Some guys were friends who hung around out house or went on vacation with us, so they became known as "uncle".isinlarsa wrote: ↑Tue Jan 28, 2020 11:27 amMy wife was seldom picked up by the men she dated, and with one exception our daughter never met a man she dated, but she knew when her mother was going out. As my daughter became an older teen, I think she and her mother talked, but they never shared with me what they talked about.rypmar7 wrote: ↑Tue Jan 28, 2020 9:58 amThat is really how our kids acted, too. If she had a regular, they called him Uncle _______ whatever his name was.isinlarsa wrote: ↑Tue Jan 28, 2020 5:54 amOur daughter, too, found out about her mother dating other men as a early teen, and seemed to have no issue or problems with it. It certainly made things easier once she found out, because we didn't have to have my wife sneak around or make up excuses when she went out. My daughter's attitude was "that's just the way mom is, and dad is okay with it."
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It sounds like once you are a hot wife you will be very naughty !! Telling a couple of your close girl friends how exciting it is to go in a date and have sex with a BF. Telling them enough that they keep asking for more. Telling them that your husband cannot keep up with your sexual drive.. and even making him drop his pants in front of them while you are in discussions to show them how small he is.. or have him jerk off in front of them to show them how fast he cums !! These are experiences that do happen and are VERY exciting for you, your husband and your girlfriends.early-kink wrote: ↑Tue Jan 28, 2020 3:08 pmI'm not a HWH yet, but I always wonder how many of ANY hotwife's girlfriends would be upset if they knew what she was doing. Or would they instead be curious and maybe even jealous of all the fun she was having?
I think it would be hot for a hotwife to share her secret "fun arrangement" with her girlfriends. And then they ask the husband if he likes her playing with other guys, or compliments him for being such an understanding husband. Maybe those girlfriends ask the hotwife how to bring up the subject with THEIR husbands so they can have fun on the side too. I'd love to hear those conversations!!!
There are experiences you will read here that a wife’s girlfriend will “babysit” her husband while she is out with her BF and tease him mercifully while she is gone. I have done that before and even had the girlfriend do things like tease him and make him jerk off in front if her every hour while his wife is gone and he so worn out by the time we get home that he isn’t able to fuck his wife when I am through !! There are so many things that you and your girlfriends can talk about and do.
And, yes, once you have cuckolded your husband your girlfriends can use that as an example to bring their husband down the same path !!
It all depends on your imagination.. do you have an imagination ??
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Minnhotwife,Minnhotwife wrote: ↑Tue Jan 28, 2020 5:42 amSir Brad,bradisalpha wrote: ↑Tue Jan 28, 2020 3:24 amI wouldn’t be shocked if he wants her either !! If he plans a trip to “come visit an old friend” you can be assured what is on his mind. As you talk more you might mention that it would be hot seeing him with her.. and maybe he should plan a visit and see where things lead !! Your conversations will be very exciting.. You might be surprised !!Minnhotwife wrote: ↑Mon Jan 27, 2020 6:24 pmSome of my wife’s friends know about our hotwife experiences.
I just told an old friend about our open marriage a few days ago. He was totally cool about it and said he would keep it a secret from mutual friends. Didn’t have many questions but I did go into some detail about my wife’s past relationships. It felt really good telling someone I worked with for years my wife likes to fuck other men and now I feel even more relaxed and ready to tell others about us.
I wouldn’t be shocked if he wanted to fuck my wife if given the opportunity and to be honest, I would like to see him with her.
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That sounds like fun but I would rather my hotwife go visit him where he lives. I might send him a few recent pics of my wife to remind him what she looks like and ask if he can believe she's a hotwife. He's also in a long term relationship and so has to be careful but might play with the right conditions. I would like to spend the rest of my life knowing he's had hot sex with my wife every time we talk and get together with our families or mutual friends.
You may be overreacting and pulling at straws trying to get them together. I might suggest you take a more natural approach to getting them together. Putting them in a comfortable situation and letting nature take its course !! If he were to visit.. and he knows your wife has permission to fuck others.. and your wife knows how excited you are that she might fuck your friend.. it will not take much to let the sparks begin to fly !!! A night out for dinner and drinks.. back to the house for more drinks.. you getting tired and go to bed early.. so on.. and so on...
However, if you send her to him you are putting her in a dangerous position between him and his girlfriend.. so that will have an effect on his mood and sexuality. While at the same time you are taking your wife out of her comfort zone and sending her to meet a guy she hardly knows.. if at all. She isn’t going to just meet him and say “let’s fuck” !!!
So, all I am saying is that it might be good to rethink your plan. Come up with a reason that your friend might need to meet with you for a weekend .. an activity of some sort that would bore his gf. Let him get away and feel free to let his emotions out and prime his sexual desires. After all, it would only be an airline ticket.. you pick him up at the airport and take him back. He would be staying with you so there will be no restrictions on being up all night !!
But, at the end of the day it is your wife.. your friend.. and your decision.
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Best I can recall, probably 25, maybe 30 people know about my involvement in this lifestyle, so I voted "A number ... who matter". However, some of those folks I will likely never see again for various reasons. Still, I would greet all of them as friends. So, I guess they 'matter'.
There are some folks I would never wish to find out. Co-workers mostly. If our shared proclivity were mainstream, nobody would care, but it is not. Given that, I also have a 1/2-vote for "... shit creek". ;-)
There are some folks I would never wish to find out. Co-workers mostly. If our shared proclivity were mainstream, nobody would care, but it is not. Given that, I also have a 1/2-vote for "... shit creek". ;-)
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My 3 sisters know. I only told one lol. I also have a friend who is alsoa HW and she knows too. I doubt my sisters told anyone
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I'm sure your sisters are envious of your lifestyle!!!
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Neither my or her family know, her sister and my mom have suspected.
For me, over the last 15 years, I've told only a few of my friends and work colleagues.
For her I know her best friend knows and she's opened up to a couple of female work colleagues. She's fucked 3 male work colleagues that I know of.
For me, over the last 15 years, I've told only a few of my friends and work colleagues.
For her I know her best friend knows and she's opened up to a couple of female work colleagues. She's fucked 3 male work colleagues that I know of.
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A couple who have been very close friends with us recognized some of our online photographs and approached us. They are from the same ethnic and religious background as us and were curious about the lifestyle. We ended up introducing the wife to one of my partners. As far as we know, no one else knows about us. However, it is quite possible, even probable, that others suspect.
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The ones who know are some of the guys who've fucked her. So that is potentially a fair few. However, a lot of them don't know she is a hotwife. They think they seduced her and that it's an exclusive arrangement. Generally, we've found that guys are a bit freaked out by the hotwife concept.
So, 'officially', we've been able to keep it a secret - especially as most of the guys she's fucked have been married.
However, I do agree with MarknSusan's comment that more people will know. Sophie was a hotwife in a provincial town of about 35000 people. I think there would have been whispers about her being a player. I don't know if anyone knew that she had my approval. They probably thought I was the clueless husband!
The more I think about it, the more I realise that a lot of people must know. She has fucked more than one guy at one of her workplaces and three guys from her school reunion group (each time they catch up a different guy does her - there is still one from the inner circle who hasn't). So it is unclear who they might have told. But once again, they are all married so they may not have blabbed.
We did discover there were some people we knew who were also in the lifestyle. That was really cool and horny. A couple of Sophie's girlfriends know because she has been fucked when she has gone on trips away with them. But they were fucked too, so I'm sure they were discreet and didn't tell.
So, 'officially', we've been able to keep it a secret - especially as most of the guys she's fucked have been married.
However, I do agree with MarknSusan's comment that more people will know. Sophie was a hotwife in a provincial town of about 35000 people. I think there would have been whispers about her being a player. I don't know if anyone knew that she had my approval. They probably thought I was the clueless husband!
The more I think about it, the more I realise that a lot of people must know. She has fucked more than one guy at one of her workplaces and three guys from her school reunion group (each time they catch up a different guy does her - there is still one from the inner circle who hasn't). So it is unclear who they might have told. But once again, they are all married so they may not have blabbed.
We did discover there were some people we knew who were also in the lifestyle. That was really cool and horny. A couple of Sophie's girlfriends know because she has been fucked when she has gone on trips away with them. But they were fucked too, so I'm sure they were discreet and didn't tell.
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Brad - I'm a HWH (hubby wannabe). You addressed me above thinking I was the hotwife!! I'm the husband! If she decides to make that step - that's up to her.
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Understand !!early-kink wrote: ↑Fri Feb 14, 2020 2:48 pmBrad - I'm a HWH (hubby wannabe). You addressed me above thinking I was the hotwife!! I'm the husband! If she decides to make that step - that's up to her.
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Just told an old friend online about our open marriage and how I like seeing my wife with other men. Turns out they are also into non-monogamy and were super supportive, too.
We're getting together soon to talk about our sex lives and experiences. It should be fun sharing tips and hopefully help all of us find other lovers.
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^^^^^^ So THAT'S what you do in Minnesota to pass those long winters!!
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The secret’s out! . It’s a great way to generate heat rubbing bodies together.early-kink wrote: ↑Thu Mar 12, 2020 7:43 am^^^^^^ So THAT'S what you do in Minnesota to pass those long winters!!
Wish my wife had many more nights at a remote cabin keeping her boyfriends warm.
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My wife told her mother just before Christmas as her mother noticed she was wearing a different ring on her ring fit. When asked my wife told her I was her cuckold and she had lover for the past 10 plus years. I was asked about this Christmas by her mother in private and I told her I had given her ti him from FWB to be the man in her life and I wanted to become feminine. Her mother is aware I wear panties every day and was looking to start wearing bras.
There are some female friends of mine who know as there are some of my wife’s friends who know. Also the wait staff and some restaurants we frequent either together or her and just her lover.
I just don’t care anymore.
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There are some female friends of mine who know as there are some of my wife’s friends who know. Also the wait staff and some restaurants we frequent either together or her and just her lover.
I just don’t care anymore.
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We are new in this lifestyle.
First we haven't told anyone but then wife wants to share this with a friend.
And finally she has said to her closed friend who is also her gynecologist.
She was more interested this lifestyle. Because she has told she has a some sexual issue with her husband.
Then she got our permission and told her husband about our lifestyle.now they are thinking same lifestyle but waiting corona go away.
İn my side, i was so afraid if someone would learn about it but after she knew our lifestyle she was so kind to me.
Now i am very comfortable with her. Still exciting talk this with other people.
Sometimes i had imagine how would be if many people know about our lifestyle or cuckolding would be acceptable in our society.
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First we haven't told anyone but then wife wants to share this with a friend.
And finally she has said to her closed friend who is also her gynecologist.
She was more interested this lifestyle. Because she has told she has a some sexual issue with her husband.
Then she got our permission and told her husband about our lifestyle.now they are thinking same lifestyle but waiting corona go away.
İn my side, i was so afraid if someone would learn about it but after she knew our lifestyle she was so kind to me.
Now i am very comfortable with her. Still exciting talk this with other people.
Sometimes i had imagine how would be if many people know about our lifestyle or cuckolding would be acceptable in our society.
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Very early on in the lifestyle, my wife told a vanilla friend. A couple days later, she had told other friends. One of which called up my wife screaming at her and calling her immoral and told her never to speak to her again. Which really sucked because the kids used to play together. Since then, we don't tell anybody.
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No one close to us knows about our lifestyle and we prefer to keep it that way.
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A few of our vanilla friends know we are swingers and have an open marriage. Ann's cousin knows we swing and used to help babysit for us.
A teacher Ann works with found out we are swingers when she saw us at a club playing in the group room. We have run into parents of kids in our kids classes at clubs and even met my parents new neighbours at a nude pool party. That was hilarious. Neither they nor I knew what to do at first and then just burst out laughing. I took them over to meet Ann who was having a glass of moscato wearing nothing but her sunglasses, tummy chain and anklet. When I said who the couple were she said, "Shit! Oh well we are all here for the same thing!" Our main concern is parents from Ann's school seeing us at a party.
A teacher Ann works with found out we are swingers when she saw us at a club playing in the group room. We have run into parents of kids in our kids classes at clubs and even met my parents new neighbours at a nude pool party. That was hilarious. Neither they nor I knew what to do at first and then just burst out laughing. I took them over to meet Ann who was having a glass of moscato wearing nothing but her sunglasses, tummy chain and anklet. When I said who the couple were she said, "Shit! Oh well we are all here for the same thing!" Our main concern is parents from Ann's school seeing us at a party.
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Only people that know are the men she was with. A few she told I wanted her to fuck other men. Back then a few of them worked at the same store so I suspect word got around there. One man arranged with a security guy to use his apartment so they had a bed to use. I was kind od shocked she told at least one guy that II liked her fucking others. He thought I was wierd.
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I've never told anyone about my wife's expanded sexuality. My wife confided in two of her girlfriends that she invites men to join us for MFM sex. They have expanded their sexual boundaries, too. Hence, they confided in each other about their sexual experiences to expand their knowledge and fun. My wife let slip a comment to her sister that led to her confiding in her sister an abbreviated version of her sexuality. My sister-in-law's initial response was incredulity and shock. Since then, she has asked my wife many questions about her expanded sexuality in a manner of genuine interest, not judgment. Based on what I know about my sister-in-law, she's a HW awaiting opportunity.
There is no rule that applies to everyone. Many in the HW lifestyle are quite open about it. My wife and I are forced to conceal it. We do not want out kids to know that their mom is a porn star. We do not want to be forced to explain to our families that my wife loves to experience her sexual fantasies. Finally, my wife could be subject to termination if her conduct tarnished her company's reputation. Her company has a very strict policy about sexual harassment. Discussing any sexual topic at work exposes employees to discipline up to termination.
One of the reasons my wife generally targets young military studs is the UCMJ. Adultery committed by US military members is punishable under UCMJ. My wife knows that military studs are not likely to brag about fucking a married woman for fear of punishment. They can be punished for contracting an STD. Military studs that she has seduced have been extremely respectful of her. She's had to reassure more than a few that she wanted them to enjoy her hot and sexy naked body.
My wife has plausible deniability scripted in the event she has to deny fucking anyone. So far, she hasn't had to use it.
There is no rule that applies to everyone. Many in the HW lifestyle are quite open about it. My wife and I are forced to conceal it. We do not want out kids to know that their mom is a porn star. We do not want to be forced to explain to our families that my wife loves to experience her sexual fantasies. Finally, my wife could be subject to termination if her conduct tarnished her company's reputation. Her company has a very strict policy about sexual harassment. Discussing any sexual topic at work exposes employees to discipline up to termination.
One of the reasons my wife generally targets young military studs is the UCMJ. Adultery committed by US military members is punishable under UCMJ. My wife knows that military studs are not likely to brag about fucking a married woman for fear of punishment. They can be punished for contracting an STD. Military studs that she has seduced have been extremely respectful of her. She's had to reassure more than a few that she wanted them to enjoy her hot and sexy naked body.
My wife has plausible deniability scripted in the event she has to deny fucking anyone. So far, she hasn't had to use it.
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My wife and I are not too sure about that. Her experience, including as a military officer for decades, was that men love to talk when they fuck a woman.Tank Turner wrote: ↑Fri May 26, 2023 4:28 pmOne of the reasons my wife generally targets young military studs is the UCMJ. Adultery committed by US military members is punishable under UCMJ. My wife knows that military studs are not likely to brag about fucking a married woman for fear of punishment.
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Tank Turner wrote: ↑Fri May 26, 2023 4:28 pmOne of the reasons my wife generally targets young military studs is the UCMJ. Adultery committed by US military members is punishable under UCMJ. My wife knows that military studs are not likely to brag about fucking a married woman for fear of punishment. They can be punished for contracting an STD.
If you believe it actually works like that in real life, I've got a bridge in San Francisco to sell you....real cheap.
The adultery charge is only used if it impacts unit cohesion, and the STD charge is for willful, frequent cases.
All soldiers, sailors, and Marines brag about fucking married women .
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Hi Farmgirl,
I'll buy that bridge:
Article 134 UCMJ, Adultery: https://mymilitarylawyers.com/practice- ... l-article/
It can result in dishonorable discharge.
A few military stud were reluctant to fuck my wife for fear of military discipline...until she got naked ;-)
I'll buy that bridge:
Article 134 UCMJ, Adultery: https://mymilitarylawyers.com/practice- ... l-article/
It can result in dishonorable discharge.
A few military stud were reluctant to fuck my wife for fear of military discipline...until she got naked ;-)
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UCMJ Sexually transmitted disease: https://www.militarytimes.com/2016/03/2 ... l-charges/