Agreed, poor starfish sounds as if he was always number two, three or four even before she met another man. Ok that's being more than a little facetious, but staying friends with this new couple does seem as though you're desperate for her no matter how she does or they have purposely deceived you. They've treated you for a fool - manufacturing arguments in order to purposely break up shows the depths to which she was prepared to go and your relationship in its true colours, tbh it says everything about your ex wife's character too.DavaoMike wrote: ↑Fri Dec 09, 2022 12:18 pmKudos to you. Personally, I could never be “friends” with an ex-wife who left me for someone else, and certainly not with the guy who took her from me. I’d rather just end things entirely and move on.
I feel lucky that although my Filipina wife has a long term boyfriend who she loves and regularly makes love with, I’m always Number One and our marriage is inviolate.
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