Young married guy here

[Jole30]

I totally agree. The thing is Danny is not interested in anyone's opinion, he seldom responds to posts and his updates aren't telling us very much about his and Lauren's feelings. Danny seems reluctant to ask her about her feelings for Adam .. we don't really know how Lauren even really feels about Danny, how committed is she to their marriage. For me, the worst part of Danny's update was when he said Lauren's priority is to fix things between Adam & Danny. She's still holding on to Adam and the Florida trip is just postponed. And Danny, as usual, will go along with it all. So many of us are hoping Lauren would show her love for Danny by telling Adam to F/off "you insult my husband, you're out".

[fgare]

For me, the worst part of Danny's update was when he said Lauren's priority is to fix things between Adam & Danny. She's still holding on to Adam and the Florida trip is just postponed. And Danny, as usual, will go along with it all. So many of us are hoping Lauren would show her love for Danny by telling Adam to F/off "you insult my husband, you're out".

This here, Danny. People here are cheering for you. But you need to be a Husband.

[fgare]

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[fgare]

Fuck Adam. Blast him into space. Save your marriage. Adam exists because he's never had to face the true consequences of his actions. He's always had someone to pick him up - top clean his laundry, cook his food, provide his pussy. Right now, that escape from his consequences is being facilitated by Danny.

Holy shit dude, kick that fucker out of your life. It was in no way, no how, a good idea to include him into your marriage.

[fgare]

Admin, Delete.

[Gulfcpl]

Adam is, and always be a piece of shit. 40+ years old and has NEVER had to face the consequences of his decisions. As is demonstrated by: his father taking him temporarily, and, Danny taking him semi-permanently. All while Danny acts as laundry server, cook, and butler, while also serving up his 20-+ year old wife as a fuck toy. Adam is a fucking fool, a piece of shit. He should have never been considered as a third in this relationship. He has no other reliable domicile, he is dependent - or at least a leech - on Danny for food, utilities, and sex. If Danny were wise in the world he would not seek to repair any relationship with Adam right now, and instead, save it for a future in which Danny is divorced from Lauren. Lauren, will never quit Adam if she is married to Danny. Horny fuckers around here may applaud such an outcome. But Danny and Lauren, without Adam, provides the best possible options without severe, lasting, familiar complications. By all means, Danny, find a new man for Lauren. Just don't make it a family member.

This is kinda funny. You say that Adam is a POS and a fool. He may be a POS but he’s the smartest one of the three. Free food, free laundry service, free maid service and sex whenever he wants it. Adam may be a worthless human being but he’s isn’t the dumb one in this saga.

[fgare]

Adam is, and always be a piece of shit. 40+ years old and has NEVER had to face the consequences of his decisions. As is demonstrated by: his father taking him temporarily, and, Danny taking him semi-permanently. All while Danny acts as laundry server, cook, and butler, while also serving up his 20-+ year old wife as a fuck toy. Adam is a fucking fool, a piece of shit. He should have never been considered as a third in this relationship. He has no other reliable domicile, he is dependent - or at least a leech - on Danny for food, utilities, and sex. If Danny were wise in the world he would not seek to repair any relationship with Adam right now, and instead, save it for a future in which Danny is divorced from Lauren. Lauren, will never quit Adam if she is married to Danny. Horny fuckers around here may applaud such an outcome. But Danny and Lauren, without Adam, provides the best possible options without severe, lasting, familiar complications. By all means, Danny, find a new man for Lauren. Just don't make it a family member.

This is kinda funny. You say that Adam is a POS and a fool. He may be a POS but he’s the smartest one of the three. Free food, free laundry service, free maid service and sex whenever he wants it. Adam may be a worthless human being but he’s isn’t the dumb one in this saga.

Oh I agree, he isn't but how in the world is this funny?

[fgare]

Gulfcpl, so you are one to advocate a bloke wanting to be a leech on a relationship? Is that what you are advocating?

[WarrenOldcuck]

I totally agree that Lauren should stick up for Danny and get Adam out of their lives. Unfortunately though, it seems the only reason Lauren is coming home is so that she can get Adam back in the house and resume getting her brains fucked out multiple times per day. Danny, if things do go back to how they were, you really do need to set some ground rules like no more of them sleeping together and not fucking every single day. My wish for Danny is that Lauren really does love him and is willing to let Adam go.

[Gulfcpl]

Gulfcpl, so you are one to advocate a bloke wanting to be a leech on a relationship? Is that what you are advocating?

I’m not advocating anything. Adam was resistant to getting together with Lauren in the first place but it kept getting pushed in his face so to speak. Adam doesn’t have a lot of scruples but it would be hard to resist for any young man. At the beginning of this story, it didn’t appear that Adam pushed anything at her. She was the aggressor with Danny’s blessing. Now some are being critical of Adam for being a red blooded, normal, horny guy.

I’m not defending Adam and I’m certainly not defending the other two. This all started with dishonesty on D and L’ s part and it went downhill from there. They tried to make it appear that Danny didn’t know what was going on and it backfired. Adam doesn’t understand or embrace the fact that Danny is a cuck. This is just my opinion, just like everyone else’s. I take this story at face value.

[joel68]

Danny and Lauren will be home tonight with just the two of them. I am sure they will talk a lot about everything. What they ultimately decide to do is their choice.

The thing I do wonder about is how many more people know about what went on at their house. Also about Danny’s kink. Her friend Kelly knows. Who has she told?

Lauren told Danny she was at her folks to start with. Where else did she go? He also told us she was in Boston just recently. What did she tell them?

Then there’s Adam. Who did he tell? And when he’s out at the bar with his buddies or working out at the gym where he brought Lauren, who else will know?

I just hope that the whole thing doesn’t get out to a lot of people. We all know, but we don’t know anyone to tell that knows them.

Just wondering about that as a consequence.

[MatureCouple]

Personally I was shocked that Lauren is coming home. Who takes TWO WEEKS to make a decision about their marriage? Congress moves faster than that.

Danny doesn't engage us here much anymore, and yeah, he's gotten some really bad advice, but he's also gotten some really good advice.

From Danny's initial post, his goal was to get Lauren to sleep with Adam. Back then Danny was very engaged with the group. And over a few months of slow burn it finally happened, Adam fucked Lauren. As their fucking became normalized, Danny got less engaged with us. Then the crises. He relates the 50,000 ft view, and ignores the in-depth questions about the relationships, dynamics, and feelings between all three of them. So alot of speculation, analysis, and predictions ensued to fill the void.

During the two-week separation, A & L must've met to fuck (and pillow talk gives them a chance to discuss things). It's been days since they last fucked, so don't they meet somewhere and fuck? Yes, they do. But she tells Danny they didn't to not make him feel bad and make things worse.

You don't go from fucking daily to zero. Look at her history, she snuck down to Adam's room with his father sleeping in the next room! And had to have sex in the middle of the day on the couch (getting caught by Danny)... then had to have sex with Adam's kids in the house. Yeah, I see real restraint there.

... She said she is very disappointed in me and she went to her parents house. This happened on Tuesday evening.

I also feel like this whole thread became less about sex and more about navigating various metaphorical minefields and emotions in our triad. I am not sure what is going to happen in future. I wanted to give an update so that people have some kind of closure and have a sense of where things are now.

Lauren definitely has feelings for Adam but FWIW, they have not met each other yet in person since leaving my house.

Okay, so he wants the thread to be about sex. He doesn't care to talk about the relationship dynamics or how anyone is feeling about things. As he said many times, he doesn't want to think about things, he just wants everything to happen naturally. No discussion with Lauren about what's going on with her and Adam, and definitely zero talk with Adam. No talks about the future, rules or boundaries. Lauren told Danny not to talk to Adam about things, she would take care of it. WTF? Danny has NO say in a relationship that affects his life?

Danny gets stressed out about thinking about the relationship and how he would want things to go. So he doesn't want to plan or talk about the future with Lauren. He just wants to see how things go... let things play out.

Well, we all see where that got him. All he wants is for A & L to have sex and for him to listen or get a peek. He's upset with himself that he wanted more. And I think he feels that he's to blame for the blowup because he asked for more.

I think he wants things back to where they were before the blowout. But now he knows Lauren loves Adam. It may not be as deep as the love she has for Danny, but if they continue on the old trajectory it will blossom further, and there will be at another crisis.

Adam wanted Lauren to go to Florida for a honeymoon. She wanted to go. Danny didn't seem to care much except he would miss the listening in. I think it would be extremely dangerous to Danny's marriage. Spending a few days together without Danny around, they will be able to live like crazy lovers... being naked all the time, fucking when and wherever the mood strikes, showering together, being able to hug/kiss/caress/nuzzle/grope freely. Going out in public with full PDA. They could be a couple for a few days, no hiding it, on full display. Being a couple in love. Maybe it's a trial run in Lauren's view. Maybe it's a way for Adam to show Lauren he's worthy, and break her away from Danny. At the very least it's a fuck-filled vacation. At most its a lover's honeymoon, consummating their relationship.

Danny should've protested to Lauren that this goes far beyond what they (or he) envisioned. But instead of being cancelled, it sounds like the honeymoon has been postponed. So Adam will get his shot. And when Lauren gets back from the honeymoon, Danny will ask questions, she'll get upset and leave... to think things over.

But what disturbs me still, is back last summer Danny said he was okay with Lauren leaving him, just so she is happy. Does he truly feel that way now? If Adam makes her happy, let her go. Why prolong the misery of keeping them from being a couple?

So at the beginning I said I was shocked that she came home. What I want to know, why did she come home?

And is she wanting Adam to stop by and fuck her? Maybe not the first night back, but soon.

As I see things now, Adam will probably move back in after some convincing by Lauren. Adam and Danny will keep their distance. But until he moves back in, Adam will make regular visits, and maybe even spend the night with her.

I think Lauren is trying to see if she can have a low-wattage marriage with a high-wattage sexlife with her boyfriend. Can she make a comfortable marriage work and still have her fuck-monster boyfriend? She'll try to strike a balance between the two.

I rather doubt she will want to move on from Adam. He's a known quantity, she's comfortable with him, and loves him. She wants to make this work. But what about Adam? What does he want? Can she convince him that this can work for him? What happens when he wants more? I think that is the reason for the two week separation... Adam wanted more, and she needed to figure out can she give him what he wants.

She didn't choose Danny and didn't choose Adam. She wants both. She wants her cake.

Wait! What if she made a proposal to Adam? And Adam rejected it. So that is why she went back to Danny... she and Adam couldn't couldn't agree on a plan that would work for both of them. So she goes back to Danny and tries to get things back to where they were.

My prediction? Things will go back to pretty much the way they were. Maybe with a few adjustments. A & L may start fucking in the marital bed. Danny would have easy access to listening and peeking in. Adam probably won't allow Danny to physically be there and watch, but he can peek in if Adam isn't aware (listening devices and cameras should be in place). Danny's and Adam's relationship is damaged, and it will be awkward and cold for quite awhile. Lauren may suggest that Adam read some selected information on cuckolding to educate him. Things will evolve. I don't know how they would explain the blowup to family and friends, especially if Adam moves back in. But they'll get past it. People will know something is going on in the household. But none of the three will really care. Everyone is getting what they want and need.

[Toolkeeper]

Well, I read this thread start to finish over the last day, and in a way, your wife is amazing at sex and she never seems to be having PMS or on the rag. Many of us wish for that n

[Coolcalm]

Thanks for the update Danny! No worries about it being a "tame" update. What DID Lauren say about the Florida trip and what was her "tone" like regarding coming home?

She is not dreading coming home if that is what you meant. She just mentioned that it is not the best time to go with Adam to Florida. I just took my win and didn't prod further. She apologized for leaving abruptly but she said that it was still the correct decision as she needed some time to evaluate the past 4 months.

I honestly can't recall everything but her next job (according to her) is to solve the rift between Adam and I.

Her next job should be , together with you, to sort out your relationship. Adam shouldn't be in the picture (if at all) until that is stable and clear.

Viking is absolutely right on this! Adam needs to be out of the picture!
I feel like Lauren is still trying to keep Adam close. But for HER sake, not necessarily for Danny. She wants Danny and Adam to be good so that she can keep fucking Adam, I feel.

[Coolcalm]

Adam is, and always be a piece of shit. 40+ years old and has NEVER had to face the consequences of his decisions. As is demonstrated by: his father taking him temporarily, and, Danny taking him semi-permanently. All while Danny acts as laundry server, cook, and butler, while also serving up his 20-+ year old wife as a fuck toy. Adam is a fucking fool, a piece of shit. He should have never been considered as a third in this relationship. He has no other reliable domicile, he is dependent - or at least a leech - on Danny for food, utilities, and sex. If Danny were wise in the world he would not seek to repair any relationship with Adam right now, and instead, save it for a future in which Danny is divorced from Lauren. Lauren, will never quit Adam if she is married to Danny. Horny fuckers around here may applaud such an outcome. But Danny and Lauren, without Adam, provides the best possible options without severe, lasting, familiar complications. By all means, Danny, find a new man for Lauren. Just don't make it a family member.

This is kinda funny. You say that Adam is a POS and a fool. He may be a POS but he’s the smartest one of the three. Free food, free laundry service, free maid service and sex whenever he wants it. Adam may be a worthless human being but he’s isn’t the dumb one in this saga.

I disagree. If Adam were really smart then he wouldn’t have blown up at Danny. Adam “LUCKED ” into this thing and only held on to as long as nobody laid down any boundaries. It’s
“The Peter Principle “ (no pun intended) and this shows he wasn’t smart enough to hold on to the situation.

[leander99]

I was hoping for a tame update.
Happy that that's what we got

[Mkliny442015]

Gulfcpl, so you are one to advocate a bloke wanting to be a leech on a relationship? Is that what you are advocating?

I’m not advocating anything. Adam was resistant to getting together with Lauren in the first place but it kept getting pushed in his face so to speak. Adam doesn’t have a lot of scruples but it would be hard to resist for any young man. At the beginning of this story, it didn’t appear that Adam pushed anything at her. She was the aggressor with Danny’s blessing. Now some are being critical of Adam for being a red blooded, normal, horny guy.

I’m not defending Adam and I’m certainly not defending the other two. This all started with dishonesty on D and L’ s part and it went downhill from there. They tried to make it appear that Danny didn’t know what was going on and it backfired. Adam doesn’t understand or embrace the fact that Danny is a cuck. This is just my opinion, just like everyone else’s. I take this story at face value.

Exactly this, thank you! All Adams faults didn’t bother them when he served as an unsuspecting pawn in their fantasy but as soon as he reacts like a human he is a piece of shit and deadbeat. This is why if you want delve into this lifestyle you don’t get your wife’s cherry popped by someone you will have to see the rest of your life like a family member.

[coastalkid]

I was hoping for a tame update.
Happy that that's what we got

[ppisbest5]

Hi Danny, thanks for the update. I really hope things go on more smoothly from here on out whichever way they go and I hope you take care of your mental health within all this. I know you don't tell us indepth about the non -sexual part of this whole ordeal but as you can see from a literal fuck toh of speculation....

We'd love to hear a lot more of it and about your feelings, thoughts and how you see things going forward.

Also to my fellow commenters, one of you said a little while ago that this is giving off some serious curiousdave vibes, since I read this I can't shake off that thought every time I open this thread. In some ways this one is almost more hurtful to read due to a lack of intricate information between the updates. I really hope it doesn't end up that way in any way.

Peace

[wannabecUKold]

…her next job (according to her) is to solve the rift between Adam and I.

Danny, thanks for your updates.

The above quote is intriguing, that Lauren considers it her business to mend the rift between Adam and you.

It seems that Adam does not intend coming back since he has cleared his stuff out. He sees he has caused a rift with you. He must feel that there is no way that he can stay in your house as before. Presumably when he came round, the conversation was still strained.

Lauren has obviously been in touch with Adam, although we must believe that she has not seen him to date.
She would appear to want to keep her relationship with Adam going.

Perhaps Lauren wants to engineer that Adam does come back, for obvious reasons. I could see her trying to force you to let Adam back, with ultimatums that she would leave otherwise.

But even if she persuaded you to let him back (which might not be too difficult), it may be that Adam won’t do it. Lauren would have to live with that. Or else it would be the trigger for a break up.

It would be great to have an update of how things went when she came back yesterday.

[readyy2009]

…her next job (according to her) is to solve the rift between Adam and I.

But even if she persuaded you to let him back (which might not be too difficult), it may be that Adam won’t do it. Lauren would have to live with that. Or else it would be the trigger for a break up.

If this is the case I feel it is your opportunity to get a little control back by saying no...even if not forever at least for now...This will let her know you are not going to risk your marriage for the game...If you don't I can't see this ending well for you

[Luvelixer]

I think if he starts making ultimatums then that will be a problem. They should discuss what is best for their relationship.

[Gearup]

It would be nice to get an update sooner than next weekend given that so much likely has transpired in the last 48 hours

[joel68]

Gear,

Don’t hold your breath. Over the recent weeks and developments a whole lot of guys on here asked a myriad of questions. Danny answered a small percentage of them. And yeah, Lauren was supposed to return home last night, presumably from Boston. What she was doing there, how she got there, and how long she was there we don’t know.

Did she fly there? How long was she at her parents’ house? Where else did she go? Did she talk to Adam? Did she buy a burner to text him without Danny knowing? Did she meet Adam at all? Did he fuck her?

Danny said the Florida trip is off or on hold. We are not sure. Is she still planning on going later on? Does Lauren want Adam to move back in? And if so, will he?

And who else knows about all of this. Lauren’s parents? Boston friends? Adam’s gym buddies? Or his bar buddies?

I doubt we will ever know about any of this. Originally Danny was interested in sharing a lot on the board. Now I believe it’s kind of an afterthought these days.

I will keep checking the board regularly but I won’t be surprised if there are only posts from all of us who are interested. Stay tuned. Maybe he will be back. But when he does, don’t be disappointed if it’s not that informative. Just sayin’.

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

I agree joel68. Danny isn't that informative of a poster. Not like Ky-da, and he was run off the site by a couple negative posters. I hope Danny doesn't get run off by some of the negative posters on this thread.