It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[DoctorLuv]

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[DoctorLuv]

If I fathered a child by another mans wife, I certainly wouldn’t make that known to the child and potentially wreck their psyche, teen or not.

I think there are many ways and reasons to find out that w is not the bio dad...So many DNA sites or even medical reasons it would need to be disclosed...Even if the chance of that child finding out the truth was slim it is still selfish...even if all 3 were on board with the decision

An example from my family. One of my cousins was contacted by a women who had done a DNA and found a match to some in our family but no matches to her deceased father's family. Turned out that one of our uncles had been a teacher of her mother. He had fathered her. Thankfully, the uncle is deceased and he and his wife had no children together. My "new cousin" was devastated. She eventually forgave her mother but doesn't think their relationship will ever be the same.My aunt has tossed every item that reminds her of her husband.
Fun times.

Yep. That's just modern times. People are going to find out, and if by some chance they don' t care about their genealogy, somebody in the family will find out, maybe years or decades later. Heck, even when it seemed safe, years ago, tech was coming that exposes everybody.

And the chances of the child finding out are the opposite of slim. It is likely. Even in current culture, people are interested in genealogy or health risks and will find out using DNA. I'll bet in the not super distant future, it will be as mandatory as finger prints and biometric scans (at one time people were horrified to think those would be mandatory but anybody getting a passport, visa, or government ID now must submit). Unobtrusive DNA tests will probably be developed for even better ID control, reducing health care costs, and reducing crime. Lucky them.

When I was in med school, the men were solicited to be sperm donors. At the time, I could use the money leading me to give dozens of sperm samples. It turns out there was a market for med student sperm particularly if the student was 6 ft tall, had played collegiate sports, had no family history of inheritable diseases, and had a family history of longevity. With the advent of DNA genealogy, I’ve wondered if anyone would contact me to meet their biological dad. So far that hasn’t happened.

[Jujube]

You guys are right. I didn’t even think about the genealogy craze eventually rooting something like that out. I don’t find it “highly likely” however, but it’s definitely possible. W and Lana are in a conundrum currently, and I’m really curious about how they resolve it.

[monraccoon]

the enjoyment of erotic energies exchanged among consensual parties in no way supersedes the right to be free from unnecessary trauma inflicted by this situation upon the one person involved who can not give consent: the child conceived.

[Maddie_Hippychick]

Imagine a scenario where Connor exerts parental rights. That’s a lifetime of entanglement that could affect everyone’s futures. It could literally prevent W and Lana from relocating their family. It could affect custody, medical decisions, school choices, birthdays and holidays, vacations, everything.

[Roadtripking]

I hate to jump a band wagon, but what about the close relatives, one set of grandparents think it’s their son’s child, another set of grandparents never know they have a grandchild. The potential issues with inheritance loss or improperly gained. Or the future medical needs of the child, sorry W your not a biological match to your child could come back to haunt you later on.

Not to even mention that they let their lifestyle out of the bag and many people in their inner circle know about it. Could the child face public repercussions from their peers growing up? Mental cruelty in today’s society for children is tough enough but adding a male stripper sperm donor, yeah that could get ugly.

This world is full of pitfalls for our children and a child even if it is “loved” at home still doesn’t need unnecessary possible time bombs thrown into the mix.

But that is my personal opinion and I could be 100% wrong. The love L and W share might be enough to overcome any and all issues that could arise from W not being the actual biological father of their second child.

[jeffx]

I honestly hate that I loved it, and she jerked me off while having me admit that I liked that she legitimately cheated on me.

Some women have a CNC/Rape fetish, it turns them on, they like to role play it, but they don't want to be raped at all. If they were they'd react the same as any other rape victim, possibly worse because they wouldn't be 100% sure they hated it.

You said you hate that she cheated on you, while admitting it turned you on.
You have a cuck fetish, so it turns you on, but you've literally said you hated it.

You really need to have a conversation with Lana and tell her that if she got pregnant to another man, that it's over.
You need to tell her the games, etc, are fun, but reality is different and you don't want to raise another man's child if it was something planned.

Accidents may happen and you wouldn't leave her over an accident, but right now you both know you want another child and if she fell pregnant to him, it wouldn't be an accident, it would be on purpose and that's a deal breaker.

Personally, this was real cheating, not the fake "3 days" cheating, which you both agreed on, which made you a part of the fun.

This cheating didn't involve you, you got none of the enjoyment and it shows a clear lack of respect for you. She let you think that you both came to the decision to end things with him, she didn't need to do it that way, she could have told you that she decided to end things on her own, instead she let you think you were part of that decision.

We obviously have a very limited understanding of things, but it really comes across like she doesn't respect you at all and you also don't trust her anymore, because you're worried that she'll actually get pregnant to him on purpose.

So what if it gets you horny, have a wank, then come back to the conversation.

[BallSpanking]

Hi w770, hope you can update us soon.
By the sounds of it, Conner holds the power in this triangle.
Lana is unable or unwilling to stop seeing him.
If she follows the plan she will be off BC soon.
By then, she will be as much Conner's as she is yours, if not more.
If she gets pregnant, it will most likely be his baby, so get ready if they aren't stopping.
My worry is what happens then.
Will he be running Lana's life for the next decade?

[Bart77]

If you think Lana can’t control herself now, wait until you see her when she’s off birth control and ovulating.

[Bart77]

If/when Conner plants his seed in Lana, W and Lana will most likely weather the store, primarily because W is a loyal, stand-up guy who will do what he can to keep the family intact. That being said, it’s still a bad idea.

[Bart77]

He’s not going to be running anyone’s life. If this goes down, Conner will knock her up, stick around for a bit - maybe longer - to enjoy the thrill of seeing Lana’s body change as his baby grows inside of her. This will be the biggest notch in his belt as an alpha male and, as an added bonus, he’ll enjoy the power and humiliation dynamic he’ll have going on with W as he shares his thoughts and feelings with W about how much he enjoyed fucking a baby into his wife. He’ll likely talk to W like they’re old buddies talking about how great Lana looks with her belly swelling, how much he loves fucking her with her big, milk-filled tits getting bigger by the day, etc. The interactions will be meant to humiliate W and W will be dealing with more gut-wrenching mixed emotions - he’ll be turned on like never before yet hating it at the same time; wildly aroused 24 hours a day as he sees his wife change daily as her lover’s child grows inside of her, yet tormented by it. But Conner will eventually move on. Lana will be devastated because she will have way more invested in him emotionally and physically, and W - as usual - is going to be the rock that manages to eventually keep everything together, despite how messy and extraordinarily difficult the whole thing will be.

[sandy691196]

This has tragedy written all over the wall.

W is not that kinda man. The sexual arousal alone IS NOT life.
Beyond the arousal he is not all OK with what's going on let alone have true acceptance for his child bring born from a stripper's sperm.

This will destroy their family comprehensively.
There are ways to treat addiction- any addiction. What's happening here is just a negative, dangerous junkie-fix thing..

[mooncucky]

Been in a similar situation. It’s not easy to make the right decisions when you’re turned on. We definitely didn’t, we survived but not without some big scars.

[edgedndenied]

We all know Lana is a total cheater and no matter what she says she will not stop. This is the same pattern she had when cheating with Adam. I am surprised W has not put in some hidden cameras in the house to monitor Lana's activities. He would be justified doing this since she is breaking the rules and boundaries that they have set. I remember that they had a doggy cam set up for awhile. This way he could enjoy watching her cheat. the camera also may give W a visual of the conception of Lana's next child

[walter2000uk]

We all need an update as to the situation now, please?
It is fine for Connor to keep fucking Lana,BUT not on the days that Lana could become pregnant.
During THESE days Lana should have only her husband fuck her, and abstain from the craving for Connor to keep be fucking her.
So, let's hear what is happening lately?

[BallSpanking]

I suppose it tracks with the theme of today and how I've been feeling lately which is that I hate that the thought of that turns me on.

... Of course it turns you on, brother. You love her, and want to see her happy.

[AZPainter]

There is something else I haven't seen mentioned here. Raising a second child as your own but from another father has another risk that isn't noticed in people, but can be passed down through the genes. I am NOT a doctor by any stretch of the imagination, but I have been surrounded by doctors in my mothers side of the family.A pathologist, Primary care and a specialist in problems like Multiple sclerosis and the like. I remember listening to talk about genes that can be passed down through generations and even skipping a generation at times that can become serious medical issues for a a child sometime during their life. Having different father or mother than other siblings makes this issue more possible. In many cases parentage must be tracked down to discover the possible cause.

Some small issues can be seen, like a red headed child in a family with all dark brown or black hair. In my own family everyone is six feet or more with males. Women rend to be taller than average as well. I am 5' 8 barely with thick socks on. Male and shortest person in the family. Where did that come from. These are not serious differences, but just visible differences all can see. The serious ones are never noticed until a problem arises. Something W and Lana definitely need to think about. As the saying goes, "it's all fun and games until someone loses an eye."

[Dream Weaver]

There is something else I haven't seen mentioned here. Raising a second child as your own but from another father has another risk that isn't noticed in people, but can be passed down through the genes. I am NOT a doctor by any stretch of the imagination, but I have been surrounded by doctors in my mothers side of the family.A pathologist, Primary care and a specialist in problems like Multiple sclerosis and the like. I remember listening to talk about genes that can be passed down through generations and even skipping a generation at times that can become serious medical issues for a a child sometime during their life. Having different father or mother than other siblings makes this issue more possible. In many cases parentage must be tracked down to discover the possible cause.

Some small issues can be seen, like a red headed child in a family with all dark brown or black hair. In my own family everyone is six feet or more with males. Women rend to be taller than average as well. I am 5' 8 barely with thick socks on. Male and shortest person in the family. Where did that come from. These are not serious differences, but just visible differences all can see. The serious ones are never noticed until a problem arises. Something W and Lana definitely need to think about. As the saying goes, "it's all fun and games until someone loses an eye."

It's something to think about, but who's not to say that OP is the one with the sickly genes and Connor isn't. ¯\\(ツ)/¯

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

There is a red line that must never be crossed. It's when the creation of life is on the horizon. Keep the baby between the father and the mother. Once she's pregnant Connor can fuck her all he wants. Do not cross this line. Do not choose momentary excitement over a lifetime of commitment.

[ColoCuck75]

Without getting too far into it - Lana and Conner have been seeing each other without my knowledge. We had the standing rule of the 3 days, where she was free to do what she wanted and "cheat" but with the understanding that she would tell me about everything no more than 3 days. After I confronted her, her twisted logic was that she believed that it would turn me on when I would eventually find out.

The confusing, and perhaps hurtful part of it was that she was right and that in our hardest conversation about her encounters with Conner, she reached down my pants and my erection confirmed what she had thought. I honestly hate that I loved it, and she jerked me off while having me admit that I liked that she legitimately cheated on me.

But when the moment subsided, we talked about it more and we are basically in a stalemate. She hates that she can't resist him, I hate how much it turns me on. She confessed that the sex seemed better when it was behind my back as opposed to having a "proper" bull/cuckold arrangement and I frustratingly confessed that I agreed with her. But we don't know how this fits into our plans for another kid as she will soon be off any form of birth control but if Conner should feel the desire to be between her legs again in that window of time, she can't say with certainty that she would be able to say no. So in a way, we're in an uncomfortable place with the uncertainty of things.

W,

Hopefully you've both continued to talk your way through this new wrinkle. My wife did something similar and let two different guys try to knock her up. One was a random hung black guy we met online. The other was my best friend who she'd been sleeping with a year before we got married so many years ago.

Now I'm on the crazier side of having hoped she would let someone else knock her up. There was never any cheating as anyone she ever hooked up with I was always told about. I would have enjoyed my wife doing something like that too much.

• Didn't you have a full on conversation with him about the cuckold, bull dynamic between you three?

• Clearly I missed that you both said it was over with her having sex with him prior to this incident. What did she say and agree to, which obviously he pulled her back in. ??

• Did she tell you who came up with or how their sexual relationship went from an open sex to a cheating situation?

• The one big question everyone is asking. How are you doing now?

Here's hoping things are going OK even if it's a stalemate for now.

[hornedhubby]

Amid the turmoil, would it not make sense for Lana to stay on birth control until her lust for Connor runs its course, or he loses interest?

[cpmici+]

Good evening, I hope everything goes well between you and the two lovers.
I just have a question for you: how does Conner manage his work commitments (stripper) with your wife, Lana?
Thanks... keep us updated, your longtime readers.

[wannabecUKold]

I sense that with Conner it would be very foolish to let Lana take the risk of impregnation. He surely goes from woman to woman, given the job he does. A son of his might be good looking and well endowed, which would be a plus. But if he drops Lana like a stone, she will be pissed off carrying his baby. I don’t sense that there is much of a permanent bond between them. Not that you want him encroaching on your family.
For you to agree to taking the chance, your attitude for you and Lana should be to positively seek for him to get her pregnant in a random competition with you. Or in an exclusive by him alone. Either way make it expressly part of the consent that he will seek to impregnate her. What you must avoid is being upset if he does breed her. Make it clear that you welcome it. On that basis, you will welcome bringing up the child as your own, as do thousands of infertile men who accept artificial insemination of their wives.

[ColoCuck75]

We were planning on the end of the year give or take a few weeks. So basically any day now.

We made love last night and it was intense in a different sort of way. Like we both knew that we had just gone through a really emotional rough patch, rife with crying and confusion, and maybe even some anger. For the most part, we generally are pretty tame and sweet during out love making but last night was much more aggressive and she answered any questions I had as I thrusted into her. Questions such as "what else did you do with him that you don't with me?" "He loves fucking me while I wear my black heels." I thrusted harder into her, taking my humiliation out on her pussy. "What else did he make you do behind my back?" "He would tell me what bra and panties to wear every day...." I pounded her harder still. "Oh yeah? What else?" And this one really drove the knife in deep. "He made love to me." "what?" "He would make love to me, even when I told him to fuck me." "was it good?" "it was the best."

It was the closest I've come to making her cum via intercourse in years, as I went as hard as I could eventually reaching my own orgasm, with her telling me how I was Conner's cuck. It was humiliating and I hated and loved it at the same time.

W,

While she's telling you she wants you to be the biological father. Your lovely wife has flipped an open cuckold relationship into a true cuckold relationship with you.

1. Would you be turned on if your wife doesn't tell you about them wanting to get her knocked up, but starts having you wear condoms now until the end of the year? She never says the obvious part out loud.

2. Have you and Conner talked since you thought they were over?

3. Did you get hard knowing she was sending him nudes photos on your anniversary? I've had my wife sleep with my best friend on ours. It's super naughty knowing your wife is thinking of someone else that day.

4. Has she shared how far she might go because of her lust?


I see this going one of three directions right now. Your hot wife gets knocked up by him and he eventually leaves. Or he stays and maybe they try for one more or not and he keeps having her without you ever being told anything openly. Last one is he decides she's perfect and he convinces her to cut you off sexually to only be with him going forward. Especially if he's making love to her when she's asking him to fuck her hard.

It sounds like you're lust is hoping for either of the last two, while your brain is hoping worst case he just leaves. I know the conflict you are having. But it sounds like she knows what your naughty side and Lana's wants to happen.

Now you both need to be open and honest about where you are along with where things could truly end up going to soon.


I hope you are doing OK. Yes some of us are cheering you on. While others say don't do it. The journey is yours to take and thank you for sharing along the way. Enjoy it either way and all of us are here to talk if you need someone.

[coastalkid]

Hang in there!