Should my wife seduce our friends husband

[VTcuck]

My wife and I are good friends with this couple. They are about 10 years younger and have older teenage boys. We go over each others houses for dinner, sports events and such. The husband is a great guy. He is funny, intelligent, good looking and to top it of he has a British accent.
His wife is very nice to me and it seems like my wife and her get along but she says that she is a really cold person and a bit of a bitch.

The husband has made some comments about his wife not taking care of him sexually but he is not exactly complaining about it.
He had a very quick fling with another women about 8 years ago and it turned into a disaster because she was crazy. She called his wife and tried to get him fired from his job and other crazy stuff.

My wife is very attracted to him in a way that I have not seen in many years and he kind of flirts with her like putting his arm around her when walking and other stuff but nothing very obvious.
Once in a while he comes over our house without his wife and hangs out and has a few drinks with us.
My wife and has told me that she would fuck him in a NY minute. We are watching their dog while they are away and he always is alone and hangs out with us when he picks up his dog.

I told my wife that she should dress a little more sexy, not slutty just sexy in subtle way that is not super obvious and to flirt with him to see if he is interested. My wife tells me that she can tell that he would fuck her so that could be very dangerous because this could blow up into a major disaster
if his wife found out. This is especially true because we live in a very small town.

I am torn because I know that my wife would have a great time and that it could turn into a really fun long term relationship for her BUT
I don't want to ruin our friendship or wreck his marriage if they get caught.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?
SHOULD I ENCOURAGE MY WIFE TO SEDUCE HIM OR TELL HER NOT TO.

[weluvtoodoit]

It sounds like an obvious answer would be "yes", but there are two very big red flags in your post. We too live in a very small town and we do know how easy it is for rumors (and facts) can spread in that environment. That being said, my wife did have ongoing relationships with two different men at different times in her life that were very local. They did seem to keep it discreet, other than one time when she went to a local casino for an evening with the latter bf. There was no doubt that there was speculation from other friends who they sat with at the bar listening to the band. If there was talking behind our back, we were never aware of it. It also seems like his wife might not be happy if she found out something was going on between them two, but then she could also be a wife that would be happy to have her husband who would look elsewhere and take the pressure off of her! Small towns can be dangerous, but then some of us never have any other opportunities to venture outside our rural areas. Good luck

[JaesCuck]

The Cuck in me says "go for it" !!!

[AZguy425]

You've got some significant red flags, but dressing sexy and lightly flirting to gauge a reaction could be a fun way to play without a much danger. A little tease that would give you more time to decide what you want to do. Since he'll view it as a cheating scenario on your wife's part... as well as his... you can at least count on extreme discretion from him if she does dress sexy and is flirty.

Then you have more time to gauge how good or bad of an idea it is.

[Wantsomefunto]

Let her dress slightly revealing and see how it goes. Like a famous guy said, he did not have sex with that woman. Just got a blow job under a desk.

Does she have a blue dress? lol

Seems he needs a good release, she could help the poor guy out a bit

[VTcuck]

Thanks for your input weluvtoodoit. Yeah the small town issue is a giant warning for me to. On the flip side living in such a small town it is really hard to meet potential playmates. We moved here fairly recently and we have been friends with this couple for about a year and have gotten pretty close. More with husband because he stops by by himself once in a while and he is much more outgoing than his wife.

Part of me is terrified to have this happen and the other side "The Cuck in me" Jaescuck really, really wants it to happen.

I know that my wife desires him while also liking him as a friend. The are local and he is safe in that he is married and will keep it quiet and not fall in love with her. My wife had a very long term bull in the past and she very much prefers having a steady lover so this could be incredible as much as it could be a nightmare.

Although my wife has told me multiple times that she would wants to fuck our friend, last night was the 1st time we actually spoke about the possibility of making something happen between them. I went to bed excited about it happening and then woke up in the middle of the night terrified about the damage if this ever came out.

Anyway we have another week before they are back and he will be coming over alone.
I think I may just drop the subject until then and see how my wife dresses and acts when he comes over

[NotNewbs]

This has potential disaster written all over it. It’s one thing to fuck a cheating husband when they aren’t in your circle of friends, because at least then the odds of getting caught are lower. But in a small town, and they’re your friends… huge risk.

My wife doesn’t knowingly fuck cheating husbands. We don’t want to be the target of an angry wife, there’s way too much damage that can be done to your lives, even possible legal exposure. There are plenty of other guys to fuck.

[VTcuck]

AZGUY - If we did he would know that I am aware and approve of him sleeping with my wife. I get the feeling that he would be ok with me knowing and be onboard with it. I don't know if he would want me to watch or join in but time would tell. The 1st time they are together I would let them be alone because I know my wife would want to be alone with him so she can focus on him.

NotNewbs - I agree that this has disaster written all over it but your statement about there being plenty of guys to fuck is not true for us because of living in such a rural area. My wife absolutely hates meeting guys off the internet and pre-arranged meetings. She like to meet guys organically which really limits our options

[NotNewbs]

You can’t travel to a nearby city? She may hate pre-arranged meetings, but that could be your best option. She could also maybe take up an activity in a nearby city where she can meet guys organically.

When I was a kid, my dad had a long-term affair with another woman, it lasted from the time I was eight years old until 16, when my dad divorced my mom to be with the other woman. During that time I knew something was up. That other woman and her husband were friends of our family, and I was friends with their kids. There were little things I noticed that were just slightly odd between my dad and her. In the end, it blew up 2 families, and the lives of 2 sets of kids.

Kids are extremely perceptive, they notice everything. There is a high likelihood that their kids are gonna notice that there is something odd going on. Do you want to play a part in that, and be part of the reason that their kids have issues with their dad? Just think about it really hard is all I’m saying.

[VTcuck]

I know that my wife really wants this because while we were talking about it she said how being with other men really helps supercharge our relationship. This was after her saying no way because of the risks of being caught by his wife.

She then went on to say that she doesn't really like his wife that much and that she was kind of a cold and can be a real bitch.

I think I am going to drop the subject of her seducing him. This will be hard because I as much as I want to encourage her to dress sexy and flirt with him I am going to let this be 100% her decision with no input from me. If she changes her behavior when he is around it will be fun to watch her flirt with him. If it gets to the point where she is going to fuck him then I will have to make a decision.

The only problem is that if I let it go to far she might fuck him even if I say not too. I have told her and we live by the rule that she can fuck anyone she wants to, whenever she wants to and I as her cuck will always support and celebrate her sexuality

[Teensy1]

I think it’s extremely unlikely that his wife wouldn’t find out in a small town. Everybody in our neighborhood knows that my wifey is fucking the widower across the street and they know it’s because I have an inchworm for a penis. When wifey and I discussed potential bulls for her she ruled out married men. Too many complications there.

[Gearup]

Fun to fantasize about and I’m sure the sexy would be great. But if you value the friendship at all you will wake up and never go near that ticking time bomb.

[VTcuck]

I know that my wife really wants this because while we were talking about it she said how being with other men really helps supercharge our relationship. This was after her saying no way because of the risks of being caught by his wife.

She then went on to say that she doesn't really like his wife that much and that she was kind of a cold and can be a real bitch.

I think I am going to drop the subject of her seducing him. This will be hard because I as much as I want to encourage her to dress sexy and flirt with him I am going to let this be 100% her decision with no input from me. If she changes her behavior when he is around it will be fun to watch her flirt with him. If it gets to the point where she is going to fuck him then I will have to make a decision.

The only problem is that if I let it go to far she might fuck him even if I say not too. I have told her and we live by the rule that she can fuck anyone she wants to, whenever she wants to and I as her cuck will always support and celebrate her sexuality

[VTcuck]

I know that my wife really wants this because while we were talking about it she said how being with other men really helps supercharge our relationship. This was after her saying no way because of the risks of being caught by his wife.

She then went on to say that she doesn't really like his wife that much and that she was kind of a cold and can be a real bitch.

I think I am going to drop the subject of her seducing him. This will be hard because I as much as I want to encourage her to dress sexy and flirt with him I am going to let this be 100% her decision with no input from me. If she changes her behavior when he is around it will be fun to watch her flirt with him. If it gets to the point where she is going to fuck him then I will have to make a decision.

The only problem is that if I let it go to far she might fuck him even if I say not too. I have told her and we live by the rule that she can fuck anyone she wants to, whenever she wants to and I as her cuck will always support and celebrate her sexuality

[VTcuck]

My wife has had to travel to CT for meetings a couple of times in the past year and stayed alone in a hotel for the night. Each of these times she has ended up meeting a younger guy and had sex with them.
The 1st guy was just ok. It was exciting because he picked her up and seduced to into taking him back to her room. He contacted her several times after wanting to get together but my wife didn't want to.

The 2nd guy she really liked!
He was a master at eating pussy and he made her cuming over and over. She liked it so much that she went back to her room and sent me a video of her playing with herself and having another orgasm. She then went back to his room for round 2.
He had a girlfriend and lived out of state being in town for business.

She also has booked a room in CT for July 8th for the express purpose of hanging out and seeing if she can meet someone.

The temptation for her to fuck our friend is that she really likes him and they have a relationship already. Physically he is 100% her type and he would have the potential to become a long term lover where both the sex gets better and better over time and the feelings get deeper as well.

[Gulfcpl]

You have already talked yourselves into it. What makes the difference what anyone on this forum thinks? You’re an adult. You know the risks.

[Teensy1]

My wifey and I have that understanding. She fucks any man she cares to and I support and encourage her. If her choices produce problems with another woman, they’re hers to deal with. This cuck sits quietly in the corner.

[VTcuck]

Gulfcple - No we have not talked ourselves into yet.
I am leaving it up to her if she wants to flirt with him. I would love to see her flirt and wind herself and him up until there is lots of sexual tension.
At this point if I told her that I didn't think it was a good idea she would stop. The problem is if the tension builds up and I then tell her not to go for it she might decide to fuck him anyway knowing that I have no power to stop her.

[Jujube]

Lol! I couldn’t stand their not getting together! I would impress upon her to be super vigilant-no dates or rendezvous where they could be seen together. If he’s going to know you know, then maybe your house is the solution, or he better pay for hotel rooms in cash under an alias!

[surry]

You tell him my wife finds him exciting and open up the subject if your history as a cuckold couple. Your wife can be there. Will your wife talk sex talk about the husbands to his wife. Get talking about sex fantasies how the husband are thinking nasty thoughts. Our best friends I shared a naked picture of my wife with him. When I told my wife her response was Did he like it.
Turned out it opened the door for him fucking my wife and his wife and I watched and did clean up together.

[911cuck]

VTcuck - I do not agree with most of the other answers. I don't see a problem. This guy is already visiting you alone many times so this will not be an issue. Why can't they have sex when he is visiting you? The neighbors already see he is there. When your wife, you nor your friend don't tell anybody about the sex there will never be a problem. Just let the numbers of visits be the same as to day.
I would tell her to seduce him and see how he reacts. He already seduces her. Good luck for all of you.

Sorry for my bad English skills. As you see English is not my native language

[VTcuck]

Surry - I don't know if I could bring up that my wife finds him attractive or that she wants him I think I would leave that for her to tell him. My wife already told them (both my friend and his wife that we go to the nude beach near us.

911cuck - He only stops by alone when he has a reason like dropping off or picking up his dog. They almost always visit as a couple. If they did get together it would be in our house and he would know that I know and approve of the sleeping together. I am sure the number of alone visits would increase once they are having sex and that would have to be managed so as not to alarm the wife.

[VTcuck]

Once again I am going to eave this up to my wife. I am not going to encourage nor discourage her to flirt with him and see where this goes.

Thank you all for your advice I will keep you updated on how it goes.

[annsman]

A straight no from us unless his wife agrees which seems unlikely.

There are plenty of men your wife can choose from, but a lot rarer to find good friends.

[911cuck]

Once again I am going to eave this up to my wife. I am not going to encourage nor discourage her to flirt with him and see where this goes.

Thank you all for your advice I will keep you updated on how it goes.

Looking forward to updates Thanks for sharing.