A little introduction

[afagehi7]

#1 - how do you have an orgasm without ejaculation?

[SteelRidge]

#1 - how do you have an orgasm without ejaculation?

It depends on the type of orgasm.

For the penile orgasm (the one focused on the tip) strong kegel muscle control works.

I've done it many times, sometimes easier, sometimes not. The massive benefit for me has been the ability to stay hard after the orgasm almost indefinitely

[afagehi7]

#1 - how do you have an orgasm without ejaculation?

It depends on the type of orgasm.

For the penile orgasm (the one focused on the tip) strong kegel muscle control works.

I've done it many times, sometimes easier, sometimes not. The massive benefit for me has been the ability to stay hard after the orgasm almost indefinitely

I've never heard of such a thing. I thought one had to ejaculate. I thought it was autonomic (not sure if I used the word correctly).

[SteelRidge]

#1 - how do you have an orgasm without ejaculation?

It depends on the type of orgasm.

For the penile orgasm (the one focused on the tip) strong kegel muscle control works.

I've done it many times, sometimes easier, sometimes not. The massive benefit for me has been the ability to stay hard after the orgasm almost indefinitely

I've never heard of such a thing. I thought one had to ejaculate. I thought it was autonomic (not sure if I used the word correctly).

Nope, you can hold that jizz in. I learned it while in college when me and Mrs. Hand were fucking like crazy.

[SteelRidge]

#1 - how do you have an orgasm without ejaculation?

It depends on the type of orgasm.

For the penile orgasm (the one focused on the tip) strong kegel muscle control works.

I've done it many times, sometimes easier, sometimes not. The massive benefit for me has been the ability to stay hard after the orgasm almost indefinitely

I've never heard of such a thing. I thought one had to ejaculate. I thought it was autonomic (not sure if I used the word correctly).

Nope. I learned this in college after many times fucking Mrs. Hand. You can stop the jizz from coming out just like stopping pee. Granted during orgasm it takes some awareness to do. I can tell you from personal experience that it works. You have the orgasm, hold in the jizz with your kegel muscle and your dick stays hard almost indefinitely.

There is a full body orgasm achievable that Tantra teaches. No ejaculation occurs. I've experienced this a few times. This starts just above the root of the penis and overtakes the whole body which can go on for several hours (I'm told) I've reached about 20 minutes. It's so powerful that it was spiritual and I didn't want to include it in the sex journal.

[funcpl477]

#1 - how do you have an orgasm without ejaculation?

It depends on the type of orgasm.

For the penile orgasm (the one focused on the tip) strong kegel muscle control works.

I've done it many times, sometimes easier, sometimes not. The massive benefit for me has been the ability to stay hard after the orgasm almost indefinitely

I've never heard of such a thing. I thought one had to ejaculate. I thought it was autonomic (not sure if I used the word correctly).

Nope. I learned this in college after many times fucking Mrs. Hand. You can stop the jizz from coming out just like stopping pee. Granted during orgasm it takes some awareness to do. I can tell you from personal experience that it works. You have the orgasm, hold in the jizz with your kegel muscle and your dick stays hard almost indefinitely.

There is a full body orgasm achievable that Tantra teaches. No ejaculation occurs. I've experienced this a few times. This starts just above the root of the penis and overtakes the whole body which can go on for several hours (I'm told) I've reached about 20 minutes. It's so powerful that it was spiritual and I didn't want to include it in the sex journal.

#1 - how do you have an orgasm without ejaculation?

It depends on the type of orgasm.

For the penile orgasm (the one focused on the tip) strong kegel muscle control works.

I've done it many times, sometimes easier, sometimes not. The massive benefit for me has been the ability to stay hard after the orgasm almost indefinitely

I've never heard of such a thing. I thought one had to ejaculate. I thought it was autonomic (not sure if I used the word correctly).

Nope. I learned this in college after many times fucking Mrs. Hand. You can stop the jizz from coming out just like stopping pee. Granted during orgasm it takes some awareness to do. I can tell you from personal experience that it works. You have the orgasm, hold in the jizz with your kegel muscle and your dick stays hard almost indefinitely.

There is a full body orgasm achievable that Tantra teaches. No ejaculation occurs. I've experienced this a few times. This starts just above the root of the penis and overtakes the whole body which can go on for several hours (I'm told) I've reached about 20 minutes. It's so powerful that it was spiritual and I didn't want to include it in the sex journal.

Yeah it can work - used to do it. Kind of like "riding the wave", where I usually loose a bit of cum just as I stop. I still do that. My first "older woman" taught me that. She was 23 and I was a 17 year old college freshman.

Only problem - after doing it a while, not only do you not ejaculate - you can't. (Well, at least, I can't). Some women will dry up after a while, get sore and actually do not want to go all night. Imagine that; they actually want the cum and... well... you can't.

Not sure that doing that often is not harmful to the prostate. At some urologist recommend ejaculation once a day... My kind of doc!

It can be cool though.

I am not sure, but I think the general idea that intercourse with (even other men's wives, without ejaculation was perfectly acceptable) came out of the Oneida Community? Yeah the same religious community that was famous for fine silver and (maybe) china (plates - not the country)...

I could have that wrong, but I think it was the Oneida Religious Community. Anyone remember???

Btw I once brought up to Farmgirl, the question of whether there was any concern with Hernumber1's orgasm denial potentially having a negative effect on his prostate.

Farmgirl assured me that his PSA is perfectly normal... and well, she is just about my favorite woman in the world. So whatever she says has gotta be right, as far as I am concerned! Hernumber1 is one cool guy and lucky to be married to her.

[Her number1]

#1 - how do you have an orgasm without ejaculation?

It depends on the type of orgasm.

For the penile orgasm (the one focused on the tip) strong kegel muscle control works.

I've done it many times, sometimes easier, sometimes not. The massive benefit for me has been the ability to stay hard after the orgasm almost indefinitely

I've never heard of such a thing. I thought one had to ejaculate. I thought it was autonomic (not sure if I used the word correctly).

Nope. I learned this in college after many times fucking Mrs. Hand. You can stop the jizz from coming out just like stopping pee. Granted during orgasm it takes some awareness to do. I can tell you from personal experience that it works. You have the orgasm, hold in the jizz with your kegel muscle and your dick stays hard almost indefinitely.

There is a full body orgasm achievable that Tantra teaches. No ejaculation occurs. I've experienced this a few times. This starts just above the root of the penis and overtakes the whole body which can go on for several hours (I'm told) I've reached about 20 minutes. It's so powerful that it was spiritual and I didn't want to include it in the sex journal.

A7 it is like the full body orgasm that SteelRidge speaks of. I did learn of it from reading about how it is done in Tantric sex. I don't get into the spiritual or mystic side of Tantric sex but did learn to use my mind to control that part of my body. I would liken it to using the power of the mind. A type of will power, if you will.
Most people can't control anything about themselves as they lack any will power to do so, missing out on so much.
I have had these full body mental controled orgasms that go on for close to 30 minutes, though most last 10 minutes or so. They aren't one continuous orgasm but roll from one to another before you have a chance to come down.
This is a big part of why I enjoy Farmgirl not "allowing" me to cum. If i were to cum or ejaculate, then I would have the 30 second orgasm that you have. . Instead I have a long full body one that leaves me spent physically and emotionaly but still hard.

[Farmgirl]

What a post that was, so full of tender love and enough detail to give this guy a warm glow.
It would seem that she can accept a cock in her arse without undue preparation or discomfort, is there any of her dates that she would decline as being too thick, his cock that is, not too thick in the uptake!

Thank you! I like that.
No, none of my guys are too thick for me to enjoy in my ass (arse) ha ha. I enjoy it so much and have learned to totally relax, that all I need is a touch of lube. Learning to relax is the key.
It really doesn't take any more preparation for me to enjoy anal than it does for me to enjoy PIV, a touch of lube either way.

[SteelRidge]

Yeah it can work - used to do it. Kind of like "riding the wave", where I usually loose a bit of cum just as I stop. I still do that. My first "older woman" taught me that. She was 23 and I was a 17 year old college freshman.

Only problem - after doing it a while, not only do you not ejaculate - you can't. (Well, at least, I can't). Some women will dry up after a while, get sore and actually do not want to go all night. Imagine that; they actually want the cum and... well... you can't.

Your description is pretty accurate to my experience. My wife is multiorgasmic. She can fuck for hours. About 3 or 4 times a years I do that little trick and wear her out.

I am not sure, but I think the general idea that intercourse with (even other men's wives, without ejaculation was perfectly acceptable) came out of the Oneida Community? Yeah the same religious community that was famous for fine silver and (maybe) china (plates - not the country)...

I could have that wrong, but I think it was the Oneida Religious Community. Anyone remember???

They were part of the free love movement of the 19th century. But they ended up having lots of rules in the community. Rules like only older men could fuck the younger women and only younger men could fuck the older women.

[solstice]

Dear Fabulous Farmgirl
I made the mistake of addressing my impudent question to her Number one, especially unacceptable, as your in a fl relationship, but as usual, you display your forgiving nature.

[Her number1]

We attended a ranching meeting yesterday. I sat on one side of Farmgirl and A sat on the other side. After the meeting she said to me, " It was really nice having two of my guys beside me, my Number1 and my friend with Benefits! ".

This morning A texted her to say that he was closing his office to appointments only and he asked how we were. She replied to him, " I'm still taking appointments ".

[Farmgirl]

Dear Fabulous Farmgirl
I made the mistake of addressing my impudent question to her Number one, especially unacceptable, as your in a fl relationship, but as usual, you display your forgiving nature.

Are you one of those randy Scots? My husbands people came from Scotland and Ireland.

[Farmgirl]

Farmgirl assured me that his PSA is perfectly normal... and well, she is just about my favorite woman in the world. So whatever she says has gotta be right, as far as I am concerned! Hernumber1 is one cool guy and lucky to be married to her.

Aren't you the charmer, you could make a girl's head swell (and maybe nipples )! Thanks for the day brightening words.

[solstice]

Farmgirl writes: Are you one of those randy Scots? My husbands people came from Scotland and Ireland.

Guilty as charged, you obviously chose your old man well, as we Scots hold our women in great esteem, but he has gone for a high specification in choosing you: Have you made-in-USA, stamped on your bum? a sure sign of quality, all the better as you have a rigorous servicing routine. (hope I'm not being too familiar with you)?

[Farmgirl]

Farmgirl writes: Are you one of those randy Scots? My husbands people came from Scotland and Ireland.

Guilty as charged, you obviously chose your old man well, as we Scots hold our women in great esteem, but he has gone for a high specification in choosing you: Have you made-in-USA, stamped on your bum? a sure sign of quality, all the better as you have a rigorous servicing routine. (hope I'm not being too familiar with you)?

You know, a stamp like that would show up really well on my creamy peachy smooth skin. Then again, it might be too bold in contrast and ruin such a visual.

[solstice]

You seem to attract the right sort of men, discreet but eager, no need for you to hang your panties from the rear view mirror to attract hopefuls.
Have you ever posted a photo in the hotties? a fully clothed one would be all I could hope for.

[Farmgirl]

I've never posted a pic in "the hotties", never had a need to.
I have sent them to select gentlemen who put forth the effort to get to know me.

[EDAS]

This is a major thread -- alive, energetic. I love Farmgirl and her husband. Love their attitude. They are such bright people, so unencumbered by nonsense. You two are star examples who are a true inspiration for those who want to claim or reclaim their sexuality. I have just finished reading the whole thread from start to finish. And am amazed. Than you to the both of you. Such wonderful people you are!

[EDAS]

I do have a little question: how do you two and especially Farmgirl deal with sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)? It's a dull question, I know, but it is an important one. It has to be factored in. Thank you for your answer on this.

[D+D]

I too am amazed at how smooth these two good folks carry out their hotwife adventure. Enjoy their adventures very much and being involved in agriculture for over 50 years in a small county, I can relate to them. I do appreciate you No.1 and farmgirl for sharing here. I've learned quite a bit from this thread.

[Her number1]

This is a major thread -- alive, energetic. I love Farmgirl and her husband. Love their attitude. They are such bright people, so unencumbered by nonsense. You two are star examples who are a true inspiration for those who want to claim or reclaim their sexuality. I have just finished reading the whole thread from start to finish. And am amazed. Than you to the both of you. Such wonderful people you are!

I too am amazed at how smooth these two good folks carry out their hotwife adventure. Enjoy their adventures very much and being involved in agriculture for over 50 years in a small county, I can relate to them. I do appreciate you No.1 and farmgirl for sharing here. I've learned quite a bit from this thread.

Thank you very much from the both of us. We just enjoy being ourselves and believe in paying forward what we have learned.

[Farmgirl]

I do have a little question: how do you two and especially Farmgirl deal with sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)? It's a dull question, I know, but it is an important one. It has to be factored in. Thank you for your answer on this.

Only abstinence will prevent STDs so one needs to mitigate the risk. I approach that by playing with men that I know. Almost all of my guys are local men that I know and trust. There is less risk that way. Notice that I didn't say that it is foolproof, nothing is. So it is about you being comfortable with your level of risk.
This is a prime reason I don't look for men online, at bars, clubs, etc. Some do and have good success. For me, that is too risky.
The truth is, STDs are not something that I really worry about. I use common sense in what I do. Others take all sort of precautions and still worry about it, that is their way but, not mine,
If I were to put a lot into all of the "what if" then I would have to lock myself in a closet. One has to do what they see right for themselves. My husband and our family are by nature not worriers of "what if". We take what we see as normal common sense measures in our safety while still enjoying life.

Right now many people are living in fear of the covid 19 and they "what if" until they are stressed and depressed. Measures of common sense should be taken! But, "what if" my husband gets it. What if, he has a heart attack. What if, he has a stroke. What if, he has a car wreck. What if, a bull or cow stomps him. I can go on and on with the "what if". It will suck the life, peace, and joy out of you if you let it.
So, why let it?

Hope I helped a little, it's just my way of looking at it.
BTW I've been enjoying other men for over 26 years and have never had any problem.

[solstice]

Farmgirl writes: I've been enjoying other men for over 26 years and have never had any problem.

Has there been any lessons you have learned in those years that has modified your HW lifestyle, and has any women ever shown a sexual interest in you, and what was your response?

[EDAS]

Thank you, Farmgirl, for your reply to my question about STDs. It is a reply that makes a lot of sense. You are not allowing your life to be closed down because of all the "what if" scares. If I may interpret what you are saying in your reply to me it is this: Yes, we do have to take precautions, but not to a point where we strangle our life until it dies.

There are enough walking deads in our society without our joining them out of our own making.

[2wheel]

Are you serious, have you all been living is a vacuum?

There are medical conditions.

Retrograde ejaculation:
Retrograde ejaculation occurs when semen enters the bladder instead of emerging through the penis during orgasm. Although you still reach sexual climax, you might ejaculate very little or no semen. This is sometimes called a dry orgasm. Retrograde ejaculation isn't harmful, but it can cause male infertility.

Do have to educate everyone (LOL)???