Building up slowly

[hoping_she_will_1day]

A couple of weekends ago we drove to the city to meet with our new friends again. It's a bit of a drive so we made arrangements to stay in a hotel in the downtown area, and we weren't disappointed. This room however was set up differently than our first meeting. Upon entering, there was a sitting room with a TV, sofa, chair & coffee table while the bedroom was down a short hallway. The bedroom could not be seen from the sofa or chair. We recognized that this set-up might have an small impact on our evening.

The day before leaving we spent time putting together a sexy outfit for Mrs Curious to wear under her vanilla clothes. She chose a black lace bra and panty set from Victoria Secret, then covered it with a sheer black body suit that hugged her tight. This had snaps in the crotch which I had the pleasure of assisting with. It dawned on me at that moment that I was helping her dress sexy for another man, and this added a next level thrill for me. She dressed in jeans and sweater that offered no hint of what was beneath.

We left the room to meet for dinner at a brewery, and once again we arrived slightly before they did. When they walked in we all greeted each other like old friends. The feeling was very comfortable and we were totally at ease with them. We all ordered drinks, had dinner and talked for about an hour then we agreed that it was time to head back to the room. We poured a glass of wine for everyone except for the other man since he'd be driving home later, then turned on some music and sat down to listen to a story that my wife had written for him. We learned during our last visit that he enjoys hearing of past experiences and other stories, so she crafted an intriguing little tale involving 2 couples and BDSM. They loved it! Our female friend playfully took the name of the female character in the story, then went into the bathroom to change into her sexy outfit. As she was preparing to leave the room, I stood behind my wife, turned her to face the other couple and lifted her sweater over her head. Upon revealing what was beneath, the other couple complemented on how sexy she looked. And she DID look sexy as fuck.

The other woman returned wearing a very sexy bra & panty set that left little to the imagination and walked over to where I was standing while he approached my wife and kissed her. Within a very short time, they disappeared from the sitting room without making a sound. I did not see them leave as I was busy and was conflicted over the decision to join them or leave them to their privacy. This contradicts my desire to see my wife with another man, but I was also concerned about her being comfortable and not getting overwhelmed again. So, I chose to stay in the sitting area and put my focus on pleasing the other woman.

Later, my wife shared with me some details of her fun...
When they got to the bedroom, he caressed her body as he removed the lingerie that she was wearing. While they kissed she helped him to undress, then she kneeled down to take him into her mouth. When he was fully erect, she placed a condom on his cock which then quickly softened and never regained it's hardness. He apologized sincerely, then turned his focus onto her body. He played with her heavy tits, rolling her nipples while kissing her lips deeply. Then he asked for permission to go down on her pussy. She laughed and said "Uh, YEAH!!" He moved down her body, placed himself between her legs and gave her his very best tongue lashing. She says that it's hard to describe what he did, but that it was VERY good and gave her a long rolling orgasm. When she came down from her high, they laid on the bed and talked for a while. They peaked out a couple of times to see what was going on in the sitting room, then eventually came out to join us.

Meanwhile, myself and the other woman were dealing with a similar situation where my cock didn't cooperate either. I did my very best to please her in the other manners that I know, and I'm sure that she orgasmed several times.

When the evening was coming to an end, they dressed and we walked them to the elevator and said goodbye. We've traded dozens of text messages since, all positive and indicative of future fun. One of these times our ladies will actually get fucked!

[snoogaloo82]

A couple of weekends ago we drove to the city to meet with our new friends again. It's a bit of a drive so we made arrangements to stay in a hotel in the downtown area, and we weren't disappointed. This room however was set up differently than our first meeting. Upon entering, there was a sitting room with a TV, sofa, chair & coffee table while the bedroom was down a short hallway. The bedroom could not be seen from the sofa or chair. We recognized that this set-up might have an small impact on our evening.

The day before leaving we spent time putting together a sexy outfit for Mrs Curious to wear under her vanilla clothes. She chose a black lace bra and panty set from Victoria Secret, then covered it with a sheer black body suit that hugged her tight. This had snaps in the crotch which I had the pleasure of assisting with. It dawned on me at that moment that I was helping her dress sexy for another man, and this added a next level thrill for me. She dressed in jeans and sweater that offered no hint of what was beneath.

We left the room to meet for dinner at a brewery, and once again we arrived slightly before they did. When they walked in we all greeted each other like old friends. The feeling was very comfortable and we were totally at ease with them. We all ordered drinks, had dinner and talked for about an hour then we agreed that it was time to head back to the room. We poured a glass of wine for everyone except for the other man since he'd be driving home later, then turned on some music and sat down to listen to a story that my wife had written for him. We learned during our last visit that he enjoys hearing of past experiences and other stories, so she crafted an intriguing little tale involving 2 couples and BDSM. They loved it! Our female friend playfully took the name of the female character in the story, then went into the bathroom to change into her sexy outfit. As she was preparing to leave the room, I stood behind my wife, turned her to face the other couple and lifted her sweater over her head. Upon revealing what was beneath, the other couple complemented on how sexy she looked. And she DID look sexy as fuck.

The other woman returned wearing a very sexy bra & panty set that left little to the imagination and walked over to where I was standing while he approached my wife and kissed her. Within a very short time, they disappeared from the sitting room without making a sound. I did not see them leave as I was busy and was conflicted over the decision to join them or leave them to their privacy. This contradicts my desire to see my wife with another man, but I was also concerned about her being comfortable and not getting overwhelmed again. So, I chose to stay in the sitting area and put my focus on pleasing the other woman.

Later, my wife shared with me some details of her fun...
When they got to the bedroom, he caressed her body as he removed the lingerie that she was wearing. While they kissed she helped him to undress, then she kneeled down to take him into her mouth. When he was fully erect, she placed a condom on his cock which then quickly softened and never regained it's hardness. He apologized sincerely, then turned his focus onto her body. He played with her heavy tits, rolling her nipples while kissing her lips deeply. Then he asked for permission to go down on her pussy. She laughed and said "Uh, YEAH!!" He moved down her body, placed himself between her legs and gave her his very best tongue lashing. She says that it's hard to describe what he did, but that it was VERY good and gave her a long rolling orgasm. When she came down from her high, they laid on the bed and talked for a while. They peaked out a couple of times to see what was going on in the sitting room, then eventually came out to join us.

Meanwhile, myself and the other woman were dealing with a similar situation where my cock didn't cooperate either. I did my very best to please her in the other manners that I know, and I'm sure that she orgasmed several times.

When the evening was coming to an end, they dressed and we walked them to the elevator and said goodbye. We've traded dozens of text messages since, all positive and indicative of future fun. One of these times our ladies will actually get fucked!

It sounds like all four of you hit it off wonderfully! I'm happy that everyone left with a smile on their faces. Have you guys set a date as to when you'll be meeting next?

[Lookingforadventure]

A couple of weekends ago we drove to the city to meet with our new friends again....When the evening was coming to an end, they dressed and we walked them to the elevator and said goodbye. We've traded dozens of text messages since, all positive and indicative of future fun. One of these times our ladies will actually get fucked!

Sounds like you had a great experience. I'm really glad.

From my (albeit it limited) experience swinging, I think that that performance issues can be quite common. The key thing, though, is that you all had a level of comfort with each other, everyone still had a good time, and you left without anyone feeling bad or awkward about it. I think that's a win. Plus, this allowed you and Mrs. Curious to proceed at a slow pace, and that might end up being a good thing.

In the meantime, enjoy those flirty text messages. Finding a couple with whom you have a good four-way connection can be very hard. I'm so excited for you guys that you found it.

[Her number1]

Congratulations, my friends, on a great adventure!
We all like reading adventures of others on here, but it goes to another level when it's friends having the fun.
It's quite easy picturing Mrs Curious' face as she has rolling orgasms.

[Farmgirl]

Glad you all had fun !!
I'm not experienced in swinging, but I can easily see performance issues popping up . It's a lot to take in and could be overwhelming in a good way . And, you know, as long as you two took care of the ladies........... .

[snoogaloo82]

Glad you all had fun !!
I'm not experienced in swinging, but I can easily see performance issues popping up . It's a lot to take in and could be overwhelming in a good way . And, you know, as long as you two took care of the ladies........... .

Yep, if your lady is happy YOU are happy, is my motto!!

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Sounds like you had a great experience. I'm really glad.
Finding a couple with whom you have a good four-way connection can be very hard. I'm so excited for you guys that you found it.

Thank you LFA, much appreciated. It's actually pretty remarkable to have met and connected so well, but it wasn't easy to find a compatible couple as you noted.
Going slowly and appreciating things as we go has actually helped us with understanding each others needs and desires. For example, just a couple of days ago while having dinner, we talked about the last meet and the things we liked about it and things we'd do differently. Having that discussion separate from playtime really validated what was said to each other. But then later that night we got to enjoy each other

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Congratulations, my friends, on a great adventure!
We all like reading adventures of others on here, but it goes to another level when it's friends having the fun.
It's quite easy picturing Mrs Curious' face as she has rolling orgasms.

Thank you sir, that means allot to us. Now just imagine sitting out on the front porch sipping bourbon while sharing stories on a warm summer evening.

Me..."OMG, you should have seen the way her eyes rolled back in her head as he...."
You..."I had to flip the damn mattress over to find a dry spot because she..."



That's next level there...lmao

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Glad you all had fun !!
I'm not experienced in swinging, but I can easily see performance issues popping up . It's a lot to take in and could be overwhelming in a good way . And, you know, as long as you two took care of the ladies........... .

Lol, I recognize that little wink that you strategically positioned there.

MC and I talked about the overall feeling of this meet as compared to the first, and we both agreed that it was tremendously less stressful this time. Having already gone through the introductions, chatting to get to know each other and finding that there is a mutual connection made this last meet much more relaxed and at ease. We'll just need to let things stay natural and easy so that when the time comes, the things that need to pop UP do indeed POP up.

A funny little nugget that I just remembered from dinner conversation. We all expected that we would be having burgers and beer, but when we got there we found that the menu that night was Mexican food. Rolling with the changes, we all ordered and waited as we continued talking. When our meals were delivered, the other lady who was seated across from MC looked up from her plate and said something along the lines of "this probably isn't the best food to have tonight". It took a second for that to register before everyone had a good laugh.

The conversation had been so at ease that it wasn't until that moment that it really registered what was for sure going to happen when we got back to our room. It didn't feel like any extra pressure, but maybe it was?

Thank you ma'am, you and HN1 are very much appreciated.

[Seekingmore12]

Sounds like you had a great experience. I'm really glad.
Finding a couple with whom you have a good four-way connection can be very hard. I'm so excited for you guys that you found it.

Thank you LFA, much appreciated. It's actually pretty remarkable to have met and connected so well, but it wasn't easy to find a compatible couple as you noted.
Going slowly and appreciating things as we go has actually helped us with understanding each others needs and desires. For example, just a couple of days ago while having dinner, we talked about the last meet and the things we liked about it and things we'd do differently. Having that discussion separate from playtime really validated what was said to each other. But then later that night we got to enjoy each other

I am so happy for you two….look forward to watching your journey together from the sidelines…

G

[hoping_she_will_1day]

MC had the day off from work today, and I thought what a wonderful opportunity for a bit of afternoon delight!!
I messaged that if she would be home, I'd come by to eat lunch...and then eat her. She was very coy with her response, but I interpreted that to be a yes.

I stopped on the way and grabbed a small bouquet to surprise her, and it worked. I sat down to eat my lunch while we talked briefly, then stood and gathered her in my arms and led her to what we affectionately call the cumming couch. Since we're empty nester's we don't have to worry about anyone walking in on us, only the curious eyes of our neighbors...which can be fun at times.

When she leaned back and spread her legs and revealed her beautiful prize I looked for the throw pillows for her to put under her head. She said that they must be upstairs on the other sofa, along with the throw blankets. I teased that she must have left them there from her last BF fuck then dove into her pussy. There she laid completely nude, and myself fully dressed in my work clothes. I worked quickly but carefully to keep from getting my shirt wet! She came within minutes then sat up with a beautiful grin on her pretty face and asked how much time I had. She reached for my belt, loosening it then opened my jeans and pulled my thickening cock out. She wasted no time at all working her magic on me, I was rock hard within seconds. She brought me to the brink then glanced up at me, spoke softly then took me over the edge. My cum splashed her her chin and dribbled down onto her thighs in huge puddles. She continued working my sensitive cockhead until I couldn't bear it any longer and I stepped away out of breath.

We kissed then stood to clean up. I wiped my crotch with a cloth, zipped and buckled my jeans and kissed her goodbye. She walked me to the door, still nude. As I drove back to work it dawned on me that I still had her juices in my facial hair. LMAO. What a sweet little present to bring back to work.

[regular3]

Nice to go home for lunch.

[Lookingforadventure]

Oh my!!!! What a lunch date. Very

[regular3]

Bump

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Earlier this month my wife saw a profile in SDC that caught her interest. This person had reached out to us with a comment that was intelligent and respectful, which she appreciated so she sent a response. This is notable because quite frankly I can't recall the last time she sent a reply to anyone. He's new to our area, and hasn't met many people. He's here for work that will carry on for about 6 months.

They chatted sporadically for a couple of weeks, including while we were travelling to the NE for a family event. The trip was about 600 miles from where we live and we were driving through the night having left right after she got home from work. Around 11 PM while trading SDC messages with him that were getting her horny as fuck, she nibbled on a edible that she'd brought along which added an extra layer to the fun. She didn't pack a toy for this trip, but if she had there's no doubt that she would have given herself a very powerful orgasm as we drove along. When we got to the hotel around 1:30 AM, she practically demanded that her pussy be eaten then fucked, and I was happy to oblige. As I sucked and licked her clit, she humped her pussy across my tongue harder than I've ever known her to do. And she came incredibly fucking hard. We fucked after she came, with lots of dirty talk about her new friend and her pussy was drenched. Afterwards we both collapsed, falling asleep almost instantly. But when we awoke around 7 AM, we fucked again. Then again that night. She was on fire.

She resumed messaging with him after we returned home, impressed by his ability to carry a conversation as well as his flirty nature. He shared that he's had experience with hotwifing, and understood and respected the relationships of the couples involved. They both were interested in meeting, so they set about with planning to. They agreed on a place in town with a sexy atmosphere. On the night of the meet she and I drove to town arriving slightly early and found a seat at a cozy table. This was a speakeasy setting, with our table having a chair on one side and a sofa on the other side. He arrived about 10 minutes later with a big smile on his face, looking completely comfortable. I sat in the chair, leaving the place beside my wife open for him to take. We all ordered a drink and started talking. The conversation flowed very easily, and I noticed that he had no trouble making eye contact with both of us. After a while, I excused myself for a few minutes and upon returning I sat on the other side of my wife. After a few minutes she told him that she needed to see what kind of kisser he was, and invited him outside to find a place to do that. I waited inside, thinking about how natural the evening felt. When they came back to the table she had a cute grin on her face, very pleased by their kiss. A bit more talking ensued, then she declared that she wanted to set a date! He was definitely interested and said he agreed. The boldness of her comments to him were so very sexy. We discussed availability, settling on a date the following week. We all said goodbye a short while later, them kissing and he and I shaking hands. When we got home, her pussy was super greedy again and I suggested that we make her pussy wait until their meet. She did NOT agree with that idea, so we fucked. Over and over. I swear she's never been hotter for fuck.

Three days before their meet, they exchanged phone numbers. Two nights before their meet, I inspected her pussy to see if it needed any grooming. The day before their meet she got a manicure and bought a sweet & sexy red dress. Their message exchange was thrilling. The day of their meet, she and I went to breakfast. Before we left, she sent a hello message. After our meal, she sent a message wishing him a good day. Around noon she's wondering why he hasn't said anything to her. I'm watching her go through the full gambit of emotions while I'm trying to keep her spirits up. At 2:00 she sent a message saying that she would have appreciated if he'd just told her that he didn't want to meet. He replied that he's still there, still wants to meet. Around 4:00 he said that work was being a problem and that he was trying the wrap up. By 7:00 it's clear that this isn't going to happen. Around 11 PM he sent her a message that he'd just gotten out of work. To say that she was disappointed is a tremendous understatement. Watching my wife go through that emotional mind fuck was horrible. I tried my very best to support and distract her, but I don't know how well that worked. Of course she's questioning everything and doubting herself.

They've continued their text exchange. It's hard to say how she feels about it but she did let him off the hook. If they can get it things figured out I'm sure that she still wants to meet him.

[Pufferfish]

How terribly unfortunate. It sounded almost identical to how my wife's adventure began when she was meeting her first guy for the first meet. We went shopping a couple days before. Went to where they were going to meet the next day. I groomed and prepped her, etc. According to things I read on this site I did warn her that a lot of guys were flakes and he might not have shown up. I warned her both on this date and the day they were actually going to meet in the hotel. So she was expecting that he might not have shown. But, I'm not sure she would have handled it very well if her first guy was indeed a flake like that. Guys like this are a mindfuck, and I'm sorry she went through that. I don't know why those guys exist or what they get out of it, let alone how there are so many of them. She should just cut ties, because guys like this aren't that uncommon. And they might seem persistent and sincere on text or email, but this is the interaction they are after, he'll never actually show up for real. This communication is all he wants.

[Seekingmore12]

Wow, that really bites on a number of levels….my two cents is you sometimes have to kiss a bunch of frogs before you find your prince.

Kick to the curb is likely going to be the prevailing sentiment.

This being said, no excuse for non communication, literal takes two seconds, I would tell him that and see what he says…

Perhaps he is a emergency worker or something, vs a “ regular “ gig, that may explain things, otherwise his stuck at work was likely dinner with his team, maybe he will be honest with you about what happened, I think this is key.

You two continue to impress me with your efforts and I know they will pay off one day.

These experiences makes us stronger

G

[bbarnsworth]

hoping_she_will_1day, I'm very sorry your wife had to endure this guy being a flake. But, flake he is. I agree with others; it takes only a few seconds to give up dates, and this guy was very bad at that. In this lifestyle, men are a dime a dozen. Finding good men is tricky, sometimes even hard, but it is worth it to find a good one to keep around. It's not enough for your wife and another man to click. He also needs to be a person of character, who won't leave your wife hanging, who respects your wife and you. Your wife is offering him a tremendous gift. To then be a flake and treat her with such disrespect is all too telling.

My wife and I have had to deal with a couple of flakes. The first one we gave the benefit of the doubt. Then he flaked again. We'd met with him once. He was quite good looking, good conversation, and my wife was definitely interested in fucking him. After that, he turned into a flake, and he kept leading her on. We learned from that. No more. Either you mean what you say and follow through, or you're done. The second guy that tried that just got an immediate goodbye and block.

I hope the two of you find what you're looking for. It's very worth it. Very!

[Lookingforadventure]

I'm so sorry this happened to you guys. It sounded like you finally found a good guy that she was excited about..and the fact that you met in person and they kissed was such a good sign. I think you could give him one more chance, but temper your expectations. If he got cold feet once, he might again. If you want to be really bold, you could ask if there was a reason (other than work) that he got nervous. Maybe he would be open to talking about it.

In the meantime, a big hug from me to Mrs. Curious.