Young Wife May Start Again

[brandiandme]

It is a lot of work to get an update together. First I need to get all of the information from Brandi and then take the time to put it into my own words. It's hard to know if she is embellishing anything, and some of it are my presumptions.

Marijuana is legal where we live, so that is not even an issue.  You can have up to 10oz in your home.  She is not doing anything illegal, at all.

The deal with Billy.  If you've read she has been on and off with him, but fairly regular.  He has a really big cock and knows how to use it.  She gets along with him.  He still thinks Brandi is just cheating with him on me he is the only guy having sex with her.  Brandi gets the feeling he wants more from her, so in some ways I'm glad she has taken to the gangbangs and being a slut for Tre and her other bulls.  Some of the excitement has worn off with him and although he possess a big tool, he does not have the physical stature and aggressiveness of many of her other guys.  She has flat out said that black guys and just far more aggressive in bed.  Also, I have to point out that while Billy is more of an average white dude, most (not all) of Tre and his friends are more "dangerous" rougher tattooed guys.  She has admitted a real attraction to the more thuggish type of guys and how they excite her.  I am sure this has much to do with her over protective, and at times, abusive, alcoholic dad, and also her only having ever been with "safe" white guys. She's experiencing something different and new and very much enjoying it.

As for the video I see your point.  Brandi is the one against video and pics.  If I had my way she'd be making amateur porn already.  I will say that the night I was able to sneak some video, A) We both, especially Brandi, were very intoxicated.  We had a lot to drink, smoke, and some MDMA.  B) The video was not very good as I was on the other side of the room.  It'd be nearly impossible to recognize her in the video.  She has not been heavily intoxicated for any of her sex sessions (this is a rule for safety) and I feel it would be hard for them to get good pics or video without her noticing, but it is still a risk.

As for Tre sharing her, he admits he is turned on by her fucking other guys, much like me and the rest of us on here. You're about to learn Chris's motivation.

On to the weekend.  Brandi feeling much better Saturday entertained Chris and his friend, R, on Saturday.  As I expected she would, she hung out, smoked, and had sex with both of them.  They hung some more and went for round two and the guys were there for almost 3 hours.  Brandi said he was a large, little bit thuggish guy, with a very thick cock.  She said, although he was not as long as Tre or Billy, he was the thickest guy she'd ever had and made her cum easily.  

Here is where it gets twisted.  Although R is a friend of Chris's, Chris brought him over there because he owed R $100.  This did not come out until after they were done.  R complimented her on  not only how hot she was, but also what a great fuck she was, and said she was worth far more than $100.  There was an exchange between Chris and R about how he was not supposed to say anything.

Brandi was torn. One one hand she was pissed at Chris for doing this, but also very turned on by the naughtiness of it all, plus the sex was amazing.  Selling sex and working as a call girl is a something we've discussed with her sexual revolution, although we have always thought it as just flat out too risky.  There is way too much that could go wrong.  

Amway, Brandi said he was one hell of a fuck and pounded he very hard for a very long time, especially the second time around.  She said she came a lot, and he was probably the roughest fuck she's ever had in her life, and super dominating. He did not ask her but just told her what to do.  Her submissive side completely came out. She was supposed to meet Tre and his roommate later but actually called it off because she was a bit sore and fucked out.  She is intrigued with R though and very much wants to have sex with him again. She has his info. 

We did discuss what would happen if she was at a party like this without being paid, and she said she probably have sex with them anyway.  Her outlook on all things sex is mind blowing.  I feel like she's at the point where she'd fuck almost anyone with a big cock that asked her to.    

She met up with Billy Sunday for a before work romp and ended up after work at Tre's house for a threesome and her first ever bareback sex with his roommate.  So, all three of her bulls took her bareback on Sunday.   

I had told Brandi to book a vacation for us after my return.  I told her I'd prefer somewhere warm but have her no other instructions.  Jamaica here we come.  This could be an interesting trip.  

I will say that she tells me she misses me and loves me, and she also thanked me. Without my support she would have never been able to put herself out there like she has and let go. She would have completely missed out on these amazing new sexual experiences and sounded a bit vulnerable. She needed to know I still love her no matter what. She has some guilt.

It's hard not to get jealous. After all, I have given Brandi permission to do whatever since I left and has had sex with 15 different men since I've left. I need to support her though and not let my jealously derail us.

[XYAlpha]

For the OP, I suggest applying some brakes.
Not stopping by any means, but simply a short break or slowing down.

For no other reason than to validate that she "can". This is particularly important for the future and frankly because of her submissive traits she can be easily used - as we see in this recent update. If she cannot slow down, you may have a runaway train here.

My personal opinion is that a HW needs to be able to control certain aspects of the LS, including number / frequency / type of outside sex, and NRE. In Brandi's case, she seems to be avoiding NRE but I think the new guy R and Billy could be challenging in this regard.

For her self confidence and sense of personal power, her pumping the brakes would be worthwhile while also demonstrating to you that she can.
It would be hard to bring this up to her in a meaningful way so that she doesn't think it is you asking her to stop - which I am NOT suggesting.

Brandi is no doubt amazing and hot as fuck. You are a very lucky husband. I would hate to see you, and her, struggle with a situation out of control...

Jamaica can be fun and VERY risky. You will need to be clear-minded (sober) to avoid physical trouble and sti/std. No glove - no love!

XY

[gwwkjt]

Regarding exercising the control or "pumping the brakes" might be a good idea, but what OP actually wants? I got the impression that the strongest turn on for him is when Brandi is getting off the rails completely. We see that when Brandi got intense with Billy in the beginning, then when he caught her cheating with Tre and his crew and when she went wild afterwards.

Time off in Jamaica is important. You will have a lot of time together, both away from jobs and her being away from her fuckboys. You might get plenty of opportunities for hotwifing there if Brandi wants: plenty of other vacationers with nothing much to do. You are not going native outside the resort's fence aren't you? This could be risky. Probably OP does not even have an idea how it is going to be there because Brandi is in the driving seat and she might surprise him

Any news regarding Brandi from your home town? Do you keep in touch with Jason or the other guys who fucked Brandi over there?

Going bareback with Billy, Tre and the roommate in the same day was hot. Do they cum in her pussy too?

Fucking R to settle Chris debt was hot. Hope there will be further developments with R in the future

[brandiandme]

While I see the point about pumping the brakes, I am not sure how to do this, or even if want to.  I have flipped flopped on her a few times now and each time it has gone really badly.  To be honest I have been encouraging her almost to the point of pushing sometimes to go have sex with these guys and then report back to me how slutty she has been.  While Brandi is do doubt 100% enjoying herself, there is a bit of doing this for her perverted hubby.  I have been very vocal and encouraged her to be as slutty as possible and fuck as many guys as possible.  Reading about some of the wives that have had hundreds and even a thousand cocks hits home with me for some reason. 

Brandi knows I look at porn and various forums and have told her a lot about my "research".  It takes a lot of positive reinforcement for her to understand that it's okay and normal for her to be married and slutting around, and for me to get off on it.  I already know next question, and no, she does not know about my posting here.  I have told her about wives like this.  At first she thoughts I was crazy but now that she is getting lots of cock she sees how it could happen in time.  After all, 2-3 new guys per month is 120 - 180 in only 5 years. They can add up fast with girls into gangbangs. This is where we differ a bit, while I am turned on by the sheer number of men she has sex with, she's could care less about the number and just likes the dirtiness of it. I guess it may be a good thing she's not concerned with the number, because the way it is looking it could get high.

Think of almost any slutty scenario and I've brought it up to her and told her it was hot.  On top of that, my friend Joe (who had a threesome with us a few years ago before we were married) is in town this week for a work conference Wed and Thur and I've told Brandi I'd like her to have sex with him, so now is probably not the best time to ask her to pump the breaks.  I am very turned on by Brandi being a huge slut and don't want to derail her when she's on a roll.  

As for Jason and the home town guys, yes, Jason is a good friend and we text randomly once in a while.  As far as I know, no rumors have spread about Brandi from the weekend at home, other than she is super hot and was a bit drunk and flirtatious.  Nothing else though.  I've had Jason keep his ear out for me.  Jason still has no idea that she also blew Marcus and fucked Ron earlier that night.  

It didn't take long for Brandi to meet up with R again.  Like I said she had a great time with him and they traded info so they could hook up again.  He texted her yesterday afternoon and came over later that evening.  They fucked on and off for 3 hours.  He left her sore and satisfied again.  She was really sexed up the way she talked about it and I think there is definitely some NRE with R.  He's a big burly guy (she loves big guys and being manhandled), has a very thick cock (Brandi likes girth more that length), and is very dominating (which she loves).   

She is having a gangbang with Tre and 2 other guys (both repeats) tonight.  She's certainly on fire.  

[gwwkjt]

You don't want to exercise control, because you want to stay consistent. I get it. Telling her to stop would be devastating now. She can't get unfucked now. However, there are few things to consider:

First: safety. Now when she branches out beyond people she knows well - how safe is she? Taking into account how physical the guys are and rough scenarios is it plausible that at some point there will be a situation when she withdraws her consent. Can she walk out without being raped or worse? Who is looking out for her when you are away?

Second: if something goes bad (I am not saying it will, but what if) - who owns the consequences? Will it fall only on you who encouraged her to push the limits? Would your relationship survive the setback like rape, other bodily harm etc?

Since she does not know you are posting I think you should consider removing the pics. It is a breach of trust. If she finds this forum your relationship will take a hit. Pics are very personal things and together with your story is too much. She can recognise herself and it is enough to feel that her privacy is invaded

There is a growing bond between Brandi and R. Ask her more about it. Looks like NRE

Really good move about Joe. Not sure if he needs to know everything though

So when are you back stateside? Any thoughts and dreams about how would you like to be welcomed by Brandi and how are you planning to insert yourself into her new lifestyle? Things are quite different now compared to when you last saw her

[Cuckoldme]

Brandi’s got both feat on the gas pedal, it’s possible “pumping the brakes” at this point could slip off the road.
I vetoed a date once for my hotwife and it didn’t work out so well. She took it opposite of what I intended.
The good thing about the cheating scenario is these guys won’t come around when hubby is home, so things will cool off then.

Moving forward with precautions is always a good idea. She seems to have a good head on her shoulders, too.

[XYAlpha]

Brandi’s got both feat on the gas pedal, it’s possible “pumping the brakes” at this point could slip off the road.
I vetoed a date once for my hotwife and it didn’t work out so well. She took it opposite of what I intended.
The good thing about the cheating scenario is these guys won’t come around when hubby is home, so things will cool off then.

Moving forward with precautions is always a good idea. She seems to have a good head on her shoulders, too.

It's no longer a cheating scenario. The OP said Brandi told the whole group that her husband was in the know of all the activities - except Billy.

XY

[brandiandme]

My little slut is on a roll.

Tuesday evening she had a gangbang with Tre, his gym friend, and another friend G (she had fucked before). I told you about the altercation with the bitchy neighbor recently. While, shortly after the gangbang she was going out and ran into the cunt neighbor again who just glared at her and called her a tramp. Brandi got into it with her this time and the neighbor threatened to call the cops accusing Brandi of being a prostitute. I heard about this when I woke up first thing in the morning (it was only 6:30 am my time) and Brandi was really pissed about it. Like I said, she can be feisty when she wants to. She said she should fuck her husband to get back at her. She asked if I minded. Are you kidding? I love this idea and told her she should absolutely do it. Brandi said she was going to knock on his door after she knew the bitch was gone and ask him to come down. I said she should find a reason and suggested she ask for help with a clogged toilet. She was going to sleep on it. I was off to work.


As you can imagine as soon as Brandi was up in the morning we connected and I asked her if she was really going to do it. She again asked if she should and I told her it would be a great way to get back at the cunt and was ridiculously hot. I then had an idea for her to call me right before she went to get him and leave her phone on for me to listen. This happened around 8:00 am back home which was 5:00 for me so I stayed at the office. She had her phone with her as I listened. Below is a combination of what I could hear and what details I got from her after in my best story telling attempt.


Brandi knocked on their door and asked the husband if he could help her. I've mentioned this before but he is full on retired while she works a few days per week. The rest of the time they are at their Beach house, even in winter.

She told him that our toilet was clogged and asked if he could help as she did not want to call a plumber. (she had just put a wad of toilet paper in it and not flushed). I will add that Brandi was wearing nothing but a thin white (kind of see through) t shirt and thongs. Not overly revealing, but sexy. I've sure her tone young 24 year old body looked great to my 60 something year old neighbor. She had already smoked and was a little horny as usual. He told her he would take a look at it. I heard them walk down the stairs (Brandi later told me she really wiggled her ass and pretended to scratch her back lifting her shirt up an exposing her thong laden ass to him).

Sure enough all he had to do was flush the toilet and it was fixed. I heard Brandi give a bubbly "Yay". She asked the neighbor if she could repay him in any way. He told her he was glad to help. I then heard her put her phone down on what was the sink counter. She then approached him and grabbed his crotch and asked him if he was sure. Brandi said he just stood there dumbfounded. She then said "I know how I can repay you."


My angst was going crazy and my stomach was in knots. I had not felt anything like this since I saw her fuck my friend Jason and his older neighbor. There is something way different about experiencing it live (even by phone).


She told me she immediately dropped to her knees and unzipped his pants, to her surprise, showing a fairly large cock. He was thick enough to fill her mouth with his head. I could hear her slurping on his cock (she said she was being noisy for me). She sucked his cock for a few minutes and I heard her pick up the phone again briefly and then put it back down (this time on our nightstand). She had lead him to our bedroom where she sat him on the bed and continued to suck him off. She laid him back on the bed, put a condom on his cock and climbed on top of him. I could hear him groan as Brandi mounted him. He still had his clothes and shoes on and only his pants were pulled down. The whole time he did not say much but just moaned and groaned and occasionally said "yes" as Brandi got vocal and told him to "fuck my slutty young pussy", "do you like my cheating married pussy" and "I bet yours wife's pussy is not this good", among other things.


By now I was jerking my cock in my pants behind my desk in my office. I could not believe my 24 year old wife was fucking my retired neighbor in my bed. Brandi took off her shirt and and put his hands on her tits She said he lasted long enough and he was big enough for her to get off. I could hear my wife screaming "yes" and announce "I'm cumming" as she orgasmed. This was too much for me and I came in my pants at my desk at work. Granted it was well after 5:00 and the office was clearing out. I immediately felt fucking awful Here I am 7000 miles away jerking off in my pants while my old ass neighbor is balls deep in my wife's pussy, and he just made her cum. I had a moment of what the fuck am I doing, this is not right, I'm turning my wife into a whore.


After she came she got up, laid across the bed with her feet on the floor, and told him to fuck her doggy style. She said he pounded her from behind and could actually fuck pretty good.. I cold hear him slapping against her ass. It was hard to listen to. All the time my wife telling him to fuck her like a slut. I heard him grunt loudly as he came inside Brandi inside the condom. By now my post orgasm blues (I tend to get over this quickly within minutes usually, thank god) was wearing off and my dick was at least chubbing again. After he didn't say much but thanks and please don't tell my wife. He didn't stick around long and as soon as he left the bedroom to leave Brandi picked up the phone again. I kept any urge to tell her I was not 100% okay inside as we discussed what had happened. I'm glad I did because as she gave me the details I became very turned on again and was loving it. I asked how big he was. She told me he was quite a bit bigger than me. "Everyone is bigger than you, is that what you want to hear?" "Yes." "Do you want me to tell you how much I love big cocks?" "Yes". "Well, I do. You told me you wanted me to go out and fuck all different kinds of big cocks, and now I love it. You should have been careful what you wished for."


This was an extremely hot part of the conversation and then she backed off a bit and we talked about the teasing and why I like it. As it stands now she is planning to meet up with Joe tonight at his hotel for a few drinks, catch up, and then assuming all goes as planned, fuck him.

[gwwkjt]

That was totally awesome dude. What a plot twist, jesus...

Good job at self-control there after jerking off, it is too easy to slip

Keep us updated how this develops further. Your story is superhot and you write it well. If I can suggest keeping a tally in the end of each posting and perhaps a ranking of the players (number of times they fucked, bareback or not etc)

Does Brandi have any Valentines plans yet?

How are you holding up? Sleeping well? You are not going mental yet from all this?

Finally, do you find our feedback useful at all?

[Terrycart79]

Oh my god... that is fucking fantastic. If I had a private room right now I’d be going at it myself haha. Wow what an update. So sexy and hot. I hope she fucks him again

[davo]

holyfuckingmoly brother!! I'm sure i'm not the only kinky fucker on here who wants your hot little slut/whore of a wife. you are living the dream and I envy you to all end. enjoy and cherish her !!

[XYAlpha]

I know I will get flamed...

OP, please do not let the crowd of cheering fans here affect your decisions with the LS and how you encourage Brandi - and the decisions made.

I am not a fan of interfering with someone elses marriage. Brandi should not have seduced the neighbor husband. Granted, he should not have had sex with Brandi. Men are weak and it would be extraordinarily difficult in his position to say no - but he should have. He may lose his marriage because after all, what is revenge if the person whom it is directed doesn't know? It is highly likely that the wife will find out by her husbands behavior or another neighbor who saw them...

You have no idea how difficult this neighbor woman can make life for Brandi and you if she chooses to. Not to mention all of the men that visit! There can be pictures, police visits, complaints to the landlord, organizing the other tenants, and of course physical violence.

One of my professors had a saying, "Old age and treachery defeats youth and skill."

You seem to be a smart guy and I think you missed some consequences when you got caught up in how hot this was. The fantasy was hot and IMO should have stayed there.

People cheer on others who undertake very risky things - especially when they have no skin in the game. Those cheering here at OHW do not have anything to lose if you get evicted, Brandi gets hurt, and more. But you do!

Big head, not little head.

XY

[lionbrand]

So hot. Go Brandi!

XY I think you can always see demons where ever. Good to keep them in mind but one cannot do hot and adventurous new things if one always playes safe.

[Cuckoldme]

can I be your neighbor? I'll pay your rent. Haha.
Just to listen.

[gwwkjt]

The old cunt might be actually too embarrassed to make a fuss. Doubt she would out her husband to the neighbors. Police would have a laugh. It would be a nuisance to be interrupted during gangbang to open the door for police, but nothing illegal is going on as OP pointed out

Harassing other tenants (and their guests) however definitely illegal, even if it is only verbal. The old cunt should behave

[Terrycart79]

Is the neighbors name Karen? Asking for a friend

[brandiandme]

gwwktj, you make some valid points.  Yes, Joe certainly does not need to know anything.  He should know he's lucky to have sex with her and that I approve and that's it.

I absolutely cannot tell her to stop.  I think it would hurt her.  She has become a slut partly on my behalf and to tell her I don't like that anymore would make her feel used.  Although, safety is paramount.  While we don't have many rules, safety basically covers rule 2 and 3.  While there is a bond with Tre (she had known him and been friends with him a while before they started having sex) and he can he trusted not to put her in harms way, but these other new guys cannot, especially Chris and definitely R. I would be beside myself if something bad happened and feel to blame for sure. I haven't told her what to do or not to do, but I want her to be cautious.

As for the neighbor, no her name is not Karen.  I don't think the guy is going to tell his wife.  Plus, we don't know much about their relationship.  She's a cunt and maybe he is miserable.  Maybe he has a mistress or cheats on the side.  Who knows.  

Also, have I been jerking off.  Easily 3-4 times a day.  Sometimes watching porn with girls that look like Brandi and sometimes just thinking about what she's been up to.  

I am not back for another 6 weeks still.  Its only been 4 weeks so far and I feel like my life and wife are completely different.  Besides her giving up her pussy easily to almost anyone, one thing that has completely changed is how she talks to me about her fuck buddies and sex in general.  She will answer any questions about it and talk in depth like I am her true partner in this.  This is great because she will give me every minute detail she can remember.  It's a little disconcerting sometimes to hear her talk about other guys, especially when she is telling me how good they were or how much they made her cum, or how big their dicks are.  This is sometimes hard to listen to because she is all about cock size right now and I am not big.  She's very comfortable with it now and openly talks about sex with her bulls, all expect Billy, who she's been seeing less and less.  Am I being friend zoned by my wife crosses my mind.  

I'm still researching the sex addiction thing.  95% of our conversations and texts are about sex, and with other men.  She said that sex is on her mind nearly all day and she catches herself looking at men's crotches, looking for a bulge and wondering how big they are.  She said it's even worse with black men.  As soon as she sees a black guy her mind instantly goes to sex and what he'd be like.  

Anyway, back to my little slut's adventures. She keeps surprising me.

Brandi ended up meeting up with Joe the first night he was in town.  She met him at a place by his hotel for a drinks and some appetizers. Yes, they then went back to his room and had sex.  She said it was just okay and he did not last long and did not make her cum, and was not aggressive, as she was the aggressor.  He had to get up early and was tired from so there was now round 2.  She left by 9:00 and was still horny after and had a booty call with R, who came to our place and fucked her properly.  R had texted her earlier in the day and she had ignored it until she left Joe's room and was horny.  She admitted to R that she had already had sex with someone else.  R told Brandi that Chris had told him about her and he knew she was a gangbang girl.  Sex with R is dominating and vocal.  Brandi said he talks about what a slut she is and using her pussy.  She said he is not like this before or after sex, and actually quite nice, but they both get caught up in the moment and Brandi likes it dirty  Brandi sees him as dangerous though and it excites her.    

I told her how much it turned me on for her to fuck Joe and asked her to give him another chance.  She likes Joe and is down for it.  I know this is fucked up but it's a bit of a power thing.  I want to know that I am still her husband, and besides fucking me, she will fuck who I ask her to.  When I caught her cheating she had agreed to be "my" slut and said she would fuck guys for me.  

She already had plans for an afternoon session with Tre and his roommate yesterday afternoon and fucked them both before going back to Joe's hotel.  She met him and he was hanging at the hotel bar having a few drinks with him and some of his work friends.  A few drinks and one thing led to another and soon Joe and his (she described him as cute) coworker were in Joe's room taking turns on my wife. She said it was better with Joe this time and she got off, and while Joe is above average, his friend was disappointingly small and not good.  She said he wasn't doing much for her pussy and she let him fuck her ass. They DPed her which got her off. It was his work friends first threesome and DP.

She had already had sex with Tre and one of his roommate earlier (I love this fact) so she said they did not compare to her two black bulls.  I should be pissed at Joe for letting his coworker fuck my wife, but I am turned on.  This is a bit risky since Joe knows some of my college friends (and the word of Brandi being a slut is always a concern), but I talked to him briefly about it and he promised to keep his mouth shut.  I told him we have an open relationship when I'm away and he should consider himself lucky we included him and keep quite. The whole situation was insanely hot.  She had fucked Tre and his roommate during the afternoon that day, then went to fuck Joe because I wanted her too, and ended up fucking his friend too because she thought he was cute. 

I continue to discover a more "cuckold" side of myself.  I love Brandi telling me about all of the nasty things she is doing and how her bulls (we've been calling them that) big dicks have been stretching her pussy.  She's on board and will tease me about sticking my "little wiener" in her when I get home. Saying shit like she hopes I like it loose and she won't be able to feel me. She did tell me "I'm not kidding babe, these big cocks have opened me up."

Her attitude towards sex has totally morphed and I love how she seduced the neighbor, basically fucked my friend Joe at my request, then easily spread her legs for his coworker, and has also been spreading her legs for Tre's many friends.  She really is blossoming into an easy slut.   I've done some soul searching and am still fully in support of her fucking lots of men.  Not sure I have a choice anymore. It was always a fantasy of mine but now that it's becoming reality it's intense.  I've do doubt I will see lots of men fuck my wife in the years to come.  

We did decided after the Joe incident to stay away from people that we know well.  In the end, word may get out that Brandi is a slut, but we will try to avoid that happening.  Out of the 29 men she's had sex with over the years, I'm good friends with 4 of them and one other was more just a old high school teammate that I lost touch with.  Even the rest are not completely strangers like picking someone up at a club or bar.  Although it turns her on to pick up a complete stranger and seduce him, she's never done that.  Every guys she's ever fucked has at least known me and/or one of the other men she's been with.  I challenged her to pick up a stranger and said she should when she gets a chance (like that will be hard, a girl as hot as Brandi could go out every night and have her pick of guys).  Just be smart and safe.  After all, I’ve had several one night stands in the past and it was fun. She should experience this. 

Also, I hadn't spoke of Mr. Gray in a while.  She finally decided after her fun experience with the neighbor to give into Mr. Gray's advances and has a date with him this Sunday.  She mentioned that both older guys she's had already, although her experience with Jason's older neighbor is foggy, have been good experiences.  He has still been hitting on her and she finally asked him for help on Sunday putting together some Ikea furniture she bought.  This is one of three dates Sunday.  She is having Mr. Gray over around lunch time and will without a doubt fuck him.  She is planing to hang with Tre and his roommate and possible one other bull in the afternoon.  Her final date is Sunday night with R.  He basically texted her saying he wanted to see her and wants to come over Sunday night.  She's saving him for last since he's so thick and fucks really hard.  

Tonight she is actually working and then going home.  She does not feel right having sex with someone on Valentines Day, and is really missing me.  I sent her flowers and chocolates, and a gift certificate for a massage (I hope it's male masseuse, maybe she'll get a happy ending, hehehe).   

[Terrycart79]

Remind me again who the hell Mr. Gray is? It’s getting hard to keep track of all these guys. Haha.

Great and thorough update, by the way. Thank you. I would feel the same as you, it’s definitely getting intense. I’m sure you thought she’d bang like 5-10 dudes over a few years not 20 in 2-3 months. Haha

[gwwkjt]

OP: I have a feeling you are a bit unhappy how the things are developing, you sound a bit having a blue moment. Is Brandi picking up on this at all? Probably not. From what I am reading she is not very in sync with your mood unless you are a good actor. I am a bit troubled that she brings up the size knowing it is your insecurity. She is rubbing it in.

I can’t believe it has been 4 weeks already since you have been gone and so much has happened. 6 weeks more to go. Imagine how strange it will be to be back at home.

You previously wrote that Brandi told you that casual sex is just like workout. Apparently not. Our thoughts and emotions are electrical signals and a soup of chemicals called neurotransmitters. Note how mood and thoughts are affected by caffeine, alcohol, legal and illegal psychotropic drugs. Sex and sexual pleasure mess with our heads too. Having multiple orgasms makes Brandi bathe in oxytocin, a hormone of bonding and stress relief. This is probably what is going on with most of her fuckers, lately with R. It is addictive, not as much as heroin, but it has a real effect. You probably know this too and it is why you are a bit worried

Do you think you might lose her? Remember the man you were when you met her first time. Are you just as dominant as now? Remember that she is attracted to the dominant guys. You might be friend zoned dude and if it is true it will be heart-breaking

I am a bit split on the Joe thing. The fact that he shared Brandi with his fucking colleague is frankly EXTREMELY disrespectful. You were very generous with Brandi and he did this without even a courtesy of asking you? He is not even your close friend. I would be extremely pissed off

Mr Grey is back now. Seems like ages ago, although you mentioned him just a in autumn. He is very different from the rest. I wonder how this will develop. He does not need to know about other fuckers or that you know, which might open few possibilities for funny games

I am very impressed with Brandi’s stamina. Having several sessions, sometimes with multiple partners is hot.

There is definitely NRE going on with R. Find out more on this. Any deeper relationship with Tre or anyone else?

Billy is probably gone, 1st to go

[Cuckoldme]

in my non-expert, expert opinion it seems like you've kinda gone through the "normal" progression. I think beginning a "cuckold" means different things to different husbands.
I definitely felt like I passed through that door door the first time I licked another man's load off my wife's body, but somehow the journey seems incomplete because I've always wanted to clean up a creampie from another man. On the other end of the spectrum some hotwifes have never slept with another man but hubby still feels as if he's a cuckold. some men never label themselves anything, just the husband of the hotwife.
whatever floats your boat!

for, but not all, there's certainly a feeling of excitement of the humiliation, as it's in a "controlled environment". I'm not overly huge but I like to her my wife talk about how the longer dicks reach places I can't. we fucked hard this morning and she came hard talking about big dicks taking turns on her. I've also enjoyed serving drinks, grabbing lube and bringing coffee in the morning.
I'm sure there's a limit we all have and the key is finding your happy place, but know it may never be a perfect balance as there's too many variables.
as her husband you deliver a much higher degree of emotional satisfaction than any of these guys can. Brandi's inner slut has been unleashed and she is in a unique situation to explore and have fun. communication is SOOOO important. the top priority. I have to force myself to find other things to chat about, with my hotwife, otherwise it consumes me. definitely take a vacation, with her, too. we are doing the same too.

Mr, Gray might seem a little vanilla at this point but that might be a nice change. I actually get off know my wife is on dates. when I can I go to the meeting place an lurk. it's hot. actually could be nice to have someone around to show up if the toilet really does get clogged. haha. the fucking neighbor's probably jerking off and will offer to rotate her tire now.
awesome update! I know It takes a lot of time to compose all the events.

[Cuckoldme]

oh! I forgot to ask. Is she open to doing more open phone calls?

[XYAlpha]

Cuckold me has some good points.
Communication at this point is CRITICAL.

It sounds like you are talking but not communicating. Please understand that we don't know the two of you and may miss some important nuances...

You sound a little bothered by some of the action. You are afraid to say anything... you should not be afraid to say anything! This is the differemce communication at a normal marriage and the LS. She should absolutely know "where you're at". I think you are at a fork in the road where you make a decision to be a Cuck rather than a cuckold.

She teases you about your size. You like it and you don't. You need to figure that out and communicate! It's OK to say, "I'm not a fan of that". She should take that hint and stop.

She made the comment about being all stretched out. "Really opened me up"...I might not be able to feel you... Maybe this is her sharing that she is uncomfortable with that. Maybe she wants to be tighter for you... Maybe she was hoping you would ask her to slow down...

You both may be skirting around issues trying so hard to make and keep each other happy that there may be a big miscommunication happening!

Are you ready to have her tease you in front of the others? Maybe she is already telling them that they are all bigger than you. It's unfortunate that the average sized guy didn't get her off.

Cuckoldme points out that you and her have an emotional bond much stronger than she has with them. This is probably true, but is that all you want? Are you ready to surrender the physical part of your marriage? You can be her Cuck, support her emotionally and financially while she is happy getting her sex elswhere. Time to communicate with her. I think she is reaching out for you to slow this down before she - and you get to a place that is difficult to get back from.

You have repeatedly stated that she loves dominant men. You are in the friend zone now with 8 weeks to go. Are you still her dominant husband with her referring to your "little wiener"? Depending on where you want this to go, comparisons to you are problematic. When you make love to her next time is she going to be thinking... Hmmm what shows am I missing?

Do you have a two bedroom apartment where you can have a room and she will sleep in the master with her boyfriends? Is she having all this sex in the marital bed? Your bed? Is this the road you are on? For some, this works and makes them happy - and there is nothing wrong with that. Check out the Cuckolf Forum for posts that describe that side of the LS. You don't appear to me to be that husband but I have been surprised before.

I know a lot of people hate these questions because it slows down the hot story ( and it is exceptionally hot btw) but some on here want you to be successful and have some experience with some facets of what you describe - serious bumps in the road, that we have dealt with. Especially being deployed. YMMV

i realize you are not asking for input, and so my post is just friendly things to consider.

XY

[TheHammer]

This is getting hotter by the day. If she wants to pursue strangers, here are some possibilities:

Have her go see a local band and play the groupie role
Random buff guy from the gym
Police officer
Find a rich sugar daddy
18 year old average Inexperienced college student to rock his world
Go to a lesbian bar or use tinder to sleep with a girl
Get a tattoo or piercing and then “pay” for the service
Seduce a gay hairstylist

[gwwkjt]

I looked at your first posts from October to find out how the hell this happened. I copy pasted some of your writing below. You have had threesomes with your friends for years, then when you got married you agreed no more extra people in bed. 1.5 year later you are going away to Dubai and you bring up hotwiving? I wonder if her going with you was not an option? I am also working in a large company doing overseas work and they relocate families with kids. It is not like she is busy with her career at the moment

<While it has been nearly a year an a half since Brandi has had sex with someone else, we are <in a circumstance where it might be time for it to happen. Let me explain. I work for a large <International Firm that does a lot of work overseas. I have been mostly based in the US, <with limited travel, but have been given a promotion. Besides the huge pay increase, this <promotion includes a lot of extended overseas travel. One top of that, while I will be gone <for months at a time, the work schedule is grueling. It's an easy 60+ hours per week trying <to stay on schedule. The money is fantastic and after some years doing this there is a <possibility of a Executive level promotion. The short term sacrifice will set us up great in <the years to come. Since I will be gone from 4 to 12 weeks at a time, with a week or two off <in between, I suggested Brandi find someone to take care of her sexually while I'm gone.

<I also don't like her going on Tinder and randomly fucking a bunch of different guys. While <the thought of her turning into a slut gets me going (can you imagine coming home after <being gone for a few months to find your wife had been fucked by like 20 different guys), it <is too dangerous in regards to STD's and abusive guys. Brandi is not keen on this either. She <is not the type of girl to have a bunch of random hookups anyway, just not in her DNA. She <gets uncomfortable every time my fantasy talk involves her doing something like this

It is almost uncanny that a scenario that you did not want almost played out, at least in terms of numbers. Either Brandi had changed or you did not know her as well as you thought you did

<Like I said, she's definitely shown interest since I brought it up and is likely trying not to act <too enthusiastic.

This is interesting. Most of us work much harder to convince wives to do a small fraction of what Brandi did. She was on the idea from the start
How many guys that Brandi has in rotation at present? Chris, R and Tre with his crew? Does Tre introduce her to more friends or the number is settled now? Do you want a further escalation here with increasing number of partners, frequency or barebacking?

A funny thing you can try is to ask her making top 3 (or 5 or 10, whatever she manages): the guys who fuck the best, the guys who are on her mind the most, the guys who are irreplaceable. Wonder if you will be on the lists

Mr Grey is an unknown quantity at the moment. He might want just a hookup, but he might want to get serious. Who knows if he wants to take Brandi to Jamaica himself? He is the only guy with wealth and social status as I understand.

I started to think that telling Brandi’s girlfriend was a mistake. Women can be such vicious cunts sometimes. She could start talking

OP needs to use the time alone for some self-knowledge. What does he really want? How far is he willing to go? Although he is an experienced player, he is still young guy. He needs to analyse his emotional state in the situations when he was overwhelmed (cheating case, and live fucking on the phone). Will he assert into dominance or slip into cucks role (whatever role that rocks his world is fine as long as he is happy)?

OP mentioned before that he prefers Brandi loose. If Brandi cannot get off with OP's cock inside her why is it OP's problem?

Jesus Christ, pal. How do you manage to get any work done at all? You must be distracted all the time thinking about all this

Good luck, pal and looking forward to your next update after Sunday

[brandiandme]

Lots of input, questions, and things to think about.  Thanks.

Mr. Gray is one of the original 3 men see chose back in the fall when we were discussing possible sex partners for her.  He is an executive type guy that visits Brandi at her bar a lot.  He has long wanted her.

I honestly don't know what my role is anymore, or exactly what I want it to be.  It has changed, I do know that.  She gathered sexual experience that we cannot go back from at this point.  She has discovered things about herself.  A) She likes having multiple partners.  B) She is a size queen.  C) She likes being treated like and called a slut and manhandled.  

As for phone calls, yes, she is open under the right circumstances.  Having me on the phone added to the excitement of seducing the neighbor.
As for her teasing me she will back off when I tell her what I like and what I don't.  Here is the confusing part.  Sometimes I like it, sometimes I don't.  Depends on my mood.  I don't know about teasing me in front of other men.  I'm not ready for that.  

Our place is two bedrooms.  She has fucked guys all over.  Our bedroom, the spare bedroom, the living room, the kitchen, the bathroom.
As for the "slut list" idea.  Some of those ideas are pretty cool, some are not.  It's worth discussing to see what her fantasies are.

As for Brandi changing or me not knowing her.  It seems a bit of both.  Looking back at Brandi's past.  She had only slept with 5 guys before me, and all were boyfriends dating back to high school, with relationships lasting from a few months to a year and a half.  She was almost never single.  I do know that she gave it up to all of her  boyfriends on the first or second date.  We had sex after our first date.  Also, it was not hard to convince her to sleep with my friends when we had our threesomes.  In fact, she was quite eager and once she started fucking Mike on a regular basis, her pussy was open to him when he wanted.  

Looking back, I probably could have easily shared her with a lot of other men.  I was struggling with it back then.  Trying to understand why I was willing to let the woman I wanted to marry fuck other men.  Maybe she was easy all along and just never had the opportunity or courage.  She was always concerned that no one would want to marry her if she was a slut.  It's likely she had it insider her and I allowed her to be comfortable enough to set it free. I do believe there is something to the sex addiction.  Whether it's the oxytocin or whatever it may be.   

As for the exact work/travel schedule, it is fluid and the week or two off in between was about a month last time, and should the same when I come back next month.  We deliberated her coming with me.  She was planning to stay behind for a few reasons.  She was going to use her extra free time to focus on getting her design business off the ground.  That has not happened at all.  She's focused her energy on her sex life.  I am likely done with this project this summer.  It looks like my next project will be in Asia.  She was worried about being in a strange place where she does not know anyone alone for 50 - 60 hours a week while I work.  Her travelling with me next time is something to consider.

Kate, her best friend can be trusted.  They have been best friends for along time and know all of each others secrets.  I am not worried about her.  She's hanging with her tonight.  I teased Brandi about going out and picking up some strange.  She plans to chill in and watch a movie though.  She wants a night to rest before tomorrow.  Like I said, 3 dates and 4-5 guys.  I did tease her about the fact that she is now only 1 sex partner away from tying me.  She is currently at 29 men in her lifetime.  The numbers don't interest her, but it's a huge turn on for me.  

The number of Tre's friends has settled.  She fucked a total of 12 black guys since first having sex with Tre just over 2 months ago. One is Tre, and 9 others were introduced by Tre.  It's no wonder he calls Brandi his little black cock slut. I don't count R since Chris brought him into the picture, and Ron was my friend.  The guy she's had sex with the most are Tre, his roommate, Chris, and Tre's gym friend.  We might need to add R to that list as she is keen on him right now.  A few other guys it's only been 2 or 3 times.  She's only done bareback with Billy, Tre, and recently Tre's roommate. 
 
Yes, I like her pussy loose.  It's a mental thing.  I am turned on by this, because to me a slut has a loose pussy.  It's a stereotype, I know, but it turns me on.  As for her not getting off on my cock.  She never easily had an orgasm from my cock alone.  She usually has to be on top.  I'm torn on this.  The humiliation factor of 'she's a complete slut that only gets off on hung guys and my cocks too small for her' turns me on for sure.  In fantasy though.  In reality that may be hard.  

I honestly don't know where this ends up.  I believe at some point we will settle down and look back at her slut days as fun and exciting.  You cannot undo all of the guys she fucked so she will always be my little slut, even if she's not playing anymore.