Young Wife May Start Again

[joel68]

Cool. Can't wait for the next step where you get watch her get it from Billy or Tre. I know you want to watch her get it , but which one of them would you like to watch more?

Also, is she getting it from Billy right now?

[lionbrand]

So hot story! Great that you both are turned on by hotwife lifestyle. Thanks for sharing! I'm big fan of yours.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

She has made amazing progress in a realitively short time.

Will Mr Grey be getting the fuck of his lifetime anytime soon?

Mr GILF

[jeeves]

Okay, time to slack of at work at bit I guess.

The talk and the dildo.  Monday afternoon Brandi worked with Billy.  He asked her if she wanted to get together soon.  She told him that I was home, which he knew, and that she didn't know.  She told me this when she got home.  I asked her if she wanted to.  She asked me if I wanted her to.  The old stand off.  My dick got the better of me and started to get hard at the thought of this.  I told her I didn't know and again asked her what she wanted to do.  She told me she wanted to do what turns me on and then grabbed my cock.  She told me that it sure feels like it turns me on.  Fuck!  I feel like she played me.  She stated talking dirty and asked me if I wanted her to be a naughty wife at home while I was at work.  I told Brandi I was going to fuck her with one or more of her dildos like she was getting fucked by other cocks, and then get my sloppy seconds.  

To my surprise when I reached into her nightstand toy drawer and there was a new, much large dildo, I had never seen before.  I pulled it out and Brandi's face looked surprised.  I asked her about it and she just said it was a new toy.  She asked me if I wanted to use it on her.  Then to my further surprise she asked me to go clean it as she had used it earlier and forgotten to wash it before work.  I ran to the bathroom to wash it.  It was an impressive piece of rubber and I instantly imagined a big cock like this fucking her.  Brandi told me to fuck her with it.  I was surprised by how easily Brandi could handle this big dick.  This lead to a hot and dirty role play fuck session where I went in depth about her being my slutty wife at home.  It got nasty.  I fucked her with the toy until she came and then got my turn on her now well stretched pussy.  I have always enjoyed her sloppy seconds pussy, and it was pretty sloppy after working her over with this thick toy.  I can fuck her hard and fast and do not have to worry about cumming too soon.  

When we were finished we talked more about the hot role play session and how it turned us both on.  I needed to know about the dildo.  She said it was almost the same size of Billy's cock and had been a gift from him.  Apparently, after they had sex the second time they talked about his past experiences and he had a girlfriend that had used this exact dildo so she could train herself to take him comfortably.  I asked her how much she had been using it and she said almost daily and it had made a big difference in sex with both Billy and Tre.  She said she did not want me to feel insecure or inadequate so she did not mention the toy to me.  

She again asked if this is what I really wanted.  Having just cum and with the sexual angst being gone, I nearly said no.  I knew this was my post orgasm blue feeling I always get and told her, yes, I want her to continue to have fun with both Billy and Tre if she wants.  I can't keep changing my mind on her especially after my blow up a few weeks ago.  I want her to keep it on the quiet though.  I thought about setting a limit, but will let her decide, and am curious to see how much she will do it.  I guess I'm all in now.

So, as of right now, she has a fuck date with Billy this afternoon at our house while I'm at work.   I'll be getting some sloppy seconds tonight. I find it incredibly hot that she went just over a week without spreading her legs for Billy or Tre and she is eager to get back on the horse (cock). Ha!

Although I decided to take the pictures of her down, I thought a low quality pic for my avatar would be okay.

You just have to post the pics.

[Cuckoldme]

Fantastic! Very excited for you both (and Billy and Tre).
I hope you’re balls deep in a well fucked pussy by now.
It’s awesome that Billy gave her a training toy, and a kinda thoughtful. Haha
I don’t know anyone but, it seems, like either guy wouldn’t have any issue fucking Brandi while you watch, I was thinking one guy could fuck while you watch and one guy is the “affair”. That way she gets off on the cheating wife idea and keeps one at bay while you’re home.

Awesome update!!!

[Cuckoldme]

Oh! I forget to mention something regarding the post cum crash/Regrets....totally normal.
I used to get them really bad, also. Almost called off a few dates and ALOMST asked her to come home once when she was meeting for dinner. I know some guys just don’t jerk off, and the works, but I’m to hot and bothered thinking about her getting fucked or watching.
I’ve discovered I can kinda train myself. What I do is, when I alone, cum while I’m thinking about her fucked (but she’s actually at work) then I’ll try to recover and jerk off thinking about her again. I don’t always cum but it seems to work.

[afagehi7]

So do you eventually want to watch her get fucked by one of these guys?

What about her? Do you think she would like you to watch what these guys do to her? Have you watch her taking a big cock?

Have you discussed it?

Yes, I want to see her fucked by lots of guys. If you read back I've seen her fuck my friend Mike, who had a big cock, many times years ago. That's how I (we) know she likes big cock and partly what encouraged me to persuade her to go find some new big cock.

As for watching her, she is loving the cheating wife scenario (pretending she is cheating is her biggest turn on besides big cocks), but I think it will only be a matter of time if we keep this up. I sense her opening up and getting more slutty with our adventures.

I openly talk about her having a gangbang where lots of guys take turns on her. My fantasies evolve around her being a total slut and fucking lots of men. This turns her on but one step at a time. I'm just happy she now has two playmates and is keen on fucking them.

Billy and Tre think she's cheating? If so what if you staged you coming home early so you almost catch them? She could have a signal such as opening the curtains after they both cum so you know it's safe. You come in and yell that you are home and have to do something in the garage/basement then you'll start dinner. Then, he has to sneak out the back door.

If she likes the cheating this may be exciting for her and will reenforce to them that she is cheating. You could also hide in the house and listen? Maybe the bedroom next door or even the bedroom closet if you are brave.

[john jasson]

I know it's different strokes for different folks, but we think the cheating wife scenario is by far the hottest. It's a big secret between the two of you and the men see her as even wilder than she actually is because she is risking all to be with them. She can bask in that. Also it may discourage any man who might develop designs on her. He'll be thinking that if she can cheat on you with him, he'd never be able to trust her if she left you for him.

If you like the watching her/out in the open scenario, you could always have separate, unconnected men to play that angle while keeping her "cheating" lovers well away from that.

[brandiandme]

At work this morning being non productive so I've gotta get this off my chest.  We are done with hotwifing for a while.  The weekend sucked. 

Anyway, it an attempt to not jump around on the timeline here, back to last Wednesday first.  Brandi did in fact have sex with Billy Wednesday afternoon.  I came home later to reclaim her well used pussy.  On to Friday and riding the hot(wife) streak, and with my encouragement, Brandi decided to do the same thing she did Wednesday, but with Tre this time.  They both had to work Friday night and got together for a mid day romp before going to work while I was at work.  When I got home Brandi was not there, but it was hot looking at our bed and knowing what she had been up to hours earlier, with her thickly endowed black lover.  I was heading into the bar later to hang out and visit her.  This was to be the first time I would have to interact with one of the guys my wife had been fucking for the last month or so.  

I got to the bar Friday and Tre was there working with Brandi as expected.  He was overly friendly to me.  I hated knowing the fact that he was sorta rubbing it in my face somehow.  It was nauseating facing him knowing he had just fucked my wife hours earlier.  It did not turn me on, it just made me mad.  That's not all, Billy was not working but came in later to hang out.  He was the exact opposite.  He avoided me like the plague.  He would not make eye contact.  Talk about being obvious, the dip shit.  I finally tracked him down and he was very dodgy.  It was uncomfortable for both of us and I did not stay until closing time.  When I left Brandi could sense I was off and when she got home I told her all about this and the awkwardness it created, and how it was tough to handle, and I did not see this coming.  I was so messed up by the situation I didn't even get to reclaim her. 

Things only got worse from here, as our upstairs neighbor pulled me aside this weekend.  We live in a 6 unit building and are in one of the middle units.  Our neighbors upstairs are an older couple that also have a beach house a few hours away.  He's full on retired and she works a couple of days per week in the city.  They like to go to shows and shit like that, and are back and forth between the house and the apartment a lot.  Anyway, Saturday I was outside and I saw the husband.  He pulled me aside and said he had to tell me something.  He told me that he was positive he had heard Brandi having sex with someone else when I was away, and not just once, and had also seen a strange man around a few times.  Fuck!  I told him thanks for letting me know and that I would deal with it.  

This is so humiliating.  I wonder what other neighbors have heard Bandi fucking in my absence.  Now she's the whore and I'm the pussy husband.  We are both embarrassed.  I feel like we have to move.  

This has thrown a wrench in our sex life.  We have not had sex since Wednesday, so as of right now Tre was the last guy to fuck her.    

[XYAlpha]

This sounds like a great time to get away for a couple of days - road trip and just be together.
You need to make love to Brandi - don't leave her hanging! I'm sure you can pull yourself together and make sure she knows you still love her and WANT her!


XY

[Supa Scoopa]

Great thread. Like a lot of things in this lifestyle, let things sink in, see where you are in a week or so. Some of it might not be such a big deal in a few days.

[joel68]

Supa, you could be right. Who knows.

The fact that they did stuff like this before they were married indicates that they are not rookies. And in the past it was with his buddies as well. I had a bit of pause now because it’s guys she works with that are fucking her. But it’s not that far removed from when it was his friends. So I guess we will see how it plays out, providing he keeps on posting.

[Serrand]

I really feel for you. Sometimes, when I hear people talk here on this forum how exciting and great the "Hotwife-lifestyle" is, they seem to completely blind out that it's not always rosy and that this kind of lifestyle also has his negative sides of course, like you obviously have experienced since last Friday. Actually I didn't want to mentioned it and I hope you won't get angry with me when I say the following, but I thought from the start that you went a bit overboard and too fast with this all. I think for the future you and Brandi should especially avoid this Tre guy, I have the feeling that he will only mean trouble.

I'm sure you and Brandi will pull through this, even if it means to move from the place you're currently living. Like others already have said the most important thing is communication between you and Brandi. And you really should make love to her, showing how much you love her.
Look, I don't say you should stop "hotwifing", this obviously thrills you and Brandi and there is no harm in this. But again, like others already have said, if you as a couple are involved in such an intense lifestyle, or whatever you want to call it, it's absolutely essential and important, in my opinion, that every once in a while, you as a couple take a break from this lifestyle and soley concentrate on each other. Therefore, what also has been suggested, that if it's possible it probably wouldn't be a bad idea for you and Brandi to go on a little vacation maybe.

However, I hope you'll keep us updated, your thread is certainly one of the most intrigued ones on this site.

[Tryn]

Sorry to read things aren’t going well! No fun for sure. I read your post as the secretcy of things is what really bothered you at the bar. Perhaps Brandi coming clean with Tre & Billy would put things at ease. Them knowing that you have the upper hand might make you feel better. However, I think you definitely want to move. Some guys would like the neighbors knowing, I wouldn’t, I it’s totally reasonable for you guys not to like it. Think about ending the charade see what Brandi thinks about it. Best of luck to you both!

[afagehi7]

At work this morning being non productive so I've gotta get this off my chest.  We are done with hotwifing for a while.  The weekend sucked. 

Just relax dude. Don't pull the trigger on a nuclear option here. You know to expect some bumps and bruises along the way. Everything is fine you just don't feel that way at the moment. Just put the brakes on and reassess in a couple weeks.

You knew eventually you'd hit a bump. This one isn't a bad one as it could have been a much worse situation.

Y'all went a bit hard and heavy pretty quick. In a couple weeks, you're going to feel much better. Don't make any decisions for a couple weeks in this "refractory period". Make sure you and Brandi communicate and stay close. A vacation or some private time is good advice.

TLDR; just relax for a couple weeks, stay close to Brandi, and reassess. You knew a speed bump would happen. All in all, it's not so bad.

[Cuckoldme]

At work this morning being non productive so I've gotta get this off my chest.  We are done with hotwifing for a while.  The weekend sucked. 

Just relax dude. Don't pull the trigger on a nuclear option here. You know to expect some bumps and bruises along the way. Everything is fine you just don't feel that way at the moment. Just put the brakes on and reassess in a couple weeks.

You knew eventually you'd hit a bump. This one isn't a bad one as it could have been a much worse situation.

Y'all went a bit hard and heavy pretty quick. In a couple weeks, you're going to feel much better. Don't make any decisions for a couple weeks in this "refractory period". Make sure you and Brandi communicate and stay close. A vacation or some private time is good advice.

TLDR; just relax for a couple weeks, stay close to Brandi, and reassess. You knew a speed bump would happen. All in all, it's not so bad.

Agreed, right now it’s a lot a raw emotions, just let things cool down before any big changes.
Seems like Billy is just dealing with some shame? Thinking he’s fucking your wife behind your back, he probably wasn’t prepared how to act when he ran into you again
Tre seems like an asshole. Knowing you approved of Brandi’s “affair” would definitely deflate his ego. But it’s too soon to let that cat out of the bag.
Sit tight and let your emotions cool a little bit and you’re head (big head not little head) will lead the way.
Definitely DO NOT take it out on Brandi. In fact, she needs some loving on and reassurance from you that you’re in this together and she did nothing wrong.
Maybe you try again and maybe you don’t but now‘s not the time to decide.

IF you decide to try again then, perhaps, let the guy in on the situation? My wife has told all the guys she’s been with the “deal”. Sometimes before they meet and sometimes after but always before sex. Probably limits options but it seems like Brandi is a smoking hottie and she’ll have no problem finding a good match for you both. But all this is way down the line. Chill for now and make love to YOUR wife and enjoy the holidays!

[SutterKane]

I know this is tough, but you need to get a grip on your emotional state. Tre thinks he's one up on you as a man, but he is the plaything of you and Brandi, so what do you care? How did you want him to react?
On the home front, would he find a reason to kick you out or not renew your lease if you just told him that you two practice non monogamy and that she is free to do as she pleases? Could he handle that? Could you?
How is she feeling after your episode? Has this reaction shut her down to hotwifing? Is she hurt and angry about your emotional issues? Does she understand that this just hit you out of the blue? And that you need a pause to adjust and adapt to these feelings?
Or is this just too much humiliation, too fast? God knows we don't control the rate of delivery of these things in this game. We have to take it as it comes and deal with it on the fly.
Instead of fighting it, you could try leaning into it. Might show you a whole new way. But you've got to be pretty fucking strong for that and love her and her happiness than you love your own. You might not be there yet.
Sutter

[Dharmadude]

My wife has only had a few men that she has fucked more than once. All of them have known that I know. I think it would be fun for her to play the cheating wife, then if/when I talk to him, he would think he is getting over on me but, in reality, both she and I are getting over on him. Since I have never been in this situation, I can only look at it from the fantasy POV. Maybe I wouldn’t feel the same if it were reality.

There has been some good advice given here. It sounds to me like both of you kind of rushed into this. Even though you had previous experience playing with another that was “together”. Couple this with the fact you were halfway around the world and I think it overwhelmed you.

As has been said, you should both take some time for you and regroup. Then start again slowly. You both enjoy this but need to move at a slower pace.

[Supa Scoopa]

This situation is really just clarifying what your boundaries now are. It's impossible to know what part of the reality will turn you on before you jump in. You now know you don't want to see/socialise with the guys who are fucking her. You could simply do that, or it could also mean you don't like your wife being around them at any other time either.

The neighbour thing is something you'll obviously have to figure out yourself, that's not something you can just change unless you do move. Just watch your wife doesn't get pissed at having to move because of your fantasy, as that's a massive upheaval. That might be enough for her to just put a stop to the whole thing. Are you going to move any time a neighbour sees something suspicious?

[brandiandme]

A lot can change in a few days, and time to process and discuss everything has helped, not to mention having sex with my wife again.  I was feeling very down when I last posted, and quite reactionary.  First of all, moving is not an option.  There seems to be a misunderstanding, but the neighbor upstairs is not the landlord and has no say on our tenancy or anything we do for that matter.  

We've talked a lot over the last few days have further discussed how uneasy I felt Friday night.  Brandi brought up some good points and also that it confuses her a bit.  If I had no problem actually watching my friends have sex with her in the past, why did it bother me so much to just know that Billy and Tre have had sex with her.  She said it's only sex after all.  The way she said it was almost as though it was like working out and not that big of a deal.  I have to say I am loving her casual attitude towards sex these days, and it makes me feel better in some weird way.  I can only sum up my negative reaction by the fact that I was feeling jealous. 

I appreciate the advice pouring in from you all. I need to accept that Brandi has only had sex with other men, and is only doing so now, because I asked her to. Sure, she gets enjoyment out of it and has her own fantasies and agenda, but it wold not have started if it were not for me. You cannot control human behavior and I need to face the fact I cannot micro manage every situation. She is open and willing enough to play the part of the "slut" wife for me, and I need to he happy for what I do have, and supportive. I probably would have been okay but the situation on Friday night after some reflection time, but it was totally compounded by the confrontation on Saturday with the neighbor.  On to that subject.

Apparently, I was far more upset about our neighbor assuming she was cheating than she was.  Why should we care what some more or less strangers think.  We only see these people in passing and when we move will never see them again.  The reaction from Brandi was quite the opposite from mine.  When we were discussing this Monday night she admitted she was a bit turned on by the fact that the neighbor thinks she is a cheating wife.  She said I bet he wants to fuck me now.  This turned me on and I told her so.  This lead to more hot talk and role play.  She went on to say, I wonder if he told his wife or if he thinks he has a chance, and I bet he'll be really nice to me now.   I was all over her.  I can't explain it, but her being nasty and playing the part of a slut turns me on and I cannot help it.  This lead to a very hot session where I ended up pounding her with her huge dildo to a few orgasms before reclaiming her sloppy seconds pussy.  We had not had sex since last Wednesday and it was intense.  So much for making love though as this was a pure fucking session, and a dirty one too.  She was extra loud, no doubt showing off for the neighbors, who I don't think were home, but I know other neighbors were.  We role played about her being a naught slut wife and fucking big dicks at home, including the neighbor.   I had planed to make it all about us, but my dick got the best of me.  

After I asked her if she was serious about fucking the neighbor.  She jokingly said only if he is really hung but then looked at me quizzically and said she had zero attraction to an old grandpa age guy and was only saying that to be nasty and turn me on.  She then said you really do want me to fuck everyone, don't you.  I told her I did not and could get caught up in the moment.  We talked some more and she asked me if I wanted her to continue to have sex with Billy and Tre.  I told her that I wanted to take a bit of a break for now.

On to last night. Brandi surprised me when I got home from work.  As soon as I walked in the door I could hear grunts and moans from Brandi in the bedroom.  I knew she was in there having sex.  Was she cheating on me?  I cannot describe the emotions this conjured.  I ran to the bedroom to see Brandi was riding her huge dildo.  She immediately told me that she was glad I was home and that she needed something in her ass too.  It didn't take long before I was balls deep in her ass and double penetrating her with the huge dildo still in her pussy.  After a break and a recovery period, she told me she had been horny and board at home that day and had been fucking herself.  I then fucked her with the huge dildo, for her third time that day, and got some sloppy seconds after.  Of course, the hot talk ensued and once again I was taking about getting her pussy after her fuck buddies had stretched her out.  After we were done, she again asked me what I wanted.  She brought up a good point that in the heat of the moment I was excited about Tre and Billy fucking her and she wondered if that is what I wanted her to do.  I almost told her to go for it, but said I was not ready and that I still feel we should take some time off.  I am leaving again for work on 1/13, so in just over a month I will be gone again, and I feel that hotwifing will commence in full again.  It was far easier for me when I was 7000 miles away.   For now, I think it is best that we take some time and do nothing, but I can guarantee we are not done with our hotwifing adventures.  It turns us both on way too much.  

I realize that the cheating wife fantasy is a monster turn on for her.  I have never her seen her so horny in our years together.  I need to harness that in a good way.  We discussed her flirting with Tre, Billy, and other men, and fucking herself with her toys at home, and role playing, to help her get her fix.  I really like the idea of her openly flirting with other men.  It might introduce some new prospects for the future.  I have zero doubt that if I gave Brandi the green light, she would be fucking Tre and/or Billy tomorrow.

[TheHammer]

In the meantime, she could get on Tinder and other dating apps and do some online flirting. This will both add some immediate spice while you are still in town and also may lead to future prospects once you leave.

[joel68]

Sounds like you’re gonna get back into this at some point. Just wondering if you green light her what do you want? Do you just want to hear about how Billy, Tre, or a random dude had fucked her after the fact? Or maybe hear it live from her phone? Or would you like to watch? (I do recall you watched your hung buddy fuck her in the past.). There a lot of possibilities with this. Have you thought about all the various scenarios? There are plenty of examples on this board.

[subtoall]

I'm really glad you got yourself to a better place with what happened over the weekend. I'm sure those feelings you were experiencing were a real downer. That being said, I wonder if how you're approaching the lifestyle right now where you essentially shut down her playing around might start to look a little too controlling on your part. While a cooling off period may be warranted after a crisis, and that may be just what you're doing, I fear you might risk her building some resentment toward you if this becomes a situation where she has to adjust her extracurricular play to satisfy your needs, sort of an 'on again, off again' dial that keeps getting turned to address your tolerance of cuckold angst. I may be reading into things that aren't there, but my gut told me you risk coming off as a bit controlling based on your last post.

Now the dynamic of the husband controlling the wife's play may work for you as a couple, but it's probably something that is best agreed to consciously, through discussion of what you both want or need in this lifestyle. I'm not clear about whether you've had such discussions. Regardless, I love following along on your journey and really enjoy the depth of your posts about your adventures together.

[Serrand]

I would disagree a little with what the previous commentator has said. In my opinion it's certainly not "controlling" in any way if you make it clear, now or at any point in the future, that it's better for now, in your opinion, to take a break from hotwifing for a period of time. And I don't think you risk coming off as trying to control Brandi, when you do this. I think it shows more, including to Brandi, how much you value your marriage and the love you both share.

It's not about micro managing every situation, as you have formulated yourself, this of course would lead to problems and probably hurt, not to forget it would kill off any excitement and fun. But at the same time it's irresponsible if not to say stupid and dangerous, if you would let Brandi engage this and let her play with other guys totally uncontrolled. "Rules" or a certain "control", whatever you want to call it, are absolutely the wise thing to do in my opinion. For example, if you should have bad vibe about some guy or simply have a problem with a man Brandi is engaged with and you don't want her to meet him, then of course it's your right to tell her this, anything else would be rather stupid. And of course if you think it's necessary to take a break from all of this for a while, then you should also formulate this cleary.

In danger to repeat myself, I think it's actually essential and important for married couple, who is engaged in such intense affairs, to take a break from this lifestyle, every once in a while, and only concentrate on each other. Therefore, I think it's the absolutely right decision of you and Brandi to take break from hotwifing, at least for a little while.

Of course, this all is just my opinion, other people see this differently. I hope you can excuse my rambling around here

[gwwkjt]

So she wants a big cock in her pussy and your cock in her ass? She is giving you quite a "huge" hint. Seems like she done similar things with you and Mike