Ask a Hotwife Thread, to be answered by VHWs only!

[leander99]

The affair is a good tv show if you like something erotic.
It's available on Netflix

[Farmgirl]

Why do men struggle with reading comprehension?

[2inUPMichigan]

Why do men struggle with reading comprehension?

Maybe my next "friendly reminder" post should be in the form of pictures or a video?

[Sickguy47]

Whenever i tell my wife that i had a dream that she and i were having sex in front of her boss . She laughs, i know she was quite frank with her boss. Does it mean anything?

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Sickguy47.

[early-kink]

Why do men struggle with reading comprehension?

I guess this would be a bad place to ask for your favorite cookie recipe then?? ( that's for you Farmgirl!!!)

[Farmgirl]

Why do men struggle with reading comprehension?

I guess this would be a bad place to ask for your favorite cookie recipe then?? ( that's for you Farmgirl!!!)

At least you posed your words as a question. That does show some reading comprehension.

[Farmgirl]

Why do men struggle with reading comprehension?

I guess this would be a bad place to ask for your favorite cookie recipe then?? ( that's for you Farmgirl!!!)

BTW I don't really do cookies, I prefer to do cream pies!

[early-kink]

Why do men struggle with reading comprehension?

I guess this would be a bad place to ask for your favorite cookie recipe then?? ( that's for you Farmgirl!!!)

BTW I don't really do cookies, I prefer to do cream pies!

Ooooohh you're such a bad, baaaad girl Farmgirl !!! I just had to put a smart-assed question on here after you questioned men's reading comprehension!!! I was hoping for at least a smile!

[Farmgirl]

Why do men struggle with reading comprehension?

I guess this would be a bad place to ask for your favorite cookie recipe then?? ( that's for you Farmgirl!!!)

BTW I don't really do cookies, I prefer to do cream pies!

Ooooohh you're such a bad, baaaad girl Farmgirl !!! I just had to put a smart-assed question on here after you questioned men's reading comprehension!!! I was hoping for at least a smile!

[solstice]

I don't really do cookies, I prefer to do cream pies!

Not sure I could manage a whole one on my own, would Her Number1 be willing to share, just to let him know I'm a messy eater.

[LouiseQ]

Hi, my name is Louise. I live in the uk with my husband Alex. He's also on this website. I realise this thread is very much for wannabe guys, and so I will also post thisas a separate thread. Let me emphasise that I am an EX-hotwife, who's had many wonderful experiences but I've now got it out of my system and have settled down with my lovely husband. We hope to start a family soon.

I discovered I enjoyed sex with multiple partners, both male and female, and I'm really interested in comparing experiences with other hotwives, such as who took a regular bull, who took multiple partners, sex parties etc. What did you enjoy? What didn't you enjoy? How is your relationship with your husband now? From a few conversations with wives who've taken a lover with their husbands' approval, it does seem there are often very strict limits to what some will do, and that complete liberation ie doing what's in the moment that excites us, just isn't the norm for even experienced hotwives.

LouiseQ

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum LouiseQ.

[2inUPMichigan]

Hi, my name is Louise. I live in the uk with my husband Alex. He's also on this website. I realise this thread is very much for wannabe guys, and so I will also post thisas a separate thread. Let me emphasise that I am an EX-hotwife, who's had many wonderful experiences but I've now got it out of my system and have settled down with my lovely husband. We hope to start a family soon.

I discovered I enjoyed sex with multiple partners, both male and female, and I'm really interested in comparing experiences with other hotwives, such as who took a regular bull, who took multiple partners, sex parties etc. What did you enjoy? What didn't you enjoy? How is your relationship with your husband now? From a few conversations with wives who've taken a lover with their husbands' approval, it does seem there are often very strict limits to what some will do, and that complete liberation ie doing what's in the moment that excites us, just isn't the norm for even experienced hotwives.

LouiseQ

Welcome to OHW Louise!

This thread is for anyone that would like to ask a question and get an answer from one of the verified hotwives that are members of this site. We get questions all the time from men who are just curious, women at all stages along the way and men who may be experienced but would like a woman's perspective.

For me personally.....I have one regular FWB that I have been meeting with for about a year and a half. I would like to have additional regular FWB'S but none of the other men I have played with have worked out long term, unfortunately.

If you are asking if hubby and I have any rules regarding actual sexual activity then no. What happens when I am on a play date is my decision as it is my body. Our agreements are all about safety and privacy not about sexual activity.

If you want to read the stories or connect with VHW'S on the board look for the bright blue names. My very lengthy thread can be found at the link in my signature line.

***If you are interested in becoming verified there is a thread at the top of the hotwife forum with instructions**

[Farmgirl]

Hi, my name is Louise. I live in the uk with my husband Alex. He's also on this website. I realise this thread is very much for wannabe guys, and so I will also post thisas a separate thread. Let me emphasise that I am an EX-hotwife, who's had many wonderful experiences but I've now got it out of my system and have settled down with my lovely husband. We hope to start a family soon.

I discovered I enjoyed sex with multiple partners, both male and female, and I'm really interested in comparing experiences with other hotwives, such as who took a regular bull, who took multiple partners, sex parties etc. What did you enjoy? What didn't you enjoy? How is your relationship with your husband now? From a few conversations with wives who've taken a lover with their husbands' approval, it does seem there are often very strict limits to what some will do, and that complete liberation ie doing what's in the moment that excites us, just isn't the norm for even experienced hotwives.

LouiseQ

I have no strict rules or limits on my sexual activity. I select who, when, where, and how.

[hwsassysouth]

Hi, my name is Louise. I live in the uk with my husband Alex. He's also on this website. I realise this thread is very much for wannabe guys, and so I will also post thisas a separate thread. Let me emphasise that I am an EX-hotwife, who's had many wonderful experiences but I've now got it out of my system and have settled down with my lovely husband. We hope to start a family soon.

I discovered I enjoyed sex with multiple partners, both male and female, and I'm really interested in comparing experiences with other hotwives, such as who took a regular bull, who took multiple partners, sex parties etc. What did you enjoy? What didn't you enjoy? How is your relationship with your husband now? From a few conversations with wives who've taken a lover with their husbands' approval, it does seem there are often very strict limits to what some will do, and that complete liberation ie doing what's in the moment that excites us, just isn't the norm for even experienced hotwives.

LouiseQ

Welcome to OHW! The only rules I have is that anal is reserved exclusively for my husband but it’s a rule **I** created, not my husband and I don’t stay overnight. Other than that there are no rules.

[LuvMyFitWife]

The answer to this question likely varies from woman to woman, but here goes.

Are women who get into the lifestyle more likely to have had an adventurous sex life as younger women ? The reason I ask is my gorgeous wife has only ever had sex with me and I was wondering if that was an indicator that she would be much less likely to ever be open to becoming a hotwife.

You are right

We have a mixture of backgrounds here, both women with limited experience prior to marriage and women with more extensive experience prior to marriage.

So.....nope! You wife is not more or less likely to be a hotwife based on her sexual past.
There have been a few stories that I remember reading about hotwives who were virgins when they got married.

That’s our situation. We were married when I was 21 and she was 20 and she was a virgin. Well, I gave her lots of oral sex but no PIV until the wedding night.

Which kind of leads to my next question. My wife has never been into giving oral, but is a fiend for receiving oral. I’m totally ok with that as she’s very giving in every other way. Do women sometimes do things for their bulls that they don’t normally do for their husband?

Also, do any VHWs do the hotwife thing only occasionally ( every couple of months ) just to get a taste of something a little naughty?

[2inUPMichigan]

The answer to this question likely varies from woman to woman, but here goes.

Are women who get into the lifestyle more likely to have had an adventurous sex life as younger women ? The reason I ask is my gorgeous wife has only ever had sex with me and I was wondering if that was an indicator that she would be much less likely to ever be open to becoming a hotwife.

You are right

We have a mixture of backgrounds here, both women with limited experience prior to marriage and women with more extensive experience prior to marriage.

So.....nope! You wife is not more or less likely to be a hotwife based on her sexual past.
There have been a few stories that I remember reading about hotwives who were virgins when they got married.

That’s our situation. We were married when I was 21 and she was 20 and she was a virgin. Well, I gave her lots of oral sex but no PIV until the wedding night.

Which kind of leads to my next question. My wife has never been into giving oral, but is a fiend for receiving oral. I’m totally ok with that as she’s very giving in every other way. Do women sometimes do things for their bulls that they don’t normally do for their husband?

Also, do any VHWs do the hotwife thing only occasionally ( every couple of months ) just to get a taste of something a little naughty?

That's a very good question!
Yes some hotwives have talked about trying things with other men that they don't do normally with their husband. One of the reasons for that is that the opinion of their husband means something where as that other man....not so much So to try something out with him and feel foolish or awkward or to not like it at all isn't as big of a deal because you don't ever have to see him again if it goes very badly. You don't have that option with your husband. If you try something with your hubby and you really never want to do it again, but he really liked it and wants to again....

As far as your 2nd question
Frequency is such an individual thing. There is no blueprint, it really is about what works for the two of you. Some hotwives only play on vacation or when they travel for business. Others have had men move into their homes.
This isn't a regular part of life for every hotwife no. For some it is the occasional spice that adds a little extra flavor to their life

[lifeisfun]

Hope everyone's doing well!

My wife liberated herself last year and started dating with other guys. She is curvy and attractive. She ended up having 8-9 sexual encounters in hotel rooms with couple of different guys. I am not into watching or anything and she finds her own guys and goes alone. This year turned out to be very weird and she is missing all the fun. She is trying hard to get some action on dating sites but looking at the lockdown situation, it may be few moths before she can get some fun.

She is relatively new to this and mentioned that she would like to have some experienced female mentor to talk (over chat and voice). She is looking to gain some more confidence and tips to get more fun out of life!

[Suchen Zucker]

The answer to this question likely varies from woman to woman, but here goes.

Are women who get into the lifestyle more likely to have had an adventurous sex life as younger women ? The reason I ask is my gorgeous wife has only ever had sex with me and I was wondering if that was an indicator that she would be much less likely to ever be open to becoming a hotwife.

You are right

We have a mixture of backgrounds here, both women with limited experience prior to marriage and women with more extensive experience prior to marriage.

So.....nope! You wife is not more or less likely to be a hotwife based on her sexual past.
There have been a few stories that I remember reading about hotwives who were virgins when they got married.

That’s our situation. We were married when I was 21 and she was 20 and she was a virgin. Well, I gave her lots of oral sex but no PIV until the wedding night.

Which kind of leads to my next question. My wife has never been into giving oral, but is a fiend for receiving oral. I’m totally ok with that as she’s very giving in every other way. Do women sometimes do things for their bulls that they don’t normally do for their husband?

Also, do any VHWs do the hotwife thing only occasionally ( every couple of months ) just to get a taste of something a little naughty?

That's a very good question!
Yes some hotwives have talked about trying things with other men that they don't do normally with their husband. One of the reasons for that is that the opinion of their husband means something whereas that other man....not so much So to try something out with him and feel foolish or awkward or to not like it at all isn't as big of a deal because you don't ever have to see him again if it goes very badly. You don't have that option with your husband. If you try something with your hubby and you really never want to do it again, but he really liked it and wants to again....

I don't get this viewpoint unless a husband is judgemental, prudish, and/or a jerk. How do you know that HE doesn't want to try something, but is afraid of YOUR reaction? It sounds like a cop-out excuse. Wives should have faith in their husband's love for them to take that risk and explore things together. That a wife would offer something of herself sexually (a specific act) to another man, before discussing or offering it to her capable, loving husband is akin to stealing wouldn't you think? What if your husband secretly wants your ass, but you unknowingly give your anal virginity to some "stud" who means nothing in the long term and you are just another notch on his bedpost?

[2inUPMichigan]

You are right

We have a mixture of backgrounds here, both women with limited experience prior to marriage and women with more extensive experience prior to marriage.

So.....nope! You wife is not more or less likely to be a hotwife based on her sexual past.
There have been a few stories that I remember reading about hotwives who were virgins when they got married.

That’s our situation. We were married when I was 21 and she was 20 and she was a virgin. Well, I gave her lots of oral sex but no PIV until the wedding night.

Which kind of leads to my next question. My wife has never been into giving oral, but is a fiend for receiving oral. I’m totally ok with that as she’s very giving in every other way. Do women sometimes do things for their bulls that they don’t normally do for their husband?

Also, do any VHWs do the hotwife thing only occasionally ( every couple of months ) just to get a taste of something a little naughty?

That's a very good question!
Yes some hotwives have talked about trying things with other men that they don't do normally with their husband. One of the reasons for that is that the opinion of their husband means something whereas that other man....not so much So to try something out with him and feel foolish or awkward or to not like it at all isn't as big of a deal because you don't ever have to see him again if it goes very badly. You don't have that option with your husband. If you try something with your hubby and you really never want to do it again, but he really liked it and wants to again....

I don't get this viewpoint unless a husband is judgemental, prudish, and/or a jerk. How do you know that HE doesn't want to try something, but is afraid of YOUR reaction? It sounds like a cop-out excuse. Wives should have faith in their husband's love for them to take that risk and explore things together. That a wife would offer something of herself sexually (a specific act) to another man, before discussing or offering it to her capable, loving husband is akin to stealing wouldn't you think? What if your husband secretly wants your ass, but you unknowingly give your anal virginity to some "stud" who means nothing in the long term and you are just another notch on his bedpost?

Please remember that this thread is not a discussion thread (there are plenty of other threads for that throughout this site). This is strictly a question and answer thread - the subject title is "Ask a Hotwife Thread, to be answered by VHW'S only!".

You don't have to agree with any of the answers that the VHW'S give to the questions that are asked here but discussion about their answers are between them and the person that asked the question.

[rascalnvixen]

That’s our situation. We were married when I was 21 and she was 20 and she was a virgin. Well, I gave her lots of oral sex but no PIV until the wedding night.

Which kind of leads to my next question. My wife has never been into giving oral, but is a fiend for receiving oral. I’m totally ok with that as she’s very giving in every other way. Do women sometimes do things for their bulls that they don’t normally do for their husband?

Also, do any VHWs do the hotwife thing only occasionally ( every couple of months ) just to get a taste of something a little naughty?

That's a very good question!
Yes some hotwives have talked about trying things with other men that they don't do normally with their husband. One of the reasons for that is that the opinion of their husband means something whereas that other man....not so much So to try something out with him and feel foolish or awkward or to not like it at all isn't as big of a deal because you don't ever have to see him again if it goes very badly. You don't have that option with your husband. If you try something with your hubby and you really never want to do it again, but he really liked it and wants to again....

I don't get this viewpoint unless a husband is judgemental, prudish, and/or a jerk. How do you know that HE doesn't want to try something, but is afraid of YOUR reaction? It sounds like a cop-out excuse. Wives should have faith in their husband's love for them to take that risk and explore things together. That a wife would offer something of herself sexually (a specific act) to another man, before discussing or offering it to her capable, loving husband is akin to stealing wouldn't you think? What if your husband secretly wants your ass, but you unknowingly give your anal virginity to some "stud" who means nothing in the long term and you are just another notch on his bedpost?

Please remember that this thread is not a discussion thread (there are plenty of other threads for that throughout this site). This is strictly a question and answer thread - the subject title is "Ask a Hotwife Thread, to be answered by VHW'S only!".

You don't have to agree with any of the answers that the VHW'S give to the questions that are asked here but discussion about their answers are between them and the person that asked the question.

Suchen did ask two questions, did he not?? Isn't that in compliance with the rules?? And isn't the subject matter germane to the established topic???

Rascal

[SexyWifeLisaHubbyACE]

My inquiry mind would like to know how much bigger should Bull or other male be than the husband.
Like if hubby is 4 1/2" how much to keep it from getting out of control.
SexyWife prefers 5"-7" definitely under 7 1/2"

[EdwardTheBull]

How many hotwives ask if a bull is married/has a gf? I have been with I think 3 dozen over the years, had MAYBE 3 ask.

I the the conversation a lot on forums, seldom irl.

[2inUPMichigan]

How many hotwives ask if a bull is married/has a gf? I have been with I think 3 dozen over the years, had MAYBE 3 ask.

I the the conversation a lot on forums, seldom irl.

I always ask if a man is in an open or closed relationship. (That is the difference for me). If I was meeting a man and found out that he had lied and was in fact cheating I would stop meeting him.

I have had men honestly tell me their wife doesn't know and I thank them for their time and tell them we aren't going to be a good match.