My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

[afagehi7]

If she posts an ad, big cock should be a requirement.

[Des 31]

If she posts an ad, big cock should be a requirement.

Now that you brought that up, I don't know why she didn't mention that. I'll ask.

~ Des

[rascalnvixen]

I can't stand it any longer!! I wasn't going to say anything but the more I think about it, the more it irks me. So, I have to say this as forthrightly as I can, I swear I typed "masseur" when I wrote my comment to Des. I don't know how it got changed to "masseuse". I know full well the significant difference between the two!!! I act ignorant enough as it is but I don't like to look ignorant because of a damned spellchecker that is WRONG!!! lol Just had to set that wrong, right!!! Now back to your regularly scheduled kink!!!!

Rascal

[Des 31]

I can't stand it any longer!! I wasn't going to say anything but the more I think about it, the more it irks me. So, I have to say this as forthrightly as I can, I swear I typed "masseur" when I wrote my comment to Des. I don't know how it got changed to "masseuse". I know full well the significant difference between the two!!! I act ignorant enough as it is but I don't like to look ignorant because of a damned spellchecker that is WRONG!!! lol Just had to set that wrong, right!!! Now back to your regularly scheduled kink!!!!

Rascal

It's a common mistake even for those who know the difference. Masseuse specifically refers to female therapists and a masseur is a male massage therapist. "Massage therapist" can be used to describe both male and female massage therapists, but for my purposes here that wouldn't have worked.

I know you know the difference, and auto-spell-checkers get a lot wrong. I frequently need to correct terms that word-document-programs attempt to change. Either way, I knew what you meant and most don't care about those oversights. I later found a couple of typos in that posting to which you referred (e.g., I had typed "car" in the original posting instead of "card") and had to go back and edit it a day later. When you notice at the bottom of my posts the number of times it's been edited, that's the most common reason. Workplace partners and my secretary tell me I "type too fast" for my brain.

(And I've been told by some here that I go on too long with my descriptive posts anyway in that this forum wasn't intended to include "novels.' Guess I'll never be able to please everyone. But I just noticed this thread has more readers than all but the board's moderators on this first page. I had never anticipated that.)

Keep responding! Thanks for that.

~ Des

SIDE BAR: I received a message from a member that meeting up with anyone from personals ads can be a concern in this viral climate. I should have anticipated that question.

My wife has long been similarly cautious in avoidance of having sex with anyone who might have an STD. She learned early on how to determine the degree of sexual experience among men she met. When she gets to know them at first, casual questions and comments bring out that information. Only once that I can recall has she hooked up with a man who moved around frequently among sexual partners. She turns down those. Her conversation with guys she meets includes a casual question of how they're dealing with social-distancing and self-quarantine, but others don't seem to realize her purpose for asking.

She keeps a head-touch thermometer in her purse that was assigned to her at the bank for times she has interviews with customers or others. The device gives an immediate digital read-out of the other's body temperature. In the event she gets around to placing another personals ad. she told me she intends to use the temperature device on the "candidate" before getting too close to anyone "new." I suspect her intention is to write up an ad sometime next week, but she hasn't yet made up her mind on that issue. Gigi isn't one who can go long without sex for whatever reasons and her boss isn't always around when she feels the need. I am, but I'm just the husband and . . . well, you know the difference.

Even policies at the bank where she works has instituted a number of rules during this Kung Flu environment. The lobby's door is now locked and appointments with tellers and loan officers are made by telephone appointment only. Visitors and employees who have frequent contact with others are required to wear face masks supplied by the bank. On the floor my wife works, moveable acrylic barriers have been installed between desks. My wife has her own enclosed office, which is disinfected at lunchtime and when she leaves for the day. The good part for us is that the virus is virtually non-existent in our region, but we have great sympathy for any who reside or work in heavily hit regions like the northeast U.S., southeast Florida, Wash., DC and elsewhere. Stay safe.

[afagehi7]

Des - weren't you going to tell us about the break up with Jackie?

[Observer1931]

Des I think the shortest time is between send/submit and seeing a grammar or spelling error. Oh and what did her boss buy her?

[Des 31]

Des - weren't you going to tell us about the break up with Jackie?

My apologies. You asked for that before, but it slipped my mind. I’ve been distracted by work for a new major client I sold some time ago and was scheduled to travel to their home office in a couple of weeks. I won’t need to do that now for the reason they made plans to fly here instead.

The reason my wife and Jack split had to do with a common occurrence that comes about when two people have been fucking for some time. Jack is still dating the married pharmacy (former) student who just graduated and that undoubtedly had something to do with it. Those two are pretty tight right now, but he is apparently unaware he isn’t the only guy in her black book; even she and my wife got together recently.

A common saying by my wife is that all extramarital hookups have an expiration date, like the warranty on a kitchen appliance. They all come to an end one way or another. Gigi and Jack will undoubtedly remain friends but not be having sex unless something unplanned and momentary should come about.

When they were last together, my wife noticed less passion on his part than had been common when they were fucking in the past. It’s happened before between her and others.

They were fucking in a missionary position and his thoughts seemed to be elsewhere. My wife threw herself into it, more than would be typical when she is hot and moaning. After each mutually climaxed, he was less conversational than she. They had sex once more, with him fucking her from behind but Jack couldn’t again ejaculate into her. Her first thought was that his mind was on final exams as the school semester was coming to an end.

As they lay alongside the other, she mentioned her suspicions and asked what was on his mind. They talked for about an hour until she was sure his lust and passion was waning due to the long familiarity between the two. She gave him oral sex, stopping now and then to say she understood. That also eventually happens in most marriages. She explained to him how and why it comes about. I suspect anyone reading this knows the drill, so I shouldn’t need to repeat it here.

As with Jack’s roommate Beau, their mutual attraction at the outset was physical but bloomed into friendship and a mom-son, teacher-student relationship as a result of the twelve years of age between them. Until Jack began dating Jean and occasionally fucking Liz (the wife of our boat-owner friend), my wife had been his only frequent sexual partner. Between the fully-developed familiarity between him and Gigi, and his findng other sexual outlets, the spark between him and Gigi had begun to sputter.

He denied his reaction at first but as my wife went on with her understanding explanation, he ultimately agreed she was right. He didn’t want to split up, but she convinced him there should be a clean, friendly break rather than dragging it out. Whether either might realize the reasons, that sort of extramarital relationship eventually brings about disagreements and arguments, with neither realizing the real reasons for the quarrels. She said, “I’d rather have a friend than an enemy, and you would too.”

When Jack rejoined Beau at their shared off-campus apartment, he told Beau about that night. Beau was floored but didn’t argue about it. Beau and Gigi talked about that when they last fucked. He told her "that whole thing with Jack" was an alien concept to him, that he couldn’t understand it at all. He said to Gigi, “That won’t happen with me. I hope you and I are together the rest of my life. If I ever meet a woman I want to marry, she will need to agree I can continue seeing you.”

My wife laughed at that and said, “Okay, but I won’t make that a condition if she doesn’t agree.” Beau said, “She will or I’ll look around for someone else.” They fucked again and my wife told me later that was one of their hottest sessions ever.” Both guys have returned to their parents’ homes for the summer and will be taking classes online until they return in the fall.

Jack phoned my wife this week from his parent’s home. Their conversation was more like that of a couple of long-time friends, with just a passing mention of their sexual history. Jack said he is driving down in a couple of weeks to stay two nights with Jean while her trucker husband is on the road.

When we were relatively new at this, Gigi was more emotionally affected when breaking up with two guys. She didn’t go into depression or mope around the house, but she experienced a passing feeling of loss. When any two have been repetitively having sex for a while, an emotioonal attraction develops. Some confuse that with everlasting love, like that of teen's first loves. My wife learned to keep a certain emotional distance, “arms-length” if you will, between her and other men. She still misses them, but we each understand that’s all part of life and it isn’t devastating. I once compared it to my time as a kid when my Springer Spaniel passed away. She said, “It’s something like that, but it isn’t the same.” I knew that but it was the best I could come up with at the time.

~ Des

[solstice]

Des writes:When you notice at the bottom of my posts the number of times it's been edited,

To eliminate mistakes, I first write it as a word document, I next search google for synonyms to eliminate using the same words twice, I then delete the post as the my reply is no longer time relevant.

[solstice]

Des writes:(And I've been told by some here that I go on too long with my descriptive posts anyway in that this forum wasn't intended to include "novels.'

We all have different expectations from posts and posters,I am interested in sexual and non sexual narratives, although the juicier detail the better. what is relevant is the narrative be completely owned by the original writer. I find it ironic that the writer usually has a much better sexual life than many of the readers, but is still told where he is going wrong!

[afagehi7]

Des - I think Jack is a bit less mature. He seems to have let himself fallen for the pharmacy gal and likely thinks she'll leave her hubby for him. I wonder how much in love he is. If he wasn't he'd be enjoying Gigi's married pussy and pharmacy gal. At his age he has enough to go around.

Beau seems to have his head a bit in the clouds. As his teacher/Mommy I hope Gigi will bring him back down to earth. Few women are going to be like Gigi and fewer yet will agree to him doing mambomania with another woman. Hopefully Gigi will help him with this because he's set his expectations very high. IMHO a girl his age that welcomes either of the above is probably trouble. Even Gigi wasn't Gigi at that age but had to grow into the role.

None of this is intended to be negative as I can see how it could be taken that way. Just the perspective of some old idiot on the web who was unsuccessful at having a hotwife.

[vicg]

(And I've been told by some here that I go on too long with my descriptive posts anyway in that this forum wasn't intended to include "novels.' Guess I'll never be able to please everyone.)

No, you won't. But think of it this way: those who think you go on too long can just skim. On the other hand, if you start holding back based on that feedback, the people who enjoy your posts just like they are (me plus I'm sure many others) can't fill in the blanks. I know I would really miss those details.

Plus, I think you enjoy writing things up the way you do, or you wouldn't do it in the first place.

So don't change!

[afagehi7]

Haters gonna hate. Keep on keeping on

[6inches]

Des,
all i know from that little picture of your wife she so gorgeous,,,,maybe some day when see leaves banking we can see more of her.

WOW

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[1_chammer]

Des, you are the best pure writer on this forum. There’s a difference between writing and documenting —- writing is the art form. One of high points of art, in my humble opinion (sorry abbreviators , is its correlation to the nuances and intricacies of actual life. This you are doing, and I appreciate it. Where would Tolstoy’s War and Peace, Fielding’s Tom Jones, Rembrandt’s Nightwatch, Beethoven’s 7th Symphony, etc. be without attention to details? As far as I can see, you are painting a portrait, not mocking up a sketch (you may have a significant book to publish at some point...). Every reason, I’d say, to avoid pressure from Abbreviation Nation.

Look forward to your next detailed post.

[rascalnvixen]

Des,

Your comment about pleasing people is correct. You can't please everyone all the time so just please yourself!!! Just look at it as literary masturbation!!! Do what you want to do to please your motivation for writing in the first place!! I'm not planning on going anywhere, if that means anything!!

Rascal

[solstice]

I’ve been distracted by work for a new major client I sold some time ago and was scheduled to travel to their home office

Do you get furnished with leads, or was this new client all your own work, and has it gone well? I generally found it harder to work with complete dedication from home. thankfully my work was mainly physical, and generally in our workshop: With you, there is a distraction that most of your readers would find irresistible. Especially when she is absent spreading a little local euphoria.

[Des 31]

I’ve been distracted by work for a new major client I sold some time ago and was scheduled to travel to their home office

Do you get furnished with leads, or was this new client all your own work, and has it gone well? I generally found it harder to work with complete dedication from home. thankfully my work was mainly physical, and generally in our workshop: With you, there is a distraction that most of your readers would find irresistible. Especially when she is absent spreading a little local euphoria.

The majority of our agency’s new clients are mine, and most come about through referrals by existing or former clientele. My first when I came with the company was a nationwide retailer with its headquarters in the town where I was then a reporter. Although I came aboard as the writer to replace the retiring scribe, the partnership decided I was also a pretty good salesman; and none others liked traveling anyway. Since then I’ve been the agency’s representative. For the sort of guy I am, it turned out to be the best job I could have imagined other than, say, sitting on the Supreme Court. But you’re right, my only serious distraction is my wife.

[Des 31]

My wife had told me her last time with her student fuckbuddy Beau was “their best ever,” I assumed that had something to do with a preliminary discussion between the two. I was wrong. Last night, we took an hour’s drive up the nearest mountain. I mentioned to her Beau seemed in some way different, maybe more matured, when he was last at our home.

She said, “He’s more ‘fit.’ Because I go through my usual sit-ups and push-ups when I wake up at his place, he started exercising with me a while back. About two and a half months ago, he took up morning runs. At the time his school closed over the pandemic, he was doing a mile each morning.” He told her when phoning her Monday night he’s now running another mile each evening. She asked if I’d noticed his arms and legs. I hadn’t then paid that close attention.

Next Tuesday, she is taking off work for the rest of the week. She plans to drive the 100-mile distance to Beau’s family’s home and stay over two nights. His parents, who approve of their unconventional relationship, will be out of town those days. As mentioned here before, Gigi suggested it would be best if she and I didn’t have sex before then. That’s frustrated me a couple of times but I’m willingly going along with it. With considerable discipline, I’ve managed to not jerk off until she leaves. That’s been more difficult than I thought it would be.

On our way back home, I asked if she still thinks our not having sex two weeks before they’re fucking will really make their time together more exciting.

Often, when I ask a personal question, she responds with a joke. She was told this one from her mechanic fuckbuddy. She grinned and said, “Sure. There are all sorts of ways to prepare for good sex. A man married to a much younger woman once had trouble lasting long enough in bed. He went to a doctor and was told he should 'pleasure' himself before having sex, and he would last longer. On his way from work the next day, he decided he would relieve himself before getting home to his wife. He couldn’t masturbate in the car, so he decided to pretend he was fixing his car.

“He pulled off the road, got under his car, closed his eyes and started pleasuring himself. A few minutes later, there's a tug at his pants leg. In order to keep the image of his beautiful wife, he didn't open his eyes, but hollered, "Yeah?"

“The man pulling his pants leg said, ‘I'm Officer Bennett. What are you doing down there?’ Without opening his eyes, the man said, ‘I'm checking my axle. I think it's come loose.’

“The officer said, ‘Well, sir, while you're down there, you might want to check your brakes. Your car's two blocks down the road.’”

She bit her lower lip, her eyes rolling up as in thought, and added, “Beau hasn’t had sex since he left for home either. It’s going to be great.”

His enhanced exercise evidently increased his already-impressive libido and performance, so those nights together should be really good for both. I’ll be jerking off, like the guy whose car rolled away.

She looked down to my lap, spotted the growing bulge, and said with a knowing smile, “I’m sure you’ll love hearing about it when I return.” In bed that night, I mentioned the variety of men she has fucked and asked whether she has a bias that would cause her to turn away a guy. She laughed and said, ‘Maybe a space alien.” So I guess her answer is "No."

On his parents’ on their way home Friday, the 29th, they will come to our place and stay overnight with us.

~ Des

[rascalnvixen]

Interesting!! Thanks for the update. So, now she's got a hot young hard body to play with who also has a stronger libdo and greater endurance!!! You're not getting any for the two weeks before her trip to his parents to have a two day fuck fest with her young hottie, you'll be jerking and using your imagination about them and then she returns the day before Beau's parents arrive. So, it seems there is one night between her return and their arrival that you can get some pussy, but you know that she will be pretty much fucked out after two days with Beau. If this is all correct, then it seems the next time you get to have some pussy to fuck, it's going to be Beau's mom!!!! Assuming of course that Gigi allows you the same latitude she allowed previously with his mom. My advice is to try not to stroke so much you make your cock sore and save some good stuff for the mom as well. After all, you do want to be an impressive host for your visitors!! Honestly, I don't think I could watch a hot woman like Gigi walk around your house naked or scantily clothed or sleep with her without having to put my hands on her. Maybe the two of you will satisfy your physical needs with some good ole oral sex!!! If I put my hands on her, sexual interaction would certainly follow. If you are indeed able to keep your cock out of her and your hands off your cock till she leaves, you are a much more disciplined man than I!!!!

Rascal

[solstice]

When commenting on your thread I have often made reference to the lovely Gigi, I want to reassure you that there is little chance of me usurping your rightful place in her affections, as she is too much of a woman for me, in fact she would frighten seven shades of shit out of me, it takes a special guy to orchestrate his life to cope with Gigi's requests, It may be an exaggeration to compare you to Heracles, who completed 12 labours successfully

[Scotch98]

Great update Des. 2 weeks w/o sex of any kind w/ Gigi walking around would absolutely drive me nuts but I know when you do decide to let go it will be magnificent. whether it is w/ Beau's Mom or not...... That is such an awesome situation you guys have w/ Beau's parents. It brings all sorts of things to my somewhat perverted mind.....LOL All the best to you guys and looking forward to hearing about the return weekend w/ Beau's parents.... I hope you have a marvelous day......Cheers

[Des 31]

Interesting!! Thanks for the update. So, now she's got a hot young hard body to play with who also has a stronger libdo and greater endurance . . . but you know that she will be pretty much fucked out after two days with Beau.

Rascal

I often recall a time I once mentioned to her when she was so enthusiastic upon returning after overnight at a guy's place. She confessed it was a hot fuck and my eyebrows raised at her evident enthusiasm to fuck him again. She said, "But I was thinking about you the whole time." I said, "Really?"

Grinning, she said, "No, not really."

I liked that. Since then, she occasionally says that to me as a joke after a date. That's one of the ways I know the night was good for her.

~ Des

[solstice]

Since then, she occasionally says that to me as a joke after a date. That's one of the ways I know the night was good for her.


Gigi would appear not to have many less than satisfactory "date night" she certainly knows how to pick 'em!

[yielding william]

Des - I know you don’t like to get off topic here but you have a good understanding about how to handle this lifestyle. Why do you think it doesn’t go well for some others who write they have had sad outcomes?

[subtoall]

I often recall a time I once mentioned to her when she was so enthusiastic upon returning after overnight at a guy's place. She confessed it was a hot fuck and my eyebrows raised at her evident enthusiasm to fuck him again. She said, "But I was thinking about you the whole time." I said, "Really?"

Grinning, she said, "No, not really."

I liked that. Since then, she occasionally says that to me as a joke after a date. That's one of the ways I know the night was good for her.

~ Des

You can use this idea in a really playful way too. For example: "I never worry when you're with your other men that you won't come back to me because I know you're thinking of me the whole time."