D+D wrote: Do you have any limits? That is, do you have a limit on how long that you'll be denied your wife's pussy and have you thought about it? If so, how would you approach ending the denial? How is the c ock cage? Is it comfortable wearing it 24/7?
Sarah took the cage off two days ago even though she's been having sex with Aaron every day since Monday. We have not been fucking, but she wants my dick to be free for her to enjoy. Rather than being "spent" and exhausted after a session with Aaron, she's happy, horny and full of energy for me when I get home from work. She has always loved fellatio and she's very, very good at giving mind-blowing blowjobs. For the past few nights in bed, she's been all over me, stroking, teasing and eventually taking a load of my cum down her throat.
She has Aaron's cock for her pussy and my dick for her mouth. She can only fit the head of Aaron's cock in her mouth, but she can take my 6 inches all the way down her throat. She has the best of both cocks for her enjoyment. My dick has three people controlling it: me, of course, but also Sarah and Aaron. That's a huge turn-on for me to think about. Sarah and Aaron will use the cage often as part of our play, but Sarah's needs and wants will keep me out when she wants my dick.
This same thing happened to me last year when Aaron wanted Sarah to only take his cock inside her. It went on for over 3 months before I was allowed to fuck her again. Yes, I was thrilled to be able to fuck again, but honestly, the denial had its obvious benefits and I didn't mind at all. For me, there are many other aspects to sex, really hot sex, other than just fucking.
Also, to your question about comfort, yes, the metal cage is much more comfortable than the plastic cage. I had it on 24/7 for almost a week and that was fine, but I was ready to take it off after the week. I think it's the sort of thing that you have to gradually get used to. I could see myself in it for an extended period longer than a week, but right now Sarah wants my dick and I'm really happy with that.