Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[BallSpanking]

I was joking ..., but I wondered if there would be a further description.


PS-
After pondering it a little ... I remind myself this is your thread and you will post, or not, as you are comfortable.

[mrs_reese]

I know you were joking
So, I had another conversation with my Mr. Big.
We are going to try to meet up for a drink tonight.
I need to think of an excuse for Mr. Reese.

Now if he ever reads this thread, all the fun is over for me.
He understands how I feel about the mystery.
We’ll see how long this lasts.

[afagehi7]

I know you were joking
So, I had another conversation with my Mr. Big.
We are going to try to meet up for a drink tonight.
I need to think of an excuse for Mr. Reese.

Now if he ever reads this thread, all the fun is over for me.
He understands how I feel about the mystery.
We’ll see how long this lasts.

That's going to be tough. Maybe a friend is in town? Maybe you are going to get him a father's day present? I'm certain a pic of you with Mr bigs cock in your mouth would be a welcomed gift!

[mrs_reese]

Afagehi7, actually, mr Reese and I share an understanding, we do not check up on each other.
We just don’t ask. We respect each other’s privacy.
If I tell him I was “just out” he’ll suspect that maybe I was “playing.”

I need to think this through. I want him to be completely surprised. And by the way, I am only meeting for drinks tonight. I don’t want to rush into this.
I am not sure just yet if I want to start this just yet!

[mrs_reese]

I must say, mr bigs cock in my mouth would be a wonderful gift for hubby and I.

[afagehi7]

I must say, mr bigs cock in my mouth would be a wonderful gift for hubby and I.

A BJ wouldn't be full out hotwifing but just an experiment to see how you feel about it. It's more than dipping your toe in the water but less than jumping in. Maybe thinking about it this way will help you come to be more comfortable. You seem to want to, hubby would enjoy a pic as a gift (as would we!), And Mr big would certainly enjoy. It seems everyone wins.

[BallSpanking]

Maybe your GF "L" called you up, and you're meeting for drinks ... Drinks and a BJ???

[mrs_reese]

Sounds like I have some decisions to make!

[DavidnDaria]

Have fun, Mrs. Reese!

[BallSpanking]

Have a wonderful father's day with Mr Reese!

[il2sw]

Dear Mrs. Reese,
Glad to see that you’re back. Now that you’re around, I wanted to thank you for a few things. Your story in this thread is one of the most exciting in this site. At times it got too wild, provoking conflicting feelings in me. On the one hand, I thought I wouldn’t want my wife to do some things you did, but at the same time I found some of those things unbelievably hot.

Your story should definitely be a required reading for husbands in the subject of being careful with what you wish for. But at the same time you showed how if a husband is able to let go of control and trust his wife, he’ll get to experience sexual excitement and lust for his wife with an intensity he’d never dreamed of. In part, I owe you for my accepting my wife’s request to have no rules and just trust her if I wanted her to be a hotwife. That has been one of the best decisions I’ve made in this adventure. So, thanks for that.

Almost 6 years ago, you posted something that I found enlightening, and even though it could put me in a bad position, I showed it to my wife. She was very much in agreement with what you posted. Here’s the link:
viewtopic.php?f=5&t=3642&start=4325#p479482

With years in hotwife “retirement”, you have also shown that you were truthful when you said how much you loved your husband and that you didn’t need hotwifing and would be content with just your husband. Nothing wrong with returning to being an active hotwife now. I think that’s great!

Thanks for posting those pictures in the hotties, because your pictures were gone when I joined OHW. I must say that your husband wasn’t exaggerating when he said how hot and sexy you were. May I suggest that you post your pictures in single thread? It makes it easier to get notified when you post a new one. Oops, I just admitted that I’m hoping you post more pics

[mrs_reese]

Il2sw,
That was really sweet of you to share your feelings about you and your wife. I’m really happy that the post I shared 6 years ago really helped you understand what a woman goes through when she decides to become a hot wife at her husbands request. I never wanted this! I never need this!
Except, now, many years later I want to play again, on my terms. It takes many years to truly learn all the dynamics of this lifestyle.
I hope you and your wife make wonderful memories.

About the pictures, i don’t know, i lose my courage soon after I post some pictures of myself.

[mrs_reese]

So I’m meeting Mr. Big tonight for drinks only
I’m still not sure I will let this go any further.
It’s just the idea of starting this all over again.
It’s all up to me, but I just know what happens once my husband realizes I’ve been having an affair.
He promised me more control, but he’s not right!
As much as I love all the attention coming my way froM both men, I just need to be ready for the constant hi energy sex coming my way.

[BallSpanking]

Hmmm ... seems to me you will have to keep this largely to yourself before you spill the beans, because it will be too easy for him to find out if you announce it here. Frankly, the temptation to know might be too great for anyone, so you may have to let us in on it once you intend to tell hubby.

Have a wonderful time, and keep it close to the vest IF you decide to play, but when you do "fess-up", please update your thread for us ...

[afagehi7]

I just know what happens once my husband realizes I’ve been having an affair.
He promised me more control, but he’s not right!

Care to explain?

[joff51]

[joff51]

Mrs. Reese, wishing you a successful meet up tonight.

[joff51]

Mrs. Reese, wishing you a successful meet up tonight.

[mrs_reese]

Hi everyone!
I’ve been a little preoccupied with things, but I’m back.
I met with Mr. Big and we shared a very good conversation about our lives and expectations.
I informed him that I wasn’t sure how far I wanted to take this.
He understands that I am cheating on my husband.
He doesn’t know that I have an arrangement with my husband with his approval.
We shared a few drinks, his hand eventually made it’s way to my knee.
I enjoyed that.
We kissed a few times.

When he walked me to my suv, I told him I’d text him later this week with my decision as I leaned in to kiss him,
I allowed my hand to squeeze his cock.
I smiled and left.
I think he knows what my decision is going to be.

[afagehi7]

Hi everyone!
I’ve been a little preoccupied with things, but I’m back.
I met with Mr. Big and we shared a very good conversation about our lives and expectations.
I informed him that I wasn’t sure how far I wanted to take this.
He understands that I am cheating on my husband.
He doesn’t know that I have an arrangement with my husband with his approval.
We shared a few drinks, his hand eventually made it’s way to my knee.
I enjoyed that.
We kissed a few times.

When he walked me to my suv, I told him I’d text him later this week with my decision as I leaned in to kiss him,
I allowed my hand to squeeze his cock.
I smiled and left.
I think he knows what my decision is going to be.

Excellent. Are you going to tell hubby or wait until it goes further? After a BJ? After a full home run? After a few events? Never and let him catch you? See if he notices a cream pie or gooey panties?

What's your plan for playing this super hot game? How big is Mr big?

[BallSpanking]

Just let your fingers do the talking ...

[54321]

You are so cheeky! *

54321

*In British English, that means 'fresh' and can be rude or cute. In your case, the latter.

[mrs_reese]

Hi again.
I'm tired from work.
I want to call Mr.Big and tell him YES to everything he wants from me but on my terms.
I am just hesitant. It's my Husband.
Still not sure I want to wind him up.
I am most excited by Mr.B thinking i am having an affair.
Hubby has promised me not to ever look at this thread for all who wonder if he will.
What is the consequence?
This intrigue is exceptionally too exciting for him by not knowing.

Is Mr.B big? Last time i felt it, it felt a nice. Very firm to my liking!

[BallSpanking]

Firm ... like a Sleep-Number 10 ?

[afagehi7]

Hi again.
I'm tired from work.
I want to call Mr.Big and tell him YES to everything he wants from me but on my terms.
I am just hesitant. It's my Husband.
Still not sure I want to wind him up.
I am most excited by Mr.B thinking i am having an affair.
Hubby has promised me not to ever look at this thread for all who wonder if he will.
What is the consequence?
This intrigue is exceptionally too exciting for him by not knowing.

Is Mr.B big? Last time i felt it, it felt a nice. Very firm to my liking!

What's wrong with winding hubs up? Maybe if you are worried he'll push for more than you want you can set a rule that if hubs wants it then it's your terms or nothing. I'm sure he'll agree and just be happy with whatever you do. It's better than nothing.