Steel/Daphne Sex Journal

[afagehi7]

I finally got to do the Tantric yoni (pussy) massage on Daphne. She enjoyed it very, very much. I started with her laying on the bed face up and me gently massaging her whole body. After about 15 minutes I moved on to the pussy massage. It goes something like this:

1) pour massage oil over the pussy, rub in and place your right hand over her whole pussy for a few minutes

2) take your thumb and index finger and massage the left and right outer pussy lips, taking your time and going up and down

3) do the same for the inner pussy lips

4) take your thumb and massage the clit gently, primarily going in clockwise and counterclockwise motions

5) massage the clit between the thumb and index finger, palm facing up

6) while still doing the above insert your middle finger into her pussy, massage around and eventually make the "come her" motion to rub her G-stop

7) insert the ring finger in addition to middle finger and continue massaging the clit. All told you should speed up and slow down to control the edging (though in Daphne's case she was orgasming every minute)

8) there is another step that I didn't do. Rotate your palm vertically then start massaging the anus with the pinky finger, eventually working the finger into the anus without stopping the other massage activities.

All I can say is that Daphne was cumming every minute uncontrollably. We went on for about 15 to 20 minutes but I could have easily done it for an hour. I stopped after a massive minute long orgasm (her pussy clamped onto my fingers!) that had her whole body shaking. Afterwards Daphne said there wasn't a part of her body that was left out of that orgasm.

I really, really want to do this to another woman.

What man doesn't want to give a strange pussy a massage? We have two issues, permission from the wife and a willing participant

[SteelRidge]

I finally got to do the Tantric yoni (pussy) massage on Daphne. She enjoyed it very, very much. I started with her laying on the bed face up and me gently massaging her whole body. After about 15 minutes I moved on to the pussy massage. It goes something like this:

1) pour massage oil over the pussy, rub in and place your right hand over her whole pussy for a few minutes

2) take your thumb and index finger and massage the left and right outer pussy lips, taking your time and going up and down

3) do the same for the inner pussy lips

4) take your thumb and massage the clit gently, primarily going in clockwise and counterclockwise motions

5) massage the clit between the thumb and index finger, palm facing up

6) while still doing the above insert your middle finger into her pussy, massage around and eventually make the "come her" motion to rub her G-stop

7) insert the ring finger in addition to middle finger and continue massaging the clit. All told you should speed up and slow down to control the edging (though in Daphne's case she was orgasming every minute)

8) there is another step that I didn't do. Rotate your palm vertically then start massaging the anus with the pinky finger, eventually working the finger into the anus without stopping the other massage activities.

All I can say is that Daphne was cumming every minute uncontrollably. We went on for about 15 to 20 minutes but I could have easily done it for an hour. I stopped after a massive minute long orgasm (her pussy clamped onto my fingers!) that had her whole body shaking. Afterwards Daphne said there wasn't a part of her body that was left out of that orgasm.

I really, really want to do this to another woman.

What man doesn't want to give a strange pussy a massage? We have two issues, permission from the wife and a willing participant

I got the same problem

[SteelRidge]

The forgot to add that afterwards we cuddled some then watched a couple of Tom and Bunny videos on YouTube about swinging.

[36DDwife]

Wow. Might need to try this as well.

[SteelRidge]

Wow. Might need to try this as well.

Spend a few minutes between each step and be gentle on the clit. I was watching Daphne the whole time to make sure she didn't have any discomfort.

[afagehi7]

I got to give you credit for the amount of work you put in. I mean, we'll all put that kind of work into a new pussy but few will put the effort into the same pussy we've been tapping for 20 years

[36DDwife]

I got to give you credit for the amount of work you put in. I mean, we'll all put that kind of work into a new pussy but few will put the effort into the same pussy we've been tapping for 20 years

He’s dedicated ain’t he

[SteelRidge]

I got to give you credit for the amount of work you put in. I mean, we'll all put that kind of work into a new pussy but few will put the effort into the same pussy we've been tapping for 20 years

Thanks, it's just fun. It helps she's blasting out orgasms every few minutes.

[SteelRidge]

I'd like to say not much has happened since the last update, ha ha, but I know better.

The past two weekends we have done some live online chat fucking. The weekend before last it was just us and an older couple. The older couple just watched us. It was a little awkward getting started, I knew Daphne was ready but she was hesitant even with me kissing her on the cheek and massaging her thigh. So I told the older couple we need a little push because of nerves. So the guy said "I'll direct for a few minutes, start with some light kissing and suck on those luscious nipples". Ha, that was all that was needed. Kissing led to nipple sucking, which led to pussy eating. I was really having a problem with the ED. So we rolled over in such a way that Daphne was on top and humping me but it looked like we were actually fucking. After about 20 minutes of that the older couple said, "we have to go to our bedroom now". It was quite fun and enjoyable, though Daphne didn't like the man's offer to direct at the beginning. To be fair, he was just starting it off, didn't say much and stopped talking after a couple of minutes.

This past Saturday there were a few more couples. The previous older couple, a brand new to the swinger scene couple, another couple that didn't interact much and the owner of the swinger website (he's married but his wife wasn't on). The chat section is only available to paying members and there is a couples only section. We talked for about 30 minutes or so.

Daphne and I were getting anxious to fuck and the conversation wasn't that great. Daphne was in a bra and thong with a sheer robe on, I was in my robe and silk underwear. I told her to lay face down on the bed and began massaging her. It really wasn't a great massage, more of an excuse to stop talking and take it to the next step.

Eventually the rubbing led to kissing and then sucking Daphne's nipples. I had prepped a little better by taking Viagra and was getting hard. So I rolled Daphne fully over, stripped her naked, declothed myself (hopefully giving the ladies a full view of the SteelRidge hot bod ). Then I started fucking Daphne, really pounding into her hard and not letting up. We started off missionary position them moved to doggy style. Then we moved to Daphne laying on her side and me coming in from the back. Unfortunately the ED kicked in and I was too soft for that position but Daphne whispered "just keep going at it, they don't know". She's so sweet that way, but I started laughing and she did too, so we stopped.

We weren't at it long, maybe thirty minutes from start of massaging. We got back up and started talking again. About halfway through our fuck session we heard the older couple say, "see you guys later, we're heading to bed". The website owner was talking to other people the entire time, I should have muted him. The new couple was talking some too, but they did indicate they watched the whole thing.

Honestly the chat wasn't that great. Nobody else was doing sex, and even if they were, I'm not sure if I'd be into watching some people not in the best of shape. But maybe that is an indication of what club sex is like, a bunch of flabby older people fucking (not that we are the prime of youth or ripped or anything). Daphne said if we ever go to a club and ever did a swap that she doesn't want me to fuck a fatty (her words). The reason being she was obese herself in the past and I was disgusted with her look and our sex life suffered. She says she'd be pissed if I fucked another woman, but really pissed if it was someone who was significantly overweight because I didn't like her when she was fat.

[SteelRidge]

You know your relationship has changed when your laying in bed with the wife watching two other couples fuck on live chat and you'd be fucking too but for the fact the wife is tired from a long day of traveling and is also pissed we were fucking the past three weeks on chat with no one joining in. Then the wife rolls over to sleep because it's late and her biggest complaint is not that your watching two couples fucking but that the TV is too bright and it's hard to sleep.

Then your fucking your wife the next day and after 20 minutes the ED kicks in so you think of fucking those two black women you saw last night on chat to get hard again (just for a few minutes to get the mojo) and you go at it for another 40 minutes. Afterwards you confess to your wife what you did and she's OK with it. A literal shrug of the shoulders.

[36DDwife]

You know your relationship has changed when your laying in bed with the wife watching two other couples fuck on live chat and you'd be fucking too but for the fact the wife is tired from a long day of traveling and is also pissed we were fucking the past three weeks on chat with no one joining in. Then the wife rolls over to sleep because it's late and her biggest complaint is not that your watching two couples fucking but that the TV is too bright and it's hard to sleep.

Then your fucking your wife the next day and after 20 minutes the ED kicks in so you think of fucking those two black women you saw last night on chat to get hard again (just for a few minutes to get the mojo) and you go at it for another 40 minutes. Afterwards you confess to your wife what you did and she's OK with it. A literal shrug of the shoulders.

Sounds like y’all have really turned a corner!

[SteelRidge]

We seem to have hit a nice groove when just before sleep time during the weekday Daphne gets her sex addiction out by humping me silly. That motion gets me hard enough she stuffs my dick in her pussy and she goes at it. Mostly I'm just along for the ride, but I do suck her tits. She keeps going at it until she has a massive long orgasm that expends her. That's almost a daily occurrence.

Then on the weekends I'm more active with as much pussy pounding sex in varying positions I can muster. Sometimes I need pharmaceutical assistance, sometimes not. I feel like it's my duty for her to have ten or so orgasms on those nights. I love looking at her while she cracks with electrical energy then sorta glides into this Zen like peace on her face when it's over.

She really is more than one man can reasonably handle, so we have hit a good spot that balances her needs and my abilities. I've basically given up ejactulatory orgasms. Maybe once a week now. That seems to increase my stamina and reduces the ED.

[afagehi7]

We seem to have hit a nice groove when just before sleep time during the weekday Daphne gets her sex addiction out by humping me silly. That motion gets me hard enough she stuffs my dick in her pussy and she goes at it. Mostly I'm just along for the ride, but I do suck her tits. She keeps going at it until she has a massive long orgasm that expends her. That's almost a daily occurrence.

Then on the weekends I'm more active with as much pussy pounding sex in varying positions I can muster. Sometimes I need pharmaceutical assistance, sometimes not. I feel like it's my duty for her to have ten or so orgasms on those nights. I love looking at her while she cracks with electrical energy then sorta glides into this Zen like peace on her face when it's over.

She really is more than one man can reasonably handle, so we have hit a good spot that balances her needs and my abilities. I've basically given up ejactulatory orgasms. Maybe once a week now. That seems to increase my stamina and reduces the ED.

How does one give up ejaculatory orgasms?

[SteelRidge]

We seem to have hit a nice groove when just before sleep time during the weekday Daphne gets her sex addiction out by humping me silly. That motion gets me hard enough she stuffs my dick in her pussy and she goes at it. Mostly I'm just along for the ride, but I do suck her tits. She keeps going at it until she has a massive long orgasm that expends her. That's almost a daily occurrence.

Then on the weekends I'm more active with as much pussy pounding sex in varying positions I can muster. Sometimes I need pharmaceutical assistance, sometimes not. I feel like it's my duty for her to have ten or so orgasms on those nights. I love looking at her while she cracks with electrical energy then sorta glides into this Zen like peace on her face when it's over.

She really is more than one man can reasonably handle, so we have hit a good spot that balances her needs and my abilities. I've basically given up ejactulatory orgasms. Maybe once a week now. That seems to increase my stamina and reduces the ED.

How does one give up ejaculatory orgasms?

I still do them, just not as frequently. Basically we fuck and I modulate the pumping to keep the sexual pleasure build up below the point of orgasm. We stop fucking when Daphne either is fully satisfied (usually from a massive orgasm) or she's just plain wore out.

I still have a different style orgasm which is something that starts in the groin and causes my body to convulse. That doesn't happen every time, but it probably could if I practice the right Tantra techniques regularly.

[SteelRidge]

I don't post as much simply because I don't want to be repetitive. My ED problem seems to be lessening though my dick still goes soft without much warning. It's like a very fine line between being too excited and cumming early and not excited enough and going soft. When I'm in the grove it is great. I mean actual intercourse for and hour or more. Continuous pumping, fast, slow, pull it out get my dick sucked, put it back in fuck some more, roll over and let Daphne hump me silly.

I've been reading a book called The Enlightened Sex Manual. Other than the breathing techniques, I'm about 90% there in the "sexual skills" department. It mentioned massaging the cervix so I did that last night.

Will be meeting an older couple for drinks tomorrow. We're both interested in same room sex with no swapping. Doubt it will lead to anything tomorrow night, just a meet and greet. Both of us couples are newbies to the swinging scene though Daphne and I have done video chat sex. If everything goes well I suspect we could get together next weekend.

[36DDwife]

Will be meeting an older couple for drinks tomorrow. We're both interested in same room sex with no swapping. Doubt it will lead to anything tomorrow night, just a meet and greet. Both of us couples are newbies to the swinging scene though Daphne and I have done video chat sex. If everything goes well I suspect we could get together next weekend.

Awesome. Good luck!

[afagehi7]

I don't post as much simply because I don't want to be repetitive. My ED problem seems to be lessening though my dick still goes soft without much warning. It's like a very fine line between being too excited and cumming early and not excited enough and going soft. When I'm in the grove it is great. I mean actual intercourse for and hour or more. Continuous pumping, fast, slow, pull it out get my dick sucked, put it back in fuck some more, roll over and let Daphne hump me silly.

I've been reading a book called The Enlightened Sex Manual. Other than the breathing techniques, I'm about 90% there in the "sexual skills" department. It mentioned massaging the cervix so I did that last night.

Will be meeting an older couple for drinks tomorrow. We're both interested in same room sex with no swapping. Doubt it will lead to anything tomorrow night, just a meet and greet. Both of us couples are newbies to the swinging scene though Daphne and I have done video chat sex. If everything goes well I suspect we could get together next weekend.

How much older? Any chance of a future swap?

[SteelRidge]

I don't post as much simply because I don't want to be repetitive. My ED problem seems to be lessening though my dick still goes soft without much warning. It's like a very fine line between being too excited and cumming early and not excited enough and going soft. When I'm in the grove it is great. I mean actual intercourse for and hour or more. Continuous pumping, fast, slow, pull it out get my dick sucked, put it back in fuck some more, roll over and let Daphne hump me silly.

I've been reading a book called The Enlightened Sex Manual. Other than the breathing techniques, I'm about 90% there in the "sexual skills" department. It mentioned massaging the cervix so I did that last night.

Will be meeting an older couple for drinks tomorrow. We're both interested in same room sex with no swapping. Doubt it will lead to anything tomorrow night, just a meet and greet. Both of us couples are newbies to the swinging scene though Daphne and I have done video chat sex. If everything goes well I suspect we could get together next weekend.

How much older? Any chance of a future swap?

Him 65, her 62. So about a 15 year age difference.

Daphne doesn't want to swap, so probably not, but who knows how she will feel after a couple of fuck sessions in the same room.

Also the older gentleman, if he is a businessman it will fit right in with her call girl fantasy.

[SteelRidge]

I don't post as much simply because I don't want to be repetitive. My ED problem seems to be lessening though my dick still goes soft without much warning. It's like a very fine line between being too excited and cumming early and not excited enough and going soft. When I'm in the grove it is great. I mean actual intercourse for and hour or more. Continuous pumping, fast, slow, pull it out get my dick sucked, put it back in fuck some more, roll over and let Daphne hump me silly.

I've been reading a book called The Enlightened Sex Manual. Other than the breathing techniques, I'm about 90% there in the "sexual skills" department. It mentioned massaging the cervix so I did that last night.

Will be meeting an older couple for drinks tomorrow. We're both interested in same room sex with no swapping. Doubt it will lead to anything tomorrow night, just a meet and greet. Both of us couples are newbies to the swinging scene though Daphne and I have done video chat sex. If everything goes well I suspect we could get together next weekend.

How much older? Any chance of a future swap?

Him 65, her 62. So about a 15 year age difference.

Daphne doesn't want to swap, so probably not, but who knows how she will feel after a couple of fuck sessions in the same room.

Also the older gentleman, if he is a businessman it will fit right in with her call girl fantasy.

[SteelRidge]

We hit it off with the couple we met tonight and have planned on getting a hotel next Friday. We talked for a good long time and it was nice to discuss sex stuff with another couple. We couldn't be too graphic but I think the waitress got an earful when getting us drinks a couple times. The wives were talking about various stuff (including sucking dicks) meanwhile the husband and I were talking about AFF, SLS and Carolina Friends swinger sites.

[SteelRidge]

Went to the beach last weekend and Daphne got a little free with exposing herself.

On the first night we were on the twelfth story balcony of our room and she's hinting she's uncomfortable wearing her bikini top. I tell her to take it of and she does. So there she was sitting topless and a few minutes later she takes off her shorts and she sitting there buck naked.

Then the next day I'm at the pool below and she's on the balcony slipping her bikini straps on and off, like she's ready to take her top off. I didn't see her doing it but she told me she saw some guy watching her and then his wife knock in the arm to stop watching.

Then a few hours later I was again at the pool and she's at the room. I asked her to follow me from above to see if any women check me out (side note: apparently not). She gets the idea to take her top off and take a selfie on the balcony. She goes out on the balcony and a guy at another room says "oh my God", that freaks my wife out and she goes back to the room.

When she tells me I'm like "WTF? This isn't a clothing optional resort."

[afagehi7]

Went to the beach last weekend and Daphne got a little free with exposing herself.

On the first night we were on the twelfth story balcony of our room and she's hinting she's uncomfortable wearing her bikini top. I tell her to take it of and she does. So there she was sitting topless and a few minutes later she takes off her shorts and she sitting there buck naked.

Then the next day I'm at the pool below and she's on the balcony slipping her bikini straps on and off, like she's ready to take her top off. I didn't see her doing it but she told me she saw some guy watching her and then his wife knock in the arm to stop watching.

Then a few hours later I was again at the pool and she's at the room. I asked her to follow me from above to see if any women check me out (side note: apparently not). She gets the idea to take her top off and take a selfie on the balcony. She goes out on the balcony and a guy at another room says "oh my God", that freaks my wife out and she goes back to the room.

When she tells me I'm like "WTF? This isn't a clothing optional resort."

What resort is clothing optional? I didn't know of any in your state? Did y'all leave the country?

Women don't check men out like we do them the same way they don't look at porn and strippers like we do.

[SteelRidge]

Went to the beach last weekend and Daphne got a little free with exposing herself.

On the first night we were on the twelfth story balcony of our room and she's hinting she's uncomfortable wearing her bikini top. I tell her to take it of and she does. So there she was sitting topless and a few minutes later she takes off her shorts and she sitting there buck naked.

Then the next day I'm at the pool below and she's on the balcony slipping her bikini straps on and off, like she's ready to take her top off. I didn't see her doing it but she told me she saw some guy watching her and then his wife knock in the arm to stop watching.

Then a few hours later I was again at the pool and she's at the room. I asked her to follow me from above to see if any women check me out (side note: apparently not). She gets the idea to take her top off and take a selfie on the balcony. She goes out on the balcony and a guy at another room says "oh my God", that freaks my wife out and she goes back to the room.

When she tells me I'm like "WTF? This isn't a clothing optional resort."

What resort is clothing optional? I didn't know of any in your state? Did y'all leave the country?

Women don't check men out like we do them the same way they don't look at porn and strippers like we do.

This wasn't a clothing optional resort. That's my point, she was exposing bare chested on a twelve story balcony of a family resort! She was so turned on by being nude and trying to turn me on she didn't care.

There are clothing optional resorts in the USA.

And I figured women probably wouldn't check me out, it was kinda a joke.

[afagehi7]

Went to the beach last weekend and Daphne got a little free with exposing herself.

On the first night we were on the twelfth story balcony of our room and she's hinting she's uncomfortable wearing her bikini top. I tell her to take it of and she does. So there she was sitting topless and a few minutes later she takes off her shorts and she sitting there buck naked.

Then the next day I'm at the pool below and she's on the balcony slipping her bikini straps on and off, like she's ready to take her top off. I didn't see her doing it but she told me she saw some guy watching her and then his wife knock in the arm to stop watching.

Then a few hours later I was again at the pool and she's at the room. I asked her to follow me from above to see if any women check me out (side note: apparently not). She gets the idea to take her top off and take a selfie on the balcony. She goes out on the balcony and a guy at another room says "oh my God", that freaks my wife out and she goes back to the room.

When she tells me I'm like "WTF? This isn't a clothing optional resort."

What resort is clothing optional? I didn't know of any in your state? Did y'all leave the country?

Women don't check men out like we do them the same way they don't look at porn and strippers like we do.

This wasn't a clothing optional resort. That's my point, she was exposing bare chested on a twelve story balcony of a family resort! She was so turned on by being nude and trying to turn me on she didn't care.

There are clothing optional resorts in the USA.

And I figured women probably wouldn't check me out, it was kinda a joke.

You can assure her that the guy who spotted her didn't mind. I wonder how he said OMG...

[afagehi7]

Any more vacation adventures? Perhaps there is a strip club around that is open? She could dress super slutty to go to a strip club.

Maybe play some games such as skirt and no panties and go out a bit later after kid aged parents are locked in?

Any pics of her dressed slutty?

My wife has this short Jean skirt. I tried everything to get her to wear it without panties. Not to show anyone but as a step in that direction. She would get hot talking about showing her kitty off but wouldn't do it... Then menopause and that was the nail in the coffin. I don't even get to play with her anymore. It's fine because sex isn't everything.