Sex restrictions for cuckold husbands

[rspanked]

I still have very regular access, but my domme is actively looking for a more regular bull. Someone who will fuck her at least a couple of times a week, so that she doesn't feel reliant on me for that. She wants it to be easier for her to deny me her pussy and seems to be hoping her bull is the type who will want to put access restrictions on me.

The idea is sexually exciting but makes me very nervous. I know how submissive she can be for the right man.

Once she finds a regular guy, you'll never go near her pussy. It's only a matter of time.

Thing is...not every couple operates the same way. We don't all think the same, act the same or want the same things. Even within the couple things evolve and can evolve back or to another direction. If I were ever truly unhappy with my situation, it's not something she would have any interest in continuing with.

[sissy4bbc]

Nor should you continue if either of you was unhappy. It was just a comment that you seemed to be moving in that direction, but obviously only if it's what you both want. I was just making a dirty comment.

[Misslindassub]

I've imposed my own restrictions at the moment, is that allowed ?,
We've only had intercourse once this year , although I have gone down on her at least 4 other times using my hands and mouth to pleasures her, without reciprocation obviously.

[subguy80]

I've imposed my own restrictions at the moment, is that allowed ? We've only had intercourse once this year, although I have gone down on her at least 4 other times using my hands and mouth to pleasures her, without reciprocation obviously.

Yes, it is allowed. In fact, I think self-imposed restrictions can be as hot as hotwife or bull imposed restrictions.

[Leathersissy1968]

My wife doesn't let me have sex with her and won't touch me at all. I am only allowed to fuck her boots but cannnot touch any other part of her. She wears a lot of leather when this happens including a long leather trench coat which makes her feel less disgusted when I am close to her. She says she finds me absolutely repulsive sexually and even has trouble allowing me to fuck her boots. I only get to do that once a week for 2 minites.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Leathersissy1968 .

[slowsteady]

I've imposed my own restrictions at the moment, is that allowed ? We've only had intercourse once this year, although I have gone down on her at least 4 other times using my hands and mouth to pleasures her, without reciprocation obviously.

Yes, it is allowed. In fact, I think self-imposed restrictions can be as hot as hotwife or bull imposed restrictions.

Self imposed sexual restrictions are the best kind. Too many cuckolds fuck it up by trying to run the show. They expect the wife to do all the dirty work by placing him in chastity and then holding the key. This makes the wife not only feel like the bad guy but also responsible by involving her in his kink. There is a much better way to enjoy self imposed sex restriction! Tell the wife that you are a masochist and get great excitement from her being satisfied in bed by sexually superior men. Ask her permission to allow you to place your own cock into a chastity device. Maybe tell her that you love to punish yourself and wish her to deny you sexual pleasure. Say that you'd love her permission to let you lock your own cock to prevent you from cheating on her with masturbation. This frees her from any guilt or responsibilities for your restrictions and resultant sexual distresses. Here's the kicker: Tell her that you want to be genuine in your desire to be denied your own personal sex satisfaction for her pleasure. Ask her permission to prove your love for her by letting you use a plastic, numbered lock on your CB. This undeniably demonstrates that you are 100% personally responsible for all of your own deprivation and pain of chastity! Again, this frees your wife to receive total enjoyment in her pleasures without a single thought of your personal sacrifices to her. The plastic lock really detracts from the cuckolds enjoyment by being such a weak link. Cut that lock without her permission and you'll be shit in her eyes from that day forward!

[NewCuck98]

My hotwife is denying me her asshole as (she said) it is reserved for lovers only. I'm only allowed to lick it.

[bradisalpha]

My hotwife is denying me her asshole as (she said) it is reserved for lovers only. I'm only allowed to lick it.

Licking her asshole knowing her BF’s cock has been deep inside her is very exciting, isn’t it ?? It is a privilege that a cuckold enjoys. Good for you.

Brad

[frank r]

My hotwife is denying me her asshole as (she said) it is reserved for lovers only. I'm only allowed to lick it.

Licking her asshole knowing her BF’s cock has been deep inside her is very exciting, isn’t it ?? It is a privilege that a cuckold enjoys. Good for you.

Brad

Licking her clean, as he watches thrills me. SIR said next time I should be prepared to lick his cock clean
before eating her ass.

frankie

[Naplescuck]

Not a cuckold (although I long to be and have desired to be a cuckold for as long as I’ve been married...30 years), but very limited in having sex with my wife, she has made it abundantly clear that I have a very small dick, and that I really don’t satisfy her sexually, as she as told me “it does absolutely nothing for me” and after making love on our anniversary telling me “Thankyou for taking your time, but 27 years and you still can’t make me cum”. I love my wife more than anything, there is something about being denied and knowing I can’t please her sexually and her actually telling me (even though I know it myself) that gets me so turned on, so hard when I think about it.

[subguy80]

I posted this survey over three years ago. I wanted to revisit the results and comments because of some discussions that are happening now in my other thread. I think the topic is always relevant.

I’d encourage any new members to add their votes so we can refresh the results. According to this fairly large sample, about half of cuckolds have no or very limited sex with their wives.

It was interesting for me to reread and remember that my denial had started in phases way back then!

[frank r]

My hotwife is denying me her asshole as (she said) it is reserved for lovers only. I'm only allowed to lick it.

Licking her asshole knowing her BF’s cock has been deep inside her is very exciting, isn’t it ?? It is a privilege that a cuckold enjoys. Good for you.

Brad

Licking her clean, as he watches thrills me. SIR said next time I should be prepared to lick his cock clean
before eating her ass.

frankie

UPDATE:

Hard to believe that less than four months have passed and now sucking his cock clean of her ass juices before then cleaning his load from her ass has become common for me. SIR has initiated both Beth and i in a new
experiment. On labor Day he mounted my wife's ass doggie while i also doggie was taken by his brother, a fellow dom After they watched my Beth and i cleans each other's asses in a 69. After we each clean the cock of the two bulls.
frankie

[MS_2019]

My situation with my GF has changed as well. Let me explain, my GF initiated a deny-reward system. What this means is, if I am a good boyfriend and I have pleased her (and my friend who is her BF), then I shall be rewarded. An example would be, my gf has not restricted me from anal sex with her but I had to earn that privilege. I don't have to mention though that her anal virginity was taken by my friend and he thoroughly enjoys her thick ass and gets to more so than me. However, as crazy as it may sound, she doesn't give me blowjobs (ever). I've never had an interest in it though, but watching her passionately suck my friend's meaty cock is a sight to behold. My restrictions are based on my behavior and whether or not I have pleased them. So In a way yes I am restricted but I am also not. Like I do not get to always watch her fuck him, whereas before certain events occurred, she would want me to watch her EVERY time.

[dinoo]

We had a real life but also a second fantasy life.
In our real life I promised not have sex with other women, unless my wife decided so.
In our fantasy life, my wife got a lover she loved deeply.
He lived 1100 km from our home and had an appartment in Cap d'Agde, naturist village.
So sometimes my wife visited him alone, sometimes I was with her.
His restriction was simple: no anal sex with my wife. Her ass belonged to him only.

My wife loved this restriction and in this fantasy story she became an anal slut for him.
When I was admitted to be present, it was to be cucked by the two of them.
And to take photos of their anal sexplays. Nearby photos.....

[kort677]

my wife will not have sex with me, the closest we get to having sex is her watching when I jerk off

[Kneeling]

Our bull doesn't permit my wife to have any sex without him being present. Sir gave her the sexual orgasm that i never did. It seems only right he should choose if and when i am allowed and what i am permitted to do.
My wife prefers i focus on pleasing her orally and that thrills me.

kneeling

[cuck85]

My wife's new bull don't want her to have sex with me. I can't put my cock inside her pussy, ass and mouth. She can't have any contact with my cock and my sperm. Last time I only lick her pussy and stimulate her with toys, she didn't even let me put my finger inside her. But I fucked her pussy with strap on and she fucked my ass too. She gave me ruined orgasm with vibrating toy, without touching my cock. She said that from now her bull will decide about my sexual feelings. This is a new situation for me, previous bulls were not so dominant and I'm really excited being pussy free cuckold

[Kays cuck]

I have a self imposed restriction against cumming without my wife's instruction or permission and we both like it a lot. She likes knowing she controls my orgasms and I love having given her that control. I stroke my cock a lot to all the kinky thoughts that come with being her cuck, but never let my self cum. We have sex regularly and I don't cum until she tells me to. She says 'cum for me, cuck' and I know I can cum and then clean her up. Sometimes she doesn't let me cum though. I give her as many orgasms as I can with my cock and she might say that's enough for now, cuck. It's been a really cool addition to our dynamic for about the last year or so. She likes my cum and feeling me cum so it'll never bee more than a few weeks without her letting me do it. It's a really fun game we play.

[SailorGuy]

Absolutely no sexual contact for us. She has her manly well-hung lover, and I am allowed to masturbate next to her at most once a week. And I couldn't be happier. I love loving this beautiful woman; I love knowing she has another lover; I love being denied her delicious sweet body; I love that she tells me my cock is too small for her.
Once upon a time we were lovers, and it was wonderful. And now as her cuckolded husband it is even better.

[Lakeslad]

My wife is a natural submissive, including with me. There are no limits on our sex life unless I want them. For instance, she likes to be watched whilst she is fucked. That is not for me, so only her lovers fuck her with an audience.

Things do change over time, inevitably. She has two regular lovers and there are times - and currently this is the case - where both of them are fucking her more often than I am. There is no denial, but I do find being my wife's third most frequent lover very erotic.

Incidentally, we all take her bareback. She loves spunk.

[Read]

I'm not in a cuck relationship right now, but each time I was, we still had sex. Of course we'd have less sex, because physically and psychologically the girlfriend could only handle a certain amount of sex. Plus, simply for logistical reasons, we'd have less sex. Each minute spent with him was one minute less spent with me.

So in that way, there was always the denial aspect, and that was very erotic. There was also one relationship that didn't have any denial. She had no issues desiring or handling the extra sex, and she mostly only fucked him while I was at work. That dynamic was also very erotic in its own right.

[verkitwme]

I have sex with my hubby about once a month although for the last two it's only been a blow and I jerked him off...

[Bothellcuckoldcouple]

I haven’t had a BJ in years and haven’t felt her pussy in a about a two years (unprotected). As our cuckold relationship matured and she developed a relationship with a long term boyfriend it was a natural progression to cut me off from pussy. By that time she cut me off I was only fucking her about 4-6 times a year.

As a submissive cuck we have a very active sex life we just don’t have traditional sex. If I’m allowed to fuck her which is extremely rare, I have to wear two condoms to ensure I don’t touch her pussy with my cock. Her boyfriend is allowed bareback and fucks her weekly.

[rspanked]

Nor should you continue if either of you was unhappy. It was just a comment that you seemed to be moving in that direction, but obviously only if it's what you both want. I was just making a dirty comment.

Fair enough @sissy4bbc. My apologies actually. I find forums like this have a lot of people telling others how they should do things, so I think I'm a bit oversensitive to it. Truth is...one of my partner's long term goals is to be getting enough dick, that she can comfortably cut me off. She's excited to be able to make that decision for me and believes it will be a positive step for our dynamic.