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Unread post by BallSpanking » Thu Oct 29, 2009 4:02 pm

Thanks Reese,

Please update us when you can! ;)
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Unread post by Iris777 » Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:10 pm

I am so excited to see the turn this has taken for you both

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:45 am

Well, since I have been so quiet, I thought I would write this morning. I am soooo happy. Brad is all of that and much more that I ever imagined. He is NOT complicated, hoping to have a girl that he can meet from time to time as he continues with his masters degree and work. He told me that he is too busy to have a fulltime girlfriend and NOW knowing that I love to find lovers/ knowing that I cheat on my hubby b/c of our arrangement, Brad pulled out all the cards last night. I was nervous driving to his apartment but I decided that this is what both hubby and I want and need in our life.
Robert is still Robert, in another life, I am sure that I would want him to live with hubby and I but that can not be arranged b/c of our children. Meeting Brad, we hung out and had a few beers. Sitting on his sofa next to him, I was getting so turned on by his big arms, he smelled like sex to me! I was wearing a pair of sexy jeans, barefooted with a large sweatshirt on, Brad touched me all over as we sat and talked listening to the Eagles of all cd's.
We kissed and soon was naked on the floor. Brad was perfect for me. All the while I knew that Hubby was home wondering with his oversexed mind what was happening. I wanted Brad inside of me. Soon, I put on his condom and felt him slowly seduce me with his beautiful penis. I didnt orgasm right away. I think it mustve been the condom and the fact that my only lovers for the longest time was hubby and Robert. I asked that Brad pull out and sensing my nervousness, Brad pulled off his condom stopped. Touching me lightly, and kissing me, I felt overwhelmed by him. He is a wonderful lover. I eventually had my orgasm and instinctly, I pulled Brad down below my belly and felt him lickng me. That made me cum again. Now it was Brad's turn. I stroked him until he was ready and performed oral sex until I tasted him in my mouth.
We both lay on the floor, as he held me he asked if I was ok!

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:52 am

I told Brad that I loved being with him, but that I didnt want to get serious with him. This is when he told me his situation and told me that if he had a choice in the matter, he would choose me for his lover but he couldnt spend a lot of time with me. My smile couldnt be big enough, I told him that is perfect for me. He asked about having unprotected sex. I told him that I was on birth control and he told me that he has his doctor's test results as he is negative. I did look at the papers as we sat and talked and made decisions that were important to both of us. In the back of my mind, I couldnt wait to come home and tell hubby how my night was. I wanted to feel him make love to me. I knew that Brad is perfect for us.
I also knew that Robert wouldnt be happy with me finding another lover. I knew I had to tell him so on my way home from Brad's house, I called Robert and told him the news. It was one of the most difficult conversations that I have ever had as a hotwife. More about that later. Once home, hubby was so incredibly excited. He hasnt been this sex crazed in a while.
We had an intense moment of love making. I was happy, hubby was happy, Brad was really happy that we spent time together finally and Robert was angry!

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Unread post by kcpa » Fri Oct 30, 2009 6:00 am

mrs_reese wrote: I was happy, hubby was happy, Brad was really happy that we spent time together finally and Robert was angry!
At the end of the day, the happy ones move forward and the angry ones get left at the curb to cry in their own self pity.

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Unread post by gordo » Fri Oct 30, 2009 7:09 am

Mr Bear wrote:^Indeed. I can't wait to hear about the convo. Amazing. And with Robert trying to share you himself, it's odd that he would get that way over this. To me that shows that he clearly does not understand his place. Obviously he likes to share, ON HIS TERMS, which is so wrong to me in so many ways. But, great update, I can't wait to hear more!
Everything you just noted is exactly what I've always thought was wrong with Robert,,,,, this has always been about reese and Mrsreese,,,,, NOT ABOUT ROBERT! He should never have been at the center of this,,,, and that's exactly where he tried to position himself,,,, he would have been dropped a long time ago,,,,,

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Fri Oct 30, 2009 7:43 am

I know everyone! I have really lost a lot of feelings for Robert. My love was never what most thought anyway. It was a sexual love, a love of infactuation and a love for the attention he gave me. Never in my life would I have loved him like I love my husband.

But I realize that my days with Robert are nearing an end. He tried to give me space. But he is very much in love with me in a different way than I am of him. Playing the hotwife role is very difficult and when human emotions are involved as they are with Robert, it isnt as easy as you would think! My hubby and I have had our ups and downs with this lifestyle.
At times it becomes a burden. Lately we have not been as active nor interested in our hotwife lifestyle.
That is why I made a conscious effort to bring Brad in our lives. He is simple for us. He is all about the thrill and lust of the hotwife lifestyle. This is why I plan on keeping Brad in my life as my FB. I know hubby loves the idea of this happening.
Finally, Robert???? I am not sure how much longer I can be in his life. Even now when I visit him in his office, there is some tension! I dont need that!

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Fri Oct 30, 2009 3:48 pm

I think it's too bad that things with Robert aren't working out, particularly in that I thought you had feelings for him, yet, having said that, I would be the first to agree that a relationship that becomes too burdensome loses its enjoyment.

Ultimately, and I think Mr Reese would agree, HotWifing is about making your wife happy, so it will always be your call, Ms Reese, as to when, how, or if you want to be with someone else, and then, only to the extent it is enjoyable and beneficial to you! ;)
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Unread post by pinayhotwife » Sat Oct 31, 2009 6:38 am

Hi Mr.& Mrs R.

I have been reading your story for a long time, it has been exciting and captivating throughout to say the least. I must say that we parted ways of the mind when Robert came into the picture, not being one to judge I kept silent on the subject as the relationship unfolded.

Now that you have met Brad, and you see the Robert thing winding down I will say I am glad. I am always concerned when hotwives cross into the emotional realm. To me the sex is casual, and matters of the heart are not nor should be included. It's a game, a party and a fun thing to do but not love or a relationship where you try and temper how far you fall in love.

With my own wife, I enjoy her having sex with whoever she wants, but I have no interest in her having a relationship beyond that, a situation like you have with Brad would be perfect, fuck 1-2 times a week and then leave him to his life and you to yours..thats hot! But to move beyond that begins to introduce sexual things into places they don't belong. Example, I might tie my wife to the bed wearing a leather bra and shirt with crotchless panties fucking her during half time of a packers game, but I would dress her that way for Thanks Giving Dinner with the family? Of course not. Everything has it's place, enjoy to the fullest for certain but keep things where they belong if that makes sense.

Again, I support anyone in whatever path they choose, I am just saying IMHO lovers should be toys, and kept away from matters of the heart. And if anything I think many of us have learned by reading your story as it unfolds, and you have done a wonderful job of being honest with each other and with all of us. I am just saying I am happy that you are moving toward a Brad situation and away from a Robert situation, because for awhile I was concerned how it all might shake out.

Cheers!

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Sat Oct 31, 2009 1:10 pm

It's over! I broke up with Robert. He wasnt happy with another man in my life. He was sad and told me that he realized being a hotwife and having him in my life wasnt a good fit. He apologized for getting carried away, and I told him that it was time to let me go. I met him alone and we parted with a kiss and a hug. The weirdest thing was that I wasnt sorry or sad but relieved. I can only express these feelings as a way of understanding that I learned some about myself and being ahotwife. I am very happy living my life in this lifestyle. I was becoming more depressed having 2 men in my life that demanded more of me. At the end of the day, I am my husbands wife. My obligation is to him and our marriage. I just want to say thank-you baby for being patient with my and Robert. I admire your courage and willpower. I also admire you as the man in my life. I love you with my whole heart. I promise you more fun times with Brad in my life. I also promise you that Robert will not be in my life anymore.
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Unread post by BallSpanking » Sat Oct 31, 2009 2:17 pm

R.I.P, Robert... :roll:
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Unread post by sedvuslad » Sat Oct 31, 2009 10:16 pm

YES!!
Reality sets in!
Anne and I made this discovery without having to go through all opr the 'involvements' some couples suffer through.
Hopefully you have read a bit of our story, the first time happening together, teh key club years, and the gratest realization of all, we most enjoy the absolute total sharing available only with mfm play.
Perhaps the key word truly is 'play'.
"Play" is established well ahead of even any face to face meeting.
EVERY playmate is fully aware that (1) there will never be any oligation to cointinue playing with ''him' or any other playmate, (2) that his is recreational sex and we (she and I) share it all together with a special 'guest'.
NO 'relationship' invovlement! No committment to a long term arrangment. NO possibility whatsoever of ending our marriage!
After our key ckub years we concluded there would be no more solo play, and in 30 years there have been just three exceptions, and those wer very special situations with very special people..
I hopw you will get back to your old mfm play pattern, and start having some real un involved just-for-fun sex paly again!!
It really is the greatest.
SEDL & Annie

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Unread post by reese » Sun Nov 01, 2009 7:19 am

I am relieved, it was time!
I am happy to report that while I am off to a local bar to watch the nfl games with a few of my friends....kids are gone today....my wife asked me if she could go meet up with Brad. Omg...you have no idea how excited I am for all of this to start again. She told me that she just plans on hanging out. One thing I know for sure is that SHE is very excited to be moving forward. Robert really dragged her down. Some of you have written about the issues of falling in love....I encouraged that to happen with Robert...I wanted to feel the rejection and torment of knowing that my wife was emotionally involved with another man. In my own stange way, it helped me experience my sexual "highs" thats I seek to achieve orgasm...and it also helped me understand how strong my love is for my wife and vice-versa!
We all have our issues to overcome....and my goal with hotwife play was to chase my wife...to be tormented over her playing with another man...to MISS her....to crave her.....to lose her and to re-claim her. I am living the dream...
WE both have learned so much about this lifestyle.....I hope my wife is ready to rock our worlds with her slutty innocent fun and sluttiness. I know this much.....she is ready to have uncomplicated fun with Brad.
Reese!!!!
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Unread post by Iris777 » Sun Nov 01, 2009 8:32 am

I had wondered if the introduction of a new lover into the mix would shift feelings for Robert. Robert hadn't been giving either of you much breathing room. Still, he has occupied a special place in your lives, one that you have given him. I can imagine that phone call must have been pretty difficult, if not downright ugly. Do you think you think you will be able to keep Robert in your life or is this the end?

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Unread post by Irwinhill » Sun Nov 01, 2009 6:16 pm

Pinayhotwife,

It would be impossible--unthinkable--for my wife and me to view her lovers as "toys" rather than as human beings.

I don't understand how that approach works, but clearly it does for many people. Hence I am with you entirely when you offer support to anyone "in whatever path they choose."

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Unread post by zhershey1082 » Sun Nov 01, 2009 6:27 pm

Whew...now things will really heat up for Mr R. Let's see now, we can bring back D, E, M, cop, Darryl, to go with Brad. That should keep hubby on his toes as we approach the winter season.

Michael and Robert have their memories and that is good.

Reese..I think it's time to concentrate on football while Mrs R plays. Somewhere along the way you failed together interested in football.

I like the times you go to the bar incognito and watch her do her thing while you are churning inside.

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Nov 02, 2009 6:10 am

zhershey, where did hubby fail? Not sure what you meant by that.
my past lovers have filled our lives with memories. Ironically, I still keep in touch with D and E. They are committed with other people but they are never forgotten.

Brad, we spent yesterday afternoon together. Only a few hours, we kissed and ate lunch. We touched but that was all. I met hubby at the local sports bar and whispered in his ear how the afternoon with brad went. It didnt take long for hubby to ask that we go back to our house for some hot sex. Needless to say, he missed most of the vikings/packers game for my pussy!!

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Unread post by gordo » Mon Nov 02, 2009 6:36 am

mrs_reese wrote:zhershey, where did hubby fail? Not sure what you meant by that.
my past lovers have filled our lives with memories. Ironically, I still keep in touch with D and E. They are committed with other people but they are never forgotten.

Brad, we spent yesterday afternoon together. Only a few hours, we kissed and ate lunch. We touched but that was all. I met hubby at the local sports bar and whispered in his ear how the afternoon with brad went. It didnt take long for hubby to ask that we go back to our house for some hot sex. Needless to say, he missed most of the vikings/packers game for my pussy!!
Damn! And that was a pretty good game,,,,,, LOL!!!!!

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Unread post by wifeishot » Mon Nov 02, 2009 7:12 am

Needless to say, he missed most of the vikings/packers game for my pussy!!

That's one hell of a compliment!




Thanks for all the posts. Great!

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Nov 02, 2009 8:28 am

Iris, I am not sure if Robert will be back in my life. We are on hold right now/broken up.
We left on a good note though! U never know.
Oh, my hubby dvr'ed the game, he watched it right after we were finished.

With Brad, it's kind of nice, Nothing serious with us. He tells me that I am very sexy, and he believes that I am cheating on my husband. I am not sure how or if I want to bring hubby in for a 3some though; again, right now, hubby and I are turned on by the sluttiness of my cheating on him with Brad.

It's very difficult for some men to think about the fact that there are hotwives out there who seek other men with their husbands permission. I think Brad would be freaked out by all of that.

Men that are older/ like the Robert's or the D's of the world, they seem to understand that dynamic.

Btw, L and I are meeting for lunch. She is dating a guy who she thinks would love to share ME in a 3some.
Funny thing about L, she is more slutty than I!! :whip:

I really think Brad is sexy, I am going to have a lot of fun with him in my life/ I want to go back to denying hubby with a man where there IS no love involved, just hot hot sex!! :whip:

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Mon Nov 02, 2009 3:13 pm

mrs_reese wrote:
Btw, L and I are meeting for lunch. She is dating a guy who she thinks would love to share ME in a 3some.
Funny thing about L, she is more slutty than I!! :whip:
Wonderful, Ms Reese, have a great time!

Any chance you could get L to post here about her HotWife adventures?
As I remember, she's a HotWife too.

BTW, pics of L would always be welcome. she's a babe! ;)
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Unread post by robrich46 » Sat Nov 07, 2009 2:53 pm

Both Mr. and Mrs Reese, no new recent posts. I really do (sincerely) hope all is well. I know both of you can handle any difficulties that may arise from the lifestyle. Hope to hear from you soon. Rob.

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Thu Nov 12, 2009 5:54 am

HI everyone!
I am sorry that we havent posted in a lately.
We both needed a break.
Hubby and I focused on US!
I know that's boring talk but we needed a break.
I told Brad that I needed to work on somethings for ME and he was patient and told me no rush.
Hubby and I found a new way to make love, laying naked in bed, NO talk about fantasies/ no toys/no videos.
Making love to him, re-discovering him as my sexuality has grown over the past few years of my hotwife play/ our sex was breath-taking and emotional for me.

I decided it was time to be his hot wife again. I do miss it! I met L a few wks ago and we talked about her lover. I decided at this moment, I dont want to take on another man, especially as a 3some with L.

But with Brad, I really like him. So, on Saturday he and I are going out to dinner and back to our house for some fun with hubby involved. YES! I told him that my husband and I play from time to time. He was relieved! He worried about hubby finding out as Brad thought I was cheating on hubby with him.
Needless to say, I will write a post after Saturday night. Hubby wants to sit back and watch Brad have sex with me.
I am eager to turn hubby on without all the drama WE had experienced with RObert in my life!
We both are excited about the possibilities on Saturday.
Wish us luck! :whip:
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Unread post by mrs_reese » Thu Nov 12, 2009 2:42 pm

Ya know, I posted another pic of me in my fav summer of 09 top for you guys.
Only for the breast guys tho.
Do you remember how to get to the site?
Flickr? Look at one of my old pics to go into it.
Miss you all!
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Unread post by aemn711 » Fri Nov 13, 2009 10:23 am

mrs_reese wrote:Ya know, I posted another pic of me in my fav summer of 09 top for you guys.
....Miss you all!
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To be honest - I'm glad to see you guys took a break. The drama was clearly interferering with your marriage - as fun and exhilirating as it must have been, its nice to tag home plate and sit out an inning.

Definitely looking forward to the report on your evening with Brad

You are so good about keeping us informed and its appreciated by all who follow you I'm sure - I just don't want it to be a burden that you don't feel you can take a break from now and then.

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