Is it hard talking to a guy after he’s fucked your wife

[rypmar7]

The only thing hard when talking to a man who has been with my wife is my cock. I am not trying to make light of the situation, just saying it is an incredible turn on for me. The knowledge that he has had my wife is just too good to be true.

[rvplace]

I found it to be exciting talking with him, having a couple of beers and was pleased he gave me details my wife did not tell me about....

[Cuckoldme]

I think some of her FBs found it awkward to chat with me. I think there’s another topic, there, but I think it goes deeper into a philosophical discussion about bulls/cucks and who’s actually more confident.... But I digress

My HW had one ongoing BF and the three of us hung out a lot and we chatted. I think it depends on the bull more than the cuckold.
I’ve had verious conversations with her FBs whole all three of us are naked and we both just fucked my wife

Good times!

[gpcuckold0]

I was nervous to meet my wife's boyfriend, but he was a great guy and i see why she has fallen in love with him

[calicolombia69]

Dont deny your feelings; no matter how many experienced opinions you read here. I usually meet them in public: restaurants and bars. Here you are discussing the weather and the Chicago Bulls. But migrating to bedroom conversation IS awkward.

Initially I just denied it. I would drop them off at the hotel and just say bye! She likes funny and outgoing guys. SO it has been them who usually carry on the conversation. More than one actually started fondling her in the restaurant or in the car back seat. They dont bother to ask me if its OK!

In the case where I have slept in the next bedroom or bed, I just wake up and ask them if they are ready for breakfast. As you see, I dont discuss his abilities. When they have become formal lovers, I have thanked them. It turns me on to thank them and tell them how much of a difference and how happy they are making my wife.

[ProfBaw]

Unless i had known the person beforehand in a non "would you fuck my wife" capacity, I wouldn't talk to them at any stage of the process. They will always remain strangers to me. Not that i would dislike them, I just have no desire to know these people. I'm not out to make new friends.

[robandkate]

The only thing hard when talking to a man who has been with my wife is my cock. I am not trying to make light of the situation, just saying it is an incredible turn on for me. The knowledge that he has had my wife is just too good to be true.

I'm with you...the only thing hard is my cock LOL. I LOVE talking to guys who have fucked my wife. Just normal everyday conversations about anything are hotter when you know the guy you are talking with has fucked your wife. That guy knows how it feels to have your wife's mouth on his cock, he knows how her pussy tastes, and he knows what a hot fuck she is. That guy also knows that your wife's pussy is available to other guys.

My wife's married boss has been fucking her for years. I love hanging out with him. He has been intimate with my wife in every way. He knows that I am okay with him fucking my wife. We never talk about that but we are both aware of it when we are hanging out together.

[rypmar7]

The only thing hard when talking to a man who has been with my wife is my cock. I am not trying to make light of the situation, just saying it is an incredible turn on for me. The knowledge that he has had my wife is just too good to be true.

I'm with you...the only thing hard is my cock LOL. I LOVE talking to guys who have fucked my wife. Just normal everyday conversations about anything are hotter when you know the guy you are talking with has fucked your wife. That guy knows how it feels to have your wife's mouth on his cock, he knows how her pussy tastes, and he knows what a hot fuck she is. That guy also knows that your wife's pussy is available to other guys.

My wife's married boss has been fucking her for years. I love hanging out with him. He has been intimate with my wife in every way. He knows that I am okay with him fucking my wife. We never talk about that but we are both aware of it when we are hanging out together.

Yes, sounds great to me.

[funcpl477]

The only thing hard when talking to a man who has been with my wife is my cock. I am not trying to make light of the situation, just saying it is an incredible turn on for me. The knowledge that he has had my wife is just too good to be true.

I'm with you...the only thing hard is my cock LOL. I LOVE talking to guys who have fucked my wife. Just normal everyday conversations about anything are hotter when you know the guy you are talking with has fucked your wife. That guy knows how it feels to have your wife's mouth on his cock, he knows how her pussy tastes, and he knows what a hot fuck she is. That guy also knows that your wife's pussy is available to other guys.

My wife's married boss has been fucking her for years. I love hanging out with him. He has been intimate with my wife in every way. He knows that I am okay with him fucking my wife. We never talk about that but we are both aware of it when we are hanging out together.

Yes, sounds great to me.

Me too! Who better to fuck or have fuck your wife than a friend... easier and usually better to make friends from her (sometimes our) fuckers than make fuckers from our friends.

I usually look at the other guy as a bit of a partner in my wife's pleasure.

[lickitysplit]

I am the other guy and once in a while I hang out with the H for coffee or a beer. He gave me a ride to the airport and I took him to the BMW dealer to get her car. We get along great because of our common interest.

[Luv2watchher]

I have met all my wife's boyfriends and always got to watch them in action at least once during the course of her time with him. I don't always have the same outside interests so, although I got along well with several of them, that wasn't always the case. Of the fifteen guys she has been with (to date) during our marriage, none have really established a strong ongoing friendship with me. I am not sure why that is as I would have liked this to happen.

[MarknSusan]

It’s never been hard for me because we don’t do strangers. They have all been friends that we trust and enjoy good times with. In fact a few of the guys have told me things they did with Susan that she didn’t even tell me.

[hotfreaks]

The only thing hard when talking to a man who has been with my wife is my cock. I am not trying to make light of the situation, just saying it is an incredible turn on for me. The knowledge that he has had my wife is just too good to be true.

Hahaha well freaking said!!! Same is true for me.

[rypmar7]

The only thing hard when talking to a man who has been with my wife is my cock. I am not trying to make light of the situation, just saying it is an incredible turn on for me. The knowledge that he has had my wife is just too good to be true.

Hahaha well freaking said!!! Same is true for me.

Glad to heat it! There are so many emotions you can experience when talking to a guy that has fucked your wife. Some think you don't know, some have that smirk that they have cuckolded you, some act like they own her or know her better than you do and some are very nice.

[hotfreaks]

The only thing hard when talking to a man who has been with my wife is my cock. I am not trying to make light of the situation, just saying it is an incredible turn on for me. The knowledge that he has had my wife is just too good to be true.

Hahaha well freaking said!!! Same is true for me.

Glad to heat it! There are so many emotions you can experience when talking to a guy that has fucked your wife. Some think you don't know, some have that smirk that they have cuckolded you, some act like they own her or know her better than you do and some are very nice.

Again...very well said. In my case, fortunately, most of her men have been beyond nice and have understood the lifestyle. They have been nice when they need too. And have spoken very dirty to me when that is needed!

[zorro]

Maybe because we don't see anything wrong with open sexual sharing, it has never been uncomfortable talking with a guy after he has fucked R. It feels very natural, and most of what I feel is gratitude and some joy for adding to our pleasure.
At sex parties, sometime the interaction is limited to a friendly fistbump after he climbs off her naked body when he is done fucking her. But with a prolonged encounter with a hot MFM, I thank the guy, sometimes shake hands, sometimes give him a hug (if he offers), and most of the time tell him we hope to see him again.
We don't talk about the sexual encounter itself. After all, I was there to see exactly what happened (unless I step into another room for a while to make it easier for him to get hard for them to set up a good fucking rhythm without my distracting them). The thing speaks for itself. Res ipsa loquiter, you lawyers out there?
I think my relaxation and appreciation/respect for what the guy has gifted us comes through as fully positive.
As I think about, right after fucking, most guys don't seem to want to make small talk. When we meet in person, it is as though nothing has happened. It remains just what it was.
I guess we don't make a BFD out of fucking. We just enjoy it.

[Yupyup]

Nope. I’ve had conversations with guys while they are fucking her or getting sucked off.

[SailorGuy]

Not anymore, since they've been lovers for years now. But the very first time was, well, interesting!
This man had fucked my wife maybe half a dozen times when we decided to move to a new house just up the street from our old one. He was/is a kind of jack-of-all-trades, and he had a truck. My wife asked him if he would help us move; of course he said yes!
I had to work on the one day he and his crew and his truck helped move our furniture; I wasn't able to be there to see what went down. Apparently they had moved the last load of things into our new house; the man sent his buddies on their way; he remained alone with my wife in our new house. As a way of saying thanks for his help my wife made him a nice lunch. It was a hot summer day; my wife was wearing her trademark short shorts and a thin tank top. After they ate she went to kiss him; he kissed her back passionately; my wife led him back to our bedroom - in total disarray with boxes everywhere, but at least there was a mattress on the floor.
Of course I didn't know about any of this at the time; I was still at work. But when my wife had told me this man would be helping us with his friends and his truck I told her to make sure she thanked him in a way he'd appreciate!
So when I got off work I went first to our old house. The man was there with his crew, just finishing up and getting ready to go home. All our stuff was gone from our old house, so I knew he'd already moved everything for us. I went up to him and extended my hand and said thanks for helping us.
The way he shook my hand, the way he looked at me, I knew he had just been fucking my wife.
Of course I had known all along of their relationship. But at that point he didn't know that I knew. The look he gave me was of a man who was superior to me and who had fucked my wife behind my back.
Fine. Let him think that. Inside I was delighted and very turned on. I wanted to tell him outright, but my wife insisted that she would tell him at the right time herself. Personally I think it was very right and proper to give the man thanks for helping us. And the greatest thing he could have wanted for his efforts was what in fact my wife gave him: a nice lunch, and a nice long fuck. Everybody's happy!

[CuckIan]

Well I voted yes because immediately after it's a little awkward. I mean he just gave my wife what I never could, but the next time we all meet it's fine again. I try to keep my mouth shut so they can talk, but no problem until he yet again shows me who the real man is.

[richkathy96003]

It does not bring any feelings of regret. I am completely happy after another man has fucked her for hours, her coming hard multiple times, him owning every hole, him falling in love with her. I usually tell them I told you she was a great fuck...the one you can’t forget.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

No it is not difficult to talk to another man after he has had sex with my wife.

In high school and in college my wife to be had dated / sex with quite a few guys. As a Hotwife she has added a fair amount to the number of men she has had sex with, let’s say 40 to 50 men maybe more. So since she had sex with that many men it increases the possibility of bumping into one of them.

While of golfing with two of my traditional friends the three of us got paired up with a single golfer. He turn out to be a man who my wife has sex with on a few occasions from the swing club my wife and I attend

I got along with the former “sex partner” of my wife fairly well during the 18 holes of golf the four of us played together

Yet my two traditional friends didn’t seem to accept the cover story that I knew this man by once meeting him on a business trip

LOL, how should have I introduced the former sex partner of my wife.....oh I know him, he has a big cock and he fucked and came inside my wife on several occasions

Yes I would play golf with him again

[bltn1966]

I started this thread. I didn’t know I would soon be in a nightmare situation First of all when Marie have sex with a guy, she usually will rate guys on a scale of 1-10. One night, on a whim, we decided to go to a swingers club. It’s been well over a year since we’ve been to a club. We bumped into a a Hispanic couple we spent the night with. Marie gave him a 5 rating. She said he felt great but he kept switching to different sex positions. As soon as she was about to cum he would switch positions again. She said it felt like he was using her to audition for a porn movie.

While we’re talking to the Hispanic couple a young white couple ran over to say hi to us. We were the first couple for the white couple. Marie thought the white guy was cute but didn’t expect much out of him the bedroom. Well he gave her more than she bargained for. Marie gave him a 8 rating. He went down on her and fingered her a lot. After awhile Marie was begging him to fuck her. He then started ducking her real hard. After awhile he made Marie tap out. Watching my wife asking a guy to have mercy on her is one of the hottest thing to ever see. She held her palm out to him and was still cumming as she asked for a timeout.

While we were talking to both of the couples a young black guy walked up and gave Marie a big hug. I never met him. Marie tried reminding me who he was. She told me she dated the guy a few time. When the guy turned his head Marie whispered “he’s a 9 and I’m not talking about his rating either”. My dick immediately got hard. I walked over to the bar because I was having a hard time trying to conversate while standing around three guys that have fucked Marie. My mind was racing all over the place. My tongue was tied and and couldn’t concentrate on whatever we were talking about. My wife, on the other hand, talked as if she didn’t have a care in the world. I stood at the bar and watched Marie surrounded by all three guys. I know they were thinking about their time with her.

[Lookingtoshareia]

No, I don't find it any more difficult that it was before they fucked. We go right back to chatting and having a good time until they are ready to go at it again, then repeat.

[Parkerh]

I got to play darts and drink with B's guy. It's pretty cool that its not weird. Plus it makes it more comfortable for everyone. She's seeing him tonight

[pixwellguy]

I find that it's an odd feeling, but one I enjoy - both before and after my wife's been to the bedroom with the guy.

It's also different when it's a one-time guy or new guy, then when it's an old established FWB. With the new guy, of course, the conversation has a lot of sexual overtones, naturally, and there's a lot of flirting going on between my wife and the guy.

It's really most odd when it's an old established FWB, because then the conversation before and after is a lot more "normal" - sports, what's going on in his life and ours, just normal everyday stuff. And yet we all know, and I can't forget, that he'll soon be taking my wife off to the bedroom to give her what she needs and enjoy himself with her.

It's even more strange, but so hot, afterwards. The contrast between what they've just been doing and the very normal conversation is huge. It's even hotter if they've wanted to be alone, and have closed the bedroom door on me. Again, the contrast between carrying on a normal conversation with this guy, and the cries of pleasure and sounds of fucking I've just been hearing....