Has a lover ever tried to literally steal your wife from you?

[annsman]

Ann is very clear with her boyfriends that I know and approve of their relationship, but that they are additional to our marriage, not a replacement. She needs emotional involvement, but the few who have wanted more have been dropped if they didn’t get the message.

I fell in love with a married woman and she said she loved me, but I made the mistake of trying to persuade her to leave her husband. She ended our relationship so I lost out. They had two kids so I really should have asked what the whole situation was. I didn’t know about the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle at the time so assumed she was cheating and didn’t realise they were probably turned on by it. Given the opportunity again I logically would have asked about her husband and just enjoyed the experience.

However, my feelings for her were so intense that I’m sure I would still have cocked up by asking her to leave him. Despite being in a long loving marriage I still think about her.

[Jezza2543]

Not yet but they are getting more intensively involved so You never know. I really want their relationship to develop, so if did happen It would be scary and exciting at the same time - the sane me doesn’t want this but the dirty cuck in me craves to be replaced sexually and emotionally by a superior man. I don’t think it will go this far but I am turned on by the thought of the competition!

[zerodegree]

Yes.. Wife had one BF about 4 years ago. He didnt have a GF at the time and my wife and he started playing around. She really seemed to like him and we all got kind of carried away.. Long story short he started trying to pull her away, years after I eneded it wife confessed that he told her she had to choose; me or him. Like we have a family and a house and kids together dick! Wife hated me for a long time for ending it but whatever..

Ill try to find my original thread on it if youre interested

[FNQLivin]

Yes.. Wife had one BF about 4 years ago. He didnt have a GF at the time and my wife and he started playing around. She really seemed to like him and we all got kind of carried away.. Long story short he started trying to pull her away, years after I eneded it wife confessed that he told her she had to choose; me or him. Like we have a family and a house and kids together dick! Wife hated me for a long time for ending it but whatever..

Ill try to find my original thread on it if youre interested

Definitely interested.

[zerodegree]

I cant find it.. maybe OHW deletes old threads? It was from a few years ago.

Basically.. this guy was a barfly loser nut smooth talker.. one of those charismatic guys that know how to talk. Wife really liked it and i did too.. at first. He kept taking wife out more and more... Like 4 days a week sometimes. We had really small kids at that time; 3 and 4? We had him over a few times.. one time wife was wearing really tight shorts and I slapped her ass and he told her he got "really jealous" when I did that. He would constantly tell her he was "one call away"..

Finally one day we were at our hose drinking and smoking up.. having a good time and they go upstairs to fuck and I walked int to the bedroom and he got pissed, told her to get dresed and they were going to his place. Wife got half dressed and he drove to his place to fuck her completely, smashed and drunk. I called it and said I want you never to see him again, and she did any way which drove me crazy. I threatened to go to his place to see him personally.. Anyway, many years later.. after I kept telling my wife "hes trying to pull you away" She admitted he gave her that ultimatum.

Ended up having 2 years or so worth of marital problems between us.. we went to therapy, there were huge arguments. To be honest the relationship we have now is because if him

[XYAlpha]

I cant find it.. maybe OHW deletes old threads? It was from a few years ago.

Basically.. this guy was a barfly loser nut smooth talker.. one of those charismatic guys that know how to talk. Wife really liked it and i did too.. at first. He kept taking wife out more and more... Like 4 days a week sometimes. We had really small kids at that time; 3 and 4? We had him over a few times.. one time wife was wearing really tight shorts and I slapped her ass and he told her he got "really jealous" when I did that. He would constantly tell her he was "one call away"..

Finally one day we were at our hose drinking and smoking up.. having a good time and they go upstairs to fuck and I walked int to the bedroom and he got pissed, told her to get dresed and they were going to his place. Wife got half dressed and he drove to his place to fuck her completely, smashed and drunk. I called it and said I want you never to see him again, and she did any way which drove me crazy. I threatened to go to his place to see him personally.. Anyway, many years later.. after I kept telling my wife "hes trying to pull you away" She admitted he gave her that ultimatum.

Ended up having 2 years or so worth of marital problems between us.. we went to therapy, there were huge arguments. To be honest the relationship we have now is because if him

I'm sorry to hear your history. Mine is similar but ended in divorce. There are some bad choices out there that will try to take your wife.
I am surprised at the number of responses that affirm this!

XY

[Hike247]

I cant find it.. maybe OHW deletes old threads? It was from a few years ago.

Basically.. this guy was a barfly loser nut smooth talker.. one of those charismatic guys that know how to talk. Wife really liked it and i did too.. at first. He kept taking wife out more and more... Like 4 days a week sometimes. We had really small kids at that time; 3 and 4? We had him over a few times.. one time wife was wearing really tight shorts and I slapped her ass and he told her he got "really jealous" when I did that. He would constantly tell her he was "one call away"..

Finally one day we were at our hose drinking and smoking up.. having a good time and they go upstairs to fuck and I walked int to the bedroom and he got pissed, told her to get dresed and they were going to his place. Wife got half dressed and he drove to his place to fuck her completely, smashed and drunk. I called it and said I want you never to see him again, and she did any way which drove me crazy. I threatened to go to his place to see him personally.. Anyway, many years later.. after I kept telling my wife "hes trying to pull you away" She admitted he gave her that ultimatum.

Ended up having 2 years or so worth of marital problems between us.. we went to therapy, there were huge arguments. To be honest the relationship we have now is because if him

Have things gotten better?

[jw_kk]

Early in our experience, we had issues with a few clingy, needy guys.

We learned within about the first year that avoiding ‘steady’ or repeat encounter partners was key to avoiding emotional involvement from anyone involved, including KK and sex partners.

This works for KK anyway, given her need for variety and novelty.

Before hot wifing, KK would tend to get emotionally involved with an affair partner, which led to problems. One of those affair partners tried convincing KK to divorce me, but it was a lost cause.

Now, KK’s mostly ‘fuck ‘em and forget ‘em’ for the most part. Aside from me, her only regular, repeat sex partners include her high-school ex, and her youngest brother. The remainder are mostly carefully planned, vetted ‘single use’ men, with a few random hookups thrown in when desire ranges high.

[Hike247]

Early in our experience, we had issues with a few clingy, needy guys.

We learned within about the first year that avoiding ‘steady’ or repeat encounter partners was key to avoiding emotional involvement from anyone involved, including KK and sex partners.

This works for KK anyway, given her need for variety and novelty.

Before hot wifing, KK would tend to get emotionally involved with an affair partner, which led to problems. One of those affair partners tried convincing KK to divorce me, but it was a lost cause.

Now, KK’s mostly ‘fuck ‘em and forget ‘em’ for the most part. Aside from me, her only regular, repeat sex partners include her high-school ex, and her youngest brother. The remainder are mostly carefully planned, vetted ‘single use’ men, with a few random hookups thrown in when desire ranges high.

She fucks her younger brother?

[Luckyguy2019]

My wife started with her bull then went to as they called it co marriage. She pierced her clit for him and he gave her a diamond it ring/stud. She moved out and visited me on weekends etc. If he didnt throw her out after her abortion I think it would be over. They are now sexting via zoom.

[jw_kk]

Early in our experience, we had issues with a few clingy, needy guys.

We learned within about the first year that avoiding ‘steady’ or repeat encounter partners was key to avoiding emotional involvement from anyone involved, including KK and sex partners.

This works for KK anyway, given her need for variety and novelty.

Before hot wifing, KK would tend to get emotionally involved with an affair partner, which led to problems. One of those affair partners tried convincing KK to divorce me, but it was a lost cause.

Now, KK’s mostly ‘fuck ‘em and forget ‘em’ for the most part. Aside from me, her only regular, repeat sex partners include her high-school ex, and her youngest brother. The remainder are mostly carefully planned, vetted ‘single use’ men, with a few random hookups thrown in when desire ranges high.

She fucks her younger brother?

Yes - she's been fucking him for decades. It is something i relatively recently found out about.

[Hike247]

Early in our experience, we had issues with a few clingy, needy guys.

We learned within about the first year that avoiding ‘steady’ or repeat encounter partners was key to avoiding emotional involvement from anyone involved, including KK and sex partners.

This works for KK anyway, given her need for variety and novelty.

Before hot wifing, KK would tend to get emotionally involved with an affair partner, which led to problems. One of those affair partners tried convincing KK to divorce me, but it was a lost cause.

Now, KK’s mostly ‘fuck ‘em and forget ‘em’ for the most part. Aside from me, her only regular, repeat sex partners include her high-school ex, and her youngest brother. The remainder are mostly carefully planned, vetted ‘single use’ men, with a few random hookups thrown in when desire ranges high.

She fucks her younger brother?

Yes - she's been fucking him for decades. It is something i relatively recently found out about.

How do you feel about it?

[jw_kk]

Early in our experience, we had issues with a few clingy, needy guys.

We learned within about the first year that avoiding ‘steady’ or repeat encounter partners was key to avoiding emotional involvement from anyone involved, including KK and sex partners.

This works for KK anyway, given her need for variety and novelty.

Before hot wifing, KK would tend to get emotionally involved with an affair partner, which led to problems. One of those affair partners tried convincing KK to divorce me, but it was a lost cause.

Now, KK’s mostly ‘fuck ‘em and forget ‘em’ for the most part. Aside from me, her only regular, repeat sex partners include her high-school ex, and her youngest brother. The remainder are mostly carefully planned, vetted ‘single use’ men, with a few random hookups thrown in when desire ranges high.

She fucks her younger brother?

Yes - she's been fucking him for decades. It is something i relatively recently found out about.

How do you feel about it?

At first, I found it very disturbing. Since I first made the discovery, I'm OK with it, and understand their relationship. Watching them having sex is absolutely amazing, intensely erotic.

[zerodegree]

I cant find it.. maybe OHW deletes old threads? It was from a few years ago.

Basically.. this guy was a barfly loser nut smooth talker.. one of those charismatic guys that know how to talk. Wife really liked it and i did too.. at first. He kept taking wife out more and more... Like 4 days a week sometimes. We had really small kids at that time; 3 and 4? We had him over a few times.. one time wife was wearing really tight shorts and I slapped her ass and he told her he got "really jealous" when I did that. He would constantly tell her he was "one call away"..

Finally one day we were at our hose drinking and smoking up.. having a good time and they go upstairs to fuck and I walked int to the bedroom and he got pissed, told her to get dresed and they were going to his place. Wife got half dressed and he drove to his place to fuck her completely, smashed and drunk. I called it and said I want you never to see him again, and she did any way which drove me crazy. I threatened to go to his place to see him personally.. Anyway, many years later.. after I kept telling my wife "hes trying to pull you away" She admitted he gave her that ultimatum.

Ended up having 2 years or so worth of marital problems between us.. we went to therapy, there were huge arguments. To be honest the relationship we have now is because if him

Have things gotten better?

They have but it was a long difficult road. The guy she's playing now is 17 years younger and no interest in whisking her away. They both understand it for what it is.

[Hike247]

I cant find it.. maybe OHW deletes old threads? It was from a few years ago.

Basically.. this guy was a barfly loser nut smooth talker.. one of those charismatic guys that know how to talk. Wife really liked it and i did too.. at first. He kept taking wife out more and more... Like 4 days a week sometimes. We had really small kids at that time; 3 and 4? We had him over a few times.. one time wife was wearing really tight shorts and I slapped her ass and he told her he got "really jealous" when I did that. He would constantly tell her he was "one call away"..

Finally one day we were at our hose drinking and smoking up.. having a good time and they go upstairs to fuck and I walked int to the bedroom and he got pissed, told her to get dresed and they were going to his place. Wife got half dressed and he drove to his place to fuck her completely, smashed and drunk. I called it and said I want you never to see him again, and she did any way which drove me crazy. I threatened to go to his place to see him personally.. Anyway, many years later.. after I kept telling my wife "hes trying to pull you away" She admitted he gave her that ultimatum.

Ended up having 2 years or so worth of marital problems between us.. we went to therapy, there were huge arguments. To be honest the relationship we have now is because if him

Have things gotten better?

They have but it was a long difficult road. The guy she's playing now is 17 years younger and no interest in whisking her away. They both understand it for what it is.

Glad to hear that because that’s all it should be. Stay safe!

[ucaneffher]

In my case I wouldn’t say steal because the ex and I played the “I’m single but live with my ex because I have nowhere to go” card. My girl carried herself as single and it was all fair game. If a man just wanted a one night stand with her or a deep connection, my girl was available. 2 years into our relationship, another man took her for himself. He would fucked my woman silly anywhere and everywhere and would drop her off literally full of and dripping cum and eventually after 4 months of this almost every day, she told me they became official and she was going to live with him as she couldn’t get enough. It was the most intense moment of the relationship.

The second time a man took her away, it was longer and more intense, but not as enjoyable because I didn’t like him.

[goodjob]

In my case I wouldn’t say steal because the ex and I played the “I’m single but live with my ex because I have nowhere to go” card. My girl carried herself as single and it was all fair game. If a man just wanted a one night stand with her or a deep connection, my girl was available. 2 years into our relationship, another man took her for himself. He would fucked my woman silly anywhere and everywhere and would drop her off literally full of and dripping cum and eventually after 4 months of this almost every day, she told me they became official and she was going to live with him as she couldn’t get enough. It was the most intense moment of the relationship.

The second time a man took her away, it was longer and more intense, but not as enjoyable because I didn’t like him.

Please explain. This sounds fascinating. How many times did this happen? How long did she live with the guy in the above story?

[ucaneffher]

In my case I wouldn’t say steal because the ex and I played the “I’m single but live with my ex because I have nowhere to go” card. My girl carried herself as single and it was all fair game. If a man just wanted a one night stand with her or a deep connection, my girl was available. 2 years into our relationship, another man took her for himself. He would fucked my woman silly anywhere and everywhere and would drop her off literally full of and dripping cum and eventually after 4 months of this almost every day, she told me they became official and she was going to live with him as she couldn’t get enough. It was the most intense moment of the relationship.

The second time a man took her away, it was longer and more intense, but not as enjoyable because I didn’t like him.

Please explain. This sounds fascinating. How many times did this happen? How long did she live with the guy in the above story?

It was fascinating, I got addicted to being in a relationship where my girl belonged completely to another man. She was gone for 18 months and that’s not counting the 4 months prior to her moving out where he would come pick up my girl and take her for himself most of the night 3-4 times a week.

They broke up she moved back and we both missed it and decided we both wanted to try that lifestyle again as we both enjoyed her being away.

[bltn1966]

Marie spent some time with a young guy that was a super confident ladies man. She was sure he was the type that wouldn’t get his feelings involved. For a few weeks Marie saw him on a semi-regular basis. He was her first and only designated boytoy. One night, after having sex, he begged Marie to leave me. He told her she deserve better and he had fallen for her. He scared her by briefly keeping her from leaving the hotel room. When he wouldn’t move from in front of the door Marie reminded him that she was ex-military and she had her gun in her. After that night Marie became a one and done type of HW. She rarely have a second night with a guy even if the guy is fucking great in bed.

[hwc]

Lucky Guy 2019, you wrote:
"

My wife started with her bull then went to as they called it co marriage. She pierced her clit for him and he gave her a diamond it ring/stud. She moved out and visited me on weekends etc. If he didnt throw her out after her abortion I think it would be over. They are now sexting via zoom"

Would you be interested in writing a longer account of their relationship, how it started and progressed along with memorable moments along the way? it sounds fascinating!

[hwc]

Jezza wrote:

"Not yet but they are getting more intensively involved so You never know. I really want their relationship to develop, so if did happen It would be scary and exciting at the same time - the sane me doesn’t want this but the dirty cuck in me craves to be replaced sexually and emotionally by a superior man. I don’t think it will go this far but I am turned on by the thought of the competition!"

Have you and your wife fantasized/had discussions about this? It would be great to hear a longer telling with details! Also, has it caused you to feel jealous and would you or/and your wife really consider him becoming her main man?

[lusting2bcucked]

Unfortunately yes the first guy that was supposed to be her friend. He tried playing the part just to have sex with her and then try to feed her some bs about how he wouldn’t share her and to leave me. She kicked him to the curb and he came back around saying he was sorry but he was having feelings that got in the way.
She hasn’t hung out with him since then and he’s pretty much given up. He does txt her once in awhile, baiting for sex. His loss

[Leevale01]

I can't imagine trying to steal a woman from her husband or why anyone would. The women I've been with, for the most part, make time for me, spend a night here and there, go on some weekend trips but once we're done, she goes back to her husband. I get what I want out of it and so do they. It works out well. Every married woman I see or have seen, tell me they get to relax with me, de-stress and not worry about other problems. When they go home, they worry about money, kids, parents, jobs, etc. and they work on those issues with their husbands. Sharing works well for me.

[Jezza2543]

Jezza wrote:

"Not yet but they are getting more intensively involved so You never know. I really want their relationship to develop, so if did happen It would be scary and exciting at the same time - the sane me doesn’t want this but the dirty cuck in me craves to be replaced sexually and emotionally by a superior man. I don’t think it will go this far but I am turned on by the thought of the competition!"

Have you and your wife fantasized/had discussions about this? It would be great to hear a longer telling with details! Also, has it caused you to feel jealous and would you or/and your wife really consider him becoming her main man?

We have had conversations about where this will all end up - she said she doesn’t know where this will all end up but it was my idea and I should accept the consequences whatever they might be. I asked her if she might leave me for him and she said “at the moment no, but I can’t say in the future”. She told me last week that her feelings for him are getting stronger, I asked her if her feelings for me were changing too and she said not yet. I asked her if this would develop further and she said she thinks it will “let’s see if he continues to keep he happy in bed”. Her philosophy is that we should live for the moment and enjoy what we have now. She has been with him 18 months now and I know there is no way I could stop this now. Sometimes I want it to stop and sometimes I want it to go further it is a rollercoaster for me but there is no magic stop button. I have tried to put the brakes on before and let’s just say she didn’t slow down at all. She is getting a lot from it, so is he and I am enjoying the thrill of the ride!

[FNQLivin]

Does he know that you know?