Effects of First Cuckold Experience

[Ircuck]

My wife and I are in our mid 50s. We are very much in love and looking to live out some of our favorite fantasies.

We tried light swinging with another couple a while ago (just oral and only the girls did bisex) but only did it a few times. It was fun but I guess we're looking for something a bit different.

Our favorite is a cuckold fantasy is where the wife has sex with a well hung black man. We’re not looking to live the cuckold lifestyle where I'm a permanent cuckold. We just want to live out the fantasy.

Has anyone done this as a one off experience? If so, how did it go? What was the aftermath like? Did it negatively change either one's view of the other after doing it?

[Wantsomefunto]

Sounds like you are ready for fun! You might find yourself hat the one off experience becomes something you really want to enjoy often.

[Wifesharing]

Not a one off, but we don't say its a lifestyle either. Our normal life is unchanged. We are not always in teh mindset of this kind of play.

[SCBlknNsty]

My wife and I are in our mid 50s. We are very much in love and looking to live out some of our favorite fantasies.

We tried light swinging with another couple a while ago (just oral and only the girls did bisex) but only did it a few times. It was fun but I guess we're looking for something a bit different.

Our favorite is a cuckold fantasy is where the wife has sex with a well hung black man. We’re not looking to live the cuckold lifestyle where I'm a permanent cuckold. We just want to live out the fantasy.

Has anyone done this as a one off experience? If so, how did it go? What was the aftermath like? Did it negatively change either one's view of the other after doing it?

You're overthinking it. Having a fantasy about a well hung Black man isn't necessarily a cuckold fantasy. I believe when you tried 'light swinging' you tried it and then decided to try it again-no different. It's really no different than "Ben and Jerry's have a new flavor, want to try it?" then figuring if either or both liked it...swearing off chocolate, vanilla and strawberry is a completely different conversation.

[Astrid Servel]

Start with a conversation, a coffee, your wife being in control of the situation, building a relationship, drinks, dinner, and if they click and she feels in control of the situation then it will happen fairly naturally.
But really what your asking is “how will I deal with another man fucking mywife”
Well only you can really know this, if the two of you have not understood that it changes things then I suggest you stand back from this.
For me it changed things but because I was in a very strong long term marriage it changed my marriage from monogamous to non monogamous, and it worked.
But I suggest you guys make sure that she’s in control of the situation, way to many guys on here think it’s there call, then wonder why the wheels fall of

[Ircuck]

Sounds like you are ready for fun! You might find yourself hat the one off experience becomes something you really want to enjoy often.

Thank you. I agree. Just not looking for it to be a lifestyle. Just as one kinky fun nice in a while.

[Ircuck]

Not a one off, but we don't say its a lifestyle either. Our normal life is unchanged. We are not always in teh mindset of this kind of play.

Thank you. Great perspective!

[Ircuck]

My wife and I are in our mid 50s. We are very much in love and looking to live out some of our favorite fantasies.

We tried light swinging with another couple a while ago (just oral and only the girls did bisex) but only did it a few times. It was fun but I guess we're looking for something a bit different.

Our favorite is a cuckold fantasy is where the wife has sex with a well hung black man. We’re not looking to live the cuckold lifestyle where I'm a permanent cuckold. We just want to live out the fantasy.

Has anyone done this as a one off experience? If so, how did it go? What was the aftermath like? Did it negatively change either one's view of the other after doing it?

You're overthinking it. Having a fantasy about a well hung Black man isn't necessarily a cuckold fantasy. I believe when you tried 'light swinging' you tried it and then decided to try it again-no different. It's really no different than "Ben and Jerry's have a new flavor, want to try it?" then figuring if either or both liked it...swearing off chocolate, vanilla and strawberry is a completely different conversation.

Thanks. Great point!

[Ircuck]

My wife and I are in our mid 50s. We are very much in love and looking to live out some of our favorite fantasies.

We tried light swinging with another couple a while ago (just oral and only the girls did bisex) but only did it a few times. It was fun but I guess we're looking for something a bit different.

Our favorite is a cuckold fantasy is where the wife has sex with a well hung black man. We’re not looking to live the cuckold lifestyle where I'm a permanent cuckold. We just want to live out the fantasy.

Has anyone done this as a one off experience? If so, how did it go? What was the aftermath like? Did it negatively change either one's view of the other after doing it?

You're overthinking it. Having a fantasy about a well hung Black man isn't necessarily a cuckold fantasy. I believe when you tried 'light swinging' you tried it and then decided to try it again-no different. It's really no different than "Ben and Jerry's have a new flavor, want to try it?" then figuring if either or both liked it...swearing off chocolate, vanilla and strawberry is a completely different conversation.

Thanks. Great point!

[namitha157]

I know I wanted a one off.
I can't stop now.

[Ircuck]

I know I wanted a one off.
I can't stop now.

And wouldn’t want to!

[namitha157]

I know I wanted a one off.
I can't stop now.

And wouldn’t want to!

Definately not!

[Tryagain]

After watching the guy fuck my wife 3 times in a row over the course of the evening, and how she described it as "feeling like having been the first time" and that "fucking him and me are 2 different things", I was totally devastated. Though we eventually got over it, you never know what can happen.

I would suggest that you ensure the guy you pick is not too well hung. If he is, she will never feel exactly the same about fucking you. Can you handle that?

[ucaneffher]

My wife and I are in our mid 50s. We are very much in love and looking to live out some of our favorite fantasies.

We tried light swinging with another couple a while ago (just oral and only the girls did bisex) but only did it a few times. It was fun but I guess we're looking for something a bit different.

Our favorite is a cuckold fantasy is where the wife has sex with a well hung black man. We’re not looking to live the cuckold lifestyle where I'm a permanent cuckold. We just want to live out the fantasy.

Has anyone done this as a one off experience? If so, how did it go? What was the aftermath like? Did it negatively change either one's view of the other after doing it?

I feel like a lot of us have said that one before lol

We started as a stag/hot gf and in a matter of two years without me trying or wanting she had me as her cuckold. Funny because I never seeked the cuckold arrangement but she slowly and subtly would do things that turned me into her cuck. Slowly, subtly, and incrementally she trained and conditioned me without realizing it until it was happening normally.

In literally two years after she started playing around with other men, she had converted me into her permanent cuckold. She was now cuckolding me and proceeded to do so for the next 5 years. No disrespect, locking up, or sissification but she was definitely in charge of her sexuality and in charge of her dating and romantic life.

[stubbyhubby]

I would say you are more into hotwifing than cuckolding. If you like the idea of watching another man fuck your wife, but not into being a cuck, that sounds more like a hotwife scenario to me.

Cuckolding isn't a "lifestyle" for us. Lots of people who don't know she cucks me often comment about how in love we always seem to be. Cuckolding is our sexual orientation, but we don't wave flags, have a bumper sticker or wear tshirts about it. We have friends who know and some who don't (most do), but in our general lives at work and social events, we are just another couple.

[Ircuck]

I know I wanted a one off.
I can't stop now.

And wouldn’t want to!

[easyalpha4fun]

Over the last 12 years or so I've watched my wife fuck many black (and white) men. I'm pretty sure it saved our sex life.