Hotwifing and Swinging or Hotwifing only?

[54321]

Are you a 'Hotwifing only' couple or a' Hotwifing and Swinging' couple?
Please fill in the poll below.
(If your Hotwife and her lover swing then your relationship is still a Hotwifing relationship)

[bradisalpha]

Interested in the results.

Brad

[Cdncuck]

We started with hotwifing but then it evolved into swinging and bdsm.

[SilverStag]

Cdnuck, that is the opposite of our journey...started swinging, started to dabble in BDSM, moved to HW, then FWB's for each, she is now considering some FF play, each step included the preceding ones, so now we have a nice menu for our adventures.

[HWBarb4Fun]

When we began our journey we had agreed to get into swinging, but as we grew closer and talked more openly together, my husband realized he only wanted to see me with other men and had no interest in sex with other women. That relay surprised me, but there's so much we've learned along the way as we began our exploration.

[tailchasers]

Not near enough swingers in our part of the world so if it wasn't for her being a HW it would be awful vanilla around here. We like the spark of extra marital sex.

[hotfreaks]

We started as swingers....but now are hotwifing only

[jrobb]

Back in the day, we were hotwife only.

JR

[Funtimecouple]

We are 80 20 swinging hotwife. We only play when we are together as that was 1 of 2 rules we set from the beginning. The other was we sleep together when the fucking is over except of course our last fuck of the night!

[zorro]

70% MFM; 25% swinging; 5% MF.

[2wheel]

100% HW, which includes groups/GB

[54321]

Mmm. Just over 50% are hotwife only.

It's interesting that in a 'Hotwife Forum' almost 50% are swingers too.
When visiting a swingers site, I was impressed with how many of the stories were really hotwifing stories. I'll put up a poll there and compare the results.

54321

[36DDwife]

Cdnuck, that is the opposite of our journey...started swinging, started to dabble in BDSM, moved to HW, then FWB's for each, she is now considering some FF play, each step included the preceding ones, so now we have a nice menu for our adventures.

Damn...y’all are my heroes

[dirtydog69]

Dabbled with swinging for some years but she was hooked to HW when she her current hung lover.

[Parsifal]

She is a hotwife only and has no interest whatsoever in sharing me. I'm sure any generalization will be overly inclusive because there are so many variations on how these dynamics shake out. But with that caveat, let me share my observation. Few women get off to sharing their man in the same way men do with their hotwives. So where hotwives have the capacity to swing, there's something different driving it, which is often one wife's interest in the other wife or in the other couple as a couple. Bi-curiosity is more of a driver for the swinger wives. Stag husbands who are exclusive can be of the type that swinging would add a fun dimension if only their hotwife were turned on by it; or they might have literally zero interest in being with another woman.

[kaskap79]

My wife are a Hotwife, she prefer to play alone. I love to hear what she has been doing.

I have my freedom to be with whom I want, but my wife does not want to know about it.

I have no idea what we shall call our relationship, but I guess an open relationship is the one that covers best.

[hbstel]

We started as swingers, and were only interested in playing with couples. Having a 4-way connection can be difficult though, and over time we realized one of the things we both enjoyed the most was her enjoying other men, so we opened up to MFMs and MMFs and these days we usually have more fun with hotwifing than swinging. We haven't stopped swinging altogether, but I often do not feel attracted enough to other women around here (I've been told that being married to such a beautiful woman has spoiled my expectations!).

[tailchasers]

Started out as swingers then we moved and found this part of the world was void of social swingers. Soooo, this lead us to more of the HW, at least one of us could get some real action and the other could feed off her. She has no issue with this. We have a found one couple that has manifested into a great swinger relationship but not the variety we really want. It's tough living in remote USA.

[SwirlyTwo]

Hotwifing only, we tried a swing club, and it just wasn't entertaining. If we could find something that was more akin to the sorts of places she goes on dates (upscale cigar bars, etc.) and we go on dates (upscale cigar bars, etc.), then maybe.

[2inUPMichigan]

Welcome to OHW SwirlyTwo

[2inUPMichigan]

Welcome to OHW hbstel

[Brisbanehotwife]

We started off hotwifing. The entry point was Sophie cheating a number of times, which was very arousing. That led to me giving her the freedom to fuck and after we had kids she became a regular hotwife. Interestingly, she still keeps secrets, and doesn't always tell me who she is fucking. We also swing, but she prefers hotwifing.

[Bobs52]

We’re not quite there, but got close last summer.

Not into the femdom or the humiliation etc. (certainly not judging if you are); but a big part of the sexual thrill for me is she can any time, any place, with anyone she chooses as much as she likes and I have to remain completely faithful. The unfairness and inequity of that super charges the whole thing for me! Not sure why it does, but I wouldn’t have it any other way!

[couple_uk]

We started with hotwifing but then it evolved into swinging and bdsm.

We started with swinging and it evolved (very quickly) to hotwifing and a bit later, BDSM.

[Des 31]

We consider ourselves essentially as a hotwife couple. Some recently loosening up on my wife's restrictions has allowed me occasional freedom. These alternative marriage accords have at least limited flexibility for some but clearly not all. I can understand how swinging can easily lead to hotwifery as Couple_UK mentioned above. As the husband in a hotwife relationship, that's still the best for me; and as long as my wife likes it that way, I'm totally okay with that. If she changes her mind and wishes to go another way, I'll go along with her wishes.

~ Des