Update
Well yesterday was interesting. The guy we met was a bit nervous I think. He didn't want to use a condom but had to. I think the condom may have played a part with performance anxiety.
I can relate. I hate condoms. Lol
When they began they were grinding bare. I didn't realize they were grinding. I thought he inserted her without a condom.
I figured my wife had just not realized it. I waited while she enjoyed it a bit then casually tossed the condom box on the bed next to them
My wife thought that was funny as hell (she loves my reactions to things). 'Subtle, babe
![😆](//cdn.jsdelivr.net/emojione/assets/3.1/png/64/1f606.png)
' she said lol
I mean, I was just trying to subtly help everyone remember the rules but he wasn't even inside her yet lmfao.
(But he did go in the first time without lube and broke the condom
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)
Anyway the whole thing was a big let down for her and really awkward. But it comes with the territory.
Y'all wanna hear our schedule? Lmao
Friday this week she is meeting with her favorite Latino. This will make it the third time. He will probably become a regular.
Monday and Wednesday next week we are meeting two different people. Then comes the two week school break. (Which is the reason for all this rushed activity.)
In January she has another roster to go through lmao. Then she is going to just knock it down to one or two (or three or four) regulars.
She is more into the idea of having regulars. As am I. Because you are done with the awkwardness of initial meetings and such. Plus I can't keep up I'm 39 I'm old as fk lmao. Gotta get a damn roladex.
But seriously, with doing the hookups, working, taking care of kids after school and everyday life it chips away my opportunity to have sexy time with her. So I'm looking forward to the slowdown.
Another thing is she is beginning to talk with her first BBC. I'm hoping he is more experienced than others. I told him everyone else so far just races into it and he should take it really slow when they meetup because the foreplay and the slow strip down is her favorite thing.
One thing I noticed is I need to keep myself in the correct headspace or else it isn't as fun as it could be for me. She has to chat/sext with these guys to get a connection and build some sexual tension or else it's a no go. That stuff doesn't do anything for me so I sometimes get annoyed because it's the same thing over and over with these guys and it's boring.
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But I have to remember the purpose for it and that it is for her/our fun and I get to enjoy the ride.
The one thing I am trying to figure out is what in the hell do I do while I'm sitting there? lmao
It's so comically awkward
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