by a guy that had a high end clientele. They asked more questions and talked how they were swingers and she said she should come meet her boss and just talk and could make some good money. They said they’re not in it for the money but for the experience and fun. She said then you definitely have to come.
They went and met him and talked about his business and why they were there. She stripped and let him examine her and she dropped to her knees and began to blow him. He said he has an exclusive clientele that would probably enjoy her as he came. He said he has a room that has a two way mirror for security that the husband can watch her thru.
He booked her for the next night for 3 hours. They arrived and the husband went to the adjacent room and she was brought to a dressing room and met the other girls. She undressed to her bra and thing and grabbed a glass of wine went out to the livjng room/bar area. Soon men arrived and talked with the girls and she was chosen brought to the room. The man enjoyed her for an hour as her husband watched him unload twice in her. He left the money on the bureau and exited the room. She smiled at the mirror, put the money in the bureau and went in and showered, fixed her makeup, dressed and went back out to the bar area, but she returned quickly with a new man. He sat her on the bed and she pulled out a huge cock. She smiled, lied back on the bed and he fucked her hard for the next hour, making her cum over and over moaning loud enough to be heard thru the walls, before unloading in her too. He dressed and also left the money on the bureau.
The husband then entered the room and reclaimed his wife, helped her shower, then they gave the money to the owner on their way out who asked her to come back anytime.

[AdamGunn]

The reason I selected 'none' is that escort servicing, (or something less upscale than that) might lead to problems with the authorities, and we certainly didn't need that.

What if you lived in a world where sex work was legal and socially acceptable?

Ah, that would be an interesting topic. But it isn't, and it's not.

[AdamGunn]

The reason I selected 'none' is that escort servicing, (or something less upscale than that) might lead to problems with the authorities, and we certainly didn't need that.

What if you lived in a world where sex work was legal and socially acceptable?

Ah, that would be an interesting topic. But it isn't, and it's not.

In some places it is...

Perhaps I'm not making myself clear here. Apologies for that.

We lived in the United States, and prostitution has a very negative connotation here. Given that we chose not to move to Rotterdam, although it's a very nice place, the concept of it being legal where we live is just a fantasy. And one we didn't need, we had plenty of others.

[Lugnut]

My wife and I discussed her escorting for one or two mature clients on several occasions over the years. Every time we had the conversation she considered it carefully, but ultimately decided that no, she didn't like the idea. She was, however, quite open to fucking her boss on the regular for a pay raise and/or a promotion. The opportunity never presented itself, however, so she never did it.

I never thought there was a great distinction between those two ideas, but she thought there was. Ah well.

Great insight your brought about your wife. I can understand how it would be very tempting to be an escort for clients on different occasions. Those never came to fruition? She did entertain the idea which is great, as I know my wife has thought about doing too (maybe has even followed through that I don’t know about). Were they just undesirable or would it be too awkward going forward as they are clients and would expect it often?
Now to her boss-he must have been desirable or known to play around if she was/is open to fucking him regularly. Good for her to let you know her willingness to spread for him.

When we discussed her escorting, it was in the most general terms with no specific men in mind. More of just a friend-with-benefits along with some monetary gain, or a kind of a sugar daddy relationship between a mature guy and my also fairly mature wife (we were in our late 40s, early 50s at the time). She fucked such a guy once and he took her to an upscale, downtown hotel. A mature, put-together looking lawyer, they were standing in the lobby registering for the room, and when they got on the elevator my wife remarked that the desk help had to know what was going on. "I'm glad they know," he said. She found that remark hot and they ended up having a noisy, sweaty good time. Unfortunately she never got a repeat with him.

As for the boss, she worked in a law office for a few years at one point, and the office manager (a very married woman) was fucking the firm's lead attorney about once every week or two. She found that situation to be rather hot, more from a differential of power standpoint. Her primary career was higher education administration and she went through several deans as they came and went over the years. She never wavered in the "I'd fuck the boss" mindset through all those different men. I used to visit her at work occasionally and her office was always right next to the dean. It used to turn me on thinking about this or that dean having her out on a long lunch break, heels up, his balls banging against her ass. None of them every came on to her though.

It was a big university and there was plenty of fucking going on amongst the staff, faculty and grad students, but it never happened in her office, unfortunately.

[kellycuckoldsmark]

Kelly has done some escorting. When we first started swinging we hooked up with her best friends parents (long story). With both his wife and my consent they became very active lovers. We lived in NYC and he was on Wall Street and several times took her to a business dinner on the understanding that the guy they were having dinner with would be taking her to his hotel room.

The guys were always much older than her. She was 22 when she started and they were mostly in their 40's, 50's and 60's.

Then about a decade later, we decided it would be fun if she escorted couples. So many men want to see their women with another woman but it's hard to pull off so Kelly was a great unicorn answer. She charged a decent amount for the hour and for the year she did it was very popular always turning away far more than she met with. She insisted on pictures up front - very unusual for an escort - but in the old CL days you could get away with that as such a unicorn.

She still does she her best friends dad and 1-2x a year he will have her service a friend. Last Summer he brought 3 golf buddies with him and rented a house not far from us (he lives in a different state). Kelly spent the weekend with them and took care of all of them. Money hadn't been discussed beforehand but there was a nice gift when she left.

We have sold panties too where we would meet the guy and she would take her panties off in the bathroom and give them to him. A stranger one, that I really liked, was she would model a guy's wife's underwear and role play her in her bedroom. We would charge for that and a few guys had the fantasy.

[Wifewithothers]

Mary had one funny experience on a business trip to a conference/trade show about 20 or so years ago. The event ran Tues to Friday. The boss flew her abd the other people going to the event into the city (can't remember which city it was in the Midwest,maybe Chicago) on Sunday. Figured it would give thema day to see something other than the hotel and the event center and not be tired from travel for the event.

Anyways, that Monday the guys got tickets to a game (baseball) Mary didn't want to go, so stayed at the hotel. She decided to eat at either the hotel restaurant or at one at the retail space attached via a skywalk to the hotel . Too much unneded detail sorry.

Anyways places were packed as a lot of others had already arrived for the event. She got a seat at the bar , ordered dinner. She wore a skirt, button shirt, yeah a little cleavage showed but nothing wild

Guy grabs a seat next to her, they get talking, yeah both in town for the event, Mary thinks she might have said she was "working the event" which might be key to this story. They hit it off, he asked if she wanted to go to his room, she countered she preferred hers, she just felt safer.

Back to her room, they are making out, she goes to the rest room outside on some lingerie she brought along, again nothing wild just a matching lacey top abd panties. They fool around a bit, he fingers her until she cums, she gives him a bj. They rest a bit, have a drink or two. They start fooling around again, she says she has condoms if he wants. He passes (okay yeah not the safest I know). They have a nice fuck.

Now it's getting late, so she goes to the bathroom to clean up abd says he can let himself out since they both need to be up early the next morning. She showers.

Comes back out, he is gone, she sees an envelope and a not on the table next to the TV. Just a quick note saying "thanks" and in the envelope $500 cash.

She has no idea why he thought she needed to get paid, it was never discussed , nothing she can think of except maybe be misunderstood the "working the event " comment. She was flattered , pissed, and found it funny .

[Stevnkellie]

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When we discussed her escorting, it was in the most general terms with no specific men in mind. More of just a friend-with-benefits along with some monetary gain, or a kind of a sugar daddy relationship between a mature guy and my also fairly mature wife (we were in our late 40s, early 50s at the time). She fucked such a guy once and he took her to an upscale, downtown hotel. A mature, put-together looking lawyer, they were standing in the lobby registering for the room, and when they got on the elevator my wife remarked that the desk help had to know what was going on. "I'm glad they know," he said. She found that remark hot and they ended up having a noisy, sweaty good time. Unfortunately she never got a repeat with him.

This sounds very hot for her to experience this kind of escorting-even tho for only one night.

As for the boss, she worked in a law office for a few years at one point, and the office manager (a very married woman) was fucking the firm's lead attorney about once every week or two. She found that situation to be rather hot, more from a differential of power standpoint. Her primary career was higher education administration and she went through several deans as they came and went over the years. She never wavered in the "I'd fuck the boss" mindset through all those different men. I used to visit her at work occasionally and her office was always right next to the dean. It used to turn me on thinking about this or that dean having her out on a long lunch break, heels up, his balls banging against her ass. None of them ever came on to her though.

It was a big university and there was plenty of fucking going on amongst the staff, faculty and grad students, but it never happened in her office, unfortunately.
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I’m sure she was hoping it would at some point, but probably she was better off if they never did come onto her. They probably realized how quick the news got around about who was fucking who and they just wanted to put their time in and retire with their big paycheck.

[Lugnut]

I’m sure she was hoping it would at some point, but probably she was better off if they never did come onto her. They probably realized how quick the news got around about who was fucking who and they just wanted to put their time in and retire with their big paycheck.

It probably was rather hot for her to contemplate. But you're right; she was probably better off that it never happened. The gossip around there was worse than Peyton Place, and she didn't want the reputation, but if one of the deans had directly come on to her she likely would have taken him up on it, at least a time or three. She had a regular boyfriend through many of those years whom she was banging every few weeks anyway, which also likely took the edge off her trying to start something at the office.

She did find office intrigue rather hot though. She had a close friend who was an executive assistant at a rural midwest oil company. Traveling petroleum engineers came through on a regular basis for a few weeks and/or months and she'd pick one of them up and fuck him until his contract was fulfilled and he moved on, then she'd move on to the next one. She moved from one to the next for years and I got to hear all those stories second-hand. Wife thought the whole situation was pretty hot.

[petej55]

My wife has never worked as a prostitute but over the years has never hesitated to spread her legs for a raise or bonus, including two years when she had a very dominant female boss , Which frankly I think is hot. I think it’s funny that she does no think this I sex work!

[atl0707]

Here's a scenario:

There's a private sex club where all the females are submissive, free-use sluts to any and every male at the club. But it is all very sensual--themed costumes, blindfolds, bondage, spankings, paddling, light flogging, wax play, etc. Lots of teasing, edging, orgasm denial, and orgasm control. Lots of vibrators and dildos and sybians and fucking machines and spanking benches and fucking swings and other toys and furniture.

And lots of submissive females doing whatever the males want. While at the party, all of the females belong to all of males; they are collectively owned. (The house proprietor and a female's husband or boyfriend has privileged authority over other male's actions.)

There is no LGBTQ whatsoever, except limited girl on girl at the discretion of the males. Absolutely no male bi shit or trans whatsoever.

The males pay $100 entry fee each visit, unless your wife or girlfriend is serving; for those husbands and boyfriends admission is free. All participants are fully vetted in advance to make sure they'll fit in well.

At the end of the night the house gets a percentage of the fees collected and the females (or their husbands or boyfriends on their behalf) collect a share.

It's prostitution, but classy; sort of like a high-protocol BDSM party.

Sounds exclusionary and boring. What else do you have?

[WoodyWoodWood]

My answers:-

Nude Model - I encouraged my wife to try modelling, originally just posing for me for striptease style material, and then modelling for other photographers shooting whatever levels she was happy with, or the photographers could talk her into doing. She was an amateur model for over 20 years, and only stopped when COVID stopped everything. There are over 100,000 pictures of her on the internet, and she appeared on twenty or so different websites shooting striptease to open leg, one photographer also persuaded her to do some sets involving a vibrator.... One of the photographers worked freelance for some naturist magazines in the UK and she did appear in a couple of their magazines.

Cam Girl - I suggested this as a potential option when she was on maternity leave and she did try it but wasn't comfortable and stopped.

Making and Selling videos of her having sex - I persuaded her to make some "home" video's of her stripping and us having sex - back in the very early days of digital camera's which. Some of the photographers she worked with also talked her into shooting some striptease video's. The naughtiest video's she was in were for Lady Suspender and were soft girl/girl scenes.

Happy Ending Massage - She trained as a masseuse at evening classes, and after our daughter was born was a self employed masseuse for a couple of years, offering Aromatherapy, Swedish, Sports, Relaxation massages. A couple of the photographers she worked with were also massage clients, and three of her massage clients saw her pictures in the naturist magazine, so she ended up offering "naturist" massages - where the male client was nude throughout the massage. I don't know whether she ever offered or provided "happy endings", but we did talk about it after one of her clients asked. I left it up to her to decide.......

[ucaneffher]

Other - Exotic dancer

At some establishments (obviously not advertised or legal), if a patron gets enough lap dances, the girl might offer to take him to the back room for a more intimate time. I know this because a friend was offered this after god knows how many private lap dances back to back.

I would be pick high end escort with verified safe clientele and exotic dancer as my top picks. No cam/videos, pictures, websites just because stuff leaks and anything on the Internet is up forever.

[Aussiem]

My wife used to fuck her bike mechanic. He never charged her for working on her bike. Does that make her a sex worker?.

[Wifewithothers]

My wife used to fuck her bike mechanic. He never charged her for working on her bike. Does that make her a sex worker?.

Just good with her money

[Aussiem]

He always topped her fluids up.overflowing when she got home.

[nobodyhere]

Any day would make her an escort for sugar daddies..

[Very Hot Wife]

Becky has been paid for sex on several occasions. She has also traded sex for benefits such as payments for hotel stays.

Getting a guy to pay her for sex is a huge buzz for us, the amount is irrelevant. It's the mere fact that she has sold her pussy for a guy to put his dick inside for a few minutes.

We have ticked nude modelling but it is a tricky one. Being a nude women, exposing herself in a room full of clothed guys who are taking close up shots of her open pussy is a very erotic thought. But the idea of her face appearing on the internet prevents it happening. If her face wasn't shown she would be fine with it but that's not easy to do.

There are 100's of nude and intimate pics of her on the net but none are identifiable and we have control over who sees them.

We have lots of explicit videos featuring Becky having sex with her boyfriends. We often send them a copy (faces obscured) and they have shown it to their mates. Becky finds that is quite erotic especially when we meet their mates knowing they have seen her in action and probably still have the video on their phone..!