It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[GuruTravelMonkey]

Love is more like a tree than a pizza. It does not divide a finite quantity, but grows and branches.
I hope you love one another like that.
If so, you’ll be okay.

[Regit]

Hoe does Conner feel about making Lana pregnant? I can imagine it will boost his ego claiming her woomb, but he doesn't seem to be the type to commit to the responsibility as a father. Either way he will not stand down if she stops with birthcontrol.

[Veryaware]

I think Lana and W are pushing the limits to the extreme. At the limit, before failure, there exists greatness. The epitome of their lust and love exists at the limit. They are boldly pushing their limits, and for that I am envious. Most people, the vast majority of people never experience a small fraction of what they have.

Is it easy, is it safe? No. Nothing truly great is easy.

I hope they emerge from that metaphorical tube on the biggest wave, unscathed and exhilarated! And I also hope they know when it's time to paddle to shore and reflect on the experience as they happily grow old together.

[Midnight Joker]

I think it’s safe to say you’re not alone - it’s very intense and the ultimate cuck rush. When is she coming off birth control?

We were planning on the end of the year give or take a few weeks. So basically any day now.

Now that the cat’s out of bag, has she shared the details of their hook ups? Had Conner been escalating his control over her such as the instance of your anniversary?

At least she hasn’t been purging her messages with him.

We made love last night and it was intense in a different sort of way. Like we both knew that we had just gone through a really emotional rough patch, rife with crying and confusion, and maybe even some anger. For the most part, we generally are pretty tame and sweet during out love making but last night was much more aggressive and she answered any questions I had as I thrusted into her. Questions such as "what else did you do with him that you don't with me?" "He loves fucking me while I wear my black heels." I thrusted harder into her, taking my humiliation out on her pussy. "What else did he make you do behind my back?" "He would tell me what bra and panties to wear every day...." I pounded her harder still. "Oh yeah? What else?" And this one really drove the knife in deep. "He made love to me." "what?" "He would make love to me, even when I told him to fuck me." "was it good?" "it was the best."

It was the closest I've come to making her cum via intercourse in years, as I went as hard as I could eventually reaching my own orgasm, with her telling me how I was Conner's cuck. It was humiliating and I hated and loved it at the same time.

You really need to draw the line when it comes to protection..or even better abstinence...with Connor while you're trying for a second baby. History has already shown that she will let her lover cum in her now matter what, or did you forget that ordeal? Bottom line is that you need to control the situation or be prepared to raise another man's child. You do not want that.

Once she goes off B/C you need to keep him away from her. She needs a month free of the B/C too, to get the hormones ready. Let her know that once she is pregnant with your child she can have all the sex she wants with him, but not until then.

I'm going to repeat myself...you can't trust her to abstain or make rational choices. You need to set a firm hard line that you will not raise his child if she purposely goes off and fucks him while you're trying to have a baby with her. Big difference between an accidentally pregnancy and one where she's rolling the dice...or more likely purposely trying to have his baby.

[readyy2009]

It's all fun and games until...I understand the kink and lust of all this but you potentially might be allowing your wife to be impregnated by another man and then raising it as your own and on the surface that may seem noble but eventually that child will find out or be told...They will also probably find out that you and Lana knew who the bio father was never told him/her...This is very unfair of to knowingly bring a child into the world under these circumstances...If Connor is told of the child and chooses to be in his/her life that creates questions for your oldest child? Cuck or no cuck I feel you will regret not shutting this down...I also believe Lana has more willpower than she lets on or at least I hope she does because beyond the kinky story I actually could feel the bond you two have/had by the words you typed

[parmaham55]

In amongst all the deep angst and pain, W770, have you been brave enough to ask Lana for any details of these secret sessions?
For example, has he regularly been ass-fucking her?
Is he loyal and faithful to her, despite doubtless offers elsewhere in his job?
Is Lana possessive and jealous over him?

[veub]

It's all fun and games until...I understand the kink and lust of all this but you potentially might be allowing your wife to be impregnated by another man and then raising it as your own and on the surface that may seem noble but eventually that child will find out or be told...They will also probably find out that you and Lana knew who the bio father was never told him/her...This is very unfair of to knowingly bring a child into the world under these circumstances...If Connor is told of the child and chooses to be in his/her life that creates questions for your oldest child? Cuck or no cuck I feel you will regret not shutting this down...I also believe Lana has more willpower than she lets on or at least I hope she does because beyond the kinky story I actually could feel the bond you two have/had by the words you typed

You're correct that the child will find out that Connor is the biological father. Whatever W decides to do and whatever promises Lana makes, the past shows that she will lie and cheat. She can promise that she will cut off Connor but why would anyone believe what she says. Given her track record, there is probably less than a 10% chance that the child will be W's,
Whether Connor wants to be in the child to be in his life or not, the child will definitely want to have contact with his/her father and possibly his family. The child may love W but there will be anger - I've seen that many times in dealing with situations concerning adopted children whose parentage has been hidden from them. Also, how much respect will the child have for him, or Lana, after finding out the truth - that he/she was conceived to satisfy a fetish, something I suspect that Lana and Connor will relish telling the truth about.
There is also the financial issue: since he is in NJ should Lana decide to drop him at some time in the future he will be on the hook for child support and the cost of college for the kid.

[veub]

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[veub]

Triple post.

[GuruTravelMonkey]

Many opinions.

Many choices.

No one “right” path.

Just the path you and she want, the path you have the courage and desire to walk—the path that gives her what she really wants, the path that makes you happy in the end, that leads to your kids having a loving, supportive network to grow up within.

It’s a tumultuous ride—and a rewarding one. What a full life you live—the road less traveled.

You all do YOU. Make your choices, stand by them, embrace them.
Best of luck, Lucky cuck!

[GuruTravelMonkey]

I wonder.
If you were calm. If you were at peace with whatever comes. If you could assure her of that. If you could find your zen.
How would she wish to proceed?
Cuz that’s the peak of all this—a woman set free to have exactly what she wants, exactly what she could get if she had nothing but undying love and loyalty from her cuck hubby.
Full realization is rare.

[Bart77]

Guys, Lana has been given the greenlight. She admits she can’t control herself and would likely, ie, DEFINITELY let Conner seed her while she’s ovulating (which, as we know, is also when she’ll be the horniest and literally aching for his cock). Upon admitting THAT, W admitted he would be turned on by this. In turn, W promised that should…sorry, WHEN Lana gets knocked up by Conner, that W will step up and raise the child as his own (which is 100% the right thing to do). To all of you bashing Lana for being a “cheater, liar, etc”, you’re not seeing what’s been going on the last 3 years. W might outwardly declare what SOUNDS like reasonable, rational, and common sense rules and boundaries, but internally it’s a different story - this entire thing has gotten out of control but the thought of having a cock crazy, slut wife who can’t even promise NOT to get pregnant by her lover, is wildly erotic, mind blowing, intoxicating and, yes, ADDICTIVE.

[veub]

Guys, Lana has been given the greenlight. She admits she can’t control herself and would likely, ie, DEFINITELY let Conner seed her while she’s ovulating (which, as we know, is also when she’ll be the horniest and literally aching for his cock). Upon admitting THAT, W admitted he would be turned on by this. In turn, W promised that should…sorry, WHEN Lana gets knocked up by Conner, that W will step up and raise the child as his own (which is 100% the right thing to do). To all of you bashing Lana for being a “cheater, liar, etc”, you’re not seeing what’s been going on the last 3 years. W might outwardly declare what SOUNDS like reasonable, rational, and common sense rules and boundaries, but internally it’s a different story - this entire thing has gotten out of control but the thought of having a cock crazy, slut wife who can’t even promise NOT to get pregnant by her lover, is wildly erotic, mind blowing, intoxicating and, yes, ADDICTIVE.

I understand that W gets turned on by the cheating and lying. I can't understand why anyone would do this to a child who definitely will suffer because of these decisions.

[readyy2009]

Guys, Lana has been given the greenlight. She admits she can’t control herself and would likely, ie, DEFINITELY let Conner seed her while she’s ovulating (which, as we know, is also when she’ll be the horniest and literally aching for his cock). Upon admitting THAT, W admitted he would be turned on by this. In turn, W promised that should…sorry, WHEN Lana gets knocked up by Conner, that W will step up and raise the child as his own (which is 100% the right thing to do). To all of you bashing Lana for being a “cheater, liar, etc”, you’re not seeing what’s been going on the last 3 years. W might outwardly declare what SOUNDS like reasonable, rational, and common sense rules and boundaries, but internally it’s a different story - this entire thing has gotten out of control but the thought of having a cock crazy, slut wife who can’t even promise NOT to get pregnant by her lover, is wildly erotic, mind blowing, intoxicating and, yes, ADDICTIVE.

I understand that W gets turned on by the cheating and lying. I can't understand why anyone would do this to a child who definitely will suffer because of these decisions.

I agree...Do whatever you want with your life but this is involving another life with no choice in the decision...The "Adults" in the room are the ones making the decision...Lana allowing herself to get pregnant by Connor would be selfish and impact the nice family she supposedly cherishes

[monraccoon]

do you think that if you asked Lana, at a moment when she is inclined to answer most honestly, is she in love with Connor?, do you think (fear) that she will answer in the affirmative?
for someone who gets off on cuckolding other men, for whom the ego stroke of conquering the other man’s woman, his partner, his wife, his child’s mother, is so sweet, would he not fantasize about, maybe pursue, the ultimate cucking, getting the good wife to willingly and with intention carry her lover’s child?
of all the orgasmic experiences a woman can manifest, isn’t the highest and most erotic, the highest taboo, to willingly open her womb to another man?
does this turn you on more than how much it destroys you?

[setv4]

I personally think that you both should leave the 'baby making' part of your marriage to just Lana and You. Why create possible issues in the future for You, Lana and possibly your future children.
Both of you should use your brain for those choices, & not your crotches. Enjoy that very crazy hot sexlife that your both have with others. Just don't let that include Conner, or any other one of Lana's lovers, have the option to get her pregnant, as that option should only be forfilled by You.

But of course that is only my opinion, as it is up to you guys to make the decision that is right for you both.

[readyy2009]

The more I read w's responses it looks like pure cheating...Does Lana not have any remorse about the anniversary pics? What I used to look at as sacred between you two now looks like a sham...I know it turns you on but I feel really bad for the situation you are...Lifestyle or no lifestyle a marriage without trust is hell

[Jujube]

I think Lana in no uncertain terms has told W that she is willing to “throw the dice” as to the fathering of her child. I think she paid lip service to giving Conner up just so she could turn around and cheat on W, which gets them so excited. Lana is so caught up in Conner’s mystique that there’s no way she’s giving him up. W is indeed “Conner’s cuck, and Conner calls all the shots. This whole, real cheating hurts W, but turns him on immensely- that total loss of control when it comes to his wife. Maybe W ought to talk to Conner about laying low in December-at least until W knocks Lana up. I think concerns for the child is overblown, as W and Lana will be on the birth certificate. Lana, in the event Conner gets her pregnant, must impress upon him that he relinquish all rights, which I’m positive he will do. Everybody’s right, this is the ultimate cuckold “fork in the road.”

[veub]

I think Lana in no uncertain terms has told W that she is willing to “throw the dice” as to the fathering of her child. I think she paid lip service to giving Conner up just so she could turn around and cheat on W, which gets them so excited. Lana is so caught up in Conner’s mystique that there’s no way she’s giving him up. W is indeed “Conner’s cuck, and Conner calls all the shots. This whole, real cheating hurts W, but turns him on immensely- that total loss of control when it comes to his wife. Maybe W ought to talk to Conner about laying low in December-at least until W knocks Lana up. I think concerns for the child is overblown, as W and Lana will be on the birth certificate. Lana, in the event Conner gets her pregnant, must impress upon him that he relinquish all rights, which I’m positive he will do. Everybody’s right, this is the ultimate cuckold “fork in the road.”

There's no dice throwing. If she keeps fucking Conner its because she wants him to knock her up.

It doesn't matter whether W's name is on the birth certificate or if Conner gives up any rights. They can lie to the child about the circumstances of its birth all they want. The reality is that the child will learn of its parentage and will seek, at a minimum, some contact with its actual father. Do you really think that when that happens that Conner won't enjoy telling the tale of how he got Lana pregnant? That ignores the possibility that Conner will decide as the child grows to initiate that contact: he may not be interested in changing diapers but may have a different opinion when the child is a teen.

[Rogueuser1]

This is consistent with her previous behavior so hopefully it wasn't a total surprise even though I am sorry you found out the way you did. Hopefully you guys can find the right balance between her need to cheat and your desire to be involved.

Has she told you the details of what they have been up to at all? Are they doing it at your place or somewhere else?

[Jujube]

If I fathered a child by another mans wife, I certainly wouldn’t make that known to the child and potentially wreck their psyche, teen or not.

[readyy2009]

If I fathered a child by another mans wife, I certainly wouldn’t make that known to the child and potentially wreck their psyche, teen or not.

I think there are many ways and reasons to find out that w is not the bio dad...So many DNA sites or even medical reasons it would need to be disclosed...Even if the chance of that child finding out the truth was slim it is still selfish...even if all 3 were on board with the decision

[veub]

If I fathered a child by another mans wife, I certainly wouldn’t make that known to the child and potentially wreck their psyche, teen or not.

I think there are many ways and reasons to find out that w is not the bio dad...So many DNA sites or even medical reasons it would need to be disclosed...Even if the chance of that child finding out the truth was slim it is still selfish...even if all 3 were on board with the decision

An example from my family. One of my cousins was contacted by a women who had done a DNA and found a match to some in our family but no matches to her deceased father's family. Turned out that one of our uncles had been a teacher of her mother. He had fathered her. Thankfully, the uncle is deceased and he and his wife had no children together. My "new cousin" was devastated. She eventually forgave her mother but doesn't think their relationship will ever be the same.My aunt has tossed every item that reminds her of her husband.
Fun times.

[Dream Weaver]

If I fathered a child by another mans wife, I certainly wouldn’t make that known to the child and potentially wreck their psyche, teen or not.

I think there are many ways and reasons to find out that w is not the bio dad...So many DNA sites or even medical reasons it would need to be disclosed...Even if the chance of that child finding out the truth was slim it is still selfish...even if all 3 were on board with the decision

An example from my family. One of my cousins was contacted by a women who had done a DNA and found a match to some in our family but no matches to her deceased father's family. Turned out that one of our uncles had been a teacher of her mother. He had fathered her. Thankfully, the uncle is deceased and he and his wife had no children together. My "new cousin" was devastated. She eventually forgave her mother but doesn't think their relationship will ever be the same.My aunt has tossed every item that reminds her of her husband.
Fun times.

Yep. That's just modern times. People are going to find out, and if by some chance they don' t care about their genealogy, somebody in the family will find out, maybe years or decades later. Heck, even when it seemed safe, years ago, tech was coming that exposes everybody.

And the chances of the child finding out are the opposite of slim. It is likely. Even in current culture, people are interested in genealogy or health risks and will find out using DNA. I'll bet in the not super distant future, it will be as mandatory as finger prints and biometric scans (at one time people were horrified to think those would be mandatory but anybody getting a passport, visa, or government ID now must submit). Unobtrusive DNA tests will probably be developed for even better ID control, reducing health care costs, and reducing crime. Lucky them.

[user322]

Hi, you've already realized that you enjoy it when Lana cheats on you. This initial realization allows you to transform her affair into an exciting moment for both of you. That's a good thing for you.

There's another point you need to clarify: does it also excite you that Corner is sleeping with Lana while you're trying for a baby? Does it excite you to be in competition with him, and that he might be the one to win and get Lana pregnant?