I would say that the current situation is pretty stable. I will explain why. Brandi's current fuckers seem to be lower class, none of them would be able to step up to a boyfriend/husband role. Also I don't really see how the situation could escalate any further since Brandi is already having gangbangs, at least some partners (if not all, who knows at this point) unprotected.
The husband is obviously is turned on, but is suffering from not having a control over the situation. He has a choice of either:
1. Letting go the remaining control. This I think may lead Brandi to loose the remaining attraction to her husband, because I think she is attracted to alpha males. The risk is to become a doormat for her that provides her the means for her lifestyle
2. Regaining the control, not necessarily by withdrawing her from the lifestyle (this might be already too late), but by exercising control over her fuckers, taking control of who, when and how
Consulting a lawyer regarding your options about divorce might be a good idea. I would also plan for a possible pregnancy. As previously noted, STD is a likelihood, especially with unprotected anal. I would not count that while being high Brandi would be able (or wanting) to use condoms
My last point would be that the husband is not satisfied by the situation. He needs to be worshipped for being generous with his wife, but now he just looks like a chum with a slut wife, which is very embarrassing when it comes out. A setup with a trusted friend (like Mike) would be preferred
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Sounds really got. She is a true hottie exploring her sexual cravings. Hope all goes well for you. Based on your words I think she loves you and it is not away from any one to spread happiness and joy.
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The hubby needs to take care of himself, he has been burning his candle from both ends. Jesus this must be exhausting. Hope this does not affect his job
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A big thank you for taking the time to write and give us such detailed update. It's not taken for granted. It was definitely an exciting and interesting read, again thanks for that. I hope you have the patience to read this large text 
I'm relieved to hear that you and Brandi are in a sort of better place now, and of course what you both are doing is only your decision and your business, no doubt about that. That being said, I must also note, that what you and Brandi are doing now..., oh man, I don't know, it's seems very risky if not to say irresponsible. But I assume you're already aware of this yourself. And like another commentator already said, please excuse me, if I sound if I want to lecture you, in the following.
I think you're a smart guy, if not you certainly wouldn't have the kind of ambitious job, which you obviously have now. So, I assume you see the major dangers and red flags in all of this what you and especially Brandi are doing now.
First, Brandi's obviously excessive use of weed. I'm surprised that you aren't a bit more concerned about this. No problem in smoking some weed every once in a while, even the "old hippie" I call my father, who is now in his late sixties still does it occasionally. But a near daily use, no matter what other people may say, that isn't certainly a very "healthy" behaviour. How long before Brandi, under the harmful influence of this Tre guy, maybe starts experimenting with some harder drugs? Look, I don't want you to get paranoid about this, it's probably still an unlikely development, but on the other side you shouldn't rule out, that when you finally return home from your business trip, that you could face a major problem regarding this with Brandi. She obviously isn't the person with the most self-control.
You said: the worst part for you is that you feel if you would demand her to stop she just would go on cheating and just wouldn't tell you. - I have to say that's a very sad and concerning statement of you. You basically saying you love Brandi, but you don't trust her, at least not completely.
Talking about honesty, have you actually told this to Brandi? I mean, that you're afraid, if you would demand of her to stop, you feel she just would go on cheating and just wouldn't tell you about it and lie. How did Brandi react to this statement of you? If you haven't told her, I think you should do this as soon as possible. Under this current circumstances, I think it would be extremely important for Brandi to know how feel on this matter. Maybe it would help her to put some things into right perspective and shake her up a little, what wouldn't be the worst thing, in my opinion.
And finally regarding Tre and his cronies. I know, you say Brandi's dealings with this guy, this all, excites and thrills you. Look, partly I can understand this, if not I probably wouldn't be on this forum in the first place. But on the other side I'm very surprised, if not to say shocked, that you aren't absolutely furious at Tre for his whole role in Brandi deceiving you and for pimping her out to his associates and that you don't want him out of your and Brandi's life irrevocably. Regarding Tre and his cronies you really should stop thinking with your "little head" down south, instead you should use more the head, which sits in your shoulders. I don't think I exaggerate when I say that Tre is "cancer" to your marriage, certainly in the longterm. It is as obvious as it can be, that Tre has an extremely negative and harmful influence on Brandi. Again, I'm very surprise that neither you nor Brandi recognize this? Maybe I do you wrong and you do recognize this, but actually nothing in your text seems to hint at that. To be clear, the sooner you cut this guy out of your lives the better.
Look, to a certain degree I can understand that now, before your 10 week business-trip, to tell Brandi, that you really would wish, if not say you would want, that she stops hooking up with Tre and his friends, wouldn't have been useful and probably wouldn't have matter much. Exactly, because you're gone now for 10 weeks you don't have anyways any form of control and only a very limited influence on Brandi that she would follow and respect your wish, and would indeed stop meeting with Tre and his cronies, if you would have expressed this wish before your trip. In this case, as youself assume, she probably would lie to you and continue to hook up with Tre and his friends during your absence and simply wouldn't tell you anything about it. That would only lead to even more hurt and more damage to your marriage. So, from that specific point of view I can comprehend that you haven't expressed this, before your trip.
But I can only strongly recommend to you, when you finally have returned from your trip, that must be at some point end of March I suppose, that you do everything to get Tre and his cronies out of your and Brandi's life, irrevocably. (I can only hope for you that at that point it won't be already too late to do this). With this I don't mean necessarily you and Brandi should stop engaging in this lifestyle, but Tre and these other guys, who come alone with him, cleary shouldn't be a part of this any longer.
You say Brandi want to experiment, Ok, but best thing would be you and her would come to a mutual agreement in the next weeks, in the form, that it don't mean you want her to stop being a Hotwife, (if this both of you excite you there isn't a problem in this) but Tre and his friends should be out of your both lives, when you have returned from Dubai. Probably, it wouldn't be bad idea if Brandi would looking for a new job or at least start thinking about a new profession. You say she's a college graduate so I can't imagine working in a bar is her dreamjob.
The rules you have established are fine, but regarding rule No.2 you really should insist that all the time a condom is used with all guys, no matter if they have been recently tested or not. I know you can't control Brandi on this, but I'm surprised you haven't demanded this and make an exception if they have a recent test. That's not a wise thing to do, in my opinion.
And finally, I know I probably get on your nerves with my unasked advices, I have two recommendation for you. Maybe you both will do it anyways, but when you finally have returned you and Brandi should go on a extented vacation, I would say at least 2 weeks if possible even longer, just you and her to truely evaluate your marriage. I would assume after being away for 10 weeks an their behest your company will grant you such a vacation?
The other thing, and what I already said in my last message, you really should look for a new place to live, which is quite a few miles away from your current surroundings of your home, the bar, the gym you go to, etc. for you and Brandi to have a kind of fresh start.
Excuse this large text. I didn't had the intention to be that long. I hope you had the patience to read this
. Look, all what I have said above are the things I would do. It's of course only you decision what you will do and if you do anything what maybe one of the commentators here recommend to you. Maybe I haven't sound this way, but I feel huge sympathy for and I really hope everything works out for you and Brandi. But I think you'll have a whole lot of work to do on your marriage when you return. My best wishes, also of course for your project in Dubai.
I'm relieved to hear that you and Brandi are in a sort of better place now, and of course what you both are doing is only your decision and your business, no doubt about that. That being said, I must also note, that what you and Brandi are doing now..., oh man, I don't know, it's seems very risky if not to say irresponsible. But I assume you're already aware of this yourself. And like another commentator already said, please excuse me, if I sound if I want to lecture you, in the following.I think you're a smart guy, if not you certainly wouldn't have the kind of ambitious job, which you obviously have now. So, I assume you see the major dangers and red flags in all of this what you and especially Brandi are doing now.
First, Brandi's obviously excessive use of weed. I'm surprised that you aren't a bit more concerned about this. No problem in smoking some weed every once in a while, even the "old hippie" I call my father, who is now in his late sixties still does it occasionally. But a near daily use, no matter what other people may say, that isn't certainly a very "healthy" behaviour. How long before Brandi, under the harmful influence of this Tre guy, maybe starts experimenting with some harder drugs? Look, I don't want you to get paranoid about this, it's probably still an unlikely development, but on the other side you shouldn't rule out, that when you finally return home from your business trip, that you could face a major problem regarding this with Brandi. She obviously isn't the person with the most self-control.
You said: the worst part for you is that you feel if you would demand her to stop she just would go on cheating and just wouldn't tell you. - I have to say that's a very sad and concerning statement of you. You basically saying you love Brandi, but you don't trust her, at least not completely.
Talking about honesty, have you actually told this to Brandi? I mean, that you're afraid, if you would demand of her to stop, you feel she just would go on cheating and just wouldn't tell you about it and lie. How did Brandi react to this statement of you? If you haven't told her, I think you should do this as soon as possible. Under this current circumstances, I think it would be extremely important for Brandi to know how feel on this matter. Maybe it would help her to put some things into right perspective and shake her up a little, what wouldn't be the worst thing, in my opinion.
And finally regarding Tre and his cronies. I know, you say Brandi's dealings with this guy, this all, excites and thrills you. Look, partly I can understand this, if not I probably wouldn't be on this forum in the first place. But on the other side I'm very surprised, if not to say shocked, that you aren't absolutely furious at Tre for his whole role in Brandi deceiving you and for pimping her out to his associates and that you don't want him out of your and Brandi's life irrevocably. Regarding Tre and his cronies you really should stop thinking with your "little head" down south, instead you should use more the head, which sits in your shoulders. I don't think I exaggerate when I say that Tre is "cancer" to your marriage, certainly in the longterm. It is as obvious as it can be, that Tre has an extremely negative and harmful influence on Brandi. Again, I'm very surprise that neither you nor Brandi recognize this? Maybe I do you wrong and you do recognize this, but actually nothing in your text seems to hint at that. To be clear, the sooner you cut this guy out of your lives the better.
Look, to a certain degree I can understand that now, before your 10 week business-trip, to tell Brandi, that you really would wish, if not say you would want, that she stops hooking up with Tre and his friends, wouldn't have been useful and probably wouldn't have matter much. Exactly, because you're gone now for 10 weeks you don't have anyways any form of control and only a very limited influence on Brandi that she would follow and respect your wish, and would indeed stop meeting with Tre and his cronies, if you would have expressed this wish before your trip. In this case, as youself assume, she probably would lie to you and continue to hook up with Tre and his friends during your absence and simply wouldn't tell you anything about it. That would only lead to even more hurt and more damage to your marriage. So, from that specific point of view I can comprehend that you haven't expressed this, before your trip.
But I can only strongly recommend to you, when you finally have returned from your trip, that must be at some point end of March I suppose, that you do everything to get Tre and his cronies out of your and Brandi's life, irrevocably. (I can only hope for you that at that point it won't be already too late to do this). With this I don't mean necessarily you and Brandi should stop engaging in this lifestyle, but Tre and these other guys, who come alone with him, cleary shouldn't be a part of this any longer.
You say Brandi want to experiment, Ok, but best thing would be you and her would come to a mutual agreement in the next weeks, in the form, that it don't mean you want her to stop being a Hotwife, (if this both of you excite you there isn't a problem in this) but Tre and his friends should be out of your both lives, when you have returned from Dubai. Probably, it wouldn't be bad idea if Brandi would looking for a new job or at least start thinking about a new profession. You say she's a college graduate so I can't imagine working in a bar is her dreamjob.
The rules you have established are fine, but regarding rule No.2 you really should insist that all the time a condom is used with all guys, no matter if they have been recently tested or not. I know you can't control Brandi on this, but I'm surprised you haven't demanded this and make an exception if they have a recent test. That's not a wise thing to do, in my opinion.
And finally, I know I probably get on your nerves with my unasked advices, I have two recommendation for you. Maybe you both will do it anyways, but when you finally have returned you and Brandi should go on a extented vacation, I would say at least 2 weeks if possible even longer, just you and her to truely evaluate your marriage. I would assume after being away for 10 weeks an their behest your company will grant you such a vacation?
The other thing, and what I already said in my last message, you really should look for a new place to live, which is quite a few miles away from your current surroundings of your home, the bar, the gym you go to, etc. for you and Brandi to have a kind of fresh start.
Excuse this large text. I didn't had the intention to be that long. I hope you had the patience to read this
. Look, all what I have said above are the things I would do. It's of course only you decision what you will do and if you do anything what maybe one of the commentators here recommend to you. Maybe I haven't sound this way, but I feel huge sympathy for and I really hope everything works out for you and Brandi. But I think you'll have a whole lot of work to do on your marriage when you return. My best wishes, also of course for your project in Dubai.Re: Young Wife May Start Again
This all makes sense, Serrand, but...Just a thought that withdrawing Brandi from the relationship with Tre could be tricky. She is having gangbangs being high with black dudes, DP and all. This might the most pleasurable experience of her life. Going from this to vanilla vacation with a hubby might be the final blow to this marriage. It is a tough situation. Maybe this Tre situation should be left to run its course until a better alternative is arranged
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For once on this forum, I'd like to see the man act like a man and let tre finance her life while hubby finds a woman who will love and respect him and become a hotwife. This wasn't a little slip up on her part but a serious series of disrespect, dishonesty, and downright malicious behavior.gwwkjt wrote: ↑Thu Jan 16, 2020 4:59 amThis all makes sense, Serrand, but...Just a thought that withdrawing Brandi from the relationship with Tre could be tricky. She is having gangbangs being high with black dudes, DP and all. This might the most pleasurable experience of her life. Going from this to vanilla vacation with a hubby might be the final blow to this marriage. It is a tough situation. Maybe this Tre situation should be left to run its course until a better alternative is arranged
Tre and the rest would kick her to the curb as soon as they had to deal with her drama and BS while paying her rent.
This thread probably belongs in the cuck forum but until we hear more we can't make that determination.
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I’m surprised at the amount and the extent of the negative comments towards Brandi. There’s been many couples over years I’ve been reading on here that run into trouble when they go from zero to 100. Some have recovered and some have not, however, those that have gone slowly have had mixed success too. I think the reality is there’s no predicting how a marriage will go, regardless of if it’s vanilla or extreme. Every marriage goes through tough times and good! I always shutter at the idea that there’s no possibility of a good outcome as an immediate reaction to a tough time. Give Brandi an opportunity to behave in a manner that works for both. She either will or she won’t but only time will tell. To say she’s now addicted to pot after a few times is ludicrous! To say it influences her behavior is spot on. To say she lied and broke trust is true. To say she will only continue to do so when you really know next to nothing about her is largely bloviating. Brandi is a slut and has just started to accept it and enjoy being her true self. Allow her the opportunity to figure out how to enjoy it, live it, and in a congruent manner with her marriage. Only time will tell. Nobody is omniscient enough to already know someone’s future behavior when it’s someone they don’t even know! I think it’s beneficial to give advise but stop predicting outcomes because it’s really just an uneducated guess.
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Can you post more pics or vidsbrandiandme wrote: ↑Tue Jan 14, 2020 1:33 pmOne more thing. I've updated my avatar. Remember the video I sneaked when she was getting fucked by my friend Jason and his neighbor. The video was shit but I grabbed some okay screen shots.
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Wow, lots of negativity here. Some of you make it sound like my wife is some sort of doped up dumb cheap street whore. She is not a bitch or a bad person. She's a really sweet and smart girl and would never had fucked anyone in the first place had I not heavily encouraged her too. I was constantly telling her to be a slut and encouraging it. Did she let it get out of control for a few weeks? Yes, but I forgive her and she promised to never do it again. I've been poking around the site and read many occasions where the wife with her new freedom goes cock crazy. Are they all prostitutes now?
Her being a slut is what I wanted, I just wanted to know and not be in the dark. Everyone deserves a second change. Also, there are way more details and things we have discussed than I could possible post on here. I'd have to write a novel just to cover our adventures so far. I also trust that she will be safe to not get a disease or pregnant. As for losing her, I fear more that she may meet someone that she has feelings for at some point. Isn't that a risk that every single hotwife husband may face though? I think it's low probability, but nothing is guaranteed or impossible.
As for Tre pimping her out, I really don't think so but it is a valid concern worth addressing and I will bring it up to Brand. And smoking weed is not the gateway to becoming a prostitute. I had a phase in college for about 2 years where I smoked weed every day multiple times per day. I still went to class, the gym, and work. If anything I was more calm all of the time. I'm guessing all the people thinking Brandi will lose her mind on marijuana have little or no experience with it.
Back to the pimping out thing. The first night she let Tre's roommate fuck her it was her decision. Tre did not order her to. They asked her if she had ever been with two guys at once before and she said yes and it went fro there. As for her fucking them both again a few days later, Tre said he and his roommate should come by to discuss what happened. She very well knew what she was going to do when they came over, she wanted to. It was the same situation with his next two friends she fucked. At this point did Tre plan to have his friends there knowing full well Brandi was coming over? I'm sure he did, probably testing to see how much of a slut she was, but she agreed to do it. It turns her on, and me too for the matter. Tre has told her with conviction that he is turned on by her fucking other men before her. Is that a surprise? Isn't that why all of us are on this forum in the first place. I think Tre shares the same kink as many of us, found himself a hot little slut to enjoy, and is sharing the wealth with his friends.
As for New Years eve when she fucked Tre, his two friends, and blew another. She met them at the bar earlier and Tre asked her if she minded if they came along. Again, not forced upon her in any way.
Why would he ask her to have sex with Billy before him. There is no gain there for him unless he is being truthful. One last thing, the days she had sex with Billy, and then Tre and his two friends, it was premeditated. He had straight up asked her if she had ever three guys at once before and she agreed to it beforehand.
Also, she did not barely talk to Tre between the day I caught her getting gangbanged and just this Monday. That's 10 days with no response. He texted her and her response was she did no want to see him right now. That sends a message to Tre. I full on believe her when she said she has only had sex with Billy and Tre bareback. She's as worried about diseases as I am. In fact, she wanted to fuck Marcus at the house party a few weeks back, the night she fucked Ron, Jason, and his neighbor, but he did not have a condom so she only blew him. She was not only high that night, but pretty drunk as well, and I knew about it. Weed does not make you stupid, and Brandi is not stupid. I've made far worse decisions when drunk than high.
Me speculating that Brandi would continue to cheat if I told her to stop was just me being negative. Being positive was something I needed to work on for the New Year and I need to do it. She did get carried away in the beginning, but I believe her when she said she would never "cheat on me again".
For your info she did fuck Tre Tuesday night at our place, and again last night double teamed him and his roommate at his place. It was not malicious or degrading. She hung out with them for a bit and had fun. They chilled out after for a bit and then had round 2. Her plan tonight is to hang at Tre's place with him, his roommate, and a few of his friends (both guys she has fucked before). We both know full well know she's going there to have a small gangbang. She made the plans to do this last night after having sex with Tre and his roommate, and they asked her if the other two guys could come over. My advice was to be safe and have fun, and give me all the nasty details later.
And what do I get out of it. First off, having a slut wife is my number one fantasy. Second, although I only got to watch her fuck Jason and his neighbor, our agreement moving forward is to have me there and involved in her escapades, even possibly organizing gangbangs, which many husbands seem to do. If I continue to let her evolve and become a slut, then I will be in for a ride, and a lot of fun when I get home. If anything, Tre is helping me. I'm not sure I could have convinced her into doing multiple guys and gangbangs so quickly.
Maybe this does belong in the cuckold thread, and maybe I am a cuckold by definition, but Brandi is not some cheap whore. She is a bit of a slut, but lots of women on this forum seem to be. There seems to be some hypocrisy here. I was just checking out the "how many guys has your girl been with?" thread and there are many women with several hundred and even a few near or over a thousand. The common message seems to be women that are into gangbangs can run up high numbers pretty quickly. Brandi has only been with 21 guys total. That's a drop in the hat compared to many hotwives. Sure, Brandi has fucked 12 of those men in the last few months, but isn't there an ebb and flow to everything in life. Even if she did keep up the pace, I've been reading about wives on here that have fucked way more than 70 men in a year.
Her being a slut is what I wanted, I just wanted to know and not be in the dark. Everyone deserves a second change. Also, there are way more details and things we have discussed than I could possible post on here. I'd have to write a novel just to cover our adventures so far. I also trust that she will be safe to not get a disease or pregnant. As for losing her, I fear more that she may meet someone that she has feelings for at some point. Isn't that a risk that every single hotwife husband may face though? I think it's low probability, but nothing is guaranteed or impossible.
As for Tre pimping her out, I really don't think so but it is a valid concern worth addressing and I will bring it up to Brand. And smoking weed is not the gateway to becoming a prostitute. I had a phase in college for about 2 years where I smoked weed every day multiple times per day. I still went to class, the gym, and work. If anything I was more calm all of the time. I'm guessing all the people thinking Brandi will lose her mind on marijuana have little or no experience with it.
Back to the pimping out thing. The first night she let Tre's roommate fuck her it was her decision. Tre did not order her to. They asked her if she had ever been with two guys at once before and she said yes and it went fro there. As for her fucking them both again a few days later, Tre said he and his roommate should come by to discuss what happened. She very well knew what she was going to do when they came over, she wanted to. It was the same situation with his next two friends she fucked. At this point did Tre plan to have his friends there knowing full well Brandi was coming over? I'm sure he did, probably testing to see how much of a slut she was, but she agreed to do it. It turns her on, and me too for the matter. Tre has told her with conviction that he is turned on by her fucking other men before her. Is that a surprise? Isn't that why all of us are on this forum in the first place. I think Tre shares the same kink as many of us, found himself a hot little slut to enjoy, and is sharing the wealth with his friends.
As for New Years eve when she fucked Tre, his two friends, and blew another. She met them at the bar earlier and Tre asked her if she minded if they came along. Again, not forced upon her in any way.
Why would he ask her to have sex with Billy before him. There is no gain there for him unless he is being truthful. One last thing, the days she had sex with Billy, and then Tre and his two friends, it was premeditated. He had straight up asked her if she had ever three guys at once before and she agreed to it beforehand.
Also, she did not barely talk to Tre between the day I caught her getting gangbanged and just this Monday. That's 10 days with no response. He texted her and her response was she did no want to see him right now. That sends a message to Tre. I full on believe her when she said she has only had sex with Billy and Tre bareback. She's as worried about diseases as I am. In fact, she wanted to fuck Marcus at the house party a few weeks back, the night she fucked Ron, Jason, and his neighbor, but he did not have a condom so she only blew him. She was not only high that night, but pretty drunk as well, and I knew about it. Weed does not make you stupid, and Brandi is not stupid. I've made far worse decisions when drunk than high.
Me speculating that Brandi would continue to cheat if I told her to stop was just me being negative. Being positive was something I needed to work on for the New Year and I need to do it. She did get carried away in the beginning, but I believe her when she said she would never "cheat on me again".
For your info she did fuck Tre Tuesday night at our place, and again last night double teamed him and his roommate at his place. It was not malicious or degrading. She hung out with them for a bit and had fun. They chilled out after for a bit and then had round 2. Her plan tonight is to hang at Tre's place with him, his roommate, and a few of his friends (both guys she has fucked before). We both know full well know she's going there to have a small gangbang. She made the plans to do this last night after having sex with Tre and his roommate, and they asked her if the other two guys could come over. My advice was to be safe and have fun, and give me all the nasty details later.
And what do I get out of it. First off, having a slut wife is my number one fantasy. Second, although I only got to watch her fuck Jason and his neighbor, our agreement moving forward is to have me there and involved in her escapades, even possibly organizing gangbangs, which many husbands seem to do. If I continue to let her evolve and become a slut, then I will be in for a ride, and a lot of fun when I get home. If anything, Tre is helping me. I'm not sure I could have convinced her into doing multiple guys and gangbangs so quickly.
Maybe this does belong in the cuckold thread, and maybe I am a cuckold by definition, but Brandi is not some cheap whore. She is a bit of a slut, but lots of women on this forum seem to be. There seems to be some hypocrisy here. I was just checking out the "how many guys has your girl been with?" thread and there are many women with several hundred and even a few near or over a thousand. The common message seems to be women that are into gangbangs can run up high numbers pretty quickly. Brandi has only been with 21 guys total. That's a drop in the hat compared to many hotwives. Sure, Brandi has fucked 12 of those men in the last few months, but isn't there an ebb and flow to everything in life. Even if she did keep up the pace, I've been reading about wives on here that have fucked way more than 70 men in a year.
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This is the internet. We all have opinions and tend to express them. Most people want nothing but the best for the people here, some are cheerleaders who’d cheer someone into oblivion, some are doom merchants who probably should never come here and others, like me, are genuinely interested instories from people like you and wish you nothing but the best.
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Right on, man. If you are happy with the way things are going that’s very cool.
When I said that Tre might already be pimping her, maybe his buddies are each giving him $20-$30 bucks to join in, that kind of thing. I would want to make sure that he isn’t planning on what can be a typical progression from gang bang girl to prostitute in a lot of situations. It all depends on how much mental dominance he is asserting over her and what his intentions are. Maybe he just likes fucking her and likes watching his friends fuck her. Nothing wrong with that.
Considering how quickly things progressed, it is easy to speculate how much further things could progress if she gets more out of control and has somebody manipulating her, especially with you out of the country.
I’m not judging you, or her, or Tre for that matter. If my response came across that way you have my genuine apologies.
And smoking pot isn’t going to change anyone that dramatically.
When I said that Tre might already be pimping her, maybe his buddies are each giving him $20-$30 bucks to join in, that kind of thing. I would want to make sure that he isn’t planning on what can be a typical progression from gang bang girl to prostitute in a lot of situations. It all depends on how much mental dominance he is asserting over her and what his intentions are. Maybe he just likes fucking her and likes watching his friends fuck her. Nothing wrong with that.
Considering how quickly things progressed, it is easy to speculate how much further things could progress if she gets more out of control and has somebody manipulating her, especially with you out of the country.
I’m not judging you, or her, or Tre for that matter. If my response came across that way you have my genuine apologies.
And smoking pot isn’t going to change anyone that dramatically.
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So glad that you updated us things! To me it seems like you’re in good place! Hopefully the dooms day predictors will chill out or provide useful advice. Have you and Brandi discussed any ways in which you can be included on her slutty adventures? Perhaps Skype or her recoding events with her own video camera and emailing you the files? I’m sure you’re dying to be able to watch her take on 2-5 BBC’s or Billy’s club of a cock!
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This is a good update and of course there are many conversations that we are not privy to.
Everyone including the OP needs to understand that we have only as much informatiion as the OP shares. Some here tend to "add" to it.
Some will give advice and some recommend...
In all of this there will be some things that the OP may not have considered - such as Tre pimping her. Please discuss this with Brandi.
I offer two things for the OP to consider:
1. You are respecting Brandi's desire to not share any pictures. We would all love to see them...
I would say that it is highly probable that Tre and his buddies have pics and video of the gangbangs. There is no way she could keep up with who was doing what during the event. Going to other's places (Tre's place) allows hidden cams to be in place. Tre and his friends could not possibly resist getting this girl who performs like this on video. So, back to you respecting her preference for no pics - we may find them on the internet anyway - with her face.
2. With all these people coming and going at your place whom you, and frankly, Brandi do not even know, I hope you have any valuables safely stored. Small stuff, watches, small personal items, pictures, Brandi's lingerie. I suspect that you may already be missing some things.
I'm hopeful that this works out well for the two of you and THANK YOU for continuing to post (defending Brandi). You have received a lot of comments here with a little more passion than perhaps most OP's receive. I think the forum has adopted the two of you and are "emotionally invested".
We have a lot of experience - and sure you have read about others and their lovers tally, slut behavior, and more. What you rarely read about here are the ones that crash and burn. There are real life risks to this and YES, you can lose her to someone else. Some are giving you real life things to consider.
Perhaps consider giving us a little more info. How she reassures you that she has not lost control, is honoring the agreements you have, how she is keeping you foremost in her heart - her number one...
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Everyone including the OP needs to understand that we have only as much informatiion as the OP shares. Some here tend to "add" to it.
Some will give advice and some recommend...
In all of this there will be some things that the OP may not have considered - such as Tre pimping her. Please discuss this with Brandi.
I offer two things for the OP to consider:
1. You are respecting Brandi's desire to not share any pictures. We would all love to see them...
I would say that it is highly probable that Tre and his buddies have pics and video of the gangbangs. There is no way she could keep up with who was doing what during the event. Going to other's places (Tre's place) allows hidden cams to be in place. Tre and his friends could not possibly resist getting this girl who performs like this on video. So, back to you respecting her preference for no pics - we may find them on the internet anyway - with her face.
2. With all these people coming and going at your place whom you, and frankly, Brandi do not even know, I hope you have any valuables safely stored. Small stuff, watches, small personal items, pictures, Brandi's lingerie. I suspect that you may already be missing some things.
I'm hopeful that this works out well for the two of you and THANK YOU for continuing to post (defending Brandi). You have received a lot of comments here with a little more passion than perhaps most OP's receive. I think the forum has adopted the two of you and are "emotionally invested".
We have a lot of experience - and sure you have read about others and their lovers tally, slut behavior, and more. What you rarely read about here are the ones that crash and burn. There are real life risks to this and YES, you can lose her to someone else. Some are giving you real life things to consider.
Perhaps consider giving us a little more info. How she reassures you that she has not lost control, is honoring the agreements you have, how she is keeping you foremost in her heart - her number one...
XY
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2inUPMichigan
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In the long run there are only two opinions that truely matter when it comes to your relationship.
Everything else is just noise.
Continue to make the decisions that are best for the two of you and Have Fun!
Everything else is just noise.
Continue to make the decisions that are best for the two of you and Have Fun!
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Thank you for taking the time to write your lengthy and detailed posts. The great thing about this site is the people who share their experiences, good, bad, and mediocre, for their own benefit and the others who come to this site. I hope you realize that there are no doubt people reading your experiences and learning from them.
I agree with 2inup that the only opinions that matter are wife’s and yours. Most here offer suggestions and concerns from a truly caring place. Some are just noise.
Don’t get down, you have many supporters here. I am one.
This is a hot and fascinating thread. What makes it even more interesting is that you are half a world away for 10 weeks while your wife does God knows what.
Good luck and best wishes.
Thanks for sharing.
I agree with 2inup that the only opinions that matter are wife’s and yours. Most here offer suggestions and concerns from a truly caring place. Some are just noise.
Don’t get down, you have many supporters here. I am one.
This is a hot and fascinating thread. What makes it even more interesting is that you are half a world away for 10 weeks while your wife does God knows what.
Good luck and best wishes.
Thanks for sharing.
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Actually, I think, it’s not uncommon for so new HWs to take off like a rocket when they first experience the freedom of being in this lifestyle. My wife started out hot and heavy but has cooled off a lot since then.
From what I can tell Brandi Is an extremely HOT hotwife and has zero issues attracting guys, she’s intelligent and probably enjoys the power she has over these other men.
Like hubby said, and many likely agree, there’s much more back story than anyone knows.
From what I can tell Brandi Is an extremely HOT hotwife and has zero issues attracting guys, she’s intelligent and probably enjoys the power she has over these other men.
Like hubby said, and many likely agree, there’s much more back story than anyone knows.
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Another thing to consider: you wrote that Brandi takes STD risk seriously, but you mentioned that she is blowing guys too without condoms. it is almost funny, but I have to point out that herpes, syphilis and gonorrhoea are easily transmittable orally. Just something to think about if you or Brandi have a persistent sore throat :-). Family doctor can proscribe you antibiotics if this happens (for syphilis and gonorrhoea). I wouldn't worry about HIV, it is highly unlikely transmitted this way. Have fun!
to OP: I wonder how are you doing, are you ok with all that, any anxiety, problems with sleep or concentration at work?
to OP: I wonder how are you doing, are you ok with all that, any anxiety, problems with sleep or concentration at work?
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brandiandme
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Oh my god, you guys were right. Tre pimped out Brandi!
The pimping thing bothered me a bit and after posting last night which was at like midnight my time,I talked to Brandi before going to bed and had to raise the pimping question. She was fairly certain is was not likely but decided to question Tre about it. He may be her tough brute bull, but she is far smarter. We agreed selling her to his friends, although in some fucked up way to me hot, is not okay by any means.
She texted him to call him out on it. She threatened him including saying she'd cut his balls of while he was sleeping if he did, or lied. She can be really feisty at times and although submissive with, can also be hard to handle. He confessed and admitted to trading some weed with one of the guys that she had sex with on New Years.
After weed guy had met and talked with her at the bar, and Tre gave him the low down about fucking her, he offered Tre weed if he could hook up with her. By the time they were set to leave and go have some fun, weed guy was included anyway and Tre figured he might as well get some free weed out of it. Weed guy was actually going to be at Tre's house along with the other friend she blew on New Years for her gangbang.
Mystery solved. Time to break it off. This is me being sarcastic. Tre getting some grass in return for his pal fucking Brandi when she was going to do it anyway is not exactly pimping her out.
Anyway, on to last night. Brandi went to Tre's place as planned for her gangbang with him, his roommate, and the 2 guys from New Years.
Here is the best part. She actually refused to fuck weed guy (his name is Chris by the way) and called him out for trading weed to Tre in order to fuck her. She teased him for a bit and told him if he was going to give weed to anyone to fuck her, it was going to be her. He agreed and gave her some weed. She ended up fucking all 4 of them including the guy she'd only blown on New Years. So, add another guy to her list. Sorry to disappoint everyone (sarcasm again), but that's only 1 new guy so far, and some repeats. It seems like everyone thought she be fucking 8 new guys at week. Not possible.
I had to question her about Chris. First off, I think it's the hottest thing ever that she agreed to fuck Chris only after he gave her something. It puts her in control. Second, she is attracted to him, and thinks he is funny, so she'd fuck him anyway. He also has a pretty big dick. She said he is thick like Tre, just not as long. She much prefers girth over length, at least for her pussy. She likes longer and thinner in her ass. I asked her if she was gong to fuck him again and she said probably. I told her she should fuck him for weed if he was willing to give it up. We both agreed it is really dirty but super hot. I had to sell her a bit on the idea. She does not have his number but can get it from Tre. If it works it also means she does not have to pay for weed anymore. I told her she could meet up with him once per week and get more than just an orgasm from him.
I know everyone on here is going to say this is a terrible idea, but this is a game and for fun, and completely premeditated by us. She's not going to turn into a drug whore and start fucking every guy that offers her weed. She's only doing this because it's naughty, she is attracted to Chris, and had good sex with him.
I will say her attitude and behavior towards sex is awesome lately. She just looks at it as something recreational and fun, sorta like working out.
The pimping thing bothered me a bit and after posting last night which was at like midnight my time,I talked to Brandi before going to bed and had to raise the pimping question. She was fairly certain is was not likely but decided to question Tre about it. He may be her tough brute bull, but she is far smarter. We agreed selling her to his friends, although in some fucked up way to me hot, is not okay by any means.
She texted him to call him out on it. She threatened him including saying she'd cut his balls of while he was sleeping if he did, or lied. She can be really feisty at times and although submissive with, can also be hard to handle. He confessed and admitted to trading some weed with one of the guys that she had sex with on New Years.
After weed guy had met and talked with her at the bar, and Tre gave him the low down about fucking her, he offered Tre weed if he could hook up with her. By the time they were set to leave and go have some fun, weed guy was included anyway and Tre figured he might as well get some free weed out of it. Weed guy was actually going to be at Tre's house along with the other friend she blew on New Years for her gangbang.
Mystery solved. Time to break it off. This is me being sarcastic. Tre getting some grass in return for his pal fucking Brandi when she was going to do it anyway is not exactly pimping her out.
Anyway, on to last night. Brandi went to Tre's place as planned for her gangbang with him, his roommate, and the 2 guys from New Years.
Here is the best part. She actually refused to fuck weed guy (his name is Chris by the way) and called him out for trading weed to Tre in order to fuck her. She teased him for a bit and told him if he was going to give weed to anyone to fuck her, it was going to be her. He agreed and gave her some weed. She ended up fucking all 4 of them including the guy she'd only blown on New Years. So, add another guy to her list. Sorry to disappoint everyone (sarcasm again), but that's only 1 new guy so far, and some repeats. It seems like everyone thought she be fucking 8 new guys at week. Not possible.
I had to question her about Chris. First off, I think it's the hottest thing ever that she agreed to fuck Chris only after he gave her something. It puts her in control. Second, she is attracted to him, and thinks he is funny, so she'd fuck him anyway. He also has a pretty big dick. She said he is thick like Tre, just not as long. She much prefers girth over length, at least for her pussy. She likes longer and thinner in her ass. I asked her if she was gong to fuck him again and she said probably. I told her she should fuck him for weed if he was willing to give it up. We both agreed it is really dirty but super hot. I had to sell her a bit on the idea. She does not have his number but can get it from Tre. If it works it also means she does not have to pay for weed anymore. I told her she could meet up with him once per week and get more than just an orgasm from him.
I know everyone on here is going to say this is a terrible idea, but this is a game and for fun, and completely premeditated by us. She's not going to turn into a drug whore and start fucking every guy that offers her weed. She's only doing this because it's naughty, she is attracted to Chris, and had good sex with him.
I will say her attitude and behavior towards sex is awesome lately. She just looks at it as something recreational and fun, sorta like working out.
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Wonderful! I’m glad you’re both on the same page and enjoying the ride. She gets her pussy fucked and weed (maybe work out other deals later?) he gets laid and you get all the details and JO thinking about her stretched pussy.
Small red flag, though...that she likes him.
My wife is a PT and she has many many male clients. Sometimes she notices they are hard or not wearing underwear. I’ve told her to throw out a line but she always chickens out. She does massages too and she was giving her last bull a naked massage after he fucked her. He told her he woulda paid her $300 for the naked massage. I told her that’s something she should look into. Haha. Sluty wives are so sexy!!!!
I’ve also thought it would be super hot if she played the part of a high end call girl. Just for like a month or two. She told me she would think about it but she’s worried she’d get some creeps.
She “dated” a rich guy for years in her 20s and 30s. Basically he’d fuck her but had to take her on nice dates and vacations. They could fuck anyone they wanted to, also. Was a good deal.
Small red flag, though...that she likes him.
My wife is a PT and she has many many male clients. Sometimes she notices they are hard or not wearing underwear. I’ve told her to throw out a line but she always chickens out. She does massages too and she was giving her last bull a naked massage after he fucked her. He told her he woulda paid her $300 for the naked massage. I told her that’s something she should look into. Haha. Sluty wives are so sexy!!!!
I’ve also thought it would be super hot if she played the part of a high end call girl. Just for like a month or two. She told me she would think about it but she’s worried she’d get some creeps.
She “dated” a rich guy for years in her 20s and 30s. Basically he’d fuck her but had to take her on nice dates and vacations. They could fuck anyone they wanted to, also. Was a good deal.
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brandiandme - free weed and a great fuck is a good deal! It’s cool to see you are on top of looking at everything from every angle, seeing what’s what, and having fun.
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Does she have a slutty/bimbo appearance out in public? (Clothes, makeup, hair, etc) Or is her look conservative in nature?
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brandiandme
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It's super late here and I am a bit drunk. Sorry if this is sloppy. Went out with some friends. Came home talked to Brandi for a while. I am so proud of her. She's awesome!
She gave me a lot more of the details from last night. Is was super hot. I don't feel like writing everything down, but she said it was a fury of sex at first, with some DP and all guys wanting her at once. Of course she fucked Chris last and made him watch until she made him give her weed. She said they hung for a while smoked and chilled, watched a movie and she had sex with one of more of them on and off for a few hours. She did manage to work in a DVP too.
She's tired from the fuck a thon last night and staying in to chill with her best friend. She's considering telling her about everything. She's her best friend and won't judge her. It's been over a month since they hung out and a lot has happened in that time. Her best friend is pretty cool and has a bit of a slutty past, but I'm guessing nothing like this. Plus, she's not married. I wasn't sure at first but am okay with it and I told her to go for it.
I forgot to mention that I bought a ton of condoms for her before I left. I want her to be safe. She will.
I am drunk and horny so I was a total pervert with her. I told her I love the idea of her fucking Chris for weed. I'm all for her trading sex for favors or other things.
Cuckoldme, I love your idea about becoming a high class call girl. I even told Brandi so tonight. She said it may be fun but she would want to pick the guys and not sure about the logistics and safety. At least the guys she's been having sex with know Tre and she trust him. Trusting a total stranger alone would be weird. I though maybe she could just trade sex for things and/or money of guys she knows.
We talked about the picture and video thing too. She's actually told Tre and his friends up front when she's had sex with them that they better not have their phones out. Like I said she's paranoid about that stuff and can be feisty when she wants to. Sure, it's possible someone sneaks pics or vids someday. It'd be hard to get a good face shot without her knowing it thought. I felt guilt and nearly told her about the short clips I took. I should have. She was so drunk that night she has no idea. She remembers having sex with Jason and his neighbor, but not all the details. She does not usually get that drunk, and while she smokes weed with Tre and the guys, and may have a drink or two, she keeps does not get intoxicated.
I took this opportunity to tell her I thought her shooting some porn movies would be hot. Especially with her and a bunch of black guys. She could put a bunch of make up and a wig on. She is not budging on this one at all.
Oh yeah, last night was he first time fucking 4 guys at once. She was with 4 guys on New Years, 2 of the same guys from last night, but only had sex with 3 of them. It was a short session too as they wanted to get back to the party. I love this. It was not her most in one day though as the day I caught her cheating and one other time a few weeks before, she had fucked, Billy, Tre and 2 friends, and me all in one day. So 5 is her most. I asked her how many she thinks she could handle at once. She did not know. I told her she should find out. I also asked her how many guys she thinks she could fuck in one day. She called me a pervert at this point and said maybe someday she will find out.
I love my slut!
As for pics, I had put some up before but took them down due to feeling bad knowing her position on pictures and video. I;m torn on this as I want to share more than just her pussy. It's pretty easy to black or crop our her face. I guess my worry is someone recognizes her and now all of this personal and very slutty shit she has done is out there. I guess that could happen with her fucking people we know too. We've talked about that and fucking friends is probably over, or curbed for a while. Plus, she's getting plenty of dick from Tre and his friends right now.
I'd say she certainly dresses fairly slutty. She has a great body and shows it off. It was one of the things that caught my eye when I first saw her. That and she's beautiful. Given her attire I assumed she was a slut. Before Brandi I mostly hooked up with slutty girls. In my opinion they are just better fucks and more adventurous. I guess I've always wanted to be with a slutty girl. I thought I didn't when I married Brandi who was a relatively good girl, but that's not what I want. I want a slut. Everyone always said fuck the sluts but marry a good girl. Why?
I've been keeping track of how she fucks, when, and how many times. As I've mentioned before, the number of men she fucks is a big turn on for me. Her stats so far.
Lifetime - 22 men total - 15 white and 7 black
Since meeting me - 16 men
Since starting hotwifing again on 11/2 - 13 guys total - 6 white and 7 black
Time to jerk off to some interracial gangbang porn with a brunette that looks like my wife and go to bed.
She gave me a lot more of the details from last night. Is was super hot. I don't feel like writing everything down, but she said it was a fury of sex at first, with some DP and all guys wanting her at once. Of course she fucked Chris last and made him watch until she made him give her weed. She said they hung for a while smoked and chilled, watched a movie and she had sex with one of more of them on and off for a few hours. She did manage to work in a DVP too.
She's tired from the fuck a thon last night and staying in to chill with her best friend. She's considering telling her about everything. She's her best friend and won't judge her. It's been over a month since they hung out and a lot has happened in that time. Her best friend is pretty cool and has a bit of a slutty past, but I'm guessing nothing like this. Plus, she's not married. I wasn't sure at first but am okay with it and I told her to go for it.
I forgot to mention that I bought a ton of condoms for her before I left. I want her to be safe. She will.
I am drunk and horny so I was a total pervert with her. I told her I love the idea of her fucking Chris for weed. I'm all for her trading sex for favors or other things.
Cuckoldme, I love your idea about becoming a high class call girl. I even told Brandi so tonight. She said it may be fun but she would want to pick the guys and not sure about the logistics and safety. At least the guys she's been having sex with know Tre and she trust him. Trusting a total stranger alone would be weird. I though maybe she could just trade sex for things and/or money of guys she knows.
We talked about the picture and video thing too. She's actually told Tre and his friends up front when she's had sex with them that they better not have their phones out. Like I said she's paranoid about that stuff and can be feisty when she wants to. Sure, it's possible someone sneaks pics or vids someday. It'd be hard to get a good face shot without her knowing it thought. I felt guilt and nearly told her about the short clips I took. I should have. She was so drunk that night she has no idea. She remembers having sex with Jason and his neighbor, but not all the details. She does not usually get that drunk, and while she smokes weed with Tre and the guys, and may have a drink or two, she keeps does not get intoxicated.
I took this opportunity to tell her I thought her shooting some porn movies would be hot. Especially with her and a bunch of black guys. She could put a bunch of make up and a wig on. She is not budging on this one at all.
Oh yeah, last night was he first time fucking 4 guys at once. She was with 4 guys on New Years, 2 of the same guys from last night, but only had sex with 3 of them. It was a short session too as they wanted to get back to the party. I love this. It was not her most in one day though as the day I caught her cheating and one other time a few weeks before, she had fucked, Billy, Tre and 2 friends, and me all in one day. So 5 is her most. I asked her how many she thinks she could handle at once. She did not know. I told her she should find out. I also asked her how many guys she thinks she could fuck in one day. She called me a pervert at this point and said maybe someday she will find out.
I love my slut!
As for pics, I had put some up before but took them down due to feeling bad knowing her position on pictures and video. I;m torn on this as I want to share more than just her pussy. It's pretty easy to black or crop our her face. I guess my worry is someone recognizes her and now all of this personal and very slutty shit she has done is out there. I guess that could happen with her fucking people we know too. We've talked about that and fucking friends is probably over, or curbed for a while. Plus, she's getting plenty of dick from Tre and his friends right now.
I'd say she certainly dresses fairly slutty. She has a great body and shows it off. It was one of the things that caught my eye when I first saw her. That and she's beautiful. Given her attire I assumed she was a slut. Before Brandi I mostly hooked up with slutty girls. In my opinion they are just better fucks and more adventurous. I guess I've always wanted to be with a slutty girl. I thought I didn't when I married Brandi who was a relatively good girl, but that's not what I want. I want a slut. Everyone always said fuck the sluts but marry a good girl. Why?
I've been keeping track of how she fucks, when, and how many times. As I've mentioned before, the number of men she fucks is a big turn on for me. Her stats so far.
Lifetime - 22 men total - 15 white and 7 black
Since meeting me - 16 men
Since starting hotwifing again on 11/2 - 13 guys total - 6 white and 7 black
Time to jerk off to some interracial gangbang porn with a brunette that looks like my wife and go to bed.
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Slutty women are awesome. I love my wife being a slut
My suggestion is hold off on posting pictures of her until you have her approval. The 2 of you seem to be in a better place than a little while back, with improved communication. It’s best to maintain that trust.
My suggestion is hold off on posting pictures of her until you have her approval. The 2 of you seem to be in a better place than a little while back, with improved communication. It’s best to maintain that trust.
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Glad to hear its all good now. I love having a HW, though have to admit I’m a bit jealous. I wish mine would use that hall pass a bit more often and venture into Slutland for awhile. Not gonna lie, I would love to see those pics and vids too but I understand her reservations
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How are you drunk in Dubai? You go to jail for such behavior.