Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[solstice]

Mrs Reese writes: I think I need to clarify something.
If anyone is interested in reading my thoughts as I contemplate playing again.
Hubby absolutely loves the idea of his wife cheating.
I love the thrill also.

In this free thinking forum, very few things raise peoples ire more than cheating, to help you out I have examined the synonyms of cheating, but none of them come close to the efficacy of that word, I have listed what cheating is considered to be:

! Anger or revenge
2 Falling out of love
3 Situational factors and opportunities
4 Commitment issues
5 Unmet needs
6 Sexual desires
7 Wanting variety
8 Low esteem
9 If your partner has cheated
10 Once a cheater.......
Have you fallen asleep yet?

[solstice]

I may become a frequent poster on your thread, if it becomes an irritant just tell me to fuck off, and I will with my tail between my legs.

[mrs_reese]

I appreciate your feedback.
I’m ok with it all!

Our definition of cheating comes close to #3,6,7


But we interpret cheating this way;
it comes down to the mystery of not knowing when I will play and the anticipation he experiences each day. It’s like a light switch for hubby.
It’s been “off” for maybe 2 years.
He knows I’m thinking about it, but from past knowledge, he won’t talk about it. He’ll wait for me to bring it up.
But once he knows I turned on the light switch, I’m all in!
And then he’ll wait in anticipation for the moment I come home one night and whisper in his ear that I was a bad girl!
So maybe cheating isn’t the correct term.
But I love being a bad girl and he loves the anticipation of never knowing what the moment will happen.

[afagehi7]

I appreciate your feedback.
I’m ok with it all!

Our definition of cheating comes close to #3,6,7


But we interpret cheating this way;
it comes down to the mystery of not knowing when I will play and the anticipation he experiences each day. It’s like a light switch for hubby.
It’s been “off” for maybe 2 years.
He knows I’m thinking about it, but from past knowledge, he won’t talk about it. He’ll wait for me to bring it up.
But once he knows I turned on the light switch, I’m all in!
And then he’ll wait in anticipation for the moment I come home one night and whisper in his ear that I was a bad girl!
So maybe cheating isn’t the correct term.
But I love being a bad girl and he loves the anticipation of never knowing what the moment will happen.

Sounds like everyone wins... especially the lucky stud

[54321]

I do miss the attention! 

I get the feeling that that is the number one motivator for most hotwives... and why not!?

But I love being a bad girl and he loves the anticipation of never knowing what the moment will happen.

How tantalising for Mr Reese. "I'm going out with the girls tonight, Darling." "I'm going shopping". "I'm working late". "My friend Jill is a bit low".
My co worker Bill wants to run over the new project - in a little more depth."

Will she, won't she... poor Mr Reese! Actually, I'm green with envy!

54321

[DavidnDaria]

Thanks nice to hear.
What role did you like best?
It’s nice to hear what others think.
Just about everyone has been so nice to me and my husband.
It’s really special to us, no one is rude or insulting or judge mental

My pleasure.

Role? Just being her husband/stag (I hate that term). We tried the cuckhold thing, but I'm not one. We never went as far as y'all did. No judgment, at all. We're both just happy to see you back!

[DavidnDaria]

I appreciate your feedback.
I’m ok with it all!

Our definition of cheating comes close to #3,6,7


But we interpret cheating this way;
it comes down to the mystery of not knowing when I will play and the anticipation he experiences each day. It’s like a light switch for hubby.
It’s been “off” for maybe 2 years.
He knows I’m thinking about it, but from past knowledge, he won’t talk about it. He’ll wait for me to bring it up.
But once he knows I turned on the light switch, I’m all in!
And then he’ll wait in anticipation for the moment I come home one night and whisper in his ear that I was a bad girl!
So maybe cheating isn’t the correct term.
But I love being a bad girl and he loves the anticipation of never knowing what the moment will happen.

Summed up in one word: Anticipation. From reading your thread, it's clear your husband loves to anticipate you being "bad" and then enjoying you when you return. And there's no right or wrong, as you know. Y'all have fun your way and that's cooler than all get out!

[Open2it]

Mrs. Reese,
Of course you know you’re really good when you’ve been bad and a little spice makes vanilla so much more interesting.
Glad to hear you’re both happy.

[mrs_reese]

Thank you for sharing that Open2it.
I know hubby would welcome more spice!

[mrs_reese]

So today I texted an old friend that was my last.
He’s 59 now.
He was excited that I reached out to him.
I’m a little nervous.
He wants to call me later.
I said yes please do.

[BallSpanking]

Last I knew (and I cannot know whether this is still the case), you had decided you were going to look for a lover/BF, an older gentleman ... about two years back. Might this be the same gentleman?

I know I would be thrilled to hear from you!

[mrs_reese]

Yes BS you are correct.
We met in 2018 and I was with him once.
He’s charming, sexy and older.

[BallSpanking]

It seems an easy and comfortable way for you to test the water.

[bubbajack]

Oh Mrs. Reese!!

I do hope that you will "be with" your friend the very next time that he empties his balls!

You are such a hot li'l cutie! You and Mr. Reese seem to have found, by way of you "cheating" on him, yet another way for him to experience the delicious, maddening "difficulties" that he loves so much!

[mrs_reese]

Test the waters, I think I just might.
We’ll see after our phone conversation today.

Bj- as long as Mr. Reese keeps his promises I may have a surprise for him one day.

[DavidnDaria]

However things turn out, good luck to you, and Mr. Reese!

[mrs_reese]

I finished my phone conversation with Mr.Big.
That’s my nickname for him when I talked about him a few years ago.
He asked why I reached out to him.
Wanted to know if I was still married.
It was me who stopped our meetings.
I told him I needed to focus on my marriage and my happiness.
I told him I wanted to see how things go if we were to meet again.
Honestly, I’ve been thinking about calling him before the virus came but the email notification from my friend Ballspanking this past week asking about me I guess was the big push I needed.
I told Mr. Big that my husband must not know.
I want to be bad
More to come I suppose.

[BallSpanking]

I like your definition of "cheating". It's more like hubby is merely unaware his wife is fucking another man, but he'll find out ... Eventually.

[afagehi7]

I finished my phone conversation with Mr.Big.
That’s my nickname for him when I talked about him a few years ago.
He asked why I reached out to him.
Wanted to know if I was still married.
It was me who stopped our meetings.
I told him I needed to focus on my marriage and my happiness.
I told him I wanted to see how things go if we were to meet again.
Honestly, I’ve been thinking about calling him before the virus came but the email notification from my friend Ballspanking this past week asking about me I guess was the big push I needed.
I told Mr. Big that my husband must not know.
I want to be bad
More to come I suppose.

So hot. I'll bet hubby is climbing the walls.

[mrs_reese]

I’m not telling hubby about any of this.
I want him to know the moment I come home filled with our sex. Hubby wants the intrigue of not knowing when this will happen. So far he doesn’t know.

[insertomit]

Mrs Reese,

Will you tell your husband that you have come home filled with your lover's sex or let him find out himself?

[BallSpanking]

Perhaps it would add more spice to 'not' tell Mr Reese, at least for a while. That way you can enjoy your secret affair at your leisure, until the 'reveal', when you can bring home a fresh creampie for him. Maybe even then, confirm only that he is 'one of the men' you see regularly ...

Though it might not be true, it would turbocharge Mr Reese's enthusiasm for your HW'ing. But he can go overboard, maybe you could release the information in little morsels and long intervals in between, so he starts to piece together that his wife IS seeing someone else, fucking him, but largely keeping it to herself, and for herself, because that IS how she likes to play HW.

[mrs_reese]

Insertomit- please read the post after your question.
Ballspanking couldn’t have said it any better!
Thank you BS.

Hubby and I have an understanding.
Our trust has been tested and has grown over time.
I know him better than he knows himself.
He wants the intrigue.
He wants to guess.
He wants to masterbate to my worn panties or socks breathing in my scent when he thinks about how I’ll cheat on him.
It all comes down to a mutual respect and trust with each other and what do we expect to get out of my hotwife experiences.
The less he knows, the more excited he’ll be.
Our sex will be constant and full of amazing passion.
The most amazing sex I’ll ever have is when my husband reclaims me after I come home and whisper in his ear that he needs to lick my pussy.
I am sure that most hotwives will agree.

[BallSpanking]

Should we assume Mr Big to be a small circus midget?

[mrs_reese]

No he’s a very handsome man.
He’s calling me later tonite.