Young Wife May Start Again

[gwwkjt]

...At first she thought she might want to do the party for R.  He's very dominant and controlling and it turns her on to be his slut. 

It is interesting how this discussion went, because as quoted above, she was up for it. Did she say it because she wanted to or because she thought you wanted her want it? Was she relieved you wanted her to back down or was she disappointed?

What are your plans for R from now on? Is Brandi still attracted to him? Is she open for R introducing her to his friends in less intimidating way?

[Tryn]

I’m glad that your long delay in updates wasn’t due to any more issues between you and Brandi. I was a bit worried because you removed your profile pic. Glad all is well and look forward to your updates!

[Triggershy]

I’ve missed you and your updates. Glad things are going all right.

Thank you so much for writing and showing us real raw emotion. You two are a force to be reckon with.

Keep up the fun and I love the accounting system.

[js117]

Thank you for continuing to share your story! For what it's worth, I think you made a good decision about R. I'm also impressed that you respected Brandi's desire to continue playing, and stressed the importance of her safety above all else, including the 1% of the time it's hard for you. Although you described that 1% as a very small cost, I imagine that it's pretty tough for you during those times, so I think it's pretty cool that you're managing to remain open minded. Anyway, thanks again for sharing!

[gwwkjt]

This could be my creepiest post ever, my apologies to the sensitive readers. I took a liberty of writing an executive summary of Brandi’s activities over the last 30 days, basically covering her latest cycle that started on Jan 18. Yes, this may seem a very pervy thing to do, but this time frame seems relevant for such overview.

To remind you all that during the last days at home OP discovered the things that were going on behind his back and when he left on Jan 13 Brandi started to accelerate having multiple partners

Timeline is below reconstructed from OP’s postings, so it might not be a precise picture

Jan 18 -P
Wed Jan 22 – (Tre, roommate) -BJ only
Sat Jan 25 – Billy, (Tre, roommate, new friend) (DP)
Sun Jan 26 – (Chris, Tre, friend)
Mon Jan 27 – (Tre, roommate, new friend) (DP, DVP)
Tue Jan 28 – Billy, (Tre, gym friend, Chris, New Year friend)
Wed Jan 29 – Billy, (Tre, roommate)
Thu Jan 30 – (Tre, roommate)
Fre - OFF
Sat Feb 1 – (Tre, Chris, gym friend, friend), Billy, (Tre, 2 new friends, roommate)
6 days off sick
Sat Feb 8 – (Chris, R)
Sun Feb 9 – Billy, (Tre, roommate) – all three bareback
Mon Feb 10 – R
Tue Feb 11 – (Tre, gym friend, Friend G)
Wed Feb 12 – neighbour, Joe, R
Thu Feb 13 – (Tre, roommate), (Joe, colleague) DP
Fre OFF (Valentines)
Sat Feb 15 - Guy 1, Guy 2
Sun Feb 16 – Grey, (Tre, roommate, gym friend, new friend of the gym friend), R

Totals: Tre 12, roommate 8, Billy 7, Chris 4, R 4, gym friend 4
Intercourse counter 53+ (more if counting repeats with the same guys on the same day).
Total number of guys during this period of time 22

Tre is in the clear lead, followed by the roommate and Billy. Very logically these three have their privilege to fuck Brandi bareback, total on 22 occasions. On one occasions (Feb 9) all three of them fucked Brandi the same day. Interestingly that Tre on all 12 occasions fucked Brandi with someone else, most frequently with his roommate

Billy may seem like he is on his way out, but his score is very respectable 7, which how often most people fuck during 30 days in normal relationships. Wonder what a surprise would be to know the truth that Brandi was getting much more dick and he has been sharing her with at least 21 other guys

I wonder if Tre, the roommate and Billy only having sex exclusively with Brandi. Did she ask them about it?

Now for the creepiest part. Note that Brandi had ovulation and had her the most fertile days on Jan 30-Feb 1 when she had 8 guys in one day (Feb 1). Probably just a coincidence, because Tre was in charge of organising the gangbang and she was on fire the whole time since OP left, but I really wonder if Brandi is at her peak horniness close to her ovulation

Now, to validate my theory, assuming her previous cycle started also on 18 Dec (the one before started on Non 18, so 30 days is just about right), she also went slut mode during her most fertile period: 27/12 – day 10 (House party), 31/12 – day 14 ovulation day (gangbang with Tre and his crew), 2/1 - 16 day (gangbang with Tre and his crew).

In her current cycle she is currently about 14 days (not sure exact date of her latest period), which is when she is having sex with Tre and his roommate (both bareback) (on Tuesday March 4th)

The question is if there is some pattern that Brandi is super horny at ovulation and just happens to have lots of sex, bareback and with multiple partners exactly in the right time if she wanted to become pregnant?

[afagehi7]

This could be my creepiest post ever, my apologies to the sensitive readers. I took a liberty of writing an executive summary of Brandi’s activities over the last 30 days, basically covering her latest cycle that started on Jan 18. Yes, this may seem a very pervy thing to do, but this time frame seems relevant for such overview.

To remind you all that during the last days at home OP discovered the things that were going on behind his back and when he left on Jan 13 Brandi started to accelerate having multiple partners

Timeline is below reconstructed from OP’s postings, so it might not be a precise picture

Jan 18 -P
Wed Jan 22 – (Tre, roommate) -BJ only
Sat Jan 25 – Billy, (Tre, roommate, new friend) (DP)
Sun Jan 26 – (Chris, Tre, friend)
Mon Jan 27 – (Tre, roommate, new friend) (DP, DVP)
Tue Jan 28 – Billy, (Tre, gym friend, Chris, New Year friend)
Wed Jan 29 – Billy, (Tre, roommate)
Thu Jan 30 – (Tre, roommate)
Fre - OFF
Sat Feb 1 – (Tre, Chris, gym friend, friend), Billy, (Tre, 2 new friends, roommate)
6 days off sick
Sat Feb 8 – (Chris, R)
Sun Feb 9 – Billy, (Tre, roommate) – all three bareback
Mon Feb 10 – R
Tue Feb 11 – (Tre, gym friend, Friend G)
Wed Feb 12 – neighbour, Joe, R
Thu Feb 13 – (Tre, roommate), (Joe, colleague) DP
Fre OFF (Valentines)
Sat Feb 15 - Guy 1, Guy 2
Sun Feb 16 – Grey, (Tre, roommate, gym friend, new friend of the gym friend), R

Totals: Tre 12, roommate 8, Billy 7, Chris 4, R 4, gym friend 4
Intercourse counter 53+ (more if counting repeats with the same guys on the same day).
Total number of guys during this period of time 22

Tre is in the clear lead, followed by the roommate and Billy. Very logically these three have their privilege to fuck Brandi bareback, total on 22 occasions. On one occasions (Feb 9) all three of them fucked Brandi the same day. Interestingly that Tre on all 12 occasions fucked Brandi with someone else, most frequently with his roommate

Billy may seem like he is on his way out, but his score is very respectable 7, which how often most people fuck during 30 days in normal relationships. Wonder what a surprise would be to know the truth that Brandi was getting much more dick and he has been sharing her with at least 21 other guys

I wonder if Tre, the roommate and Billy only having sex exclusively with Brandi. Did she ask them about it?

Now for the creepiest part. Note that Brandi had ovulation and had her the most fertile days on Jan 30-Feb 1 when she had 8 guys in one day (Feb 1). Probably just a coincidence, because Tre was in charge of organising the gangbang and she was on fire the whole time since OP left, but I really wonder if Brandi is at her peak horniness close to her ovulation

Now, to validate my theory, assuming her previous cycle started also on 18 Dec (the one before started on Non 18, so 30 days is just about right), she also went slut mode during her most fertile period: 27/12 – day 10 (House party), 31/12 – day 14 ovulation day (gangbang with Tre and his crew), 2/1 - 16 day (gangbang with Tre and his crew).

In her current cycle she is currently about 14 days (not sure exact date of her latest period), which is when she is having sex with Tre and his roommate (both bareback) (on Tuesday March 4th)

The question is if there is some pattern that Brandi is super horny at ovulation and just happens to have lots of sex, bareback and with multiple partners exactly in the right time if she wanted to become pregnant?

Isn't it biologically the case that women become horny around ovulation?

[path22]

Hi, I have read your complete thread and your story is fantastic ...
English is not my native language, so I apologize for my writing.
I thank you very much for your updates, I always look forward to them. I think Brandi is a very hot girl and she enjoys feeling like a whore, it's just my opinion. I hope you continue on this wonderful journey you describe. I love reading Brandi's updates. Thank you.

[brandiandme]

gwwkjt.  I'm not sure whether to say nice work or you need to dial back to OCD a tad.  Just kidding, I think.  I had been keeping stats like that early on, but honestly got lazy.  I just want to keep track of who and how many guys at this point.  It's an interesting pattern you've identified and to see her sexual encounters laid out like that.  Wow!  I am telling you there is something to my sex addiction theory.  Still a bit shocking to see 22 dicks have been in her slut pussy in a month.  This was a girl who had slept with just 5 guys before me.  

I will say that Brandi has always had a super high sex drive.  I guess after 5 years together I've just gotten used to it as normal.  It was one of the things that hooked me.  I already mentioned we had sex after the first date, but it was all the time after that.  I was a 22 year old hornball with a hottie who wanted to fuck all the time.  We probably average sex 6-7 times per week over our years together.  Granted there are ebbs and flows.  We've had vacation weeks where it has been 3-4 times per day for days on end.  I've gotten really good at using my mouth and fingers when I can't keep up anymore.  

She has long had a healthy masturbation habit as well.  She already had a good collection of rabbits, smaller dildos, and vibrators when I met her at only 19.  She told me she started masturbating in the shower with the shower head at a much younger age.  Her Mom wondered why she'd take 2-3 showers per day.  Either with or without me, Brandi will get off 2-3 time per day.  Often it's just getting herself off with a vibrator quickly, but she does it.  The stat that most average people only have sex 7 times per month bums me out.  Is that a real stat?  

Anyway, with a sex drive like Brandi's, me being away, and the freedom to fuck as much as she wants is apparently the perfect storm. 

As for the party gangbang with R, while insanely hot and dirty, we both saw it as too much of a danger.  She was thinking she may be up for it when he first asked her.  I talk to her right after he left since it was my Monday morning.  She was a bit high, had just gotten royally fucked by him, and he was really selling the idea to her.  If the party had been then and there, she had no doubt been talked into it.  

As I said before, R is very much a thug and without a doubt cannot be trusted.   He is done.  Brandi will not see him again.  As hot and exciting as she found fucking him, he's just too unpredictable and dangerous.  She does not need to get mixed up as the whore for some gang members.  He's bad news and she knows this, but the excitement of fucking a real "bad boy" was intense for her.  It was taboo for sure.  An upper middle class girl being a slut for a thug.  It will be one to remember.  

Anyway, that opportunity passed.  It's a fantasy to hold on to for the future should an opportunity present itself.  One thought is to ask Tre if there are any bachelor parties he attends in the future where she could be the paid entertainment he "finds".  Honestly, if it had been Tre that offered her $500 to be a stripper/prostitute for a night I would have been on board.  We both feel that Tre actually cares for her well being and would protect her.  The thought of her actually making the transition from slut to an actual paid whore, even for just a night, is hot.  I know we are going to lose some people here as this is pushing the extremes of the lifestyle.  We've role played the dirty stripper scenario a few times in the past when we were having threesome with Mike.  She'd strip for us (she's a great dancer) and we'd fuck her.  Very hot memories.  She has not done a full on strip show, but has danced for the guys at a few of her gangbangs.  

She fucked Billy yesterday and is planning to go to Tre's after work for a threesome tonight. She's heating up again.

[Tryn]

You definitely won the lottery with Brandi! My wife has masturbated on her own maybe twice in her life! Outside of vacation sex, we usually average 1-2 a month. I’m loving living vicariously through you! Lol!

I don’t have any issues with Brandi playing for pay. However, why settle for $500?? She’s a 10 in looks, sexual appetite, and enjoying kinky acts. No way she should consider doing a party like that for less than $1k. She should be a high priced party girl, not a discount one! Who wouldn’t pay more for an incredibly hot, horny, dirty girl that’s not acting or putting on a show? I think she’d get $5k with the right group. $100 a guy is just stupid low! $100 hooker is fat, ugly, stinky, and faking... likely has an std and a drug habit. That’s not Brandi!

[anonymister1948]

She's only done bareback with Billy, Tre, and recently Tre's roommate.

I'm not sure you mentioned if Brandi was on the pill. Given that she is having unprotected sex, sometimes during her most fertile times of the month, what is your plan for if she gets pregnant?

[gwwkjt]

If R is finished then he needs to know. Let’s see how Brandi handles that. It seems like OP found the limit for now, not sure if Brandi is 100% aligned with that.

It is very positive that Brandi is focussing on her core partners for now. Perhaps she should discuss with those three who cum in her pussy and ass that they are exclusive with her. You don’t want these guys to stray with some dirty skank and bring STD home. This probably comes with her responsibility that she will be sexually available for them whenever they want. It would be funny if Brandi had this conversation with Billy that he would swear he is faithful to Brandi. I don’t get it why Billy has not figured out that Tre fucks Brandi since they all three work together. Chemistry is difficult to hide. BTW even if blowjobs are not considered sex nowadays how many cocks have Brandi sucked so far?

Looking at your relationship history it seems to me that fucking with other guys is an integral part of your sex life. The only hiatus from hotwifing was before and after the wedding, I guess because as Brandi said that “nobody wants to marry a slut”. When she restarted fucking with others she checked with you several times if this was OK just be sure. She also was “trying hard not to be enthusiastic about it”. This has relevance to your plans to your next deployment whether to leave her at home or to take her with you. At home she is sexually taken care of, which was your goal from the start. On the other hand, if she goes with you your options with bulls will be very limited. She will miss her fuck buddies. Remember that when husband were leaving for 10 weeks on Jan 13th she was eager to get on Tre’s cock:

She already has plans to hang with Tre tonight. It's been a week and a half since they've been together and I know she could not wait.

[XYAlpha]

The OP has so much concern - passed on from Brandi - that there be no photos or videos. The OP was so mindful of this that he removed her G-Rated pics and now his Avatar of Brandi.

Now, there are gang-bangs where I expressed concern that there was zero possibility that these guys do not have pics and vids. The OP himself took some without her knowledge - this should have been a big clue for him. No way Tre does not have these to show buddies this little white girl that could keep up with him (as described by the OP from their first time together). She is a novelty that he couldn't resist sharing.

Now we have discussion of Bachelor parties? Again, ZERO chance there will be no pics or videos. I think it is safe to say that we WILL see her on the internet - including her face.

The OP and as he describes, Brandi thinks these opportunities are hot. In parallel, I would think him sharing some pics with us would be hot also! I get it though, she does not know he posts here. Maybe she should know and maybe she would find it crazy hot to be a VHW here and post these events herself!

If she will participate in gang-bangs with strangers, consider sex for sale, bachelor parties, and porn, why not a tame exposure here at OHW?

The situation with R could be dangerous. Cutting him off may not go well. And, he has been to the OP's home... If he has pics/vids or can get them from others, they will get posted.

Her physical safety is of paramount concern.

For the OP, do you have plans to keep her safe?

XY

[brandiandme]

Some serious drama over the last day.  

gwwwkjt, your foresight about Billy's finding out (that is exactly what happened last night) and his days being numbered are uncanny.  It's like you know what's going to happen.  Spooky.  

She has already told R she is done with him. He was a dick about it and called her bunch of names. That just solidifies his place as an asshole. Nothing good would have come from that guy. He was an outsider anyway. He was an acquaintance of Chris's that if you remember Chris brought to Brandi because he owed R $100. This was poor judgement on Chris's part and he and Brandi have reconciled it. He was not known by Tre and the rest of the guys. I personally think he looked at Brandi as a cheap whore and thought he could get something from her.

First, as for the prostitute/call girl thing.  I agree, Brandi is worth $1000 per guy or more.  However, this fantasy is more for the dirtiness of it and not for the money.  While there is the prospect of doing it once for the thrill and fun, there is no intention of it being a regular thing.  Than it would not be fun anymore, but work.  Plus the guys Brandi has been fucking are mostly early 20's.  Not many people at that age have the cash to spend thousands of dollars on a call girl.  Again, hot fantasy bucket list item maybe when the time comes.

As for the pregnancy thing, yes I admit that is a risk.  She is on birth control and although she has let them cum in her pussy, it is not as frequent as you may think.  She says she has been smart about not letting anyone cum in her pussy when she is near the most fertile part of her cycle.  I know that this is not fool proof.  

As for blowjobs, as far as I know that only guy she gave a blowjob to and did not fuck was Marcus back at my friends party around Christmas.  She did give a blowjob only to one of Tre's friends of New Years, but ended up fucking him a few weeks later.  

I am due home in just under 3 weeks.  Also, it looks like my time over here is done.  My next project is going to be in late April in Asia.  Awesome timing with the Coronavirus.  I may have to sit in quarantine for a while.  Hopefully it settles down by then.  

One last thing. The pics and video. Yes, I took down the pictures to respect her wishes. It is bad enough that I am posting a ton of personal information on here (although she never strictly told me not to). To be honest, when I first posted I was looking to learn and for input and advice. I never though I'd be documenting her activities like this (I didn't think there be that much to document). It has been strangely therapeutic since I don't have anyone in my private life I can discuss this with. Brandi at least has her bff Kate.

Yes, there is a possibility after 10 gangbangs now that there is some pics of vids. I have been searching new amateur porn frequently to see any pics or videos of Brandi. Nothing yet. To be honest I've come across a few that I thought might be her at first (it was immensely exciting), but it was not. It may get to the point where I tell her about my posting activities here. Be prepared for her to ask the entire thread be deleted though. She knows I watch a lot of porn and have a few user accounts. I am going to ask her if I could post a few pics of her on my profile page and run the pics by her. That might be the best way to get her to agree to some form of pics and could be a start. I very badly want to video her in a gangbang when I am home.

Anyway, back to Brandi.

Billy found out about Tre and flipped his lid on Brandi.  Yes, there have been rumors at the bar (not surprising) about Brandi.  I will add this. I think I mentioned this before, but Brandi has always been a bit of a flirt, especially when she drinks. I've always been turned on by this and have never been jealous. I've even had friends ask me if it was okay when they were dancing with Brandi or she was sitting on their lab. So, the chemistry thing may be harder to detect with her. Just a thought. She and Tre have both denied the rumors but it apparently made Billy jealous.  Like some type of jealous boyfriend he actually followed her and caught her going to Tre's place last night, where she ended up having sex with both Tre and his roommate (this was her first threesome in over 2 weeks).  He waited outside until she left and then confronted her.  

He actually called her a whore and said he knew she'd been fucking Tre and some of his friends.  She was pissed and said it was none of his business who she may have sex with outside of her marriage.  She is likely done with Billy.  We are not sure where Billy would have heard this, but after fucking Tre for the last 3 months and a total of 10 of his friends, I am not surprised something got out.  I can only assume if Billy has heard this, than other people at work know.  Strangely, this does not bother me like I thought it would, but it kind of turns me on.  I've gotten over my worries about people seeing Brandi as a slut and have now embraced it.  At least not close friends and family.  It's like a double life thing.  Weird, I know.  When I asked Brandi how she felt she did not seem to worry about peoples opinions or the rumors.  She actually said "Well, I am kind of a slut."  This reminds me of the question someone had brought up a while back about really knowing Brandi. It begs the question of was she always a slut deep down that tried to be a good girl, or is she a good girl who found it more fun to be a slut. I really thought she'd act a certain way, and boy has she exceeded my expectations by all means. Not the girl I thought I knew. I'm not unhappy about this, just a bit shocked at times. It's weird saying and then writing this, but I am married to a slut, and a big one at that.

After a few weeks off and the Billy meltdown, she is itching for a gangbang and to be treated like a slut, and the opportunity presents itself this weekend.  Honestly, I kind of miss it too.  The excitement I get from knowing and hearing about her acting like a porn star in these gangbangs is hard to duplicate.  Someone said she likes being treated like a whore. I'd say that's a good assessment. She reminded herself last night with Tre and his roommate how much she loves having more than one cock to play with.  Plus, I want to see this with my own eyes when I get home.  It'd be a shame if she stopped right before I come home.   

This weekend Tre has a cousin from the Army in town visiting who has 2 buddies travelling with him.  Tre asked her if she'd be down for some group fun.  He has been patient with her.  As you all know, Tre is into sharing Brandi with other men and has not done much of that lately.  Weird that her black bull has some cuck tendencies.  Guess you never know.  

[Veryaware]

Great update! Brandi is a fine girl, you are truly lucky to have her.

Gene

[gwwkjt]

Now, there are gang-bangs where I expressed concern that there was zero possibility that these guys do not have pics and vids. The OP himself took some without her knowledge - this should have been a big clue for him. No way Tre does not have these to show buddies this little white girl that could keep up with him (as described by the OP from their first time together). She is a novelty that he couldn't resist sharing.

Now we have discussion of Bachelor parties? Again, ZERO chance there will be no pics or videos. I think it is safe to say that we WILL see her on the internet - including her face.

Publishing revenge porn a possibility, but because of sheer amount of similar material out there is security in obscurity. Only very determined will find. I think the only thing to worry about is a pic with name tag indexed by Google (if her name is unique enough). Other thing that is possible is circulation on SnapChat, Instagram or similar, but the wide reach is not likely and will be short-term. I think Tre should keep his buddies on a tight leash in respect to phone camera use (all phones should be left in a drawer)

She has already told R she is done with him. He was a dick about it and called her bunch of names. That just solidifies his place as an asshole. Nothing good would have come from that guy. He was an outsider anyway. He was an acquaintance of Chris's that if you remember Chris brought to Brandi because he owed R $100. This was poor judgement on Chris's part and he and Brandi have reconciled it. He was not known by Tre and the rest of the guys. I personally think he looked at Brandi as a cheap whore and thought he could get something from her.

It is worse than I thought. How it went down? Brandi was mellow from weed and fucking, then she turned down a gangbang proposal (saying probably “maybe”, “I need to get to know them first, what do you think I am whore?” or “$500 only, is that how much do you think I am worth?”). I am not sure how this escalated to name calling and break up. Also, why did R offer her money anyway? She would probably do that “for love”

The situation with R could be dangerous. Cutting him off may not go well. And, he has been to the OP's home... If he has pics/vids or can get them from others, they will get posted.

Her physical safety is of paramount concern.

XY: It is a valid point. I would tell Brandi to tell Chris and Tre what happened. They should know because they could be a target too. Besides guys love being knights on white horses. OP: Why not to call these guys yourself about this? Besides you might get a feel from an independent source what is going on. So far you know only what Brandi told you

He actually called her a whore and said he knew she'd been fucking Tre and some of his friends. She was pissed and said it was none of his business who she may have sex with outside of her marriage. She is likely done with Billy. We are not sure where Billy would have heard this, but after fucking Tre for the last 3 months and a total of 10 of his friends, I am not surprised something got out. I can only assume if Billy has heard this, than other people at work know.

I think that female staff at the bar knew since New Year. Women are more attuned to that. That business with Billy is not pleasant. I was kind of hoping he would find out in more entertaining circumstances (like "you are so wet Brandi... wait a minute what is leaking from your pussy?" or you getting him with his pants down

Strangely, this does not bother me like I thought it would, but it kind of turns me on. I've gotten over my worries about people seeing Brandi as a slut and have now embraced it. At least not close friends and family. It's like a double life thing. Weird, I know. When I asked Brandi how she felt she did not seem to worry about peoples opinions or the rumors. She actually said "Well, I am kind of a slut."

OP: you don’t want your family know. That house party and fucking a neighbour boy in December was playing with matches. What about Brandi, does she care if her parents know? Her father? If she does not want pics whose opinion is she concerned about?

It may get to the point where I tell her about my posting activities here. Be prepared for her to ask the entire thread be deleted though.

Before going nuclear try to find out what kind of outing scenario scares her. (You might want to file that info in case you need this later…)

[gwwkjt]

If there will be a gangbang with Tre, hi cousin and his 2 buddies that would mean the first time with three new partners. Are both buddies black? With Billy gone there is no regular white guys left, right? So Brandi is now exclusively BBC girl.

What is Brandi's situation with tattoos? Have you thought about having a queen of spades tattoo? Maybe non-permanent one on a visible part of the body would be a start? Maybe on a wrist, or if you are going to Jamaica on her ankle?

Another thought. If she is left at home for next tour in Asia, what about getting a permanent tattoo in a private place like on an upper part of a butt cheek that would normally be covered by bikini/panties, something that would mark her as your property, like "OP's girl", "(heart shape) OP" or "I belong to OP", tastefully made of course. That would be a sign of commitment to you and a saucy detail for those guys who would be fucking Brandi from behind

[Serrand]

Hi, it's always very intriguing to follow your thread. I really hope you keep it up for a long time, regarding this as kind of an outlet or secret diary.

More than 7 weeks are now over, of course, I have no idea at what kind of project you working at, but when I speak about my own experience with such things it's always possible that there are delays. So, I wanted to ask could it maybe happen that you even have to stay longer than the 10 weeks or will you definitely return home after this 10 weeks no matter what?
You said you discussed with Brandi beforehand, if she should accompany to Dubai, obviously you decided against this, but didn't you both have the idea that Brandi maybe comes to visit you in Dubai for a week or two, of course if you financially could afford it?

I hope it not too personal to ask, but how much does Brandi actually miss you? She she "dying" to see you again, gets she emotional and cries a little during your phone calls/videochats because she miss you so much?

You mentioned you already know about your next extented business trip, do you already know the exact dates? Will this trip also last that long as now? I can comprehend it's maybe not practical that Brandi accompanies you for the complete duration of the trip, but this time you both really should think about that Brandi maybe comes to visit you for a couple of weeks. I mean isn't this something that especially Brandi would desire very much, not to be apart from the man she loves for such a long time again?

Excuse my many questions, I hole you're able to answer them, at least some.

[lionbrand]

Thank you for updates. How has the neighbour been lately?

[afagehi7]

No way in hell should he leave her home whilst he goes on another assignment. She needs to come with for at least a portion of the tour.

[rascalnvixen]

No way in hell should he leave her home whilst he goes on another assignment. She needs to come with for at least a portion of the tour.

I agree with you, A7. The money he is making on this kind of deployment should allow for a round trip flight to bring her to him for at least part of the deployment if not the entire time. Most employers would assist or facilitate such an arrangement. As there are no kids, the obstacles to her going with him should be minimal.

Rascal

[gwwkjt]

I raised this question of Brandi staying or going for the next deployment myself several times. No answer means that likely the decision is not yet made. Remember that all info comes from Brandi. Even if it is all truth, she might omit some important parts. I know that Brandi agreed about full disclosure, but who knows really what is going on there back at home. OP will probably decide when he gets home and sees for himself what the situation is. I don't know, if I were OP I would want to have a home security system with indoor cameras. Brandi would probably be against having a camera in the bedroom, but the best would be to have it in the hall to keep an eye on comings and goings. Even a Ring doorbell if the landlord allows it to keep an eye who rings the door or who hangs around outside (don't forget about pissed off R or Billy). You can have an access to these cameras on your phone. Just a thought

You don't really have any reliable informant at home do you? Even if Billy is a shitty detective, why not give him a call asking what's going on etc, even if you don't get a useful info out of him you can have a lot of fun this way ("Listen Billy, a friend of mine saw you with Brandi several times quite cozy. Anything you want to tell me you dipshit?). Why not to call your neighbour that tipped you off about comings and goings, wouldn't you like to hear what he has to say?

[afagehi7]

I raised this question of Brandi staying or going for the next deployment myself several times. No answer means that likely the decision is not yet made. Remember that all info comes from Brandi. Even if it is all truth, she might omit some important parts. I know that Brandi agreed about full disclosure, but who knows really what is going on there back at home. OP will probably decide when he gets home and sees for himself what the situation is. I don't know, if I were OP I would want to have a home security system with indoor cameras. Brandi would probably be against having a camera in the bedroom, but the best would be to have it in the hall to keep an eye on comings and goings. Even a Ring doorbell if the landlord allows it to keep an eye who rings the door or who hangs around outside (don't forget about pissed off R or Billy). You can have an access to these cameras on your phone. Just a thought

You don't really have any reliable informant at home do you? Even if Billy is a shitty detective, why not give him a call asking what's going on etc, even if you don't get a useful info out of him you can have a lot of fun this way ("Listen Billy, a friend of mine saw you with Brandi several times quite cozy. Anything you want to tell me you dipshit?). Why not to call your neighbour that tipped you off about comings and goings, wouldn't you like to hear what he has to say?

Interesting. I didn't consider that Brandi may not be telling some of the gory details. She's telling him some pretty serious and twisted shit so I don't know what she could possibly be withholding. She may be withholding something emotional but sexually I can't think of anything she isn't telling him. She's fessing up to getting gangbanged by strange thug black men for money, letting them fuck her ass, cum anywhere they want... I'm not sure what else there could be. If the above is sugar coating her adventures, I don't know what could be more extreme.

If he keeps leaving her for long stretches while he goes on assignment he's going to lose her. Too much absence would be hard on any woman and their emotional connection will erode. That is no offense to what they have or specific to Brandi. Her slutting around may help because she's not specific to any one man... Yet...

If she's leaving something out it's the emotional aspect between her and one of the guys.. she may be getting closer to them... Billy??? Tre???

[Cuckoldme]

Of course anything is possible but I think it's a long shot that she splits for any of these D-bags. As best I can understand is she purposely finding guys for purely physical purposes and no mental attraction at all. In fact I think she's proven herself loyal to hubby by giving all the updates and letting him know exactly what's going on.
The reason she's able to explore her inner slut is because she has a wonderful hubby allowing her to fuck and suck anyone she wants to. With that said it certainly wouldn't hurt if she joined him on the next deployment, but even she doesn't I'd guess she begins to slow down a, if no other reason than she's getting a her fill (pun intended)

[gwwkjt]

My point is that the only info OP is getting what Brandi is telling him. Until he is back at home he might not have a complete understanding in what state his relationship is. Most likely she does not hide any gory details, however I believe that the sexual experience of this intensity will change her. It is something that can be seen in person, not over the phone

[gwwkjt]

All this talk about Brandi withholding info got me thinking about how easily I was triggered when my former girlfriend was doing small intimate things with her fuckbuddies or saying stuff (especially in front of my friends that were not in the know), like small comments about my performance. And I mean triggered, outwardly seen as only a stone face and non-blinking gaze, but inside I felt very intense rage, like with a tunnel vision, intense heartbeat and blood pressure off-the-limit.

Probably video and especially audio surveillance might be a bad idea. You never know what is going in private. OP said that he is ok with Brandi being fucked rough, with hair-pulling and name-calling, but is sensitive when it comes to more intimate stuff. If OP could hear what Brandy and the fuckboys say in private who knows what can trigger him.

Here is something that happened in November, I didn’t really understand exactly why, but they did not have sex for a week then and only started fucking when playing with a fantasy fucking a neighbour. I don’t really know if the underlying issue was really resolved. The fact is that Tre and his crew are now the very important part of Brandi’s sex life and OP wants to be included in that part when he comes back he needs to resolve any outstanding issues

I got to the bar Friday and Tre was there working with Brandi as expected. He was overly friendly to me. I hated knowing the fact that he was sorta rubbing it in my face somehow. It was nauseating facing him knowing he had just fucked my wife hours earlier. It did not turn me on, it just made me mad. That's not all, Billy was not working but came in later to hang out. He was the exact opposite. He avoided me like the plague. He would not make eye contact. Talk about being obvious, the dip shit. I finally tracked him down and he was very dodgy. It was uncomfortable for both of us and I did not stay until closing time. When I left Brandi could sense I was off and when she got home I told her all about this and the awkwardness it created, and how it was tough to handle, and I did not see this coming. I was so messed up by the situation I didn't even get to reclaim her.
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This is so humiliating. I wonder what other neighbors have heard Bandi fucking in my absence. Now she's the whore and I'm the pussy husband. We are both embarrassed. I feel like we have to move.
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This has thrown a wrench in our sex life. We have not had sex since Wednesday, so as of right now Tre was the last guy to fuck her.

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We've talked a lot over the last few days have further discussed how uneasy I felt Friday night. Brandi brought up some good points and also that it confuses her a bit. If I had no problem actually watching my friends have sex with her in the past, why did it bother me so much to just know that Billy and Tre have had sex with her. She said it's only sex after all. The way she said it was almost as though it was like working out and not that big of a deal. I have to say I am loving her casual attitude towards sex these days, and it makes me feel better in some weird way. I can only sum up my negative reaction by the fact that I was feeling jealous.