ErikaPeter wrote:
Your wife’s experience is similar to mine. My husband knew that I might be turned off the first time I had sex with a truly hung man if it was painful. He trained me over several months by using progressively bigger BBC dildos. The dildos were indeed a little painful the first few times, but soon I was able to accommodate them quite easily, and I found them extremely pleasurable. My husband said that he had never seen me make such facial expressions of ecstasy or loud moans as when those dildos were inside me. Also, when we have sex, he no longer penetrates me with his dick. This training prepared me well for my first time with an 8” guy. I had no fear and experienced no pain, and it was a mind-blowing experience. So, even though size is not everything, I guess that I have become a bit of a size queen, too.
I was just enjoying the fantasy, and using 8" black dildos and watching IR porn made it better. I am not sure i was so much training her as just trying to expand her horizons.
I love fucking her right after she has been stretched by something big (back then dildos, now dildos or actual big dicks). She saw how much I loved SPH, and over time she mixed in some SPH as I was fucking her. Of all the aspects of our experience, teasing me about my penis size took the longest for her to get comfortable with. I think women are conditioned early not to tease boys they like about their dicks, because it is too cruel and too personal. For most men, it is too cruel and personal, but for a lot of hubs in this lifestyle, it dramatically intensifies the experience. It took a long time for her to be comfortable teasing me about my dick, but eventually she became pretty good at it.