My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

[rascalnvixen]

Agree with Fotodom! It doesn't matter how much you write, it's THAT you write and the way you write is very compelling and exciting in a way that is not blatant. Keep up the good work!!

Rascal

[mundyman]

Des, thank you for a well thought out and excellent reply. Thanks for taking the question as it was meant; not as an attack but a real interest I had in your outlook and opinion. Your answer was so much more than I expected. Thank you.
My question was a reflection of how I feel every once in a while as I read the forums. Nothing more.
I am fascinated by the many forms of hotwifeing described on the site and other couple’s experiences. I know mine and like to compare.
As they say, “different strokes for different folks.”
I enjoy your thread and look forward to your updates.
All the best,
Mundy

[Des 31]

Des, thank you for a well thought out and excellent reply. Thanks for taking the question as it was meant; not as an attack but a real interest I had in your outlook and opinion. Your answer was so much more than I expected. Thank you.
My question was a reflection of how I feel every once in a while as I read the forums. Nothing more.
I am fascinated by the many forms of hotwifeing described on the site and other couple’s experiences. I know mine and like to compare.
As they say, “different strokes for different folks.”
I enjoy your thread and look forward to your updates.
All the best,
Mundy

I understood your intent. I could have written that here before but didn't think the background fit with the topics. I had told the event some time back concerning the psychologist here in this thread only because it was an unusual situation and in response to another member's inquiry. As you have probably noticed, I get many questions about our lives, which I am told and realize are a bit different from most.

Glad to respond and thanks for writing...

~ Des

[Des 31]

A couple of unanticipated happenings this evening:

On December 1, my smoking hot wife will turn 33, She most often is home from work before me, but today I was earlier. I checked our mail box and found a small package addressed to her. I left it on the dining room table for her to open.

When she arrived at 4:35, I told her she had a small package that appeared to be something she had ordered. She laughed and said, “If it’s what I think, it’s partly for you,” and motioned me to follow her to our dining room. She picked it up and said, “You can think of this as my early birthday gift to myself.”

Opening the box, she unwrapped the tissue covering the first of the two items and handed it to me. She said, “Pin that to your shirt collar.” She had ordered two lapel pins from an online vendor. Hers read, “Hot Wife,” and mine read, “Cuckold.” We laughed as I pinned mine on my shirt collar and she pinned hers to her blazer. These weren’t expensive or elaborate ornaments. The enclosed invoice came to a little over $14.

It was funny, but I asked where she thought we would possibly wear those. She suggested when we’re out of town or when we’re with any of her fuck buddies, adding, “This Friday would be just right.” Her 20-year-old guys, Beau and Jack, will be spending that night at our home. I said, “Okay, I can do that,” but asked if she thought either even knew what the terms mean.

She grinned and said, “Oh sure! Jack once asked when I was at their apartment if I thought of you as a cuckold.” I asked what she said in response. She told them she supposed our marital arrangement would probably fit in that category. She asked if either knew of the word, “Bull,” and had to explain to them the meaning and why guys are called that. Neither she nor I use that term, but they liked the idea of their being thought of as that. She said, now that she has learned I like hearing about that sort of casual conversation, she will tell me when talks like that come about again with any of her guys.

I’ve given her hotwife tee shirts she worn on separate occasions, an anklet that has never been noticed by anyone when she wore it, and a hotwife necklace that has. She has a pullover sleeper top that reads, “I didn’t put on the bottoms since you would be taking those off anyway.” She wore that for laughs a few times when fucking others. So I figured it’s only fair I wear the cuck pin when she wants me to. I’m unsure what the guys will think about it. The last time the two of them were over, I was sitting naked on our living room couch with each of them while the other was fucking my wife. So I assume they’ll think my pin is as funny to them as she and I do. We will find out this weekend.

***

Then, around 6:00, our land-line rang. Our insurance agent asked my wife if she could get away for a couple of hours. He was still at his office with a new client executive and an associate in the process of opening a local branch factory. The man had asked our agent which would be their best local bank to handle their accounts. He told them he believed he could have one of the bank’s principals to come over to his office to answer his questions. My wife hadn’t changed her green blazer and black slacks from work. Grabbing her purse and keys, she told me she would be back when the meeting was over, and headed for the door.

I asked whether she might go over to the agent’s home afterward. She said, “I guess that’s possible, but I’m not sure how he could ask me that with the other men in the office. If he asks, I’ll phone you.”

She did. She said the men liked her presentation. The bank’s chief financial officer and IT code monkeys will need to check the company out, but the potential customer could potentially be the bank’s largest account. When the men left his office, our agent walked her to her car and asked if she could come over to his place for a while. She phoned me from her car when stopped for gas on the way to his place. She said she would be home by 11:00 at the latest. He and she don’t have sex often. Because had just fucked her Saturday night, this isn’t something I’d have anticipated twice within a week.

When she’s naked and having sex, she never takes off two treasured items, her wedding ring and her refurbished Mickey Mouse watch she has owned since she was 12. Her usual routine is to suck a guy’s cock for a while before fucking, so I assume that was their opening encounter. She likes doing that. She has told me his favorite position is fucking her from behind. That image is fuzzing my brain right now and my cock is as hard I’m sure his is. The aching difference is that his tool is deep inside my hotly responsive wife and fucking her brains out. I love knowing her cunt’s needs are being fulfilled.

I had once written here how they first met in a post separate from this thread. When she was a branch office manager for the bank, a woman teller told her during a break that this good looking agent had come to her home to give an estimate on a homeowners policy. She said he flirted with her and sported an obvious erection, and for that reason she went with another company. My wife giggled and said, “Was he ‘big’?” She woman said, “If he’d died right there, they wouldn’t have been able to close the casket.” They howled in laughter, but my wife was intrigued and asked him to come by our place and give her an estimate. They were fucking that first time while I was at work. He’s about my height and my wife is 5’11, an inch taller; but like other guys she has been with of lesser height, he hasn’t complained about the difference. He’s since been our only agent for all our policies and has referred other companies to her bank, for which she has been recognized as one of the two principal “rain makers,” their term for top producers.

My wife must get more dick than anyone we know. Even if I were allowed, my sexual capability couldn’t match her frequency. But I like it. Her couplings with others enhances our marital sex and we will most likely be fucking when she gets home tonight. Or maybe not. She might be fucked out, I can never be sure. If she isn’t up to it, I’ll be jerking off as she tells me about her night.

~ Des - awaiting her call

[rascalnvixen]

"cuckold"?? You know, I guess you technically meet the definition but I've never thought of you as a cuckold. Yes, you have a hotwife, but never thought your personality and lifestyle with her described you as a cuckold. I guess more of a hotwife husband.

Did she remember to take her "HOT WIFE" pin off of her blazer lapel before she went to the meeting at the insurance agents office??? I'm sure that would have got the deal sealed!!!

Rascal

[afagehi7]

It's great that her fucking has a couple advantages, 1) she gets great dick, 2) you get off on it, 3) it enhances your marital sex life and, 4) it helps advance her career.

So far, I've not read any down side from your adventures.

[Des 31]

"cuckold"?? You know, I guess you technically meet the definition but I've never thought of you as a cuckold. Yes, you have a hotwife, but never thought your personality and lifestyle with her described you as a cuckold. I guess more of a hotwife husband.

Did she remember to take her "HOT WIFE" pin off of her blazer lapel before she went to the meeting at the insurance agents office??? I'm sure that would have got the deal sealed!!!

Rascal

That was funny. I hadn't noticed when she walked out. She told me she remembered the pin was on her lapel on her way to his office and said to me this morning, "That was a close one," blaming me for not noticing. And yeah, I think of myself as a hotwife husband too. But she tells me a couple of guys in the past have told her they like our "cuckold" arrangement. I guess the terms can overlap.

But last night had a semblance of cuckolding in that you could say I was "denied" when she arrived home. She said she wishes now she had put off having sex with our insurance agent on the previous Saturday, then again last night. Her time away with her boss and the upcoming Friday with Beau and Jack, she says, is a bit much. We agreed that perhaps we shouldn't have sex this week for those reasons. I had the impression that was where our conversation was going anyway and brought it up myself. She and her boss usually have sex only about once a month now.

She went on to say maybe she should cut back altogether. Her times with others lately has been difficult to for her to keep her mind on her job and marital life. I don't want her to be stressed either, so I'll leave whatever she does up to her as I commonly do. Not sure at this time just what that will be, but things usually work out for her once she makes up her mind about anything. I'm sure she will continue to make time for her younger guys to meet their and her needs. And she doesn't want to break off our friendship with the boat-owner couple with whom she occasionally fucks. They want her to go on another cold-weather trip downriver in their boat as the three of them did before but have invited me if I'm not traveling at that time.

~ Des

[Des 31]

It's great that her fucking has a couple advantages, 1) she gets great dick, 2) you get off on it, 3) it enhances your marital sex life and, 4) it helps advance her career.

So far, I've not read any down side from your adventures.

Thanks. There have been a couple of downsides but none I would think of as serious. I wrote here once or twice about a time I felt she was over-doing her times away on dates. The frequency was bugging me mainly because it took up too many weekends. One or two of those were unavoidable for reasons I mentioned then, but we made an agreement that weekends would be open for she and I to go out or do whatever we wanted.

I told her I didn't mind an occasional weekend night or overnight but didn't like her being away two or more during any month. That has since worked out and she will ask first before setting up anything on a Saturday or Sunday. She is often away on Saturday mornings anyway for golfing, racquetball or the shooting range. She swaps around among those and an occasional massage/fuck session with a masseur she made friends with sometime back. But afternoons and evenings give us time to go out together or hang around the house with chores, sex and the typical things married couples do together. Those who know us but aren't aware of our hotwife relationship would think we're a pretty ordinary married couple.

You're right about all four points mentioned. She doesn't like thinking she has fucked her way up the corporate ladder but I have no doubt she wouldn't have advanced without her relationship with her boss whose status was already rather high even before he ultimately became the bank's principal officer. He tells her he's sure she would have been promoted even without him but I know it's unlikely she would be where she is now without his guidance.

Glad you enjoy her adventures.

~ Des

[Mr ablondemilf]

Glad you enjoy her adventures.

~ Des

Thank you for sharing her and her adventures with us. You do a great job of telling about her sexual exploits. You are a lucky man to have such a sexually active wife who loves sharing her married pussy with multiple men.✔

[MaxCargo]

I know you have absolutely no intention in this regard and you would never do anything that could hurt your wife. But just hypothetical, if you would start having sex with other women regularly, (and it would be just sex, it wouldn't take anything away from your immense love for your wife), how do you think would your wife react to this? - Would she be desperate and become quite sad? What is she willing to put up with? Would she still continue to love you? Or do you think she would start to resent you or maybe even start "to hate" you, and would leave you?

Excuse these probaly difficult question.

[Des 31]

I know you have absolutely no intention in this regard and you would never do anything that could hurt your wife. But just hypothetical, if you would start having sex with other women regularly, (and it would be just sex, it wouldn't take anything away from your immense love for your wife), how do you think would your wife react to this? - Would she be desperate and become quite sad? What is she willing to put up with? Would she still continue to love you? Or do you think she would start to resent you or maybe even start "to hate" you, and would leave you?

Excuse these probaly difficult question.

I'm confident she wouldn't hate or leave me, but beyond that is unknown. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be giving me any award certificates. Not knowing keeps me straight. You're right, for me it's a difficult question to answer. I don't want to find out by crossing the line. I have known guys who couldn't resist the opportunity when presented to them. Most have gotten away with it, two didn't and it ended their already-troubled marriages. I have been tempted, but I think I must have more self control than most. Not sure how to better answer that question, but various (unpleasant) scenarios have crossed my mind at times as to the consequences if I stepped beyond the boundaries. The only thing I'm certain about is that I could never find another woman like her to marry, so I'd probably end up as an unhappy, life-long bachelor if anything bad happened to her.

It's my humble opinion that the potential consequences are something every guy should think about before jumping into that pool.

~ Des

[Des 31]

I was told by a guy at a client's office couldn't see some photos clearly on his PC because the pictures were too small.

I'm sure most here already know this, but just in case some don't . . . If avatars - or the writing -here appear too small, just press "control" and the "plus" (+) character.

I was forwarded this pic from a couple who are fuckbuddies of my wife. Thought I'd use it as an avatar for a couple of days but it looked a bit small too. (and NO, in the event anyone should wonder, I'm not THAT small, just average size.)

[rascalnvixen]

And Ctrl and 0 (that's a zero, not an o) to return to the normal screen size.

[Des 31]

Something from our past:

After several days of having fucked for what she believes is “too much,” she and I aren’t having sex this week. On Friday, her two youngest friends are coming over for the night and she thinks she can get more into it with them if she holds off a few days. That was actually at my suggestion, but a brief conversation between us made it clear to me she would bring it up if I didn’t. This happened at least once before and she felt guilty when she then asked if I could hold off having sex with her for two weeks. I’m sure that my suggesting it first this time avoided the guilty feelings she would probably have had.

Since the first time another man fucked my wife after we married, I have kept a computer journal on one our two separate hard drives of her escapades. Today, because I will be out of town for a presentation to a new client firm for two days and a night next week, I took off work today and tomorrow to prepare for it. When I could do no more for the day, I pulled up some old stories to read.

One of my entries went back to four and a half years ago. Although I still occasionally watched her fucking in our bedroom, she had by then expressed a preference that it was better for her if I wasn’t present all the time.

This is pretty much just as I had then written it. That was a hot August night. She was dressing to meet up with a new fuckbuddy at a local lounge. They had had sex only once before at his home. These days, she dresses rather conservatively when she goes out with another man. At that time, she most often wore sexier outfits. On that night, I watched her as she showered, prepped and picked out a translucent white blouse and a navy skirt that came halfway down her thighs and nothing beneath. Because she’s 5’11”, she prefers low-heeled shoes or even flats. She instead pulled on her only pair of five-inch platform-stiletto, blue and white heels. I sat on the bed and watched as she applied her lipstick. She turned about from the bedroom mirror and with a hand on a hip smiled and said, “How do I look? Think he’ll find me to be hot?”

My dick had been hard as a rock from her teasing as she was dressing. I stood and kissed her fully on the mouth and urged her to sit on the side of our bed. She planted her heels onto the floor, grinned and said, “Makes you want to fuck me, huh?” I couldn’t resist. Standing before her parted thighs, I pushed her skirt up to her waist, unzipped my fly and slid my dick into her cunt. Her eyes were wide and wild as my cock entered her. As I fucked, she said, “Oh yeah, another man is gonna be fucking your wife tonight. You need his cock inside my pussy as much as me, don’t you? With his big dick doing me, I probably won’t even be thinking about you. It will be just him and me.”

Her tone was no longer teasing but instead of sexual heat. As I fucked her, she squealed and cried, “He’s gonna fuck me so good. And you’ll be here at home wondering how good it is for me.” My mind swirled and I groaned in ecstasy. We were still relatively new at this. The aroused timber in her voice stirred my imagination. She cried out his name and sobbed, “It’s going to be so hot. His dick will be deep inside my hot cunt.” When I muttered I was going to cum, she said, “Don’t you dare. Pull it out. I’m too clean for that.”

I withdrew and my juice squirted onto the sheets. I felt so weak, I had to lean against the dresser. I breathed hard and my deflated dick drooped out of my fly. She smiled as she stood, picked up her purse and slung it over a shoulder. I walked behind her to the front door. She blew me a kiss and said, “I’ll see you when I see you.”

She had anticipated she should return about 11:00 but didn’t arrive home until after midnight. In those early days, it wasn’t her habit to phone me before leaving a guy’s place or when on her way home as she typically does now.

I had forgotten all that until reading it again this afternoon. I didn’t record the man’s name or even keep a pic she then had of him. Now, I can’t even recall what he looked like, only that she had described him to me as a “topnotch” catch, a word I haven’t heard her use in years.

She played that game with me often for about another year, talking sexily when preparing to go out. Occasionally, she still teases me when about to leave for a date; and, although I’ll get a hard-on from her banter, it doesn’t have the same overwhelming effect on me as then. Thinking about how I hotly reacted at that time, I realize how ordinary a part of our lives her extramarital sex has become. It’s no longer an “event,” it’s more like just another day in the way married life should be.

Because she’s attending an after-hours gathering with a few bank employees she works with, she will be home a couple of hours later tonight. In a way, her going out with guys is almost like that with us. It’s just something she does but at the same time, something I still need from her. I’ve wondered if other hotwife couples come to accept it as an ordinary part of their lives. I don’t recall having read that in essays here or elsewhere.

If your relationships have developed to that stage, how about letting me know? Knowing either way would satisfy my curiosity.

~ Des

[samlowen]

We got to that stage but it was reversed at the time, with me going out with many other women. This was when my wife and I were indulging her cuckqueaning fantasies. My job had me working two nights a week and my fellow employees were overwhelmingly women in their 20’s. Each of those night shifts every week ended with a group of us getting drinks, going dancing and sometimes ending up in somebody’s hot tub. There were many times that I would be walking in the front door just before dawn as my wife was waking up to get ready for work. My actions were so commonplace that there was very little discussion as to if I would be going out or when I would be home. It was just assumed.

[yielding william]

I was told adultery is a crime in our state. I had trouble believing that but found online it is actually true. It that ridiculous or what?

[SutterKane]

There are a lot of laws on the books that are rarely or never enforced. Some are unconstitutional and would be struck down if challenged, but remain on the books.

[Des 31]

Yeah, I’ve long been aware of that and once did some personal research on the issue. Many states have laws against adultery, but they’re rarely. if ever, enforced anywhere. It’s also doubtful a judge or jury would judge anyone as guilty when both parties have agreed to any of the various forms of open marriage. For that reason, I can’t imagine a sane prosecutor filing a charge against any party under those circumstances.

Potential legal penalties for adultery can vary from state to state. The worst is in Michigan, where the punishment for adultery is on the books for potential life imprisonment, but the guy who first told me that has ever heard of any such prosecution in the state. In other states, it’s a misdemeanor that can result in a monetary fine. But even though adultery laws remain on the books in the U.S., they’re rarely – if ever - enforced. Personally, I have never read or heard of any such prosecution anywhere in the U.S. In the Middle East, the death penalty is common for that but that's an entirely different culture.

Alfred Kinsey's famous reports on human sexuality in the late 1940s and early 1950s found that about half of all American men and about a quarter of all women had extramarital sex at least once in their lifetimes. The most publicized cases of adultery and open marriages are those of Hollywood celebrities, but it’s neither punishable by law or even as a tort in California except for military personnel. A member of the military be court martialed for committing adultery under Article 134 of the Uniform Code of Military Justice.

(I get complaints about almost everything I write here. So, in the event someone here was in any way connected with the military JAG corps, don’t complain about the spelling above of “court-martialed.” It’s commonly spelled as “martialed, martialled, marshaled or marshalled.” They’re all considered acceptable by any competent English teacher, regardless of his/her bias. I have my own writer’s preferences when terms vary.)

~ Des

[anonymister1948]

(I get complaints about almost everything I write here. So, in the event someone here was in any way connected with the military JAG corps, don’t complain about the spelling above of “court-martialed.” It’s commonly spelled as “martialed, martialled, marshaled or marshalled.” They’re all considered acceptable by any competent English teacher, regardless of his/her bias. I have my own writer’s preferences when terms vary.)

In the midwest, they say Court Mershalled

[MaxCargo]

Something from our past:

After several days of having fucked for what she believes is “too much,” she and I aren’t having sex this week. On Friday, her two youngest friends are coming over for the night and she thinks she can get more into it with them if she holds off a few days. That was actually at my suggestion, but a brief conversation between us made it clear to me she would bring it up if I didn’t. This happened at least once before and she felt guilty when she then asked if I could hold off having sex with her for two weeks. I’m sure that my suggesting it first this time avoided the guilty feelings she would probably have had.
~ Des

Great to hear from you again. I hope you and your wife had finally sex with each other again?

Excuse me if I say this, but I think you're way too generous sometimes, of course your wife should feel at least a little guilty when she has no energy left for you because she was so much involved with others .

[samlowen]

Something from our past:

After several days of having fucked for what she believes is “too much,” she and I aren’t having sex this week. On Friday, her two youngest friends are coming over for the night and she thinks she can get more into it with them if she holds off a few days. That was actually at my suggestion, but a brief conversation between us made it clear to me she would bring it up if I didn’t. This happened at least once before and she felt guilty when she then asked if I could hold off having sex with her for two weeks. I’m sure that my suggesting it first this time avoided the guilty feelings she would probably have had.
~ Des

Great to hear from you again. I hope you and your wife had finally sex with each other again?

Excuse me if I say this, but I think you're way too generous sometimes, of course your wife should feel at least a little guilty when she has no energy left for you because she was so much involved with others .

I politely disagree that Des is being too generous. He enjoys and gets off on her encounters and she hasn’t really ever denied him. Yes, she has delayed sex if she’s too sore, but isn’t that a very common thing in this lifestyle? The only times I felt Des was being too generous was when she was spending most of the weekends away from him. He brought that to her attention, they adjusted and have found the balance that works for them. If this became a weekly thing were Des was pushed away for a bit, then I’d agree with you.

[Say_Oy]

...found that about half of all American men and about a quarter of all women had extramarital sex at least once in their lifetimes. [/i]

LOL, Does that mean every woman who had extramarital sex has to have been with 2 men - on average? I'm sure there are some interesting statistic games you could play with that concept. Or were the women just not forthcoming while the men were bragging?

Would love to see the survey today, on anonymous computers...

[Observer1931]

I have always wondered that too. Just where were those 50% men getting their pussy if only 25% women were putting out. I know they are talking about marriage couples. Still reminds me of a survey done at an Ohio college where the students that were tested under an assumed Lie Detector environment the girls ave sex partner was like 4.2 the guys 4.0. Would be interesting to see an updated survey.

[isinlarsa]

I have always wondered that too. Just where were those 50% men getting their pussy if only 25% women were putting out. I know they are talking about marriage couples. Still reminds me of a survey done at an Ohio college where the students that were tested under an assumed Lie Detector environment the girls ave sex partner was like 4.2 the guys 4.0. Would be interesting to see an updated survey.

LOL. There's a old saying that to get the true number of sexual partners, you should divide the number a man claims by three, and multiple the number a woman admits to by three.

[Des 31]

Something from our past:

After several days of having fucked for what she believes is “too much,” she and I aren’t having sex this week. On Friday, her two youngest friends are coming over for the night and she thinks she can get more into it with them if she holds off a few days. That was actually at my suggestion, but a brief conversation between us made it clear to me she would bring it up if I didn’t. This happened at least once before and she felt guilty when she then asked if I could hold off having sex with her for two weeks. I’m sure that my suggesting it first this time avoided the guilty feelings she would probably have had.
~ Des

Great to hear from you again. I hope you and your wife had finally sex with each other again?

Excuse me if I say this, but I think you're way too generous sometimes, of course your wife should feel at least a little guilty when she has no energy left for you because she was so much involved with others .

Funny, good remarks. Yeah, we have had sex. I haven't posted our activities for several days mostly because so much happened in a short time the length would probably have put some to sleep when reading. If I can find a way to summarize it all in an interesting way, I'll be back soon.

~ Des