Has your wife ever told you another man she's fucking is better at it than you are?

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Has your wife ever told you another man she's fucking is better at it than you are?

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One of my wife's lovers is, simply put, a better fuck than I am. For reasons I can't explain, the idea that she thrills to have him in her more than she does me is just about erotic as it gets. For years, and that relationship has gone on for years, my wife never remarked upon it, I suppose under the false impression it would hurt my feelings. But I'd watched them together many times. I knew it. He knew it. And she knew it.

One evening, when she and I were in the throes of intimacy I just decided to state the obvious to see how she reacted. She tried a lame denial, but that didn't wash with me. Though I'm a big guy, and reasonably endowed, her lover's cock equals mine in length and is half again larger in girth. Moreover, he had such great stamina that my wife refers to him as the Everready Bunny. In short, he has the best equipment and knows how to use it to his best advantage.

I pointed out the numerous instances when we were having three-ways in which he'd outlasted me. I pointed out how much more often she came just from riding his cock--whereas I usually had to resort to oral to satisfy her. Finally, she admitted somewhat sheepishly that he was the better fuck, and not at all to my surprise, she came almost immediately after her admission.

Not one to forego a new tool in pleasuring her, I now ask her to talk about how good a fuck he is whenever I am going down on her. I tease and taunt her swollen clit with my tongue unmercifully, and never let her cum until she says out loud that she'd rather be fucking him.
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Michael0001 wrote: Mon Jun 22, 2026 3:30 pm One of my wife's lovers is, simply put, a better fuck than I am. For reasons I can't explain, the idea that she thrills to have him in her more than she does me is just about erotic as it gets. For years, and that relationship has gone on for years, my wife never remarked upon it, I suppose under the false impression it would hurt my feelings. But I'd watched them together many times. I knew it. He knew it. And she knew it.

One evening, when she and I were in the throes of intimacy I just decided to state the obvious to see how she reacted. She tried a lame denial, but that didn't wash with me. Though I'm a big guy, and reasonably endowed, her lover's cock equals mine in length and is half again larger in girth. Moreover, he had such great stamina that my wife refers to him as the Everready Bunny. In short, he has the best equipment and knows how to use it to his best advantage.

I pointed out the numerous instances when we were having three-ways in which he'd outlasted me. I pointed out how much more often she came just from riding his cock--whereas I usually had to resort to oral to satisfy her. Finally, she admitted somewhat sheepishly that he was the better fuck, and not at all to my surprise, she came almost immediately after her admission.

Not one to forego a new tool in pleasuring her, I now ask her to talk about how good a fuck he is whenever I am going down on her. I tease and taunt her swollen clit with my tongue unmercifully, and never let her cum until she says out loud that she'd rather be fucking him.
Oh, a number of times. She has told me of a previous boyfriend, Steve, who while she said she never could have married him, she often misses the sex with him.

Then there was another guy, and she has done it when we did role plays. When she did it about an imaginary lover as a role play, she poured it on really strong. Claimed that Brad was the most muscular, well-built, well hung, a thick enough and long enough penis to reach places inside of her she had never felt stimulated by anyone else before, greatest at Oral of anybody she's ever been with, gave her the greatest number of orgasms in a single night until she passed out, and couldn't walk the next day.
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Michael0001 wrote: Mon Jun 22, 2026 3:30 pm One of my wife's lovers is, simply put, a better fuck than I am. For reasons I can't explain, the idea that she thrills to have him in her more than she does me is just about erotic as it gets. For years, and that relationship has gone on for years, my wife never remarked upon it, I suppose under the false impression it would hurt my feelings. But I'd watched them together many times. I knew it. He knew it. And she knew it.

One evening, when she and I were in the throes of intimacy I just decided to state the obvious to see how she reacted. She tried a lame denial, but that didn't wash with me. Though I'm a big guy, and reasonably endowed, her lover's cock equals mine in length and is half again larger in girth. Moreover, he had such great stamina that my wife refers to him as the Everready Bunny. In short, he has the best equipment and knows how to use it to his best advantage.

I pointed out the numerous instances when we were having three-ways in which he'd outlasted me. I pointed out how much more often she came just from riding his cock--whereas I usually had to resort to oral to satisfy her. Finally, she admitted somewhat sheepishly that he was the better fuck, and not at all to my surprise, she came almost immediately after her admission.

Not one to forego a new tool in pleasuring her, I now ask her to talk about how good a fuck he is whenever I am going down on her. I tease and taunt her swollen clit with my tongue unmercifully, and never let her cum until she says out loud that she'd rather be fucking him.
All the time. That’s why we choose these men. They are longer and thicker than I am. Most are at least 15 younger and if she’s lucky they have saved up big loads for her and fill her up many times. She enjoys the feeling of them exploding in her and warm feeling of their cum staying in her all night and leaking out the next day. It keeps her aroused and craving more.
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All the time ! :-) But it started with the first BF who was really hung and fucked her 3 times in one night. She said "I felt like i was really fucked for the first time! Now i know why people say they fuck for hours" !!!
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Yes, after being married for 10 yrs, my wife told me one night that "Roger" was the first man who had given her an orgasm from penetration. He had seduced her one night when we had been camping together with him and his wife. Two days later when we returned home from the camping trip, he came in our house and woke up my wife and fucked her in our bed after I had gone to work.
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When I first got involved in swinging, 20 years ago with my girlfriend at that time, it didn’t take long to realize an essential truth of sharing your wife or girlfriend. And that is, if you play this game, it is inevitable that some guy is going to fuck her better. So you better be secure enough to handle that.

But isn’t that what we want? It’s what I want for sure. I’m not sharing my wife so that she can have bad sex, I’m sharing her to maximize her arousal and pleasure, that’s the whole point.

Her current boyfriend fucks her better, I see it with my own eyes. He’s the best fuck of her life, and I love it when she tells me all about how he fucks her better, how great he makes her feel, how much she craves his cock all the time, especially while I’m making love with her.
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Yes, my soon to be wife has a boyfriend on the side and she has been joking about it with me since soon after the two of them took up with each other. He's simply better than me in bed, by a lot. His tool is huge. I have seen a few angles where it's just solid "highway" for at least 5 inches, plus another 2 inside his boxers, and then likely another 2 inside my fiance. That's at least 9" if I"m not mistaken. She once commented that he's about twice my size. I used to be able to measure a full 6, but now as I approach 50, it's more like 5 on a good day.
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When I first discovered my wife had been cheating on me, she confessed that sex with me didn’t thrill her in the same way as some of the other men she’d been with. Although it hurt to hear this, my wife insisted that in every other aspect I was perfect for her. It took time for me to get past my hurt feelings and jealousy but my wife’s constant reassurances that she loved me caused me to see her infidelity as primarily about obtaining better sex than she got from me. So when we ultimately embarked on a hotwife and cuckold arrangement, I was happy when my wife told me a guy was better at fucking her than me.

Nowadays, it’s a given that my wife’s boyfriends fuck her better than me, And although my wife’s promiscuous days are behind her, when she was regularly dating new guys, if she returned home and said her date was similar or even slightly better than me, then I knew there wouldn’t be a second date. In a perverse way, I take the fact that my wife chooses to stay with me even though plenty of other men fuck her better as something of a compliment!
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If the BF wasn't better then she wouldn't both with it. That is what it is all about, she gets more orgasms, she is more satisfied and that is what gets us off.
My wife never said it in so many words ,but to watch her arch up to this thrusts, pull him in with her hands and have huge gut wrenching orgasms told me they were doing it right and she was into it. She always wanted there cum in her and smiled at me when they lay there panting with the last spasms inside her. Then I get directed to eat her out. My bonus and hers.
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Isn't this something that's bound to happen if the hotwife has been active for a while or its something hubbies yearn to see/know that their hotwife loves fucking another guy n enjoys it. For wife and me, its something we never openly discussed but being around n joining in on the fun or just watching I know there have been meets where she enjoyed "more". Love read such her body language when she's enjoying
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Almost all of my wife's bulls have fucked her better. She loves telling me and i definitely love hearing it.
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Of course. That's one of the reasons she fucked other guys
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No, but I remain hopeful. Not because I seek humiliation, but because I want her to have great sex, and the motivation to keep going back for more.
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When I asked my wife one night while we were getting busy she said there were a few from before me that were better at fucking but that I was the best of them all when it comes to eating her pussy.

All she said when I asked her what I had to do to be the best fuck she’s ever had was “oh sweetie, that’s impossible”
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Every time I've had a wife or girlfriend tell me something like this, it has been more subtle that straight up telling me.

My ex wife, who I had a hotwife/open marriage dynamic with and was with someone who we'd agreed was for play only and not sex was seduced and fucked anyway by the guy. When she was telling me about it, she said she came within seconds of him penetrating her and came again when he came in her pussy. She had orgasms from me but not that fast or frequent which suggested she liked it better.

I had a girlfriend who I was in a hot girlfriend situation with and she had a guy from work trying to fuck her. She'd tease him but was on the fence. Finally, he got her in private and was making out with her. She gave in and reached for a condom. He was between her legs missionary and when she reached for the condom, he just pushed in bare. My girlfriend basically could only cum when she was riding no matter who she was fucking. When he slid inside her bare in missionary I asked if she told him to use a condom and she shyly said, "It felt too good". She spread her legs and he pounded her out missionary and bare.... and she admitted she came all over his cock in that position. Again, subtly suggesting the guy was better and could do something i couldn't even though she didn't straight out say it.
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My wife in the beginning never admited anything about her ex's but since I was completely Open to her about my fantasy she slowly started mentioning things
First time she mentioned that Z her ex used to last longer than me and was very agressive in bed . Recently while i was fucking her missionary she told me that she cant feel me deeper its when I asked how was it with Z she without any hesitation admits he was much bigger and twice thicker than you. While she said that she closed her eyes and was imagining good times with him while i was fucking her .
She told me her one hand was not enough for his cock
I always try to fuck her in spoon position but till date I have not been able to fuck her neither in spoon position and while standing behind her back(which is her favourite infront of mirror) because of my small size.
she told me once that z was able to easily enter in these positions.
She confessed that "he was far superior in bed ,you are not even close"
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My wife has said I never satisfied her in the sense of giving her intense vaginal orgasms. This was due to the fact I couldn't stimulate her g-spot. Her lovers typically were able to do that for her.
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I suppose it’s only appropriate for me to respond this question, in part because the responses here so far, IMO, kinda tend to respond with somewhat of a humiliation factor (which is fine if that’s your thing).

So in an attempt to keep things “balanced” I asked Susan this question and her response was “no, I never had anyone that was better than you and if I did I would have no problem telling you what I liked with him”
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Yes, she has.

She has always enjoyed an intense sexual chemistry with her now long term FWB (G). It started off hot and went from there. From observing (which I've gotten to do a fair bit now😀), it was clear how good the sex was for her. She would come hard every 30 seconds or so while riding him - and yes I have timed it while watching videos lol.

We had a lot of teasing talk about how good the sex with G was. But she never directly came out and said it was better with him. She didn't want to hurt my feelings. The sex with us was incredible and that was obviously also a factor.

Then on my birthday, we were teasing again about it via text. I asked her for the unvarnished truth about whether he was the better lay. The first response was no comment. I prodded a little. Then a short, direct answer- yes.

I still have the screenshot I took of it.
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No she never has but as her boyfriend James has been living with us, and sharing our bed, I can see that he fucks her better than I can. He cock is longer and thicker than mine, he is 17 years younger than me, he is fitter and stronger. I have to be honest and admit he fucks her better than I can. Rather than feel sad I celebrate that we have found someone who can fuck her like she desires.
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We had an agreement to be honest with each other when whenever we went with someone else. After we'd been married for a few years she admitted that although she felt very loving towards me when we made love, she felt more sexually stimulated when she was with someone else. She always said sex with another woman was different than with a man and that she got a particular excitement from being with a woman. She also got more turned on and so more receptive to doing different things when she was fucking another man.

She had a brief relationship with a woman who lived in the apartment above us and sometimes her husband would be home and would join them and she really enjoyed those times and although she wouldn't tell me much about what she and the wife did, she'd go into great detail about what she and the husband did and how good a fuck he was. It was only when talking about other men that she'd use more crude language.

During our marriage she had two lovers that she said gave her the best fucks of her life, one of which later became her elder sister's partner. I've recently discovered that she cheated on me during the last 4 years of our marriage and was fucking her nephew. He lost his virginity to his other aunt and my wife started fucking him a few weeks later and she went to great lengths to teach him what she liked. I'd watched her suck him off a few months before their affair and I'd heard her gush enthusiastically about how much she loved the look and feel of his penis and how good his cum tasted. I'd also sucked him off which meant we had a few exciting conversations about him. They've been fucking for over 25 years now and I started joining them last year and the look of love and pleasure on her face when he fucks her is definitely something I never saw on her face when we made love.

Similarly though, she knows that she wasn't my best fuck and that I enjoyed fucking her elder sister more. During the latter years of our marriage we were both fucking one of her colleagues, a woman twice our age (Though never in a threesome) and we both admitted that sex with that woman was incredible so she ranks as my second favourite.
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There are a few moments that compare to the moment that when I asked my wife why she liked having sex with her boyfriend at that time when we were married, my wife told me, "Because he makes me cum better than you do."
When I asked her, "He really does?" She said, "Yes, he gives me better orgasms than you do." And I think the best way to describe how I felt about it was in this way: it hurts so good to hear that.
As a submissive husband to a hot wife, I have always felt as though I didn't measure up as a man, I didn't compare to most men in any way. In my everyday life people see me as a very capable and confident man, but deep inside my psyche, I've never felt as though I "measured up."
Most of that comes from my upbringing, and there's a million things written about that sort of thing, but through early sexual experiences I had in my life, and everything pointing towards that lifestyle I found a very comfortable place to bide my time with my hot wife. At present, we're seeking a man who can become friends with both of us, but tend to her sexual needs. I love the thought of it, we talk about it all the time, we've even experienced it years ago. And although she told me that her boyfriend at that time is better at fucking her, I still love hearing it. I still love when she tells me that it was so much better with him than me.
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There are a few moments that compare to the moment that when I asked my wife why she liked having sex with her boyfriend at that time when we were married, my wife told me, "Because he makes me cum better than you do."
When I asked her, "He really does?" She said, "Yes, he gives me better orgasms than you do." And I think the best way to describe how I felt about it was in this way: it hurts so good to hear that.
As a submissive husband to a hot wife, I have always felt as though I didn't measure up as a man, I didn't compare to most men in any way. In my everyday life people see me as a very capable and confident man, but deep inside my psyche, I've never felt as though I "measured up."
Most of that comes from my upbringing, and there's a million things written about that sort of thing, but through early sexual experiences I had in my life, and everything pointing towards that lifestyle I found a very comfortable place to bide my time with my hot wife. At present, we're seeking a man who can become friends with both of us, but tend to her sexual needs. I love the thought of it, we talk about it all the time, we've even experienced it years ago. And although she told me that her boyfriend at that time is better at fucking her, I still love hearing it. I still love when she tells me that it was so much better with him than me.
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Years ago when we agreed that my wife could enjoy other men, one of the primary conditions I insisted was, she had to be completely honest with me, not only in her description of their activities, but also any feelings she might have for a lover. In keeping her part of our agreement, she has always been very candid about the skills and techniques of her men and the way they made her feel.

She has freely admitted that 2 of them were superior in satisfying her in comparison to me. One had oral skills that no other man could ever enjoyed. The other was "significantly larger" than any other guy and allegedly had the endurance of a race horse. He was the only one she ever had intercourse with that was able to give her multiple organisms. After fucking him the 1st time, she never again had a climax with me thru intercourse. Though she always claimed she never felt love for him. she craved meeting up, so he would fuck her, as he always able to make her cum.

Now never hesitates to remind me of both of these guys are far better either with oral or full intercourse than she ever experienced with me. As a result of being within these 2 men, I am now only able to help her reach a climx thru manual manipulation. Often reminds me that, "you wanted honesty from me. now live with it".
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When she confessed that she had been fucking guys she was meeting in bars in the local US army base here in Korea, she said on the phone one day "People like me because I cum quickly and often. I should go to Songtan". I asked her if she meant she was now multi-orgasmic with these guys. She said yes. She was only ever once and done with me. And she said one of the guys, who was a pilot, made her cum 8 times in one session.
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