My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

[solstice]

I have reading about all of her successful HW encounters, has she had any failures with guys that she really liked.

[samlowen]

One thing I don’t recall reading about you two are vacations and if she has ever found herself a new lover during a trip with you. When you two travel, has that ever happened?

[Des 31]

One thing I don’t recall reading about you two are vacations and if she has ever found herself a new lover during a trip with you. When you two travel, has that ever happened?

Twice. One was written so long ago, you would probably have forgotten if you had read it. It's on Page 3 in response to a question by stillcanhang57.

I wrote about one other time in a separate post but don't think I included it in our ongoing thread. We visited her hometown where she worked for another bank. Her former boss occasionally hit on her when she worked there and was much younger. At the time we visited, she had by then been dating other guys. She phoned her old boss to meet her at a restaurant across the street. He apologized for coming on to her when she worked there. She responded she had thought about it a lot since and now wished she had been more receptive. They fucked that night as her "apology" to him and told him she wished she had been willing when she worked for him. I had previously suggested she might then want to do that, and she confessed she had considered it. She fucked a guy and a woman (formerly the leader of her high school FLAG group) separately - when visiting without me - to her high school's annual reunion and the school's opening season swim meet; that's here somewhere in this thread.

[Des 31]

I have reading about all of her successful HW encounters, has she had any failures with guys that she really liked.

Depends upon what you mean by failures. Some one-time hook-ups couldn't get it up, but that also has happened at times with guys she regularly has had sex with; she understands that happens at times and it has never bothered her. When we first started, she placed two personals ads. A couple of guys who responded didn't include their phone numbers, so she wrote to them and gave her cell phone number. Only one phoned back, talked while he was jerking off, but our phone ID showed his area code, which wasn't anywhere near our area as he claimed. He told her he was married and decided he couldn't meet her as intended, although he mentioned nothing about being married when he initially responded to her ad. Each clearly just got off on getting a response from the ad. After that, she refused to give out her phone number, address or last name until meeting the guys first at some neutral location to make sure they were serious and were who they said they were. The only other thing I recall was a psychologist she dated about a month and a half; before meeting my wife and when in college, I had known the guy as a complete jerk. I wrote all about that here, and she broke off the relationship when she realized my opinion of him as an arrogant liar was accurate.

As far as failures with guys she really liked . . . Unless you count those in the second sentence above, I can't recall any. I don't think so.

~ Des

[Xalar11]

We were talking in bed last night and I asked her whether it's possible to be in love with two men. She said, "Yeah, even four or more at the same time." That isn't a threat to our marriage but the feelings are there, and she has felt that way with a few others who have since moved on. We have had this discussion in the past but in less depth than on this occasion.

She said that when she and Beau talked on the phone, her "heart leaped,"

It's always very interesting to read you post. And I big thank for giving us a an insight into your relationship. It's not taken for granted.

But excuse me, if I play a kind of "spoilsport" here again and probably overinterpret things. I know, you said it isn't a threat to your marriage and you don't feel hurt, and I can understand that your wife develops a strong emotional attachment to some of her lover, but have I further understand you correctly: your wife says you're just one of the men, besides others, who she loves and you're happy to be in the mix, at least? So, you aren't "someone absolutely unique" for your wife, who stands far above all other men in her life? (I really hope I have misunderstand you here)

I mean, I don't doubt that your wife loves you, but is her love for you that intense, that she says without any doubt, that she feels destined to be with you, that you're the great love of her life and you're the absolute only man she couldn't bear to loose?? Yeah, I know this all sounds a bit corny. Sometimes you could get the impression your wife, just under little different circumstances, for example if her boss (would be a little younger) or Beau (would be a little older), she could imagine to be married to one of them. That, like I already said, you aren't necessarily the great love of her life.

I hope you can excuse these "heavy" and personal questions, but sometimes your posts really make me wonder.

[Long Lurker 34]

Des

Great writing and even better (I would say story, but it's your life so) adventures.

Just tid bit of curiosity. Does your wife keep/have any changes of clothes at her bosses mountain cabin?

[samlowen]

I’ve always had the assumption that part of the reason our wives stay with us is that we allow them the freedom to have their fun where other men might say no, you’re going to be monogamous and that’s that. I’m guessing that for similar reasons, if all other things were equal love wise, why leave a caring husband who gets off on watching/knowing you’re with other men? It’s having the cake and eating it in my opinion.

[Des 31]

Des

Great writing and even better (I would say story, but it's your life so) adventures.

Just tid bit of curiosity. Does your wife keep/have any changes of clothes at her bosses mountain cabin?

No, that wouldn't work for them. They made that decision to stay over a day before, so that wasn't necessary (at least this time).

Thanks for the kind words . . .
~ Des

[Des 31]

We were talking in bed last night and I asked her whether it's possible to be in love with two men. She said, "Yeah, even four or more at the same time." That isn't a threat to our marriage but the feelings are there, and she has felt that way with a few others who have since moved on. We have had this discussion in the past but in less depth than on this occasion.

She said that when she and Beau talked on the phone, her "heart leaped,"

It's always very interesting to read you post. And I big thank for giving us a an insight into your relationship. It's not taken for granted.

But excuse me, if I play a kind of "spoilsport" here again and probably overinterpret things. I know, you said it isn't a threat to your marriage and you don't feel hurt, and I can understand that your wife develops a strong emotional attachment to some of her lover, but have I further understand you correctly: your wife says you're just one of the men, besides others, who she loves and you're happy to be in the mix, at least? So, you aren't "someone absolutely unique" for your wife, who stands far above all other men in her life? (I really hope I have misunderstand you here)

I mean, I don't doubt that your wife loves you, but is her love for you that intense, that she says without any doubt, that she feels destined to be with you, that you're the great love of her life and you're the absolute only man she couldn't bear to loose?? Yeah, I know this all sounds a bit corny. Sometimes you could get the impression your wife, just under little different circumstances, for example if her boss (would be a little younger) or Beau (would be a little older), she could imagine to be married to one of them. That, like I already said, you aren't necessarily the great love of her life.

I hope you can excuse these "heavy" and personal questions, but sometimes your posts really make me wonder.

There's nothing left in my arsenal I could say to convince you, Xalar. I'm out of explanations. I'll have to leave that as a mystery, but thanks for writing.

~ Des

[subtoall]

There's nothing left in my arsenal I could say to convince you, Xalar. I'm out of explanations. I'll have to leave that as a mystery, but thanks for writing.

~ Des

...because there is no convincing those who need to see deceit and evil lurking in the heart of every hotwife, just waiting to rise up and strike every foolish trusting cuckold.

I love your perfect response Des. Imperturbability in action.

[Des 31]

I think her sexual encounters have become so common in our marriage that it works seamlessly with the other parts of our lives. We're still learning as we go.

I don't comment much on your updates but I DO READ and enjoy every post you make. You and your wife have this lifestyle figured out and enjoy it the max. This thread should be a MUST READ for every husband wanting to get his wife interested in this lifestyle. Once a husband breaks the news of this lifestyle to his wife and she gets over the shock she should have to read this thread as well. She needs to realize there are plenty of couples that can and do live what appears to others as a normal married life but the wife can have her fun on the side without anyone else knowing. Like you said above, you two HAVE figured out how to seamlessly work her sexual exploits into your daily lives. After reading your thread It should be clear to every couple considering this lifestyle that this lifestyle CAN WORK for them if they truly love each other have a rock solid marriage.✔ After reading and digesting the positive affect this lifestyle can have on a marriage, I would think most long term monogamous wives would want to give this way of life a try as soon as possible. HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE!!! Such a true statement. Thank you for continuously sharing your journey with us.

You're welcome, ABM. I hadn't thought of what I post here in that way. I didn't intend to be any kind of instructor to others and I'm not even sure why I enjoy telling this much about our lives. As a guy who likes to keep his life to himself, that's why I don't post on Facebook as it seems most we know do. I suspect my major fault as the husband of a hotwife is my addiction to this website. Thank you for those comments.

~ Des

[afagehi7]

I think her sexual encounters have become so common in our marriage that it works seamlessly with the other parts of our lives. We're still learning as we go.

I don't comment much on your updates but I DO READ and enjoy every post you make. You and your wife have this lifestyle figured out and enjoy it the max. This thread should be a MUST READ for every husband wanting to get his wife interested in this lifestyle. Once a husband breaks the news of this lifestyle to his wife and she gets over the shock she should have to read this thread as well. She needs to realize there are plenty of couples that can and do live what appears to others as a normal married life but the wife can have her fun on the side without anyone else knowing. Like you said above, you two HAVE figured out how to seamlessly work her sexual exploits into your daily lives. After reading your thread It should be clear to every couple considering this lifestyle that this lifestyle CAN WORK for them if they truly love each other have a rock solid marriage.✔ After reading and digesting the positive affect this lifestyle can have on a marriage, I would think most long term monogamous wives would want to give this way of life a try as soon as possible. HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE!!! Such a true statement. Thank you for continuously sharing your journey with us.

You're welcome, ABM. I hadn't thought of what I post here in that way. I didn't intend to be any kind of instructor to others and I'm not even sure why I enjoy telling this much about our lives. As a guy who likes to keep his life to himself, that's why I don't post on Facebook as it seems most we know do. I suspect my major fault as the husband of a hotwife is my addiction to this website. Thank you for those comments.

~ Des

We are thankful for your addiction to OHW. Maybe it's time for a new avatar pic of Mrs. Des

[solstice]

Des writes:
I suspect my major fault as the husband of a hotwife is my addiction to this website.

You are part of a brotherhood/sisterhood who are enjoying the privilege of the lifestyle, (and those of us who wished we were).

[Des 31]

I had previously mentioned here that my wife was to stay last night with her boss at his mountain cottage. I’ll tell a bit about that, and Thursday night as well, but first want to impart some information I came across while she was away.

Before my wife agreed to my urging that she fuck other men, I thought she would find a lot of men with large cocks. Anyone following this thread knows that hasn’t been her experience. The largest she has encountered is that of her current boss’ eight-and-a-half inches and one other from her past she then estimated at seven, maybe seven-and-a-half. Almost all others, including mine, have been of average size, give or take a bit. At least two were considerably smaller - she guesses around three inches or so. She still insists size doesn’t matter all that much but on a few occasions has admitted variations of, “The difference is nice.”

Last night when my wife was being fucked by her boss, I ran across an article on the "Impatient" website. A 2015 study determined the average penis is 5.16 inches long with a 4.5-inch circumference. I’m six inches and had considered that average. The Kinsey Institute found that 90% of male penises are within an inch of the average size (four to six inches).

Large penises are uncommon. Seven to eight inches is rare. Only 1% have a penis seven to eight inches and 0.7% (7 in 1,000) have a nine inch penis. Only 1 in 1,000 have a penis larger than nine inches. African males from certain countries tend to be larger, North Koreans tend to be smaller.

Soon after my wife arrived home just before noon today, I showed her that article. She said, “Then last night, I got a very rare stick. Had a great time too.” She intends to make a note of all that and show it to her boss at the next opportunity. She said, “I think he’ll like that.” I don't know why I like that she likes it, but it excites me to hear her experiences with him.

* * *

Following Thursday night with her two young fuckbuddies, my wife didn’t get home until around eight or nine Friday morning but had scheduled to be off work that day anyway. After work at four p.m. Thursday, she drove to Beau’s and Jack’s off-campus apartment. Jack was attending a night lab class and Beau had phoned her earlier in the week to ask if she could come over for a while that night. What was anticipated to be a couple of hours or less lasted all night.

He fucked her twice and talked about the part-time job interview she had set up for Beau with the bank’s chief financial officer. The man had already told my wife Beau would begin working with him three afternoons a week in January. He thought Beau was an exceptional hire. Beau had said to him that he only “vaguely knew” my wife, that she was a friend of his parents. My wife had suggested to Beau that he tell him that to explain how she knew him. The CFO said to my wife, “Oh, by the way, he didn’t use the first name you told me. He said he’s most often called ‘Beau’.” My wife suppressed a grin and said, “Thanks. I’ll remember that.” She wasn’t about to tell him how Beau got that nickname when on the sex-party boat trip a while back.

She had thought she might stay at the guys’ apartment for only an hour or two but I told her not to worry about the time, that I would be fine. She decided she would wait until Jack returned from his night class. Beau was going down on her when Jack arrived. He took off his clothes as Beau got off the bed for his friend to take his place with my wife. She and Jack had sex for what she thought to be about an hour as Beau watched from a chair alongside their computer desk.

I had gone to sleep early and didn’t notice she hadn’t called my cell phone to say she would be late. But around four a.m., I was awakened by the ring of our bedside phone. She stuttered as she apologized, “Oh fuck! I’m so sorry. I hadn’t noticed the time last night, and the three of us fell asleep.” I told her I was sleeping anyway and hadn’t noticed. She was still in bed with the guys but said she would leave right away. I suggested she not drive while sleepy and to wait until she was better rested. I had to get to the office early Friday and didn’t see her come in Friday morning.

* * *

Saturday morning: Following her sleepover Friday night with her boss, my wife came home late this morning near noon. She had called before leaving his place to explain why she would be later than either of us expected. They were again fucking around 8:30 this morning when they heard a vehicle pull up at the front of the cottage. She and her boss had parked their cars in the back. He looked out the window and saw a man taking pics. He said, “What the hell,” and told my wife to stay in bed. He put on his pajama bottoms and robe and went to the front yard to ask what the guy was doing.

He recognized the man at almost the moment he walked out the door. He’s the real estate salesman who sold the property to her boss and his wife. He wanted was to take a pic of the refurbished place to add to an updated intro-brochure. They talked a few minutes and the guy asked if her boss would mind if he took a few indoor photos. He told the man, “Sure, everything but the bedroom,” adding his “wife” was still in bed. They had a short conversation over coffee and her boss gave the guy a quotation of satisfaction to go along with the photos before the man took his leave.

Her boss came back to bed and apologized for the interruption. She laughed and said, “Not a problem. That was an exciting moment.” He fucked her again. She called me from her car and said she would explain her late return when she arrived home.

She had a fleeting thought that the man taking the photos might be a private investigator. She breathed a sigh of relief when she crept bare-foot to the living room and heard them talking at the kitchen table. She sucked his pole longer than usual and they fucked again, then went to a late breakfast at a log-cabin style restaurant halfway up the mountain road.

At times, this lifestyle isn’t without unforeseen drama; but she’s appropriately vigilant and no outsiders have ever learned of her extramarital encounters.

We got naked and she crawled atop me in bed. She was uncommonly sore following her two nights away. As she pulled on my dick, I asked how it went with Mr. Supersized Dick, my personal name for him. I put the “mister” in the name because she always calls him “Mister _____” even when they’re having sex. Once after work hours, they were fucking on his office couch. She told him I had difficulty believing he was really eight and a half inches. He told her to get a ruler from his desk. According to her two measurements, he’s within an eighth of an inch one way or the other.

She said, “My jaw’s a little sore from sucking, but it felt great inside me as always.” Reaching for a tissue from our night-stand, she steadily stroked my cock and gave me a blow-by-blow. Counting their morning session, they had fucked three times through the night and she thinks the longest-lasting was as much as an hour. She pumped my putz faster when I said, “I know you don't like admitting it, but you like that big dick, don’t you?” She clearly recognized my increased excitation when she said, “Sometimes I can cum just thinking about it.”

I didn’t know that. I moaned and was immediately cumming hard into the hand tissue with which she had covered my dickhead. Pulling on my shaft for the final dribbles,, she smiled and said, “Now I know what you think is the hottest. I'll remember that next time I tell you about him and me fucking."

~ Des

[MaxCargo]

One thing is for sure, your thread never gets boring. Did I get right, you didn't see your wife from Thursday morning until this Saturday morning?

When will you have full intercourse with your wife and not getting only a handjob? You seem to be a sympathetic guy, I know, it obviously doesn't bother you, but I kind of wish for you that your wife occasionally would show a little more sexual desire and lust for you. I can't remember if you have ever have written more than one line about you "fucking" your wife, in general about penetrative sex between you and her (Excuse my crude language). I know it's a sensitive issue, but does your wife orgasm when you fuck her? Aside of your wife telling you about one of her past encounters with another guy, is there any other "exchange" between you and your wife, when you both have sex with each other?

[afagehi7]

Des - I also like that she admits that she likes the big cock.

I wish they would report cock size results by race. Let's say, for example Chinese indians are smaller (not saying they are, just for sake of argument), then results would be smaller since they have so many people with approximately 30% of the world's population. Here is a study that breaks it out but still shows all races very similar with blacks slight larger... slightly.

www dot penissizes dot org/average-penis-size-ethnicity-race-and-country

I know women say that they don't care as long as it's not too big or too small. I wonder if there is some evolutionary thing in there. For example, they think that men like a specific hip to boob ratio because it indicates ability to give successful birth and food for the baby. I wonder if larger penis is more capable of impregnation since a 7 inch penis is closer to the goal than a 2 inch..less distance to swim.

It's amazing how almost every story here involves above average guys. I think having a big dick probably gives one more confidence so maybe it's the confident guys that will take a shot at a hotwife.

Back to topic, I like it when a woman admit she likes a big one. So Beau and roommate are average? Are you bigger than any of them.

[Des 31]

I think her sexual encounters have become so common in our marriage that it works seamlessly with the other parts of our lives. We're still learning as we go.

~ Des

We are thankful for your addiction to OHW. Maybe it's time for a new avatar pic of Mrs. Des

She prefers I not keep the few pics I have taken, but I hope this captured cam image works for you a few days. Thanks for writing...

[rascalnvixen]

Interesting discussion on size. I was once told that the female XY gene bearing sperm are longer lasting and stronger swimmers that the male XX gene sperm. I wonder how or even if that correlates to the size of the penis injecting. If the shorter the penis is 5 inches shorter than another penis, is it more likely that the shorter penis will facilitate a female baby? I honestly don't know but just wondering.

Hahaha, listen to all of us perverts getting scientific in the sexual discussions!!!

Rascal

[Des 31]

One thing is for sure, your thread never gets boring. Did I get right, you didn't see your wife from Thursday morning until this Saturday morning?

I didn't but she kept up with me by phone. That doesn't happen often, but it's come about when she was traveling and once when she stayed a full five days with her boss (That was a long story, but I wrote about that somewhere in this thread or a separate thread that I may not have transferred here. Can't recall with certainty, but I believe it's somewhere in this thread).

What may seem to some reading this is that my wife is having a lot of sex during a month I'm home more than usual. I'm fine with that. Unlike my wife who will be busier in December than most other times, my travel is almost non-existent this month. I'm doing advertisement and brochure rewrites electronically in my home office and have less need to be at the office. The downside is that I'll be doing a lot of travel-catch-up presentations in January and am expected to be out of state or out of town three weeks that month, home on weekends. I'm not just a writer, I'm the principal salesman for our firm, which for me is as good as it gets. My wife disagrees, but her advantage is that she won't need to go without being fucked during my January absences.

When will you have full intercourse with your wife and not getting only a handjob? You seem to be a sympathetic guy, I know, it obviously doesn't bother you, but I kind of wish for you that your wife occasionally would show a little more sexual desire and lust for you. I can't remember if you have ever have written more than one line about you "fucking" your wife, in general about penetrative sex between you and her (Excuse my crude language). I know it's a sensitive issue, but does your wife orgasm when you fuck her?

We have sex often and says she's now recovered from her previous two-nights dates. She orgasms with me. It's true I don't go into detail about her and my sexual interludes, but that's just me. I'm not comfortable writing or talking much about myself. When others ask personal questions in ordinary conversations, I either answer those as briefly as possible or shrug off some. My personality being as it is, that isn't likely to change in my conversations either, but I sometimes have the impression those we know wish I would open up more.

Aside of your wife telling you about one of her past encounters with another guy, is there any other "exchange" between you and your wife, when you both have sex with each other?

Yeah, we do, but the reason for my not including those times is for the same in the above response.

Thanks for writing, Max.

[Des 31]

Des - I also like that she admits that she likes the big cock. . . Back to topic, I like it when a woman admit she likes a big one. So Beau and roommate are average? Are you bigger than any of them.

Beau is about my size, Jack is perhaps a half-inch longer and thicker circumference. His dickhead is definitely larger, something my wife says she likes for whatever reason. Just for fun, my wife had measured Beau and twice measured Jack with slightly different results. Until sometime over the past few months, I almost always asked "what size" was he. She most often laughed at the question but told me her best guess anyway .

[Des 31]

Des - I also like that she admits that she likes the big cock.

I wish they would report cock size results by race. Let's say, for example Chinese indians are smaller (not saying they are, just for sake of argument), then results would be smaller since they have so many people with approximately 30% of the world's population. Here is a study that breaks it out but still shows all races very similar with blacks slight larger... slightly.

www dot penissizes dot org/average-penis-size-ethnicity-race-and-country

I know women say that they don't care as long as it's not too big or too small. I wonder if there is some evolutionary thing in there. For example, they think that men like a specific hip to boob ratio because it indicates ability to give successful birth and food for the baby. I wonder if larger penis is more capable of impregnation since a 7 inch penis is closer to the goal than a 2 inch..less distance to swim.

It's amazing how almost every story here involves above average guys. I think having a big dick probably gives one more confidence so maybe it's the confident guys that will take a shot at a hotwife.

Back to topic, I like it when a woman admit she likes a big one. So Beau and roommate are average? Are you bigger than any of them.

I checked out the website to which you referred above. That coincides with the more limited information I found concerning penis sizes. I noticed that study found that, in the U.S., African-Americans have the longest average erect size, 5.8" (converted from centimeters as the researchers at the website preferred). It seems from my experience that most guys, including me, overly obsess about dick size.

Knowing that would make a lot of guys who post in the Cuckold forum a lot happier about themselves. But, I agree with you, I'm glad she likes that larger size too. She most often says what she likes is that it's "different." I can read between the lines.

Good report. Thanks.
~ Des
Added on a few minutes later: Wife is again attending a work-related party at a bank customer's office tonight. I just came across another online article written in 2010 by psychologist David J. Ley Ph.D. in Psychology Today. His professional experience led him to realize, he wrote, that cuckolding has now become mainstream. Since learning of Ourhotwives website, I had come to suspect that was true. Apparently, it's a much more common phenomenon than non-cuckold/hotwife couples could imagine.

[afagehi7]

It seems from my experience that most guys, including me, overly obsess about dick size.

Knowing that would make a lot of guys who post in the Cuckold forum a lot happier about themselves. But, I agree with you, I'm glad she likes that larger size too. She most often says what she likes is that it's "different." I can read between the lines.

Added on a few minutes later: Wife is again attending a work-related party at a bank customer's office tonight. I just came across another online article written in 2010 by psychologist David J. Ley Ph.D. in Psychology Today.

Des
1. Most of us equate cock size with manhood. I'm assuming this is a socialized behavior. Bigger dick = more of a man.

2. I think the cucks relish in having a small cock. I think they like it as it fits into their fantasy.

3. Read between the lines - I like it. Different probably means a few things.. bigger being one of them. Perhaps younger is another since she's really fallen for Beau. Maybe she likes the young stud angle more than she lets on. Men like young women so why not flip the script.

4. Can you share this article? Its probably a combination of more exposure and with women being more sexually liberated.

[Des 31]

Added on a few minutes later: Wife is again attending a work-related party at a bank customer's office tonight. I just came across another online article written in 2010 by psychologist David J. Ley Ph.D. in Psychology Today.

. . .
4. Can you share this article? It's probably a combination of more exposure and with women being more sexually liberated.

Sure. The moderators here once wrote me they would prefer I not post outside links here, so I will send you a private message with the link and article. It can also be Googled with the words, "David J. Ley Ph.D. cuckold Psychology Today 2010." He is a frequent columnist in the magazine and also has some updated articles on cuckolding.

You mentioned she probably likes younger guys more than she lets on. Actually, that's true and something I haven't before mentioned here. The second guy she met had a particularly younger appearance the first year or so than even his age of 19. He called her "Mom," which excited her. I took that to mean she had some kind of incest fantasy. Her current student guys have done that also and she tells me she likes it, but their stamina, power and long-lasting ability are a large part of that. I once heard Beau from our bedroom cry out, "I'm cummin', Momma." There's something else about oral sex with them that she particularly enjoys.

Thanks for your insightful comments. I agree with all. I have heard my wife wailing from our bedroom when her big-dick boss is fucking her and her excited comments are different from those of other guys. (including, "Oh my god, it's so big! I love it so much.") I don't buy her occasional comments about size isn't as important as I think it is. I get excited for her as I'm jerking off in another room.

She has only been deeply involved with one guy as long as she has now been having sex with her boss. That alone tells me she likes something different about him. I'm sure a part of the reason is "size" but know there are other reasons for that complete an emotional bonding as well.

~ Des

[Hotcplpec]

Love your story and always look forward to updates. Your penis size comments got me thinking. Why do we obsess over it so much, mostly guys. And my answer is simple, who cares, lol. We do. Simple. I was having a discussion with my girlfriend about her past boyfriend and I know he’s a bigger guy so I assume he’s bigger elsewhere. I finally got her to admit he might’ve been a “bit” bigger. I immediately got hard. I don’t understand it but there is a big turn on there. Love it. Keep up the good work Des, tell your wife she’s my hero

[Des 31]

Love your story and always look forward to updates. Your penis size comments got me thinking. Why do we obsess over it so much, mostly guys. And my answer is simple, who cares, lol. We do. Simple. I was having a discussion with my girlfriend about her past boyfriend and I know he’s a bigger guy so I assume he’s bigger elsewhere. I finally got her to admit he might’ve been a “bit” bigger. I immediately got hard. I don’t understand it but there is a big turn on there. Love it. Keep up the good work Des, tell your wife she’s my hero

I can fully understand that. Even a "bit" bigger is good for me. And I'll tell her what you said. She will probably catch up on the thread sometime this week anyway and will read your comment. We fucked last night and she was hot and her hips rotated as she recalled the previous weekend. I asked if she was thinking about "that big one." She said, "Yeah, honey, it's been on my mind about it a lot." I fucked faster as she went on and was cumming hard.

Thanks a lot.

! Des