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[60dCommon]

Hy Breaker, does your wife have a boyfriend yet?

[Watchinu69]

Hey Breaker hows your summer going!?

[BallSpanking]

Hey Breaker!
An update would be very cool, even if there is nothing that noteworthy.
You have a significant peanut gallery cheering for you.

[Spartan Shield]

Breaker,

I am new on this site and I have really enjoyed reading your story over the last few days.

My wife and I are where you were back in 2017; she has taken several years to hear my fantasies about her taking a lover and we are now at the point where we enjoy fantasising about it in bed and talking about it occasionally outside of the bedroom.

I have found your story very interesting - especially the perspective of your wife in not wanting it to become too big a deal for you as a couple and her desire to keep it as “her thing” and you in the dark about most of it.

That really chimes with me. Ultimately this process takes as long as it’s going to take, the pace is set by the woman and in our journey it has really put us back if I was over eager to talk about it too much.

I am amazed at the progress you have made in just a couple of years. My wife and I have been practicing a mild version of FLR for a decade and slowly warming up to the topic of cuckolding for about 6 years - with tiny,
Tiny baby steps the whole way. We are now just at the point of her considering it for real. Reading your story and seeing how it has developed from the start of this thread to today is amazing.

It seems like once your wife got into the idea things went from glacial to reasonably rapid over a short period of time. I’m hoping that my wife and I are approaching that same tipping point.

Great story. Really interested to hear what the fall brings for you both.

[FFDriver]

Breaker, it's been a while, is everything OK? We need a fix... er... an update? I/we always love hearing, "Nothing new happening, ultra busy," and then you write several paragraphs that really get juicy. So, what might sound mundane and boring is anything but....

We're out here listening.

[Breaker445]

It's been awhile since an update and that is just because it's been busy and really there isn't a lot of big progress going on, just little things from time to time that I guess add up over the length of time I don't post and seem like a lot, but really it's just a lot of small things adding up over time. We have been doing good, but still no mention of any upcoming dates. I can tell she is still preparing for when a date does come up, but I'll touch on that a little later in this post.

So like I said, nothing mentioned about any upcoming date, but that gut feeling I had a couple months ago where I felt a date was approaching and I found myself to be right, well that feeling is coming back created by a lot of things I subtly see her doing and her phone recently buzzing at very late hours.

Anyways, I think I post about this already, but I have noticed an increase in Fall type clothing and boots, over the knee black suede boots, tight jeans, more boots, and most excitingly black leather leggings, which surprisingly I just found folded up in our closet and she never showed me them. She knows I would love to see or know she bought leather leggings, so I was surprised she never mentioned them to me or showed me. So I brought it up to her that I had noticed she has bought some really hot stuff like the boots and especially the leather leggings. She smiled, raised her eyebrows and teasingly told me, "Maybe I just want to look good." I let her know she looked good no matter what, and she sort of tilted her head down like to let me know I wasn't getting her tone. My eyes widened as I started to process what she was really trying to tell me and she seemingly a little impatient with my ability to quickly connect the dots, she added, "...for someone" I instantly reacted with excitement and she laughed at seeing how excited I got. I asked if she had anything planned and she said she didn't.

That little conversation lead to leaving the topic up for discussion later in the evening while we were lounging on the couch. I had been thinking of bringing up to her that she could have an overnighter the next time they had a date, and so given our conversation earlier I figured I'd suggest it. I let her know that I knew she didn't have anything planned now, but that I had been thinking if she did make plans, I could get her a hotel room for that night. I will say my stomach felt it was in my throat, and my heart was thumping as I waited for her answer. She quickly got wide eyed, like 'whoa!' but that was shortly accompanied by a smile and she said with excitement, "Hmmmm maybe! I'll have to think about that." I could tell she was thinking about it for that brief moment afterward and she made the comment, "That would be fun." My heart was beating through my shirt, and my mouth was dry, but I tried to tell her casually, "Just something to keep in mind, I'll be happy to do that." She bit her lower lip and deeply rubbed her feet into my thigh as she added, "MMmm." Now this was a couple weeks ago and I haven't heard anything more.

There's been other little signs, or other little thing she will subtly do to remind me of being her sub. Like the other day we went to the lake with a few of our friends and out of nowhere I see she is using a towel that has a fleur-de-lis symbol on it. I had no idea where it came from, and once I realized she was using it I must have stood there staring for a good couple seconds registering the whole thing. It made me wonder the rest of the time if she used that towel purposefully. So on our way back I asked where she got that towel. She chuckled and said, "Did you like that?" She added "I knew you would, I saw it in the pile of towels they brought and chose it." The friends we went with had brought a stack of towels for everyone to use, I mean there must have been a half dozen towels left over unused they brought so many, so for her to purposefully see that one and use it was incredible. I could only smile at being made to realize she did purposefully pick out that towel. I mean that was really impressive of her. So it's small little things like that she does to give me a reminder.

And adding to my hunch something could be getting planned in the future was yesterday I walked into our room and there were her boots and jeans sprawled all over the floor in front of the mirror that she obviously had been trying on many outfits. I had to tip toe around all the boots and ankle boots as to not trip on them. Instantly I was reminded of our conversation weeks ago where she said she wanted to look good for someone and that is exactly where my mind and thought went, add to it, knowing that conversation and knowing the games she's played with me recently like with the beach towel, I started wondering if she purposefully left the mess so that I would see it. But it is fun things like that that I find myself wondering and thinking about, because she has shown she is crafty at the mind games.

So we will see if she brings anything up soon. My hopes is she does, but also being patient and watching her control all this has been a fantastic ride.

[tubby424]

FINALLY !! Wonderful to hear from you Breaker, and yes I think the shoes,boots and whatever on the floor was a BIG signal to you. I would personally probably never pick up on that. Never got any hints or clues from the BBQ eh ?? And good job with the hotel idea during a lull in the action.
Great to have heard from you !! Can we please not have to wait a month next time

[Breaker445]

Ha thank you! What is really going to be interesting is she and I are going out tonight for a little date, first time in a long time just because we both have been really busy. So it'll be nice to go out together, but the clothes I saw out did not match the current weather at all. Plus last night, already after the mess was out on the floor, she spent some more time in our room alone and I could tell she was trying on outfits again because I could hear the clacking of heels and thudding of boots walking around. When she came back out of the room I was met with her in her relaxing clothes and I never got to see what she was trying on. But again she left the mess on the floor and it was the same shoe wear as before so my guess was she just continued trying on those same boots, etc. as before.

But that is what makes me curious for what she wears for our little date. Again, because we both have been busy we haven't had a date night in a long time, so seeing what she chooses to wear for our date will be interesting. Because she's certainly put in the time to try on some outfits, but if she chooses to wear something 'normal' for our date, oh boy, that will certainly push the cuck buttons in me. Because it being our first night out in a long time and she doesn't choose any of the hot things I saw on our floor then obviously all that time and effort in trying on outfits and boots wasn't for me. And by the looks of what was on the floor, I highly doubt given the current weather, she chooses any of them for our date tonight. Not to say she wont look great going out with me, but it will be quiet clear the preparation for our date didn't take nearly as much thought and effort compared to whatever she is trying on those outfits for. Obviously to add with the excitement of realizing that, it could also lead to a great talking point to bring up with as simple to start off the conversation with, "Oh I thought you were going to wear those skin tight over the knee boots." And see where she takes the conversation.

[joel68]

It appears from what he posted that things are beginning to heat up. I would not be surprised if she gets it in the next few weeks. Hopefully we will hear more from him now that things appear to be progressing a bit. I think the idea of him renting a hotel room for Dylan to fuck her in is hot. I just hope that this time around he has a bit more involvement in this whole thing than in the past. I think in reading between the lines that that may be the case. At least I hope so for his sake.

But I would not be surprised to hear that she has something definite set up soon. Also, I think that she will go for the overnight, especially at a hotel that he will get for them. At least that's my gut feeling. Anybody else that follows his thread got any other feelings?

[wocka-wocka]

You are doing great Breaker. Try to relax and let her take this at her pace. Remember that she doesn't want her playtime to overshadow your relationship. It's good you are going out on a date. Find other ways to do romantic things she will appreciate. She will have the experience of having the best of both worlds.

The mention of the overnight wasn't a bad idea and you handled it perfectly. It might take her a little time to get to that point, though.

The most important thing you can do is what you have been doing, show your excitement and support.

[BallSpanking]

Nice update, Breaker!
Don't be a stranger...

[FFDriver]

Breaker... what have I said... you tell us, "Status quo... nothing happening - same old thing," and in the next paragraph you rock everybody's world! That's not a complaint, by the way, it's humor... You're doing all right, buddy. The suggestion of getting them a hotel room for the night was perfect! It sounds like you made that offer at an opportune time.

It sounds like Mrs. B is back to enjoying her clothes and trying on different outfits in private; much like she's done in years past (or else you stopped describing it).

Question, and maybe you've said this before and I'm not remembering it... is she a bra or braless type woman, open top and lots of cleavage (for others to see) or a buttoned-up blouse type? While she dresses to please when she's out with others, does she dress the same when the two of you are out, or does she deny you that privilege?

It's Thursday now so your date night is over. How did things go... especially after you got home? Did you get lucky, or tease and deny?

Don't keep us in the dark so long, buddy. We all enjoy reading your saga and deriving vicarious pleasure through you. Hope Dylan returns sooner than later, and in the meantime she cranks up the voltage on your submission and private humiliation.

[Breaker445]

Thanks everyone! My prediction on her outfit was right and what a feeling that was. We both got back from work and both started to get ready for our dinner date. I waited in the other room waiting for her to get ready, she called for me and I eagerly got up from the couch and peaked through the bedroom door to see what she wanted, she asked if I could go get her a coffee from a nearby coffee place and I happily said I'd be right back with it. Crazy that the entire time as I was going to get the coffee I was wondering if she would take a long time getting ready, what was she going to choose to wear? Other than us going to dinner, I didn't know what else the night had planned or what else we may do. So all that was running through my head as I went to get her coffee.

I wasn't gone long at all and when I got back my question to myself was answered as soon as I walked through the door. She was already done getting ready. Tank top, jean shorts, and sandals. It was a moment of realization and it got my heart racing. Sure she had make up on and she spent time on her hair, but where were the tight dark jeans? The skin tight over the knee black boots? The open toed black leather ankle boots? The tight brown suede thigh high boots? The silver ankle boots? The black ankle boots with silver studs and buckles on them? Ok, I knew it was the heat of summer so what about the black leather high heels then? All those incredibly hot choices that I had seen sprawled along the floor remained there while I got sandals and jean shorts. Oddly enough, my heart beat wasn't the only thing that was elevating at seeing this, I was getting rather excited at this realization. The side note here is, I love the choices I saw on the floor that she had been trying on and she very well knows that. Given this was our first night out in a long time, I thought there was a chance she'd choose one of those options knowing how much I'd enjoy it, YET at the same time, crazy enough, her not choosing any of those things was even more exciting and hot.

So we ended up going to dinner and it was a great time, we had fun, but I didn't bring up the outfit choice, or lack thereof. Why? Well like I said it was our first date night in a long time, I didn't want to invade it with bringing it up. I figured it's something that can easily be brought up in the future, and let the night be just us. It ended up just being dinner and after we got back she quickly got into comfortable clothes and washed her make up off. I spent the rest of the night massaging her feet as we lounged on the couch. The night ended with bedroom fun, but all very vanilla.

It was a good time, the realization or confirmation, that all the hot things I saw on the floor and the time I had noticed she put into trying on outfits wasn't for our date was the hot thing of the night.

[Bull4Her216]

Breaker, great to seeing you posting again. I love your story and your progress. I know that feeling when you are expecting her to wear something real hot and she steps it down a little. Still must be great to see her scantily dressed and showing off her feet in sandals!

[wocka-wocka]

The date would have been the exact wrong time to ask about her wearing the sexy clothes she has been trying on.

If you want her in possibly sexier clothes, make a date with her where it’s appropriate for both of you to be dressed more formally.

[Breaker445]

Ok real quick, over the last couple days she's still trying on outfits, seeing her black patent leather heels out on the floor was a real excitement. Last night we had a really amazing conversation, that I will post about later when I have more time, but it was a conversation about them. Not any details of their dates together, but more about them and how it seemed to work out and how the timing fit well, it was really erotic to be sitting there and hearing her talk, very surreal that I woke up today thinking about it and having an instant adrenaline rush.

But how we got to that conversation was as small as her making some comment of asking me if she still "looked good". I practically laughed at the absurd question and told her of course! She responded like my answer really didn't mean much, so I took the opportunity to bring in the, "I think I know I'm not the only one who thinks that...." with a tone that reminding her there's someone else certainly thinking the same way. She smiled in response and immediately perked up asking, "You sure though?" I excitedly replied, "Yes!" I could see her thinking and she blurted out like to make it obvious to me, "Well he's not around." Like to say "duh!" I was a bit shocked she gave me that response, I thought I was going to be the one that had to mention it more to get her to talk about it. I nonchalantly brought up that I thought he was suppose to be in town soon. Like I was a friend she rolled right into her thinking aloud. She told me he is, but he's really busy with work and travel. She said almost frustratingly that he could be back within a couple weeks, but will have to leave again shortly after, but in the in-between he may have to go elsewhere, basically she explained his schedule is busy and unpredictable on when he will be in town for a longer period of time. By the end of her explaining, her frustration wasn't subtle anymore. She went on to talk about how this is a good set up, but she does wished there was more reliability and with his busy schedule it hasn't been like that. I really couldn't believe we were having this conversation but wow was I hanging onto every word, doing my best to play it cool and just be an ear for her to talk to. Again she just mentioned he was in town more. It also seems like she gets this idea that he is coming back into town, but then due to his schedule his plans change on when he's coming back.

I didn't bring up anything about noticing the outfits, certainly wasn't the time, I was fully focused on being a good listener and letting her talk. She said he wanted to come back and certainly planned on it soon, but wasn't sure exactly when. This was about the time she went into talking about them.I'll try to post about the conversation later when I have more time.

But in the meantime I am just waiting to hear about any upcoming plans.

[Rogueuser1]

Breaker- awesome time for both of you. So hot the way she is trying on new and different outfits for her date with him vs. you. Such a sweet moment of cuckold angst to enjoy thank you for sharing it with us.
I hope the date is soon and she has a great time.
Have you ever thought of offering her the use of the house for her date while you go out? I know you offered to get her a hotel room but what if you went to the hotel and she got to bring him home?

[60dCommon]

Wow! You two are living the life. Can't wait to hear more details from the conversation!

[joel68]

Yeah, 60d. Me too! It's definitely heating up big time. A lot of potential this time around. I hope it works out better than before for everyone.

[BallSpanking]

Hate to beat a dead horse, but perhaps this bit of frustration could lead to a conversation of finding a more local BF ...

[joel68]

Ballspanking, I believe she did that once and it did not work out. He fucked her good only the one time. We never found out why either.

But not a bad idea. Maybe she’ll have better luck next time.

[Bayless]

Kind of agree with Ball Spanking.
Just a possibility that her current playmate has another girlfriend to occupy his interest, whether it’s local or when he is traveling, which he seems to do a lot of. On the other hand he may prefer a more experienced partner. Mrs. Breaker is pretty much a rookie in this venture. Remember Prof. Harold Hill in the “Music Man” where he was cheering for Hannah to win just one more “A.” A sadder, but wiser girl for me!!!

[60dCommon]

Maybe broaden the hotel offer to include airfare?

[joel68]

Yeah, 60d, I never thought about that. Could go either way. Fly him in to fuck her at a hotel or fly her out for a long weekend.

I can only imagine how many times he would fuck her if that happened. Pretty hot!

I guess we will see how it plays out over the next few weeks.

[Suchen Zucker]

I would be a little concerned about so much riding on that one dude. Not concerned about her running off with him, but of her getting hurt emotionally if he was to lose interest in her.

It doesn't seem like she's much into exploring or letting go sexually as much as she is about having this one particular man.

If the actual reason they are not getting together very often is him not "feeling it" as much as she does, that could be a problem.