Wannabe cucks vs actual cucks

[infamous51]

This has never left the bedroom and when it was brought up outside of the bedroom, I was shut down. Now it's the waiting game as the seeds have been planted.

[Northerner]

I was cuckolded by my first wife. We both had some experience outside our marriage and I was hoping to transition to an open marriage as our sex life was lagging post-kids and I thought it would help. She sort of agreed (our communication was not as good as it really should have been) but then proceeded to start an prolonged affair with a neighbor without telling me, though she eventually admitted it. The marriage failed a few years later for other reasons, though choosing an affair over an open marriage might have been a symptom.

To the best of my knowledge my current wife is not cuckolding me. If it would make her happy I would be very supportive, but I don't think it's in the cards.

As I mentioned elsewhere, I am almost certain that second wife had at least a one-nighter with an old boyfriend, but nothing current.

Reading somebody else's post I was reminded that in the long term relationship immediately preceding my first marriage I was cuckolded regularly by my supposedly exclusive live-in girlfriend. Her relationship with a neighbour was quite embarrassing as it was rather public and he was not shy about sharing that he was doing her any time he wanted, to the point where I had to schedule (or cancel) our activities around his sexual urges.

[Myhotwife76]

When it first happened to me. I was 35 she was 21. Close friend fucked her for me. As i watched. Been addicted since. 8 yrs now same close friend. But i dont watch no more just watch the video.

[vrmtr]

Still in discussion with wife, if right time, place and guy happen, she says she would do it.

[hando]

50 years ago, I found out my soon-to-be virgin bride was already 3 months pregnant by a guy she knew for only a couple of days before he knocked her up. It was quite a day for me, and one that turned out to be life-changing. I found out my girlfriend, who previously had never touched my dick, had been having sex with another man for 3 months, so I took her home and we fucked. When we were finished, she admitted she was 3 months pregnant, adding that she became the first pregnant woman I ever had sex with. I'm thinking, "Oh shit, I'm going to have to get married." She miscarried about 3 weeks later, so that didn't happen. I had become a cuckold 3 months earlier, but had no clue whatsoever. I'm still one.

[tosaintsfan]

I was very late to the party. First happened when I was 64, and 4 years later it's still happening. She has had over 30 different guys, mostly one time deals. Although at times I think it's slowing down, then out of nowhere, two more in the last week.

I was never a player at any stage of my life, but I always fantasized about sluts and loose women. My first wife was a good girl, a virgin when we married and we talked about her experiencing other men, but she was a good girl. I fantasized about being with a slut, but never thought that I could or would ever get there because by nature I am very conservative. But, at the age of 63, I met and fell for a girl who said' I am a good girl who does slutty things '. She was then and is now a very loveable slut.

TO

[Luv2watchher]

Quite late in life, my wife became a hotwife, and just recently we have tried the cuckold scenario. I am not totally converted yet but have enjoyed it.

[lovesexfun]

I didn't get to become a real cuckold until relatively late in life (late 40's) when I met my current wife. First wife had no interest in the lifestyle.

for me another 8 years if i go by it...nooo cant wait so long.

[Aussiecuck31]

Fantasy for me at the moment. I’ve told my wife that I’d love to see her shared. She’s not into it atm, or if ever so may remain a fantasy. Loving reading the stories of successful cuckold relationships. Fingers crossed for the future.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Aussiecuck31.

[Read]

I'm a real cuck albeit with a disclaimer. It's been with girlfriends instead of wife. I've never been married.

[Misslindassub]

I'm not sure where to vote really, are you a cuck if you cuck from the top ?
I get very little from my wife (denial)?, she has had sex with others at my encouragement I've watched in chastity, eaten creampie , fluffed, enjoyed cbt.
but never enough of any of it.

[avgnot]

When I was 19 I tried to get my first Girlfriend, who was younger, to have sexy with my friends. She wouldn't but she very much enjoyed sitting on my lap and riding the old style glass Pepsi bottles, which she said made her cum much better than my penis. The first time we fucked my condom came off in side her lol. I had always wanted to be a Stag or Cuck, but just kept finding cheating girlfriends, who couldn't get into me sharing but, but cheated anyway. Never could figure them out. I was in a Cuckold relationship fora short a short while with an ex girl friend. She enjoyed the sex, told me he was way better than me, but mostly they made me sit and listen through the door. She met him alone a couple times, but seemed to have zero interest in reliving the details with me. Turned out she was "only doing it for me". I have been with my Hotwife for 5 years, who knew every single one of my kinks , fetishes and lifestyle before we ever met in person. I brought a friend over to fuck her while I watched 3 months into our relationship. She loves being "my slut" she views herself as an "ethical slut" . She told me I had to find another guy though, during our first 3 some I told him to fuck her ass, and I started fingering her, when his balls hit my hand he screamed like a girl... totally turned my wife off. We found another long term bull, and on our second session together she took his cock and placed it at my mouth to suck, she had never seen a man suck another man before, and it made her drip on the Floor ! . Lucky me since I blew 1 friend all through our high school years, never with any reciprocation. We relocated 1.5 yeas in, and in our new home found a wonderful Black Gentlemen, who we hit it off with and spent 3.5 years with. He was perfect for us and we Both Miss him and his perfect BBC.. he's now relocated somewhere himself, and we are in search of his replacement here in Southern Oregon.

[SeaGirtCuck]

I was cuckolded by my first wife and second wife.

[CuckIan]

No option for cuckolds up there.

As of Friday I am a cuckold. However considering my previous wife also cuckolded me I feel I have been for years. I don't believe it ever goes away. It is a life sentence. The best life ever if done well. I love it!!!!!

[quint102]

My first wife cheated on me repeatedly and without my knowledge (until after it was over) with a couple of guys. We were in our twenties. The last of these blew up into a marriage-ending affair.

A couple of years later I met and married my wife MG. We were together for about 9 years when I first watched her cuckold me, and she became my Hotwife MG (when I was 39 and she was 28). Since we opened our marriage in 2011 for her to explore other men she has cuckolded me with 13 men so far (and 3 women), and she is currently trying to arrange a fuckdate with her 14th new man. Things are going great for us.

[truther]

I am (or was) one, in the sense that my then gf/now wife did cheat on me a handful of times with different guys -- one nighters mainly, though one tryst earned a few encores-- but it was well before we were married, taking place over a year and half during her university days.

In my marriage though, I'm a wannabe, but the feeling, the identification and recognition is strong. I do feel sub to her sexually, that there would be the potential for tremendous reward all around bringing a more alpha guy into our bedroom sometimes.

It's been touched upon already here that for many men, perhaps it really is a case of once having had these feelings, they are a part of you. Not that they can't be mastered......sublimated and marginalized, ignored and overcome. But for many they surely remain available, can be very easily stoked.

I've been wanting us to try it as a couple for a while now. Not cheating this time. Believe we're built for it.

[truther]

My first wife cheated on me repeatedly and without my knowledge (until after it was over) with a couple of guys. We were in our twenties. The last of these blew up into a marriage-ending affair.

A couple of years later I met and married my wife MG. We were together for about 9 years when I first watched her cuckold me, and she became my Hotwife MG (when I was 39 and she was 28). Since we opened our marriage in 2011 for her to explore other men she has cuckolded me with 13 men so far (and 3 women), and she is currently trying to arrange a fuckdate with her 14th new man. Things are going great for us.

I like hearing real success stories in this, and know they do happen. Good for you two!

[Cuckstarter]

More of a "has-been" cuckold with no prospects. Current wife not interested.

[SpiceyHot]

I have the distinction of being a cuckold and a cuckold wannbe!!

Early on in our marriage my wife had an affair with her boss for several months. Then told me about it years laters. She didn't want any "secrets" between us is why she told me. Turns out I LOVED the idea of her having a lover. So, I said, "You can do that again anytime you want!" Her answer, "Been there, done that!!"

Bummed me out. It was one of those things where you don't think you would like it, but it taps something deep within you! So, cuck wannabe right now.

Also, because of this, I realized that that was part of my sexual nature for a long time. My first wife cheated on me... I loved the fact that she was sexy and had an eye for others... but I was living the old master plan of pure monogamy. The guy is not supposed to allow this! It broke us up... Turns out it was in my nature anyway.

~ Spicey

[Mad Dog65]

Similar to Spicey, My wife has had two affairs over the course of our 25 year marriage. The first with a work colleague 7 years in and the 2nd with her boss at the 20 year mark. Both lasted 3-6 months and I found out a few months after each of them ended. With both of them, I too was "living master plan of monogamy" (thanks Spicey) and reacted angrily feeling the betrayal of trust. The 2nd one led me OHW as I could not understand why I was so turned on and yet still filled with betrayal.

I too came back to her and shared my journey and desire for her to be with other men or women as long I as we are together on it. She has categorically refused and in some ways the affairs have contributed to draining her desire for more adventurous fun . Other factors are being a mother and holding a demanding position. I keep the embers alive and hope that in a few years time when we are empty nesters that we can fan the flames of desire and adventure.

MD

[Brute]

My wife was promiscuous before marriage, and after a sort pause returned to her promiscuous ways.

[SailorGuy]

What began as my hotwifing fantasy for my wife had evolved into a real cuckold dynamic for us. I am passionate about it; my wife has slowly come around to admitting that it works for her too.
She has had another lover for years - and, recently, another couple have been added to the mix. She is free to do whatever she wants, go wherever she wants, whenever she wants. She runs our family; I simply happily obey and serve her. I am in a constant star of arousal, masturbating all the time, with her or without her if she is away. It's the best sex of my life - and we used to have tremendous sex together!

[snoogaloo82]

My sweetie hasn't made me into a cuck I just am. I know my place and she doesn't have to do anything. Last weekend we gave Fidel ownership of her pussy. And to celebrate that she did a lap dance for him! I wish I'd been there to see that lap dance!!

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I was 39. She was 35.

It had been a longtime fantasy of mine that she participated in when we were between the sheets.

The fantasy that we shared involved a coworker of hers named Anthony….single, older, financially sound, no kids, etc. She thought he was good looking…We fantasized regularly about him putting his cock in her. She came EVERY TIME we fantasized about him. It really became the default fantasy we’d use whenever we’d have sex. I asked her if we should invite him to join us. She was too scared to ask him. It went on like this for months. Finally, I just snapped and confronted him in the parking lot as he arrived to work one day. He was blown away! Told me that he thought fondly of her, and even admitted that he had a fantasy for her. I told him that she’d spent months having orgasms to thoughts of him, and that she’d routinely masturbate to thoughts of him before heading in to work for the day. He was flattered and admitted he had spilled a lot of cum on his abs and chest thinking about her, too. I told him that if it should come to pass that an opportunity arose for the two of them to connect, he had my green light to proceed…but that the only green light that truly mattered was hers. He agreed. Nothing would happen until she made the first move.

Fast-forward about two months. They were part of a company effort to live healthier by hiking some surrounding trails. Four or five people were scheduled to partake that Saturday, but he and my wife were the only two to show up at the trailhead at the appointed time. They decided to hike regardless of the absence of the others.

While hiking, she got “flirty” with him. He flirted back.

Before long, they stopped to rest. Found a scenic rock outcropping off the trail. She told him that she’d always admired him. He told her that he’d always wondered if he would ever get a chance to tell her how attractive he thought she was.

They kissed. They felt each other up. (The thought of him putting his hand down my wife’s panties is intoxicating!) They did NOT fuck.

For that…they waited until they got back to the trailhead where their cars were parked. He joined her in our SUV. At some point, the conversation got hot enough for my wife to strip her leggings and panties off, climb over the center console, and impale herself on his stiff penis. (My wife is small enough—Asian—to pull off a move like that with no problem.). He came in just a couple of pumps, so even today my wife lovingly calls him her “two-pump chump.” He’s embarrassed about his nickname, but believe me he’s been no two-pump chump after that initial encounter. He lasts a good long time.

I guess we can all say that’s when I officially became a cuck. My wife fucked another man with my knowledge.

She was absolutely thrilled when she was driving home and called me to say what had just happened. You could HEAR her smile through the phone. She was on top of the world. What made it even more interesting was…while she was beaming over the phone about how much fun she just had, Anthony called me. I told her I’d call her right back and took his call. He was, of course, also quite thrilled. Fucking loved it and looked forward to doing it again, “maybe in a bed” next time.

I was completely awash in feelings I had not expected. I was thrilled and scared and even a bit jealous all at the same time. Called her back and told her so……..and that I’d just gotten off the phone with him.

“What?!?”

I confessed that he and I had chatted before work several weeks prior. At first, she was mortified that he had known for all those weeks that she admired him. I told her that he admitted that he had been jerking off to thoughts of her.

That image knocked her on her heels a bit. “He cums to thoughts of me?” she naively wondered.

Still, she was absolutely punch-drunk happy that she’d had sex with him. Loved it! Couldn’t wait until they would “reconnect” again.

Got home and mounted me the same way she mounted him…except in our bed. Fucked my lights out. He later told me he returned home and jerked off two more times that day.

They’ve been with each other for 17 years, now.

I didn’t get to watch for another year or so.

When I finally got to watch, I think the wife realized how erotic it was to watch me, her husband, jerking off while another man (Anthony) fucked her six ways to Sunday. It REALLY turned her on. And after a while, we realized it turned Anthony on, too……fucking a man’s wife right in front of him. (It must be a powerful feeling for the bull!). That’s when I became “SheLikesWhenIWatch.” He likes it too, now. (He likes to see me cum before he fills her up. Frankly, that’s when I feel smallest…..a cuck…..couldn’t even wait to cum. When I see him cumming in my wife, when I hear her enjoying his cock while I have a handful of my cum next to them……I am small…..insignificant. The two of them like putting me there!)

That’s when I finally admitted that I’m a cuck.

Officially cucked a year prior, but an admitted, self-proclaimed cuck when they’d watch me jerk off while she took his load…..and I’d just spill my cum into my waiting left hand.

Before everyone chimes in with a rash of shit-talk about how I “broke the rules” by talking to him first, be advised that we all reconciled the situation very quickly. She admits, to this day, that had he not flirted back with her on that hiking trail, she would have resigned herself to never pursuing it further, never kissing him and letting him get his hand down her panties. Giving him the green light gave him the confidence to act on his fantasy for her. We’re all quite happy with the way it has turned out. The two of them have had a full-on love affair (not just sex) for well over a decade, and he’s a very normal part of our lives. (He has long since moved to another job.)

What blew me away was this:
About a year ago, my wife came home and told me, “I’m having this ‘thing’ for this other guy I work with, Walter. I can’t get him out of my mind, and I’m even fantasizing that it’s him when you or Anthony have sex with me! I think I want to pursue this!”

Mind…….blown!

Now she’s got a guy-on-the-side that only she and I know about. They’re in the “honeymoon phase” right now…..lots of fucking and fun after work. The two fellows do not know about each other. But it might be worth pointing out that Anthony has been becoming more and more “distant” this past year or two. (My “man-sense” is telling me that he has a girl-on-the-side, but I’m not positive.)

Holy shit…..I think I’m double-cucked, now!

(I’m loving it, but I’m afraid someone’s feelings are gonna get hurt if they find out. I truly HATE keeping secrets….and that’s partly why I’m a cuck. I admitted to my wife many years ago that I wanted to watch another man fuck her lights out and cum inside her…own her pussy….…and here we are, now!)