A little introduction

[New2hot]

Yeah, that was it. I'll never have a chance to meet Farmgirl, but I was wondering what clues a woman on the prowl gives, especially in more mundane situations (shopping etc).

I wouldn't say that I'm on the prowl though I've been known to call it hunting LOL. It's my mindset, I'm always noticing men and I notice when they notice me. You men try to be so sly in looking but, you're pretty obvious really (if the woman is noticing).
I meet a man or catch him looking, I make eye contact, hold eye contact, and smile. Normally if he's interested he smiles. Most often he won't be bold enough at first to hold eye contact so , he'll look away and then look again. Then I know I have his attention and I'll approach. Depending on how he responds, I'll flirt and if he continues to respond, I'll escalate the flirting.
All of this is done in public places, shopping, etc. while I'm just out and about.
As for clues , I'm just me. My men say I have a sexual air about me, to me I'm just me.

So, the question remains: how to you get your suitors to pursue you? What are your techniques? They know you are married so I'd imagine that you have to drop some pretty good hints?

Being married gets a woman more attention than being single. With single women a guy wonders if she is looking for attachment, i.e. a husband. Me being married, they don't have to worry about that.
A was my boldest, he just asked, "I recently got divorced, do you know of any women who would like to come to my place to maybe have dinner and watch a movie?"
With J, I flirted while at the dealership and, I dressed to look good. I knew he was stealing glances at my ass so, I started texting him, you know, just to see what he was doing.
With L, he had said to me and, to my Number1 on separate occasions, " Has your wife broken up with me, I haven't spoken to her lately. " I then one night fixed a bowl of pinto beans and told my husband that I was taking them to him since he was home alone. We ended up fucking before he tasted the beans.
Those are just examples of how I 'work', the other guys were pretty similar in method. On my first, I worked at a bank, he was a well to do customer. I was quitting to take over the ranch so, I lead him into the vault and told him he was my favorite customer and I really hated not seeing him again. The next day he called me and soon we were meeting at a hotel.

It's not hard to meet men, they are everywhere. The hard part is meeting one that is brave enough to 'meet'. Men are such fickle and faint creatures. They like to pretend to want to mess around but, when it gets real they get a little scared. That's why there are so many flakes and fakes. When it comes to sex, women are the stronger of the species!
Getting "suitors" to pursue me is easy, I'm confident in being a sexual woman. I'm not bragging, when I walk into a room or gathering, men flock to me for attention. My husband says I am holding court . It's getting them to commit that's the hard part.

I agree with you Farmgirl 110% “getting suitors to pursue me is easy” “getting them to commit (and I add SHOW UP) that’s the hard part”.

We just wanna have great sex. Is that so difficult to understand? Flakes and fakes are not attractive in any way, shape, age or form

Once again you hit the nail on the head

[solstice]

Thank you for the insight of your seemingly effortless way of making contact dear farmgirl, I am not instinctive enough to make the first move, fearing rejection or worse being accused of harassment. could men be easier to read than women? Has it ever gone embarrassingly wrong for you?
I once worked in a large company storeroom, I was quite young at the time, a woman possibly in her early forties joined our section, she was attractive and very flirty and made suggestions for me coming round to her house to sample her home cooking. We had high shelving in the store with ladders, and when she went up the ladder she would span the gap with one leg, and on more than one occasion she would tell you with a giggle to just pass under, enabling you to see her panties. On one occasion she squeezed past me and I placed my hands on her hips, she snarled at me to keep my hands to myself and later reported me to HR. when called in I explained what had happened. and was told she had made similar complaints before, and believed my account moving her to another department. I am not saying I was without blame: It was a large engineering company that had 5000 staff. that incident haunted me for a long time.

[afagehi7]

Thank you for the insight of your seemingly effortless way of making contact dear farmgirl, I am not instinctive enough to make the first move, fearing rejection or worse being accused of harassment. could men be easier to read than women? Has it ever gone embarrassingly wrong for you?
I once worked in a large company storeroom, I was quite young at the time, a woman possibly in her early forties joined our section, she was attractive and very flirty and made suggestions for me coming round to her house to sample her home cooking. We had high shelving in the store with ladders, and when she went up the ladder she would span the gap with one leg, and on more than one occasion she would tell you with a giggle to just pass under, enabling you to see her panties. On one occasion she squeezed past me and I placed my hands on her hips, she snarled at me to keep my hands to myself and later reported me to HR. when called in I explained what had happened. and was told she had made similar complaints before, and believed my account moving her to another department. I am not saying I was without blame: It was a large engineering company that had 5000 staff. that incident haunted me for a long time.

Damn. She didn't need to go to HR. She said no and if you continued then yeah go to HR. She was looking for attention or something.

[SteelRidge]

Thanks Farmgirl.

When I'm out and about I do try to make eye contact with the ladies, smile, etc.

It sounds like you initiate the talking/flirting? At least sometimes. That's a rare event for me even though I make eye contact with different women weekly.

[SteelRidge]

Thank you for the insight of your seemingly effortless way of making contact dear farmgirl, I am not instinctive enough to make the first move, fearing rejection or worse being accused of harassment. could men be easier to read than women? Has it ever gone embarrassingly wrong for you?
I once worked in a large company storeroom, I was quite young at the time, a woman possibly in her early forties joined our section, she was attractive and very flirty and made suggestions for me coming round to her house to sample her home cooking. We had high shelving in the store with ladders, and when she went up the ladder she would span the gap with one leg, and on more than one occasion she would tell you with a giggle to just pass under, enabling you to see her panties. On one occasion she squeezed past me and I placed my hands on her hips, she snarled at me to keep my hands to myself and later reported me to HR. when called in I explained what had happened. and was told she had made similar complaints before, and believed my account moving her to another department. I am not saying I was without blame: It was a large engineering company that had 5000 staff. that incident haunted me for a long time.

Damn. She didn't need to go to HR. She said no and if you continued then yeah go to HR. She was looking for attention or something.

A major reason why men are skittish.

[Farmgirl]

could men be easier to read than women? Has it ever gone embarrassingly wrong for you?

Don't know about men being easier to read, LOL. Almost to a man, men will flirt with a willing woman, especially a woman that initiates the flirting. But that is as far as most men will go, just flirting.
And no, I've never had a bad experience or embarrassment. Some men just like to play make believe and reality scares them. I never embarrass them about any of it and we go on and remain friends. A few remain 'flirting friends'.

[Farmgirl]

Thanks Farmgirl.

When I'm out and about I do try to make eye contact with the ladies, smile, etc.

It sounds like you initiate the talking/flirting? At least sometimes. That's a rare event for me even though I make eye contact with different women weekly.

Do the ladies hold eye contact and return your smile?

Yes, I'm normally the one to initiate the flirting and talking.

On the thing about touching a woman, even if she is sending 'signals'. I would be upset if a man touched me without my having touched him first or me having told him to do it. A man should wait on me and not assume, I will let him know, trust me.

[Farmgirl]

Thank you for the insight of your seemingly effortless way of making contact dear farmgirl, I am not instinctive enough to make the first move, fearing rejection or worse being accused of harassment.

Sorry I didn't see this earlier .

Not to worry, my randy Scot, I would take the opportunity of the first move. Your job would be to show proper interest and deference.

[afagehi7]

Thanks Farmgirl.

When I'm out and about I do try to make eye contact with the ladies, smile, etc.

It sounds like you initiate the talking/flirting? At least sometimes. That's a rare event for me even though I make eye contact with different women weekly.

Do the ladies hold eye contact and return your smile?

Yes, I'm normally the one to initiate the flirting and talking.

On the thing about touching a woman, even if she is sending 'signals'. I would be upset if a man touched me without my having touched him first or me having told him to do it. A man should wait on me and not assume, I will let him know, trust me.

So what signals did you drop for your current roster?

I think A would have been an easier pursuit because he's a bit older and more experienced with women. But young J, I can't imagine he'd easily pick up on the signals to make a move. I'd think there are 2 parts here: a. He's young and not as experienced at reading signals and b. The age difference would have him second guessing even if there were strong signals.

[SteelRidge]

Men now a days are skittish. Men in the business world can easily lose their livelihood with just a wrong comment. Guys in college get kicked out because the girl he fucked consensually decided after the fact she was raped. A lot of women, maybe most, become obsessive about the men who fuck them. There are big risks.

[Her number1]

Men now a days are skittish. Men in the business world can easily lose their livelihood with just a wrong comment. Guys in college get kicked out because the girl he fucked consensually decided after the fact she was raped. A lot of women, maybe most, become obsessive about the men who fuck them. There are big risks.

Each person should avoid the risks they can't handle. Risks are different for each of us. Maybe playing with other women isn't for you.

[wannabecUKold]

Men now a days are skittish. Men in the business world can easily lose their livelihood with just a wrong comment. Guys in college get kicked out because the girl he fucked consensually decided after the fact she was raped. A lot of women, maybe most, become obsessive about the men who fuck them. There are big risks.

Unfortunately all too true
Well said

[SteelRidge]

Men now a days are skittish. Men in the business world can easily lose their livelihood with just a wrong comment. Guys in college get kicked out because the girl he fucked consensually decided after the fact she was raped. A lot of women, maybe most, become obsessive about the men who fuck them. There are big risks.

Each person should avoid the risks they can't handle. Risks are different for each of us. Maybe playing with other women isn't for you.

Yes, it is a balance of risks and rewards.

In my case I've evaluated the risks with my wife and work. Told my wife of my desires to ameliorate that risk. I decided workplace dalliances aren't worth the risk.

[2inUPMichigan]

Men now a days are skittish. Men in the business world can easily lose their livelihood with just a wrong comment. Guys in college get kicked out because the girl he fucked consensually decided after the fact she was raped. A lot of women, maybe most, become obsessive about the men who fuck them. There are big risks.

Just a suggestion, but you might want to rethink making this kink a reality if you truly believe the statement in bold.

[SteelRidge]

Men now a days are skittish. Men in the business world can easily lose their livelihood with just a wrong comment. Guys in college get kicked out because the girl he fucked consensually decided after the fact she was raped. A lot of women, maybe most, become obsessive about the men who fuck them. There are big risks.

Just a suggestion, but you might want to rethink making this kink a reality if you truly believe the statement in bold.

I've thought about that to. I try to take everything into consideration. And I could be wrong about that.

[solstice]

Nice to see you making an appearance, Her number1, is the the daily grind getting in the way of your clear-sighted comments?
Although for sexy fun, Farmgirl is my sort of lady. I was going to say you are the Burn's and Allen of HWing, but then there is nothing ditsy about Farmgirl.

[solstice]

SteelRidge wrote: girl he fucked consensually decided after the fact she was raped.

Is this from personal experience? Could it be that men need to start reading women's minds?

[Her number1]

Nice to see you making an appearance, Her number1, is the the daily grind getting in the way of your clear-sighted comments?
Although for sexy fun, Farmgirl is my sort of lady. I was going to say you are the Burn's and Allen of HWing, but then there is nothing ditsy about Farmgirl.

She has had me hooked up short lately, she's a tough taskmaster.

[Her number1]

Men now a days are skittish. Men in the business world can easily lose their livelihood with just a wrong comment. Guys in college get kicked out because the girl he fucked consensually decided after the fact she was raped. A lot of women, maybe most, become obsessive about the men who fuck them. There are big risks.

Just a suggestion, but you might want to rethink making this kink a reality if you truly believe the statement in bold.

2inUP makes a very good point here!

[solstice]

Her Number one writes: She has had me hooked up short lately, she's a tough taskmaster.

It depends where she places the hook, I can think of a place that would curtail your activity

[SteelRidge]

SteelRidge wrote: girl he fucked consensually decided after the fact she was raped.

Is this from personal experience? Could it be that men need to start reading women's minds?

Unfortunately not an uncommon occurrence in American universities.

[SteelRidge]

Men now a days are skittish. Men in the business world can easily lose their livelihood with just a wrong comment. Guys in college get kicked out because the girl he fucked consensually decided after the fact she was raped. A lot of women, maybe most, become obsessive about the men who fuck them. There are big risks.

Just a suggestion, but you might want to rethink making this kink a reality if you truly believe the statement in bold.

2inUP makes a very good point here!

Obviously I'm generalizing. I think more mature women aren't as much like that. I'm sure it's one of the reasons guys like Farmgirl. She knows what she wants but isn't obsessed over anyone.

[Her number1]

At 5:05 I got one of those good texts! Farmgirl sent, " I just fucked A in the water room. And as we were going inside, J texted and wanted to meet this evening!"

[solstice]

As a water room is a mystery to me, I reached to the fount of all wisdom and googled it, is your water room to do with vertical farming?

[Her number1]

In some areas of the ranch we have water rooms. They are usually a building about 10'x10' or 12'x12' and house the plumbing for the wells and rural water connections. Along with the plumbing, they are also used as parts and tool storage and being air conditioned and heated, they are a place to get in out of the weather for a break.
Farmgirl likes to use them for a break, of course!