Hi, Mark. I too was able to satisfy my desire to more fully experience and taste the cock of Steve, a man who was the occasional lover of S, a woman I had started dating. I learned that Steve was both well endowed and so skilled in bed that S asked if she might continue sleeping with him on occasion. She got right away that this excited me and arranged a threesome, so that I got to more fully share in the passion of their mating. I learned why Steve was special, as he was gifted with a thick, veiny cock and the skills to seriously pleasure my girlfriend. S suggested after the initial threesome that she'd be fine if I orally pleasured Steve the next time, which I did. I struggled a bit with the notion that I might be bisexual, but she was pretty cool and versed in sexual matters and said what I wanted was more of a need to show submission to a more sexually dynamic male. That insight really helped me. In time I would orally service and caress Steve's big, thick endowment both in a threesome and then privately. I learned that we were both dating online and interested in several of the same women. My awe and submission deepened over time as he successfully bedded several of the woman I also had an interest in. It was a pretty intense six months for me as, like you, my craving for his cock deepened with each new experience and revelation of his superior sexual prowess. I couldn't stop thinking about my lady friends receiving his impressive cock into their bodies. I was glad there was never even a hint or suggestion of anything other than foreplay contact between us. I was lucky enough to be rewarded with several loads of his warm, thick semen in my mouth. It was a special pleasure to receive a share of the sperm he was regularly putting into women I had dated and had not had similar success with.co-husband wrote:Sirenseeker...thank you. This is actually a very good suggestion. So far Brian has resisted the idea of having an "audience" as he put it, during their lovemaking. But in the situation you described, I know few men who would make a woman stop fondling his Cock even if her husband was in the same room watching.sirenseeker wrote:Mark,
I totally get your interest and drive to see Brian's cock; the organ that is giving your Juli more sexual pleasure than you can provide. I've shared a wife and half a dozen girlfriends with men who were my sexual superior. I too felt driven to get a visual sense of their endowment. It worked out that I was able to witness the lovemaking at least once with each of my lady friends and their lovers. My experience has been that bulls who are confident in their endowment and skills quite like showing off. The one instance where my partner's lover objected, I just talked with my girlfriend and asked if she could help with this. She arranged for the two of them to make out in front of me in the living room before heading to the bedroom. She simply unzipped him and caressed his cock, so I had a bit of a view. If I had approached her lover, he would have turned me down. Perhaps Juli would be agreeable to this simple favor as she is devoted to you.
I'm sure it's probably natural as a husband to be so curious to see the Cock that satisfies my wife. As you said..."just "to have the visual sense of their endowment".
I did get to be present last summer when we shared with an older local man., so I saw his Cock...and honestly the image is still burned into my mind. I never used to be inclined to be bi-sexual, but after sharing my wife with other men, I quickly found myself admiring their Cocks, knowing where they have been and what they have experienced with her. I was able to "service" the older man before he actually had Juli, but after he had had sex with her, I seemed to crave his Cock even more.
Mark
What may be more helpful for you is that years before, my then wife had resumed a sexual connection with Jim, her lover before our marriage. She did so with my knowledge and encouragement. I knew that they had had great sex and that he had a plus sized cock. When I said that I had a desire to witness them together, she said she would see to it and said something I'll always remember, "After all, it's the woman who's in charge of something like this." I witnessed their lovemaking on several occasions with my wife seeing to it that I did. She said that after all, I was her husband and her primary focus. I'll never forget my first sight of Jim's fully erect penis in our bedroom, jutting proudly from loins and readied for my wife. It's an image that was burned into my mind, even more than the images of their impassioned lovemaking.
Many years later, I was seeing a woman, J, more or less steadily. She had been sleeping with a neighbor off and on for a few years and was upfront about their arrangement and when we had settled in, said she would be fine to suspend his privileges. I told her that that wouldn't be necessary but I would like to see them together perhaps. She smiled and said that she would be glad to do that. She simply let her neighbor know that they could only continue sleeping together if the three of us met and I was at my ease, as I was now her boyfriend. J deftly handled him, me, and the situation. Her neighbor agreed and, as I indicated in the scenario in my post, they began to make out after a few drinks. He was a bit uncomfortable but J took his mind off anything but her. J took out his cock after a few minutes and loved on it before heading with him to her bedroom. I sensed I would not be welcome, so I cooled my heels while they made love. I did get a pretty good look at his organ and saw enough to visually confirm that he had a nice sized, hard cock as J had told me and that he did indeed have an impressively large mushroom crown. After he left, she asked if I was okay and I said I was. She giggled and said that her neighbor was agreeable to her request for the simple reason that he wanted to continue to sleep with her while dating me.
Perhaps Brian would be responsive to a similar suggestion. After all, it is Juli who is in control, however alpha he might be. There's more than a bit of truth to the old adage that the pussy makes the rules.