What cracked your wife in the end?

[1999]

Hi everyone! What cracked your wife in the end an got her to start playing?
Its been 7 years since I first told my wife, we have lots of fun these days playing, teasing and joking about it, she’s completely comfortable with it and me. But i still get plenty of…. “Youre crazy, never in a million years, you must be mad”. Etc etc
Ive given up pushing myself which I think is better. I think the only possiblity is something organic. A builder who turns up at our house to do a few days work and actively takes n interest in her. A new guy at work who catches her eye and asks for her phone number. I feel sure this would crack her.

This is almost my exact situation. Wife knows it turns me on and we talk about it and roleplay at times, but I don’t actively try and engineer something for her. I think I’ve done enough groundwork over the years - telling her it would be OK if someone asked her out, that if and when she’s away she can have as much “fun” as she wants - that she could act on any opportunity she wants to. I think, probably like you do, that nagging her every few months to open her legs for some guy would just annoy her and mean it’s less likely to happen.

[ferrisandrews]

Our first was a combination of a previous crush and a faked affair. She still sees him to this day, albeit rarely. She still has an inclination to share less details when she's with him, which is cute because she does that when she's really into someone.

[hotfreaks]

When I first met my now wife, she was 20 and I was 24. She was with a boyfriend for awhile, and I was her side piece. She eventually broke up with him and we got together about 3 months after sneaking around.

I knew she was still fucking her BF at the time on nights when she told me I couldn't see her or contact her. And it aroused me beyond belief. The thought of her getting fucked turned me on so much.

After she broke up with him, about 3 months into us dating, I admitted that to her. She was hesitant, non judgemental, and asked questions. The usual you hear from other couples in the hotwife lifestyle. " is it cause you want to fuck other women", things like that. I assured her that was not the case and the thought of her being with other men drove me crazy.

Soon after, we were finding men to fuck her, and the rest they say is history. 20 years later, and it's still as hot, if not hotter as day one.

[Dream Weaver]

When I first met my now wife, she was 20 and I was 24. She was with a boyfriend for awhile, and I was her side piece. She eventually broke up with him and we got together about 3 months after sneaking around.

I knew she was still fucking her BF at the time on nights when she told me I couldn't see her or contact her. And it aroused me beyond belief. The thought of her getting fucked turned me on so much.

After she broke up with him, about 3 months into us dating, I admitted that to her. She was hesitant, non judgemental, and asked questions. The usual you hear from other couples in the hotwife lifestyle. " is it cause you want to fuck other women", things like that. I assured her that was not the case and the thought of her being with other men drove me crazy.

Soon after, we were finding men to fuck her, and the rest they say is history. 20 years later, and it's still as hot, if not hotter as day one.

You were the bull who cracked her then turned into the cuck. You were Superman getting into the crystal chamber, but in this case, the chamber really did zap you of your abilities.

[Just a Fantasy]

For my wife and a lot of other women it simply comes down to opportunity, whether it's an old flame, a work colleague or whoever. She knew for years that I wanted her to do and eventually she did some research on her own and told me about it later. It was our most popular dirty talk subject but she never seemed to be prepared to do it for real. I've already posted the entire story but long story short, the opportunity came along that made her ready to give it a go.

[NorthOpen]

When I asked for a divorce from my wife (lots of reasons for that), we hadn't been living together for about a year and a half. Heck we weren't even in the same city anymore. She was very angry at the time and of course took the opportunity to badmouth me to her friends, one of whom was an old high school friend (male). One thing led to another and eventually they started sleeping together. We never did finalize the divorce, and now 8 years later, we are still technically married and sleep together fairly frequently, even though we probably won't ever live together again (we're just too different about some important things like handling money, housekeeping, etc). She has come to figure out that she loves having both of us in her life in different ways... she likes sex with both of us, but with him it's just physical attraction, and with me there's physical attraction and emotional security.

[hotfreaks]

When I first met my now wife, she was 20 and I was 24. She was with a boyfriend for awhile, and I was her side piece. She eventually broke up with him and we got together about 3 months after sneaking around.

I knew she was still fucking her BF at the time on nights when she told me I couldn't see her or contact her. And it aroused me beyond belief. The thought of her getting fucked turned me on so much.

After she broke up with him, about 3 months into us dating, I admitted that to her. She was hesitant, non judgemental, and asked questions. The usual you hear from other couples in the hotwife lifestyle. " is it cause you want to fuck other women", things like that. I assured her that was not the case and the thought of her being with other men drove me crazy.

Soon after, we were finding men to fuck her, and the rest they say is history. 20 years later, and it's still as hot, if not hotter as day one.

You were the bull who cracked her then turned into the cuck. You were Superman getting into the crystal chamber, but in this case, the chamber really did zap you of your abilities.

Haha never really thought of it like that....but yes...you are correct. I like being in the crystal chamber lol....its hotter that way.

[bltn1966]

Even after a year of talking about her being a HW, Marie didn’t think I would be ok with it. One night she confessed to being sexually attracted to a guy she met at a convention . Then, worried about my feelings, she quickly took it back. She told me I have nothing to worry about though. The guy loves in a city a few hundred miles away from us. So, for her upcoming birthday, I sent her on a mommies vacation to his city. I told her along with her plane ticket, she had a hall pass to do whatever with whomever while she’s on vacation.

I still took a lot of convincing to get her to go on her solo trip. Even then she swore she wasn’t going to use her hall pass. Still wary of how it would affect us, Marie told me she didn’t see the guy while she was in vacation. Then later on she admitted to going to brunch with him BUT THAT IT!!! Then the story changed to brunch and dinner BUT THATS IT!!! It took awhile but she finally told me she had sex with him the whole weekend. She even admitted to talking to me in the phone while she was riding him. That was the start of her HW journey.

[Dutch cuckold]

There was a coworker who really wanted her and would send her dick pics. Eventually we met up for at a bar to play pool, an then we went our separate ways. I was kind of drunk and started texting him to come over from her phone. And come over he did! And boy did she get cracked.

Hello BD8280, I once pulled off something similar SammySigns tells here accept it was with a friend of mine who really fancied her. We all went out and got a bit drunk and after a night of flirting I asked them to kiss each other, you would make me so happy I told them. They kissed and played a couple of times back then and last year again.

A simple strategy like these is what can work really well in my experience if you're wife is already as far as you tell us about.