Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water
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I agree that she gave me the word because of the crossover meaning, with respect to cuckoldry. And also agree that I need to find out the degree of intention behind it.TheHammer wrote: ↑Wed Jul 26, 2023 3:51 pmThat is also what I am thinking. SF, You should work this angle into dirty talk in bed and see where it leads.Jimmy394 wrote: ↑Wed Jul 26, 2023 3:32 pmShe wants to Cuck you out. The question is how far does she want to take it. How much does she know about Cuckolding??BallSpanking wrote: ↑Wed Jul 26, 2023 8:34 amUxorious: excessively fond of or submissive to a wife.
Does SW desire to be a HW? Because time's a wasting.
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Here's something new.
Several weeks ago, SW came to me with tears in her eyes. She was very anxious about something.
I did mention previously that there is some girlfriend drama that has really gotten out of control. It continues to spill into my group of guys and we guys continue to push back against that.
So it turns out that SW had shared our secret of hotwifing and her encounters, with one of the girls. I believe in my storyline she is referred to as Ms. R, the tall blonde former model. This girl is one of the instigators of the "mean girl" activity that has continued against SW.
SW asked if this is an unforgivable breach of trust, if I will now divorce her. I did say it was an unforgivable breach of trust, but not fully unexpected that she would want to have a confidant; however, she should have shared with me in advance the proposed person and the timing. She obviously chose the wrong person. I said I will not divorce her, that I will forgive her, etc. but that this is one of the primary reasons why we pay good money for our ex-positive therapist.
I now observe that her ramp-up in wine consumption and to excess has essentially correlated with the time frame of her divulging our secret to this woman. And that after she stayed away from any consumption of alcohol for over three months, was when she finally told me.
Several weeks ago, SW came to me with tears in her eyes. She was very anxious about something.
I did mention previously that there is some girlfriend drama that has really gotten out of control. It continues to spill into my group of guys and we guys continue to push back against that.
So it turns out that SW had shared our secret of hotwifing and her encounters, with one of the girls. I believe in my storyline she is referred to as Ms. R, the tall blonde former model. This girl is one of the instigators of the "mean girl" activity that has continued against SW.
SW asked if this is an unforgivable breach of trust, if I will now divorce her. I did say it was an unforgivable breach of trust, but not fully unexpected that she would want to have a confidant; however, she should have shared with me in advance the proposed person and the timing. She obviously chose the wrong person. I said I will not divorce her, that I will forgive her, etc. but that this is one of the primary reasons why we pay good money for our ex-positive therapist.
I now observe that her ramp-up in wine consumption and to excess has essentially correlated with the time frame of her divulging our secret to this woman. And that after she stayed away from any consumption of alcohol for over three months, was when she finally told me.
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It is great that she has told you about it.
Hope you will manage a diner with SW in her favorite restaurant to confirm that it was only a small mistake.
You can co firm that you want to see her with someone else so this mistake was very small.
I think as apology she may be more open for your wishes.
But the issue is how to find someone for SW.
Mr G is not open.
There is no one around.
You may think to find a stripper for SW…
Take her to a apartament and provide her such a suprise.
Hope you will manage a diner with SW in her favorite restaurant to confirm that it was only a small mistake.
You can co firm that you want to see her with someone else so this mistake was very small.
I think as apology she may be more open for your wishes.
But the issue is how to find someone for SW.
Mr G is not open.
There is no one around.
You may think to find a stripper for SW…
Take her to a apartament and provide her such a suprise.
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Perfect time to ask her to finally fess up about Mr. B...slenderfish wrote: ↑Thu Jul 27, 2023 7:00 amHere's something new.
Several weeks ago, SW came to me with tears in her eyes. She was very anxious about something.
I did mention previously that there is some girlfriend drama that has really gotten out of control. It continues to spill into my group of guys and we guys continue to push back against that.
So it turns out that SW had shared our secret of hotwifing and her encounters, with one of the girls. I believe in my storyline she is referred to as Ms. R, the tall blonde former model. This girl is one of the instigators of the "mean girl" activity that has continued against SW.
SW asked if this is an unforgivable breach of trust, if I will now divorce her. I did say it was an unforgivable breach of trust, but not fully unexpected that she would want to have a confidant; however, she should have shared with me in advance the proposed person and the timing. She obviously chose the wrong person. I said I will not divorce her, that I will forgive her, etc. but that this is one of the primary reasons why we pay good money for our ex-positive therapist.
I now observe that her ramp-up in wine consumption and to excess has essentially correlated with the time frame of her divulging our secret to this woman. And that after she stayed away from any consumption of alcohol for over three months, was when she finally told me.
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Her texting you the word uxorious seems a perfect chance to open up some conversation and ask her why.
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Uxorious is not a common word!
It suggests to me that she’s been doing some research on the internet and probably came across it accidentally.
Clearly means something to her but what?
That she thinks you love her too much? And that she doesn’t deserve your love?
Since she has self esteem issues
It suggests to me that she’s been doing some research on the internet and probably came across it accidentally.
Clearly means something to her but what?
That she thinks you love her too much? And that she doesn’t deserve your love?
Since she has self esteem issues
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SF, Did you ask her yet what she meant by texting you uxorious?
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Damn. I’ve been out of the loop. When did we fire the sex therapist? I thought she was doing a good job.
I can’t believe she let you down with confiding in a friend “Our secret” UGH
I root for you so hard to enjoy the Hotwife life but maybe just maybe she’s not the best teammate. Honesty to me is EVERYTHING and she just is so hard to trust. SORRY I truly wish you the best.
I can’t believe she let you down with confiding in a friend “Our secret” UGH
I root for you so hard to enjoy the Hotwife life but maybe just maybe she’s not the best teammate. Honesty to me is EVERYTHING and she just is so hard to trust. SORRY I truly wish you the best.
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I think "ex-positive" therapist was meant to read "sex-positive"Triggershy wrote: ↑Mon Aug 07, 2023 12:48 amWhen did we fire the sex therapist? I thought she was doing a good job.
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Nice catch. Triggershy has the correct interpretation of my writing intention.leggysman wrote: ↑Mon Aug 07, 2023 12:05 pmI think "ex-positive" therapist was meant to read "sex-positive"Triggershy wrote: ↑Mon Aug 07, 2023 12:48 amWhen did we fire the sex therapist? I thought she was doing a good job.
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Just this week in the therapy session. I was able to work it into the conversation in a natural way.
She said she wasn't being overt about the hotwife/cuckold element but was being overt about the point that I dote on her and some of her friends think she gets altogether too much rope and that I therefore enable her to run amok from time to time.
This was a nice opening to the bigger conversation as to how she doesn't see herself as naturally sexy. As such, she never considers the sexy or provocative angle on things, which is a bit of a shame because it would otherwise provide more opportunities for suggestive and sexy conversations/interactions.
The therapist always finds this to be almost laughable; SW is built for speed and is very sexy and provocative even without consciously trying. Yet she is so unaware, even in denial. She ASSURES SW that she is sexy and that men definitely see her as such, etc. SW acknowledged this blind spot.
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We departing in the a.m. for the summer trip to her hometown area. We will be staying, once again, in the hotel where SW had her first encounters with Mr. S.
Same hotel and area where we got into the fun with the Croatia guys.
Same hotel and area where we got into the fun with the Croatia guys.
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You would think that SW with her self esteem issues, might benefit from the attention of guys.
But since she’s quite similar to my wife, I can understand the conundrum.
My wife is perfectionist and a great fear of failure/losing face. She’s like “what if this guy turns me down or he doesn’t fancy me once we’re naked or my sex skills are disappointing “ etc
Doesn’t believe in herself essentially.
But since she’s quite similar to my wife, I can understand the conundrum.
My wife is perfectionist and a great fear of failure/losing face. She’s like “what if this guy turns me down or he doesn’t fancy me once we’re naked or my sex skills are disappointing “ etc
Doesn’t believe in herself essentially.
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Good memories, may be a good trigger to find someone to talk with.slenderfish wrote: ↑Wed Aug 09, 2023 11:00 pmWe departing in the a.m. for the summer trip to her hometown area. We will be staying, once again, in the hotel where SW had her first encounters with Mr. S.
Same hotel and area where we got into the fun with the Croatia guys.
You mag create a Tinder profile for SW (withouth her face) and just looking up…
Just for fan.
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I say bring back the irresponsible, carefree boozy nights! We had much more material back then.
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Without the booze... which is part of the problem.rooster444 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 15, 2023 7:26 amI say bring back the irresponsible, carefree boozy nights! We had much more material back then.
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Still in SW's hometown at the hotel that was the home base for her hotwife adventures. Traveling home later today.funcpl477 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 15, 2023 7:33 amWithout the booze... which is part of the problem.rooster444 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 15, 2023 7:26 amI say bring back the irresponsible, carefree boozy nights! We had much more material back then.
We did two boozy nights on this trip; once on Friday where I was the boozy one and nothing good to report and the other last night after the big business dinner (celebrating the closing of a business transaction I led, this was the traditional law firm boondoggle dinner). SW was feeling good and having a nice time, and then we walked back to our hotel and decided to hang at the hotel bar for a bit and have a closing drink. SW flirted unabashedly with a couple of guys at the bar and was showing the Pinky side. They were/are in mid-30's and are in town for business meetings with significant vendors (Fortune 100 companies).
The guys were very into her but ultimately it was a night before business day and we all called it and went to our various rooms at around midnight.
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Glad that Pinky made an appearance!! Have you two revisited her naughty escapades that happened in the hotel you’re staying in this trip?
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Nice to hear that SW was in mood for flirting.slenderfish wrote: ↑Tue Aug 15, 2023 10:27 amStill in SW's hometown at the hotel that was the home base for her hotwife adventures. Traveling home later today.funcpl477 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 15, 2023 7:33 amWithout the booze... which is part of the problem.rooster444 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 15, 2023 7:26 amI say bring back the irresponsible, carefree boozy nights! We had much more material back then.
We did two boozy nights on this trip; once on Friday where I was the boozy one and nothing good to report and the other last night after the big business dinner (celebrating the closing of a business transaction I led, this was the traditional law firm boondoggle dinner). SW was feeling good and having a nice time, and then we walked back to our hotel and decided to hang at the hotel bar for a bit and have a closing drink. SW flirted unabashedly with a couple of guys at the bar and was showing the Pinky side. They were/are in mid-30's and are in town for business meetings with significant vendors (Fortune 100 companies).
The guys were very into her but ultimately it was a night before business day and we all called it and went to our various rooms at around midnight.
I think you may discuss with SW about few plans for such cirCUMstances.
Plan for above example - from a crazy one - so go to toilet for handjob. Go for a blowjob to hotel room. Or maybe a quickie.
Plan what to do when there will be two atractive guys ready for her. Or maybe a couple.
How about younger guys?
How about condoms.
I’m not sure if you have a chance for such discustion.
Maybe you may ask SW for a handjob and talk with her about it.
I hope you are open for such dirty talk with SW.
I think that frequently used may give her more desire for fun.
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I do hope we will hear more of Pinky becoming more dominant in SW's persona ... She is a lot more fun.
Could it be that Pinky just needs the opportunity, and proper libations, to come out?
Could it be that Pinky just needs the opportunity, and proper libations, to come out?
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Hope to hear all’s well at least
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I also hope to.hear about e.g. summer holiday in Jamaica and BBC chalange for SW there… so new BBC each day ;-)
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Agree. I've always pushed for them to go on a 'Sexcation' to either Hedo or Temptations.
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slenderfish got a new account? How am I supposed to find the spicy parts now? :O