Poll: fantasy/role play/real life etc...

[mfm4bnc]

There are so many people here, and so few write posts. I am curious how other people experience cuckolding. I am hoping to get a broader perspective than what I read from the small percentage of people who write posts... Come on lurkers... participate please!

[mfm4bnc]

early results are not what I expected...

[Cdncuck]

What kind of results did you expect?

[slowsteady]

There are so many people here, and so few write posts. I am curious how other people experience cuckolding. I am hoping to get a broader perspective than what I read from the small percentage of people who write posts... Come on lurkers... participate please!

Cuckolding may spark fantasies, can possibly be fun to role play, but understand is always real life in every aspect of this kink! It can sometimes feel like fun. It is ultimately not. It matures into total reality. On it's terms. Not ours.

[knight4princess]

I had a hard time finding answers that truly fit our situation. But I voted for "pillow talk," "veto power" and "honesty and communication" because those seemed to come closest.

[Rhino444]

I went with "I told my wife", "pillow talk", and "role-play". We've had a few close calls (she had an online boyfriend she was planning to meet at one point and another time she got as far as a heavy make-out session with a guy she went to college with) but for one reason or another life got in the way or the guy she found flaked out on us. She is very much down with the kink though, so I'm confident when she finds the right guy I'll be properly angsting over being cuckolded for real, but until then it's roleplaying, dildos, and cum lube for us.

[mfm4bnc]

What kind of results did you expect?

When I posted that, the last response had 3, and no other response had more than 2... Now the green light answer has surged ahead. I was curious about how many curious/fantasizers were here vs. how many all-in folks were here.

[quint102]

We are all in real. There are plenty of pics to prove it in our thread in The Hotties. I am her real life cuckold.

[tractorman2]

I too am a real life cuck, however an alpha male in normal life, well visually anyway that doesn't stop her fitting me daily and for extended periods with a CB, Permanent fixtures include painted toe nails, a collar and knickers issued daily. Away from work I wear ladies tight jeans and often suspenders too.

[desertsub]

My wife initiated my cuckolding and has cuckolded me all through our 30+ years of marriage. She knew that my first wife had cuckolded me and that I accepted it. Knowing that, she fucked another guy for two months before we were even married and then continued fucking other men after we got married. After we got married we started transitioning into a female led relationship, starting with her being able to fuck whoever she wanted whenever she wanted, and she has always had that option.

Back early in our marriage she was quite open about my cuckolding. Several of her girlfriends knew she was doing it. She would go out clubbing with them and usually ended up fucking some guy before the night was over. After she got her college degree and went to work in her chosen profession she became a lot more discrete because of her job. Even so, some of her female coworkers and her sister know that she cuckolds me. She also recently told MY best friend that she cuckolds me too!

[Chundu]

I have just told my wife n the last month about my fantasy we both have no intrest in actually havning a real person cuck me i jus like hearing her vocalize it to me during sex in detail I will say that she seems to b more turned on since we have atater this

[dinoo]

In real life my wife LadyD played around, mostly giving me no attention.

One of her fantatsies:
(Pillow talk, from our diary)
She: "My dream is I cage you at home before we leave to visit a club. In fact a cage which is a little to small.
We are naked and therefore everybody can see what will be your role, so inviting others to take advantage of it.
When making love to somebody, you will sit near to us in a way you can watch me being his or her slut. Preferably as near as possible so your mouth will eventually be available too. I try to arouse you, letting burst your cock in the cage. I will do everything to let you cum spontaneously. That will be my goal, my dream."

It never did happen.

[Her pet]

The caveat to my answer is that Goddess is not completely public about it but she does have a group of close co-workers who know everything. I see them every so often at some of her work parties and them knowing is new since the last time so it should be exquisitely embarrassing and humiliating next time. Especially if she locks me and wears the key in the open, which I am almost sure she will.

[TinyBoyDick]

We agreed on rules before getting int to this. We are a very close, loving couple but I am incapable of supplying my wife's sexual needs (or any woman's sexual needs) so, my being a true and natural cuckold at heart and her being a frustrated wife who needs cock and variety, this was a PERFECT lifestyle for us!!

We can BOTH veto whatever is going on for some reason or for NO reason at all. It works for us and my wife hs had 25 different cocks in her in the last 18 months. I'm virtually always present though not participating.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

We started exploring male chastity/femdom 20 years ago, at first it was only an occasional thing for a month here and there. Over time, the lock-ups became longer, extending to over a year. A long time ago, when I was encouraging her, I gave her a 'certificate' that conceded her power to lock me any time she wants- I arranged things in such a way that I am unable to revoke it, she has hidden it away somewhere and I would be severely embarrassed if I were to cause an 'issue' about it. At first, she didn't take much advantage of it but it has become much more common now. I have been locked for nearly a year currently, with extremely limited orgasms. She wears the key on a necklace, clearly visible to all.

Several years ago she began dreaming about fucking others. I knew about her dreams because she talks in her sleep, she is very active and vocal when she is dreaming. I found that I would become aroused when I heard her having those dreams. Initially, she would not admit to what her dreams involved, but that changed within the last year- she has begun telling me about her dreams, which involve her having a number of 'boyfriends' that she fucks in front of me while I am bound/cuffed, forced to watch and participate in various ways (especially 'licking her clean' after, which is a pleasure she greatly enjoys). She has observed how aroused I become when she tells me about her dreams...which is considerably, given my severely restricted orgasms.

Earlier this year, she asked me about my 'fantasies' and I was compelled to provide a list, of course, a number of them have come to mirror her dreams. Along with the list I gave her an 'official' written 'Hall Pass' acknowledging her right to enjoy as many 'boyfriends' as she pleases, with the condition that I am 'aware and/or somehow involved', stipulating that it is valid whenever and for however long she is acting as 'Mistress' and keeping me locked and that it is non-revocable. Her only comment about it was to inform me that she has hidden it away where I will never find it (the implication being, of course, if I can't find it then I can't take it back...and the additional implication that if any 'issues' were to arise, she could produce it, to my embarrassment).

I do not retain any 'veto power' and I specified only two 'hard limits' in regard to my participation- no being forced to kiss or rim other men, I am practically 'homophobic' and these things are completely revolting to me...any other interaction or participation that may bring her pleasure or amusement is 'on the table' as I find the risk of being compelled to participate in activities in which I don't *want* to participate and would not normally participate to be highly erotic (consensual non-consent). Other than those two things she is free to compel my participation in any way(s) she desires, by any means necessary, and without regard to any indications that I might make that I don't want to participate...and I included a statement to that effect, indicating that she can and should ignore any attempt to refuse to participate no matter how genuine it may [appear] to be. It 'turns me on' to think that I have left myself no way out, no 'escape hatch'.

It remains to be seen just how much advantage she intends to take...the 'Kung Flu' has certainly put a damper on things for some unknown amount of time (despite what certain talking heads might say, I don't think it's going to 'go away' any time soon). In the meantime, I remain in an almost constant state of at least semi-arousal...

[Little96Jon]

After starting off at the other end of the spectrum, my wife now fucks who she wants, when she wants.

[TinyBoyDick]

After starting off at the other end of the spectrum, my wife now fucks who she wants, when she wants.

Good! Her freedom creates a wonderful humiliation in the cucky hubby, and an odd relief because no sexual performance is ever expected or needed from you! She gets what she needs from other willing, horny men at her disposal.

Speaking from our experience, provided you two have a strong love connection, this lifestyle can be truly fantastic for BOTH husband and wife. You've heard the expression, "happy wife, happy life?" Well, you're going to experience the truth of it!

[sucker00]

My third option wasn't available which is that my wife cuckolded me multiple times with one man (it was about a 2-year affair) with my knowledge, but hasn't done it since.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Warning: A lot of words follow. Anyone who “knows” me on OHW knows that I process my thoughts through the written word. I was born with A LOT of words. Take it for what it is. If this many words bothers your better sensibilities, skip it, of course. There’s nothing remarkably new, here.

I voted “honesty/communication.”

I knew I had strong cuckold desires when we spontaneously ended up having sex on the same sofa where a good friend was fucking his wife. The desire to watch my wife have sex with him was intoxicating. It never happened for a variety of circumstances, but the experience started a conversation for us. She was initially shocked and turned off. That was 1997. We were in our 20s then. The conversation became a fantasy. The fantasy became role-play, and in March of 2007, about ten years after our initial experience, she decided that she was ready to make it a reality with her coworker/boss. (He directly oversaw her and several of her coworkers.)

Because of our respective very public-facing jobs in our tight-knit and gossipy community, and the likely blowback that would almost certainly occur should others find out, she decided to keep her “torrid affair” with him a secret. I was just elated that my wife, who was a virgin when I met her at 19 years old, was getting some side-dick and enjoying the fuck out of herself. She was a new woman. We LOVED it all.

About a year after seeing him two or sometimes three or four times per week for sex, they invited me into the bedroom to watch and be properly cucked. (First, it’s worth noting that we couldn’t believe how active the two of them became. THEY LOVED FUCKING! Fucking that much was a lot, but she was REALLY enjoying herself. Second, when I was finally invited to watch, there were strict protocols about what I was allowed to do—jerk off only; maybe hold her hand and kiss her hand/arm gently while he fucked her. I was not allowed to speak or make noise.) It became a weekly experience, me watching them.

Almost immediately, she discovered then that she liked having an audience. She started interacting with me, talking to me and so forth while he fucked her….asking me if I liked watching another man (her new boyfriend) fuck her and cum in her….watching her cum on his cock, his tongue. I was bonkers-happy!

That’s about when I discovered OHW, previously under a different username that could have easily identified/doxxed me. I was so naive to use a username that so obviously identified the real us. My wife knew I talked to folks like you, my OHW friends, online for moral/emotional support, but she had no active involvement, and had no idea of how exposed we were because of my initial (stupidly obvious) username.

I neglected to act for about ten years. A part of me looks back and wonders if I sort of psychologically wanted to be outed. (I was so happy my wife was enjoying her newfound sexuality. I wanted others to know she was actively cucking me.)

We talked about our desire to humiliate me, put me to others and such. We decided she wasn’t ready to go that far yet. My humiliation was limited to comments she’d make while fucking him…whether I enjoyed watching her cum on another man’s cock. Stuff like that. I would have been happy to go further, but she didn’t want it to go there yet. Bedroom cucking and humiliation, but nothing public for fear it would come back at us.

There would be no public doxxing, but she would be more open and public with him in certain circumstances (being seen more with him, for example, and letting the rumor mill grind)…..and when I told her that there are cucks who “clean” their wives up after they’ve enjoyed sex with their lover, she became turned on at the idea. She convinced me to give it a try. I was VERY reluctant to put another man’s cum in my mouth at the time. She prodded me forward, though. I would clean her up when he finished with her. I hated it at first. That was a hard experience to swallow (both metaphorically and real) the first few times I did it, but I actually kind of got used to it. It was humiliating. Now, it’s completely normal and expected. I gladly go down on her these days to clean her up. (It’s not bad once you get used to it. It’s like eating a salty oyster! Slurp!)

My cuckoldry was getting more “salacious” because of what we were doing together. My comments on OHW exposed me (us) quite a lot. The comments I made referred to people and places that knowledgeable readers would have been able to figure out. Anyone with a few good brain cells who visited OHW might have been able to put the pieces together.

One day, in my job, at my place of work, someone made a comment (verbally) that almost certainly indicated that they had been on OHW and knew what my wife and I and her boss were up to. That’s when the reality and gravity of the situation hit me hard.

My wife and her manager could easily be fired at their jobs for fraternizing. (Relationships such as theirs were/are forbidden by HR. He was her boss, for fuck’s sake! And, yes. She gave him premium access to her pussy, and he gave her the CHOICEST assignments. They’d be fired, for sure!) They each had decades invested. Additionally, if people surrounding my very-public-facing job discovered what was happening, I’d almost certainly be forced to move on in my career. (The conservative crowd would have made my life a living hell.)

I went dark on OHW for a long time. When I came back, I abandoned my old username and chose this one…..Created a new profile and started from scratch.

After 17 years with her one boyfriend (and A LOT of sex), a lot changed. He moved on to a different company altogether. She moved into management. Their “torrid affair” had a rather mundane feel to it. What started out as three or four times a week had slowed down a lot. In retrospect, she was actually tired of him. He felt like a “second husband” to her that she would service about once a week, maybe twice. Occasionally, about once a month, I’d be expected to watch and clean, but the spark was no longer there, no longer exciting. She openly told me she was going to be winding things down.

I was bummed, but I understood. Even though I’d been watching them fuck for all those years, jerking off all the while, it was still a thrill to watch her cumming on another man’s cock. I can’t say it enough: IT NEVER GETS OLD! There is just something beautiful about it EVERY TIME. I have EVERY lurid detail recorded in my memory, and in many, many cases, on a flash drive that I love to look at occasionally.

I thought it was all over. To my surprise, though, she was ending her relationship with this first boyfriend of hers while coming home to tell me about another fellow at work who she’s attracted to (this time, another manager at her equal level). I was elated. She still wanted to play.

So one door closes and another door opens. She started seeing him in January, 2023. A third cock for my virginal bride. She met him for drinks, they got a room, and he proceeded to plow her that same evening. She LOVED it! (He plowed her like she’s never felt before!)

I was super-excited to be “re-cucked.” She was “reborn.” LOVED getting plowed by her handsome co-worker. She came home and gave me every detail every time they got together. They would continue to fuck, but not nearly as often. Maybe once a month. I couldn’t wait to get back into the groove. She was/is REALLY enjoying the new spark, and I was excited to watch.

He’s very aware that I’m a cucked husband because she told him that I am aware they’re having sex routinely. At first, he was shocked, but I think he feels a lot more at ease knowing that she’s got my approval and they don’t need to sneak around. But he doesn’t know about her first long-term boyfriend. She prefers to keep it this way. She doesn’t want him to think she’s just a slutty wife. (God forbid we admit we’re creatures of desire! Nothing wrong with a virginal bride discovering that she likes to explore a bit.)

As much as I have made it clear that I want her to cuck me again by letting me watch her cum on her new boyfriend’s cock, she has pumped the breaks on me watching.

Apparently, it came up one night after they fucked. He admits he’s a bit self-conscious and thinks his dick is small. He doesn’t want to know that his girlfriend’s husband has a bigger cock. And while she has shared some cell phone clips with me, and yes, his dick is a bit smaller than mine, it’s 100% clear that she really gets off on his dick much better than on mine. (He has INCREDIBLE stamina and speed. He can cum, keep fucking her fast and hard, and cum again 15 or so minutes later. This guy is a fucking machine!). At first, I begged her to convince him that I should watch in order for her to cuck me. But then……

Over time, and considering all the different comments from all different kinds of cucks and wannabes here on OHW, I felt the advantages of NOT being permitted to watch. I felt/feel a new kind of thrill in being denied. (I’ve enjoyed watching over the previous 17 years. I’ve seen a lot, and I cherish those memories and experiences. But maybe it’s time for my cuckoldry to evolve.) She still comes home with creampies for me to eat, and she still enjoys humiliating me a bit in private, telling me how good he fucks her and that she prefers his cum to mine.

It’s a new kind of thrill, and I’m enjoying learning about myself. She still likes when I watch. Sometimes we’ll get the flash drive out and reminisce and masturbate together, but we’re getting used to a new shoe together. This is fun, too.

We’re still not open with others about my cuck status. We can’t afford the judgment that comes with it. I imagine one day, she’ll be prepared to tell others that her husband is a cuck. I look forward to that sort of humiliation. I hope I’m ready for it, too.

For now, though, we’re quite happy. It’s been a fun journey, and I’m glad we decided to explore the possibilities all those years ago. It all started on that sofa so many years ago, me wondering what my friend’s cock would look like balls-deep in my wife, and how turned on I’d be to watch her enjoying it.

I encourage everyone to be open-minded and explore together.

[rogerbaulk]

My wife and I did pillow talk for five years. I eventually tried to shut it down, but she wanted to keep the fantasy alive while agreeing not to do it in real life. But after five years she started visiting us army bases to fuck. She hid it from me for three years. She fucked five different men over that time. When I found out I was horrified.