My Wife and her Ex Husband

[Chrislydi]

It's hopefully all you wanted so good luck to you.

Just a reminder from page one of the thread tells all and this really does suit SF.

We enjoy the cuckold lifestyle but being cuckolded by her ex husband both excites me and makes me nervous at the same time.

And now SF restates....

it works well for us. I do enjoy orgasm denial and long term chastity.

It is what is wanted so let's hope it's enjoyable for everyone

[WifeKnowsBest]

So, as I understand it, you sleep in a separate room while the two of them sleep in the same bed every night, she only has sex with him since he moved in and you're "promised" to have sex with her one time in two years from now, and you're in chastity as much as possible. Tell us again, 1) why did she end up divorcing him and ending up with you and how is he all of a sudden the best thing for her?; and 2) how are you still considered the husband and not him? It sounds very much like you've been made the ex-husband and she's gone back to him as her new husband again.

Just curious about this dynamic as we've seen plenty of other husbands one day realize that they've been replaced and essentially are asked to leave. Are you positive this isn't going to be the next change coming up? You being asked to sign papers and leave so she and her husband can be alone?

I asked the same questions a week ago. I really don't understand why she would divorce him remarry then make him her husband again something's missing here.

I could understand if it was a matter of them having great sex together but just couldn't live together as husband and wife but that's not the case here.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

SoFlcuck
Hell why would they want him to leave , they would have to start doing housework cleaning and all the other stuff. Besides they all seem to love it,

has he taking you anally yet?


6

That is true, I do a lot of house chores.

Yes he has taken me anally.

Okay...so he has taken you anally.

Did your wife watch? If so, did she orgasm while watching?
Did YOU orgasm while he was taking you anally?
How did you feel afterwards?
How often does he take you anally?

[airhorn]

SoFlcuck
Hell why would they want him to leave , they would have to start doing housework cleaning and all the other stuff. Besides they all seem to love it,

has he taking you anally yet?


6

That is true, I do a lot of house chores.

Yes he has taken me anally.

Okay...so he has taken you anally.

Did your wife watch? If so, did she orgasm while watching?
Did YOU orgasm while he was taking you anally?
How did you feel afterwards?
How often does he take you anally?

... and when did that start?

Hmm... as I recall, the counter is based on his orgasms, not how many times he's fucked your wife. Does it count when it's in you (mouth or ass)?

[SoFLCuck]

SoFlcuck
Hell why would they want him to leave , they would have to start doing housework cleaning and all the other stuff. Besides they all seem to love it,

has he taking you anally yet?


6

That is true, I do a lot of house chores.

Yes he has taken me anally.

Okay...so he has taken you anally.

Did your wife watch? If so, did she orgasm while watching?
Did YOU orgasm while he was taking you anally?
How did you feel afterwards?
How often does he take you anally?

... and when did that start?

Hmm... as I recall, the counter is based on his orgasms, not how many times he's fucked your wife. Does it count when it's in you (mouth or ass)?

It started a couple of months ago but I struggled accepting it at first.

Yes the counter is for every time he orgasms and one of us assists him. If he masturbates, it does not count.

[airhorn]

Okay...so he has taken you anally.

Did your wife watch? If so, did she orgasm while watching?
Did YOU orgasm while he was taking you anally?
How did you feel afterwards?
How often does he take you anally?

... and when did that start?

Hmm... as I recall, the counter is based on his orgasms, not how many times he's fucked your wife. Does it count when it's in you (mouth or ass)?

It started a couple of months ago but I struggled accepting it at first.

Yes the counter is for every time he orgasms and one of us assists him. If he masturbates, it does not count.

Struggled accepting... which was more difficult: mentally, emotionally, or physically? Are you okay with it now?

Does he take your wife anally also?

[storiespix]

Yes he has taken me anally.

It started a couple of months ago but I struggled accepting it at first.

Yes the counter is for every time he orgasms and one of us assists him. If he masturbates, it does not count.

Wow. So you have some control as to when you get to orgasm next (i.e., not have to depend on the whims of your wife and your Bull together, but you can volunteer yourself, too). I find that pretty hot.

[6inches]

This guy has the life of luxury!!! I think you said you do a full clean up after they fuck (him and her) you suck him off and you give him your ass, you clean the house, and pay for most of his expenses. All 3 of you have a great lifestyle, is your wife into fucking you too with a strap-on? This would make a great reality show on TV!!!! Call it three's company Haha. How do get to stay home, do you work?

Great story!!!

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[SoFLCuck]

This guy has the life of luxury!!! I think you said you do a full clean up after they fuck (him and her) you suck him off and you give him your ass, you clean the house, and pay for most of his expenses. All 3 of you have a great lifestyle, is your wife into fucking you too with a strap-on? This would make a great reality show on TV!!!! Call it three's company Haha. How do get to stay home, do you work?

Great story!!!

6

The lifestyle and the current arrangements really work for us. We all work and contribute to all the expenses so there has never been an issue of anyone taking advantage of the other. I know our arrangements don’t work for everyone but they work well for us.

[Chrislydi]

It just helps if everyone remembers exactly what SF has said in the past, only two main points

1) Being cuckolded by her ex husband both excites me and makes me nervous at the same time.

2) I do enjoy orgasm denial and long term chastity.

Don't look beyond these two points and it's easy to see what is wanted, it's enjoyable and working for everyone

[SoFLCuck]

Yes he has taken me anally.

It started a couple of months ago but I struggled accepting it at first.

Yes the counter is for every time he orgasms and one of us assists him. If he masturbates, it does not count.

Wow. So you have some control as to when you get to orgasm next (i.e., not have to depend on the whims of your wife and your Bull together, but you can volunteer yourself, too). I find that pretty hot.

Yes I have been thinking about it that way and to an extent, I do have control on how soon I get to orgasm again.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

I'm still curious, vis-vis him taking you anally ---------->

Did your wife watch? If so, did she orgasm while watching?
Did YOU orgasm while he was taking you anally?
How did you feel afterwards?
How often does he take you anally?

[Chrislydi]

So, as I understand it, you sleep in a separate room while the two of them sleep in the same bed every night, she only has sex with him since he moved in and you're "promised" to have sex with her one time in two years from now, and you're in chastity as much as possible. Tell us again, 1) why did she end up divorcing him and ending up with you and how is he all of a sudden the best thing for her?; and 2) how are you still considered the husband and not him? It sounds very much like you've been made the ex-husband and she's gone back to him as her new husband again.

Just curious about this dynamic as we've seen plenty of other husbands one day realize that they've been replaced and essentially are asked to leave. Are you positive this isn't going to be the next change coming up? You being asked to sign papers and leave so she and her husband can be alone?

SF not withstanding the two points you emphasised which make this arrangement work for YOU

1) Being cuckolded by her ex husband both excites me and makes me nervous at the same time.

2) I do enjoy orgasm denial and long term chastity.

But in the light of another thread where an apparent arrangement where he thought all were happy but it turned out he was deluded and only he was, has now ended rather quickly and suddenly with divorce being wanted by her. it might well be time to think of what the others in this arrangement really want, and not just what they tell you they want.

So would the ex husband IF offered the choice, prefer just the two of them remarried and living together much as they do now or would HE, not you, really prefer tagging you along with them ad iinfinitum forever?

Similarly with your wife, although ultra confident she was going nowhere when you started this, is there any possibility at all that a gradual reawakening of the feelings of real emotional love she must have shared with him earlier in her life, may grow overpowering and will eventually make her contemplate a life with him and only him again. If HE wants it badly there will always be that argument put to her in the most attractive way by him.

I don't mean to be so negative as you will know far more of how the three of you interact all day and just how strong the bonds between the two of them are now compared to formerly.

I know in May 2020 when you started this thread your marriage was over seven years standing, and in a way that's a good thing as you enjoyed the cuckold lifestyle within those years. This is however her ex not some stranger, and when they divorced it was far from bitter but on very friendly terms, indeed so friendly she looked forward to him staying with you and sleeping with him again.

I know Jezza's thread with his wife went south a while back, and only yesterday we learnt of another going exactly the same way, with previous warnings confidently dismissed in much the same fashion. I've been rather conscious of saying only supportive comments on this thread so far, but I think it would be remiss without some serious thought on the real situation, and is it REALLY understood by everyone in the same way you do?

My main positive points is that they are living with you not away from you and there is far more positive interaction between the ex and yourself. These are two powerful positives and different from the cases where it all went south. The major thing though is only a tiny fraction of your whole life is written down here and it's absolutely impossible for me or anyone else to see the real situation. It's only you yourself who can be that judge.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

I think what is making some folks a bit uneasy (if that is the correct word here) is that this is not some random hookup, or a FWB. This is the wife's ex-husband, the breakup was not hostile or bitter; and they (obviously) enjoy being with each other, especially sexually.

And they are not seeing each other on an occasional, or even a regularly-scheduled basis. They are living together, and he's replaced the husband in the (previously) marital bed.

I'm not sure I have a comfortable feeling as to where this is going. If he's back in the workforce (I thought the original reason for him moving in was that he had been laid off at the start of the pandemic) then I wondering if this might have evolved into something far beyond what was originally considered/conceived.

Just sayin.....

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

Re: My Wife and her Ex Husband
Post by SoFLCuck » Fri May 15, 2020 5:24 pm

We agreed he can stay with us for up to 6 months but not longer than that.

This is what you posted two years and 8 days ago.

At the risk of repeating myself, I don't have a comfortable feeling as to where this is going.

[Reno1]

As someone who has been into wifesharing my whole life I have found that as a cuckold there is nothing better than having an Ex husband or Ex boyfriend fuck my wife, and get to lick her out. It’s an ultimate humiliation. And needing an easy way to introduce my second wife when I remarried (my first wife helped me right into the lifestyle) to the idea of fucking another guy I found that talking about her previous fucking and asking what she liked was a good way to suggest she do it again. Once she had fucked her Ex she was much more comfortable in fucking friends.

[FNQLivin]

As someone who has been into wifesharing my whole life I have found that as a cuckold there is nothing better than having an Ex husband or Ex boyfriend fuck my wife, and get to lick her out. It’s an ultimate humiliation. And needing an easy way to introduce my second wife when I remarried (my first wife helped me right into the lifestyle) to the idea of fucking another guy I found that talking about her previous fucking and asking what she liked was a good way to suggest she do it again. Once she had fucked her Ex she was much more comfortable in fucking friends.

Big difference though in her having sex with her ex and him moving in, moving you out to the spare room and you no longer having any meaningful sexual contact with her though, don't you think?

Add to that, that he now controls the sexual life of the husband by coming up with arbitrary rules that limit access even more. Cuck or no, I'd have kicked the man out years ago.

[Chrislydi]

As someone who has been into wifesharing my whole life I have found that as a cuckold there is nothing better than having an Ex husband or Ex boyfriend fuck my wife, and get to lick her out. It’s an ultimate humiliation. And needing an easy way to introduce my second wife when I remarried (my first wife helped me right into the lifestyle) to the idea of fucking another guy I found that talking about her previous fucking and asking what she liked was a good way to suggest she do it again. Once she had fucked her Ex she was much more comfortable in fucking friends.

Chalk and cheese comes to mind

[Chrislydi]

Yes I have been thinking about it that way and to an extent, I do have control on how soon I get to orgasm again.

How are things going SF, any real developments in the last ten or eleven days?

[SoFLCuck]

Yes I have been thinking about it that way and to an extent, I do have control on how soon I get to orgasm again.

How are things going SF, any real developments in the last ten or eleven days?

Hi Chrislydi.

Things continue to go well. Haven’t posted in a while because it is taking me a lot longer between orgasms. Getting used to the new schedule. It has definitely allowed me to focus better.

[Chrislydi]

Good to read that SF, as I pointed out we really have no idea of the whole everyday situation. It's also good to remind ourselves of those things that we recognise are big positives...

We enjoy the cuckold lifestyle but being cuckolded by her ex husband both excites me and makes me nervous at the same time.

it works well for us. I do enjoy orgasm denial and long term chastity.

So although I was trying to be a little more cautious in my last post, it was just out of conscience, the fact that I really only hear about a tiny fraction of your life, and as they say what you don't know it's dangerous to comment to much on.

So my previous unadulterated positivity might have been inappropriate but it sounds as if no real alarms, and you're just getting used to the even lengthier denial and increased submission to her ex husband's dominance and whims.

Chris

[6inches]

soflcuck,

sounds like you are a full service cuck, you take your lifestyle day to day or do think long term?

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[Chrislydi]

It's been around a month since it started with the new 50:1 ratio but SF estimated each cycle could be 10 to 12 weeks long now, they say no news is good news and last Monday SF posted..

"Things continue to go well. Haven’t posted in a while because it is taking me a lot longer between orgasms. Getting used to the new schedule. It has definitely allowed me to focus better"

Presume we may here the next notable events towards the end of June, until then very much more of the same.

For all of this

I think what is making some folks a bit uneasy (if that is the correct word here) is that this is not some random hookup, or a FWB. This is the wife's ex-husband, the breakup was not hostile or bitter; and they (obviously) enjoy being with each other, especially sexually.

And they are not seeing each other on an occasional, or even a regularly-scheduled basis. They are living together, and he's replaced the husband in the (previously) marital bed.

I'm not sure I have a comfortable feeling as to where this is going. If he's back in the workforce (I thought the original reason for him moving in was that he had been laid off at the start of the pandemic) then I wondering if this might have evolved into something far beyond what was originally considered/conceived.

Just sayin.....

These very valid points leave question marks

Chris

[Chrislydi]

Well it's been 14 days since a brief update when SF last posted and he hasn't logged in since, and far longer, really over a month and more since the last proper update. Hoping everything's still going fine.

Chris

[LockedInWM]

Yeah, hope you’re ok, Mr SF