Which qualities of the Bull/BF that cuck lacks, that attract/arouse the Hotwife?

[maxbud]

Hey guys...

The sexy hotwives, loves somethings about the bulls that turn on the hotwives and set the Bulls above/apart from the cuck. Most cucks are somewhat "inferior" to the bulls, and all parties love that. Lets see what makes us tick on this site. Pls put some comments that explain you situation as a hotwife, bull, cuck or even voyeur
It is hot to imagine a hotwife's pussy getting wet for another man, by the things that the cuck does not have and cannot realistically have
Note that the cuck may have these qualities, but we assume the bull has them much more, or the bull has them in a different flavor from the cuck. So the emphasis here is on the appealing things that place the bull above the cuck, in the eyes/heart/pussy of the Hotwife

[JaBe]

I voted "Any other?". The other guy is different and new.

[Brute]

Could you add: "Just addicted to NRE"

[thisis4us1125]

His big beautiful cock (compared to my smaller side of average penis), his height (6' to my 5'7"), his solid build/muscles (to my thin frame), his sexual prowess (to my mediocre bedroom skills), his tattoos (very little ink on me), his overall masculinity (not that I'm not masculine, but the contrast of his traits to mine definitely speak to his higher level of masculinity), the newness of the relationship (wife and I together almost 30 years)

It turns me on so much that she has such a physically superior male to take her to new sexual heights, someone that can go deeper into her than I ever will, hit all those spots I can't get to, give her the excitement of new romance, make her feel more sexy and desirable, make her feel like more of a woman than I ever have, and then to have her shamelessly admit that she much prefers sex with him...brings me to that special subspace I soooooo crave.

My only regret is that he's so far away, and has such incredibly limited schedule, that they've only been able to physically connect a couple times. She so deeply craves his time, attention and sex, and I crave her experiencing those with him. We want to take it to the next level, where he really exercises his ownership of her sex regularly, and her pussy becomes less and less available to me. I become relegated to making love to her well fucked pussy with my mouth after they couple, playing with my boy penis furiously while experiencing the buzz of just witnessing her make love to a real man...

[troilusand]

Could you add: "Just addicted to NRE"

Yeah, us, too!

But I also marked "Better at sex"...her last man, Co-husband, REFUSED to ejaculate unless she had already cum at least once herself. Whereas, I'm a two minute man; always have been.

Troilus

[Little Petey]

-I voted #4, #6, and #8. -
If I could add "other" it would a women are attracted to men that other women desire .
-Mommy (my wife) can say this better than me, but a woman wants to be proud of her man. She wants a man that other men wish they could be like and other women wish they could "be with".
- The "Aura" if masculinity is a good description. A real man has charisma, charm, in command and in control of his life. He is financially successful, socially respected, and a man that other men would choose to lead them.
-He is physically strong, emotionally healthy and builds relationships with othets that can benefit them while strengthening his leadership in the group, communicatity, business etc.
-A man who has established this is eminently able to provide for a woman and protect her.
- It is natural for a woman to seek out such a man like this and mate with him as often as she can. It is biology.
-Mommy doesn't love Greg because he is physically fit and his penis is so much bigger than my little one. She loves him because he is a success in almost every aspect of his life. And Greg loves Mommy because she is devoted to him and never let's forget that he is HER man

[Iwatchherplay]

Having a cock noticeably larger than mine was a nice surprise for both of us. It wasn't just nice to look at. She could feel a difference.

There was something about him that she was attracted to. There was some type of connection that she can't explain. It wasn't just a physical connection. Him and I are about the same body type. We didn't know how big his cock was until he took off his clothes. The added physical feeling to the emotional feeling she felt for him made the experience very satisfying for her.

It was awesome for me to watch her enjoying both feelings at the same time.

[FL_Cpl_4fun]

I voted "Any other?". The other guy is different and new.

This. Each new guy is a new adventure the first time you meet him. She likes the thrill of the hunt.

[maxbud]

I voted "Any other?". The other guy is different and new.

This. Each new guy is a new adventure the first time you meet him. She likes the thrill of the hunt.

In addition to the thrill and the New Relationship Excitement.. what other things about HIM, gt your wife's mind wandering, heart beating and pussy getting wet?

[FL_Cpl_4fun]

Usually she is excited about the potential of getting money from him.

[maxbud]

Usually she is excited about the potential of getting money from him.

Really?? That is sooooooooooooooo hot! Gives me a hard on... I find it hot when a woman is moved by money in addition to everything else; thereby being attracted to rich powerful men. How much does that turn her on? Has she been a sugar baby to some rich dude before? (Hot fantasy about two sexy friends ,.. girls... who do part time call-girl stuff with handsome rich guys, giving the alpha rich men complete girfriend experinces, FMF threesomes, wining and dining and really enjoying the sex, the money and the arousing kink of swapping money for sex (with worthy men), while their husbands/boyfriends stay home and wait for their return. Does your wife fit that description?

[iwish]

I answered on what I would want for my wife. She might have a different opinion.

5 - I would want the man to have a reputation for satisfying his women. She would have heard from friends that he always satisfies them, so she knows she will enjoy the experience. I'd hate for her to take the leap and then be disappointed; she might not try it again. And, the fact the other women desire him might be attractive to her.

9 - He should have the skills to back up his reputation. Maybe she would want him again and again. And, perhaps that would prompt her to try out other man too. If he lives up to his reputation there should be little doubt she would want to continue.

7 - While I would hope that his performance would mask any shortcomings personality wise I would hope she would enjoy the entire process, from the chase to the act which means he should excite her mentally as well as physically.

I could only choose three answers but I would hope he also processes the physical attributes that go along with his skill and reputation.

[maxbud]

I answered on what I would want for my wife. She might have a different opinion.

5 - I would want the man to have a reputation for satisfying his women. She would have heard from friends that he always satisfies them, so she knows she will enjoy the experience. I'd hate for her to take the leap and then be disappointed; she might not try it again. And, the fact the other women desire him might be attractive to her.

9 - He should have the skills to back up his reputation. Maybe she would want him again and again. And, perhaps that would prompt her to try out other man too. If he lives up to his reputation there should be little doubt she would want to continue.

7 - While I would hope that his performance would mask any shortcomings personality wise I would hope she would enjoy the entire process, from the chase to the act which means he should excite her mentally as well as physically.

I could only choose three answers but I would hope he also processes the physical attributes that go along with his skill and reputation.

Per point number 5 in particular,.. It seems that a man who has a reputation as a ladies man, who easily gets women into bed and gives them pleasure... AND is charming and charismatic (instead of being a cocky , rude S.O.B.); is almost always a plus, as it seems to be a universal "ladies" magnet and would virtually always add to the Bull's plus points and get him more pussy; as long as he does not do things that women find offensive (such as being a heartbreaker or pervert). I know a particularly smooth guy, who is very upfront with women he chats up, about how much pussy he gets. But he is super coy and indirect in the way he says it. He does not seem to be bragging,.. nor does he seem to be a loudmouth.
He does come across as very confident, and bold, and unapologetic... and experienced. No matter what the women say at first,..even feigning or feeling shock at his sexual accolades... it NEVER EVER stops him from getting their pussy. When he fails (which is rare) , it is usually for other reasons.
Some time, the same woman expressly states that she would never date a player,.. but makes an exception in his case. In addition to being a cocksmith, he is also a wordsmith,.. knowing how to say things to women, in such a way as to always make a postive impression.

[Ryx11]

This is a great forum! I chose "Big Dick" "Physical Body" and "Aura" but I was really close with "sexual reputation" and "colorful personality". Obviously the big dick and knowing how to use it is great! For me, being at least a certain size is kind of a requirement, but that doesn't always have to be huge. Aura was a really interesting one and for me it kinda contains personality. I think there has to be a mix of those. Physical body is just something that turns me on. I love abs lol

[Little Petey]

I answered on what I would want for my wife. She might have a different opinion.

5 - I would want the man to have a reputation for satisfying his women. She would have heard from friends that he always satisfies them, so she knows she will enjoy the experience. I'd hate for her to take the leap and then be disappointed; she might not try it again. And, the fact the other women desire him might be attractive to her.

9 - He should have the skills to back up his reputation. Maybe she would want him again and again. And, perhaps that would prompt her to try out other man too. If he lives up to his reputation there should be little doubt she would want to continue.

7 - While I would hope that his performance would mask any shortcomings personality wise I would hope she would enjoy the entire process, from the chase to the act which means he should excite her mentally as well as physically.

I could only choose three answers but I would hope he also processes the physical attributes that go along with his skill and reputation.

Per point number 5 in particular,.. It seems that a man who has a reputation as a ladies man, who easily gets women into bed and gives them pleasure... AND is charming and charismatic (instead of being a cocky , rude S.O.B.); is almost always a plus, as it seems to be a universal "ladies" magnet and would virtually always add to the Bull's plus points and get him more pussy; as long as he does not do things that women find offensive (such as being a heartbreaker or pervert). I know a particularly smooth guy, who is very upfront with women he chats up, about how much pussy he gets. But he is super coy and indirect in the way he says it. He does not seem to be bragging,.. nor does he seem to be a loudmouth.
He does come across as very confident, and bold, and unapologetic... and experienced. No matter what the women say at first,..even feigning or feeling shock at his sexual accolades... it NEVER EVER stops him from getting their pussy. When he fails (which is rare) , it is usually for other reasons.
Some time, the same woman expressly states that she would never date a player,.. but makes an exception in his case. In addition to being a cocksmith, he is also a wordsmith,.. knowing how to say things to women, in such a way as to always make a postive impression.

Pt. 5 Intagibles...This exchange resonates with my situation. Mommy and Greg are a couple of long standing and they are on love...
- To Greg, sex isn't something to worry about. Sex is a natural extension of the man that he is.
I have asked him about it he has told me that attracting women has never been an issue for him. Greg is not smug but he understands women and he is aware that he can fuck almost any woman he chooses and that will come back again and again for him.
I observe the expressions on Mommy's face when she is around Greg. She talks softly looks into his eyes and let's herself be drawn to him. He will reach out and do something like placing his hand on the small of her back, and listen to her words. When she's done, he speaks to her quietly but with confident comforting assurance.
- Greg pays full attention to Mommy as a person and responds with calm confidence and comforting assurance. She let's herself be vulnerable and she is drawn to because his words, countenance and physical stature make her feel safe, protected and essential to him.
- In all the years I've known him, Greg never gets flustered about anything. He takes care of what needs to done. - He is strong and possesses an enigmatic aura and is comfortable with himself. He loves Mommy and she makes sure he has no reason to look elsewhere. She is the woman who is always available and eager to mate with him. It is an enigmatic aura that attracts her to him.

[maxbud]

Usually she is excited about the potential of getting money from him.

Hey man,. I had asked earlier :

Really?? That is sooooooooooooooo hot! Gives me a hard on... I find it hot when a woman is moved by money in addition to everything else; thereby being attracted to rich powerful men. How much does that turn her on? Has she been a sugar baby to some rich dude before? (Hot fantasy about two sexy friends ,.. girls... who do part time call-girl stuff with handsome rich guys, giving the alpha rich men complete girfriend experinces, FMF threesomes, wining and dining and really enjoying the sex, the money and the arousing kink of swapping money for sex (with worthy men), while their husbands/boyfriends stay home and wait for their return. Does your wife fit that description?

[Cuck_Steve]

I voted for -

2) She just loves his fit muscular body
6) adores his confidence. Not that I’m not confident in other stuff in life, but he oozes confidence over everything. She loves confidence.
9) he is definitely the man of the house now. When we’re in the house, I’m definitely wimpy and she loves that I serve her man.

Could have voted for others too, but those where the three I chose.

[pixwellguy]

I think our wives all do this for a variety of reasons. Of course, the great sex is almost always the main factor. But there are all kinds of other needs that these men fill for our wives and partners.

In my wife's case, the physical reasons are that she simply prefers a man with a bigger, thicker cock than mine. She's made that clear from the beginning. She also needs a man with real sexual stamina - she likes long hard sessions, which I simply can't do. And she likes guys who can repeat, either right away or after a short rest. For her, a date isn't a good one unless she's fucked twice.

But beyond that, she likes a lot of other qualities in her men. She likes a man who's confident, knows what he wants and lets her know he's going to have it from her. She likes a man who can kiss well, and knows how make love to her. But she also sometimes likes a man who just treats her like the slut she is.

And for her longer term BF's, she likes a man she can connect with on more levels than just in bed. So even with just one woman, my wife, the qualities she's seeking can vary from man to man.

[CuckedDude]

thick well defined musculature manly beard strong big hands and of course
a large endowment of the genitals

[carolinacuck]

1. Big dick for sure...she enjoys well endowed men.
6. Definitely likes confident, masculine studs.
9. She's met several guys that were hung and knew how to use it.

[gruenberg]

for my wife it is the dominant attitude they have. she likes to be treaten rough and, i also have to say, bad by them.
that is something i can`t do to her.

physiological characteristics aren`t important for her that much. for example, my wife had an affair with her boss, an elder man with an bearbelly and not at all a fit body or even handsome. of course, he was well dressed and had good manners, but he won`t find himself on the cover of a magazine.

[maxbud]

for my wife it is the dominant attitude they have. she likes to be treaten rough and, i also have to say, bad by them.
that is something i can`t do to her.

physiological characteristics aren`t important for her that much. for example, my wife had an affair with her boss, an elder man with an bearbelly and not at all a fit body or even handsome. of course, he was well dressed and had good manners, but he won`t find himself on the cover of a magazine.

From your description of your wife's flings.. seems like she is really turned on by being treated OPPOSITE to what you do to her.
Correct me if I am wrong...

for you, she wants to be the sweet loving and loved wife, who is respected, protected, revered , taken as an equal.. shares her whole life with. She is very concerned about what you think about her, and how much you adore and respect her. She sees you sexually as sort of an "equal" or "slightly lower" .

For them , she thrives on her submission, and her placing them "above" her; on being their "slut/whore/fucktoy".. on being used and handled roughly, on being an object of their lust and their non-challant regard. As long as outright danger and pain are avoided, she longs to revel in that slutty/sub/pervy space and without inhibition, live out deep desires that would otherwise not have a space in her life as a respectable wife.

Am i right?

I would say that she has a sort of cuckquean instinct to match your cuckolding instinct; she subs to them, as you sub to her... and she is excited by their "bad boy" sexuality.
Do you notice whether she gets even more attracted/aroused by a man, IF he is "less available" and has OTHER women,.. compared to if he is the single "available" faithful lover?
With your permission, I would fantasize about your wife being called by the client to join him in an FMF (perhaps with a video call during which the other woman is giving the Client a blowjob) and your wife gets "jealous" and feels insulted,...and at the same time, she is super aroused hot and bothered.. the outrageous womanizing behavior of the Client creating a throbbing burning desire in your wifes pussy, and she leaves you at home at 9pm, drives 30 minutes, and goes to fuck both of them as she was "ordered to"
What do you think?


Can you envisage your wife being a sort of "wing woman" for her Bull/Client,. where they both pickup girls together for him at clubs,.. she plays her part to seduce other women for him, and then and she fucks him to "reclaim him" after he finishes with another hot chick? (or is that pushing it a bit too far)

Checkout this related thread pls :
Hotwife of cuckold, who is also a cuckquean for the Bull?
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=57348&p=1166710&hil ... n#p1166710

[gruenberg]

for my wife it is the dominant attitude they have. she likes to be treaten rough and, i also have to say, bad by them.
that is something i can`t do to her.

physiological characteristics aren`t important for her that much. for example, my wife had an affair with her boss, an elder man with an bearbelly and not at all a fit body or even handsome. of course, he was well dressed and had good manners, but he won`t find himself on the cover of a magazine.

From your description of your wife's flings.. seems like she is really turned on by being treated OPPOSITE to what you do to her.
Correct me if I am wrong...

for you, she wants to be the sweet loving and loved wife, who is respected, protected, revered , taken as an equal.. shares her whole life with. She is very concerned about what you think about her, and how much you adore and respect her. She sees you sexually as sort of an "equal" or "slightly lower" .

For them , she thrives on her submission, and her placing them "above" her; on being their "slut/whore/fucktoy".. on being used and handled roughly, on being an object of their lust and their non-challant regard. As long as outright danger and pain are avoided, she longs to revel in that slutty/sub/pervy space and without inhibition, live out deep desires that would otherwise not have a space in her life as a respectable wife.

Am i right?

I would say that she has a sort of cuckquean instinct to match your cuckolding instinct; she subs to them, as you sub to her... and she is excited by their "bad boy" sexuality.
Do you notice whether she gets even more attracted/aroused by a man, IF he is "less available" and has OTHER women,.. compared to if he is the single "available" faithful lover?
With your permission, I would fantasize about your wife being called by the client to join him in an FMF (perhaps with a video call during which the other woman is giving the Client a blowjob) and your wife gets "jealous" and feels insulted,...and at the same time, she is super aroused hot and bothered.. the outrageous womanizing behavior of the Client creating a throbbing burning desire in your wifes pussy, and she leaves you at home at 9pm, drives 30 minutes, and goes to fuck both of them as she was "ordered to"
What do you think?


Can you envisage your wife being a sort of "wing woman" for her Bull/Client,. where they both pickup girls together for him at clubs,.. she plays her part to seduce other women for him, and then and she fucks him to "reclaim him" after he finishes with another hot chick? (or is that pushing it a bit too far)

Checkout this related thread pls :
Hotwife of cuckold, who is also a cuckquean for the Bull?
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=57348&p=1166710&hil ... n#p1166710

your are right, her long lasting lovers were or are very powerful men. and the sex with them often consists of the lovers leading. with me, the sex is more equal. allthough my wife is more the aggressor, when it comes to sex.
she liked being used and handled roughly. for example with her boss, it went that far, that he often used her just for blowjobs. at those meetings she never came, because she was not touched by him. that was my part afterwards. to give her pleasure. and me, of course.
and my wife was jealous when her boss was dating his buxom secretary.

[humiliation]

My wife fell hard for a man that was very masculine, an "almost" pro athlete in the past; muscular, especially his thighs; more financially successful; and she though a great writer in his emails. However, he had a small dick, I'd say 5 inches to my 6.5. It was especially humiliating to me that she fell for him.

[maxbud]

My wife fell hard for a man that was very masculine, an "almost" pro athlete in the past; muscular, especially his thighs; more financially successful; and she though a great writer in his emails. However, he had a small dick, I'd say 5 inches to my 6.5. It was especially humiliating to me that she fell for him.

I think it is super hot that your wife fell for a man, for "non-big dick" reasons... lol.. The things that often attract a woman to a man... financial success, charisma, confidence...mysteriousness... These things are much hotter for me , as per cuckolding,.. than having a big dick.

Women's minds tend to be the lynch pins for their attraction/arousal. cuckolding is hotter, when the woman is acting more "naturally" (going to alpha males body , heart and soul,... whilst having a dotting supportive Beta male provider), rather than when she is just being kinky , with gangbangs and outlandings adventures.

Does the idea of your loving wife, being the cuckquean for her boyfriend/Bull's sexual escapades with other women.. does that appeal to you? (she wing woman's him, to pickup chicks, watches him ravish the other sexy woman, is super turned on by his alpha promiscutiy... fucks him on the spot to "reclaim" after the other woman finishes...
Then she comes back home to you, to tell you all about her fun and how "awesome" it is for her to be so dominated by him.

checkout this thread :-)

Hotwife of cuckold, who is also a cuckquean for the Bull?
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=57348&p=1166710&hil ... n#p1166710