Sex restrictions for cuckold husbands

[Lookingtoshareia]

It's more or less role play for us, I guess. We're switches, so we take turns being the dominant partner. When she's dominant I'm locked, denied and pretty much get nothing sexual, besides pegging and fucking her with a strap on. She also (if she has someone at the time) will fuck other men during this time. When we switch, I fuck her like and "normal" husband.

[SailorGuy]

No sex with my wife for years now. Total denial. She belongs to her lover completely, and rightly so. He is HUNG and knows how to please my wife in ways I never could. I get to masturbate all I want, however. Sometimes with her watching. I especially love masturbating when I know she is making love to him far away.
Once upon a time my wife and I were great lovers, and I loved that time in my life. I love this time as well.

[Flirty Skirty]

My wife and I enjoy all kinds of sex. The only exception is blowjobs. It’s not because she doesn’t like them. I brought it up many years ago that maybe she should stop and she did. I’ve lost count but it’s probably been around 12 years.

[LondonCuck1976]

My ex had a Bull at one point that controlled our sex life totally. He decided on when I could have sex with her and my girlfriend enforced this. Essentially it was always in the time prior to her meeting with him, normally a week before a meeting I would be denied.

My girlfriend would edge my dick while talking about what her Bull had been saying to her and what they would do when they met. I was not allowed to cum. By the time the meeting with the Bull came I was aching for release and on edge sexually.

Once she had finished with her Bull I was then allowed release, sometimes that was sex and sometimes she would just give me a handjob until I came and released a weeks worth of cum and frustration.

[maidinmisery]

There are a ton of sex restrictions in our relationship and it got meaner over time. To be fair, my fiancee knew I was a cuck into chastity and that we were both into sissies so she had no issues with denying me pleasure. It started off with just less sex and less masturbation but 3 years in it's:

No sex ever. No blowjobs, she only give its a stroke once in a while to tease me.
No cumming ever, it's been 1.5 years.
No seeking her naked except when she's fucking someone.
I only get to kiss her feet, ass, pussy and sometimes breasts now. I have to close my eyes if she's naked while I do so.
Not really a restriction but she has no attraction to me so there's very little physical contact other than me licking her.
I get a lot less affection such as cuddles too, and am just bossed around all day with a list of maid chores.

I'm really just a eunuch maid and hired help to her at this point and I don't mind it at all.

[Decman]

As I've described elsewhere, I'm almost 100% cut off from having intercourse with my wife. I do get to worship her body -- which includes oral, kissing, petting, but she's made it quite clear that I don't sexually satisfy her.

[pixwellguy]

No sex with my wife for years now. Total denial. She belongs to her lover completely, and rightly so. He is HUNG and knows how to please my wife in ways I never could. I get to masturbate all I want, however. Sometimes with her watching. I especially love masturbating when I know she is making love to him far away.......

My situation as well, exactly the same. And you're correct, it's absolutely right that our wives belong to their lovers completely.

[TinyBoyDick]

Our marriage is VERY strong... loving and loyal... BUT ... I get no sex. I get nothing; no pussy, no ass, no blow jobs, no hand jobs, no sex of any kind. Meanwhile, my wife has been fucked by 25 different men in the last 20 months... NONE during Covid (but also no sex with me.)

As far as restrictions, our agreement is very clear. I don't touch another woman (although, I can do it if we are together, like at a swingers club, for exanple- assuming the woman doesn't mind fooling around with a very underendowed man) So, with wifey's permission I can fool around with another woman in her presence...

AS for her restrictions; NONE. Our stated agreement says she can fuck ANY man, ANYwhere, ANYtime, and as many men as she wants. Period. No other restrictions apply.

Note: we DO have the power to veto sex with a potential sex partner for any reason or no reason at all. Neither one of us has ever used that veto power, but it's good knowing it's there.

[Ghalilaeus]

There are a ton of sex restrictions in our relationship and it got meaner over time. To be fair, my fiancee knew I was a cuck into chastity and that we were both into sissies so she had no issues with denying me pleasure. It started off with just less sex and less masturbation but 3 years in it's:

No sex ever. No blowjobs, she only give its a stroke once in a while to tease me.
No cumming ever, it's been 1.5 years.
No seeking her naked except when she's fucking someone.
I only get to kiss her feet, ass, pussy and sometimes breasts now. I have to close my eyes if she's naked while I do so.
Not really a restriction but she has no attraction to me so there's very little physical contact other than me licking her.
I get a lot less affection such as cuddles too, and am just bossed around all day with a list of maid chores.

I'm really just a eunuch maid and hired help to her at this point and I don't mind it at all.

That would be my ideal relationship bar the sissy thing on which I am neutral. Maybe even be denied licking Her and seeing her naked at all, restricted to cleaning the soles of Her stilettos with my tongue. I would do anything for such a woman.

[subguy80]

I love how this old post (4 years) gets pulled up front with new comments every once in a while. It's a unique and fascinating part of cuckolding, at least for me, that various forms of sex restrictions can be a turn-on. My wife and I and her two long-term BFs have gone through several phases, which I think is true for most of us in this LS. When Jamal was living with us, I had no intercourse with Sarah. We had other forms of sex (we still do), but no fucking. As the phrase goes, "He owned her pussy" and all three of us understood that and all three of us found that insanely hot. But, he moved for a job and now the Covid virus has changed a lot. Sarah's sex drive is too high to only have sex with Jamal once a month. So, she will turn to me when she feels the "urge." I never initiate intercourse. She determines that,which is hot. Jamal knows she needs my dick sometimes and he's OK with it. But, he also knows that I'm just a substitute in the dick department. So, in most ways, all three of us still feel that he "owns" her pussy.

[maidinmisery]

There are a ton of sex restrictions in our relationship and it got meaner over time. To be fair, my fiancee knew I was a cuck into chastity and that we were both into sissies so she had no issues with denying me pleasure. It started off with just less sex and less masturbation but 3 years in it's:

No sex ever. No blowjobs, she only give its a stroke once in a while to tease me.
No cumming ever, it's been 1.5 years.
No seeking her naked except when she's fucking someone.
I only get to kiss her feet, ass, pussy and sometimes breasts now. I have to close my eyes if she's naked while I do so.
Not really a restriction but she has no attraction to me so there's very little physical contact other than me licking her.
I get a lot less affection such as cuddles too, and am just bossed around all day with a list of maid chores.

I'm really just a eunuch maid and hired help to her at this point and I don't mind it at all.

That would be my ideal relationship bar the sissy thing on which I am neutral. Maybe even be denied licking Her and seeing her naked at all, restricted to cleaning the soles of Her stilettos with my tongue. I would do anything for such a woman.

I completely understand, it's fun licking he shoes clean after she comes home too. She's looking for a live-in boyfriend so I won't get to see her naked for quite a while. I'm just hoping her future bf doesn't like giving oral a lot or I'll probably just be restricted to her feet and ass.

[SailorGuy]

Hot and sunny summertime; my wife was just having her lunch out on our back deck - naked! And with her legs slightly spread so as to get some sunshine on her incredible meaty outer labia. Something I haven't seen in a long time, something I haven't had the pleasure to lick or even touch in years.
Now that we are in a cuckold relationship I look upon my wife as a goddess; what a privilege to be allowed to see her like this!
I'd been with a decent number of women before I met my wife, and I've looked around on the internet. But nowhere have I ever seen a cunt like my wife's. Along with her muscular flat chest, great curvy ass and strong womanly hips her labia look just stunning, inviting. Once upon a time I was allowed to massage those big things with essential oils, get her big clitoris erect, lick both and finally enter her there. But no more. And seeing her today and realizing once again this gorgeous goddess is off limits to me drives me crazy with lust and a warm happy feeling of being a cuckold. And to know once again that her well-hung lover DOES get to do all these things to her - bliss!
After lunch I had to go back to my bedroom and masturbate. And my wife, bless her, agreed to come along and be present while I did. Another world-class five-star orgasm!

[thisis4us1125]

Only on page 3 of this thread, but I have to chime in. I used to read posts from some about being teased & denied and/or entirely pussy free. It would turn me on, but I never thought it would be for me. I also thought she may not get anything out of such an arrangement. Well...a month or two ago, my wife and I started to play around a little with the denial theme, and I found it to be more erotic and enjoyable than I thought possible. She's pushed the envelope more and more as we go along, pushing the length of time between allowing me penetrative access, and I'm finding it to be a big turn on for both of us. I am not denied release, but typically my release comes by my own hand, and I am forced to cum on my own belly or chest, as she straddles my face, and makes sure to remind me that her BF would absolutely be fucking her, and not only that, cumming deep inside her naughty married pussy, while I'm relegated to my hand, and spilling my cum on myself. It's such a delicious mind-fuck. It absolutely reinforces her BF's ownership of her sexually, and magnifies by own inadequacies as a man. She'll sometimes allow me to just slip the head of my little dick in her so I can feel the silky warmth that is being reserved in that moment for her preferred lover. Mmmm. Other times, she'll let me all the way in, for 2 full strokes, and then pushes me back off, and proceeds to fill herself (much more sufficiently) with her favorite sex toy (which is similar in shape and size to her BF's gorgeous superior Cock, while I play with myself and watch her cum repeatedly on her toy to fantasies of her BF. Every couple weeks, she'll tell me she wants me inside of her, but I believe those instances will become fewer and farther between as we progress down this path. Really, my pleasure centers around her pleasure, so putting my ineffective little dick in her doesn't do much for me, because I know it isn't doing much for her. I do think it's a good occasional reminder to both her & I of why she needs a better equipped man to be her primary penetrative lover. Unfortunately, her BF has serious availability issues, so she doesn't get to experience his perfect cock often enough. I've encouraged her to find another BF with more availability, but she's really into her current BF, and holds other guys to his standard. I have to admit, he's a stud, so he's not going to be easily replaced.

[Bluegrasscuck]

As time has progressed, Mrs. S has transformed into a loving Dominant Hotwife. She has made me pussy free intercourse wise since the beginning of the year. She has made it clear that only a real cock from a bull may enter her. We love each other and she allows me to please her with my tongue, fingers and strapon and her wand. I am allowed only ruined orgasms maybe once or twice a month to keep me in my sub state so to speak.
She has stated I may be allowed a couple orgasms per year. So far, 1 proper orgasm in the last 93 days.

[sophie_joy]

For all the posts from people being denied intercourse..... i have a question or two.

Does your wife really enjoy the power trip of being able to deny you? Or does she do it because this is what you want? Or does she do it to comply with or please her bull?

Sorry to be so late. For me, the answer is the power (not "power trip"). I can get the same feeling in other ways (pussy power is very real), but denial really puts me in control of the sex life of a person for whom I care. If he likes it, that's great - and I would probably do it just because he asked. But there is a real charge when I see that look in his eyes.

[SailorGuy]

I haven’t had a BJ in years and haven’t felt her pussy in a about a two years (unprotected). As our cuckold relationship matured and she developed a relationship with a long term boyfriend it was a natural progression to cut me off from pussy. By that time she cut me off I was only fucking her about 4-6 times a year.

As a submissive cuck we have a very active sex life we just don’t have traditional sex. If I’m allowed to fuck her which is extremely rare, I have to wear two condoms to ensure I don’t touch her pussy with my cock. Her boyfriend is allowed bareback and fucks her weekly.

My wife NEVER gave me a blow job when we were lovers, but she happily sucks her lover's cock. She told me it's about the fact that he is such a Man, it brings out the Woman in her that was dormant with me. He is an Alpha while I am a Beta. She and I have always gotten along great; it's just that Woman part of her I never could reach.
For about ten years now I am not allowed to touch my wife except for a fully-clothed hug. Her lover gets to do whatever he pleases. And this pleases me immensely!

[Ijustloveher]

One PIV since March 2019....that’s it.

For the record, HausCuck, that was twice on one day ! hahah ;0)

[Pastnfuture]

I haven’t had a BJ in years and haven’t felt her pussy in a about a two years (unprotected). As our cuckold relationship matured and she developed a relationship with a long term boyfriend it was a natural progression to cut me off from pussy. By that time she cut me off I was only fucking her about 4-6 times a year.

As a submissive cuck we have a very active sex life we just don’t have traditional sex. If I’m allowed to fuck her which is extremely rare, I have to wear two condoms to ensure I don’t touch her pussy with my cock. Her boyfriend is allowed bareback and fucks her weekly.

My wife NEVER gave me a blow job when we were lovers, but she happily sucks her lover's cock. She told me it's about the fact that he is such a Man, it brings out the Woman in her that was dormant with me. He is an Alpha while I am a Beta. She and I have always gotten along great; it's just that Woman part of her I never could reach.
For about ten years now I am not allowed to touch my wife except for a fully-clothed hug. Her lover gets to do whatever he pleases. And this pleases me immensely!

Wishing I could get to the point of full denial that you have. My wife just gave her boyfriend ‘the blowjob of his life’ the last time she saw him. She does not give me blowjobs at all now. I am thrilled with this. We are still very much in love and we do have sex but I wish she could see her boyfriend more frequently so she relied on me less

[maidinmisery]

I haven’t had a BJ in years and haven’t felt her pussy in a about a two years (unprotected). As our cuckold relationship matured and she developed a relationship with a long term boyfriend it was a natural progression to cut me off from pussy. By that time she cut me off I was only fucking her about 4-6 times a year.

As a submissive cuck we have a very active sex life we just don’t have traditional sex. If I’m allowed to fuck her which is extremely rare, I have to wear two condoms to ensure I don’t touch her pussy with my cock. Her boyfriend is allowed bareback and fucks her weekly.

My wife NEVER gave me a blow job when we were lovers, but she happily sucks her lover's cock. She told me it's about the fact that he is such a Man, it brings out the Woman in her that was dormant with me. He is an Alpha while I am a Beta. She and I have always gotten along great; it's just that Woman part of her I never could reach.
For about ten years now I am not allowed to touch my wife except for a fully-clothed hug. Her lover gets to do whatever he pleases. And this pleases me immensely!

Wishing I could get to the point of full denial that you have. My wife just gave her boyfriend ‘the blowjob of his life’ the last time she saw him. She does not give me blowjobs at all now. I am thrilled with this. We are still very much in love and we do have sex but I wish she could see her boyfriend more frequently so she relied on me less

I'm cheering you on to get to that point if that's what you and your wife really want! I suggest just total honesty, even you have to sometimes explain why you emotionally enjoy some of this stuff. My fiancee years ago pretty much went "you're THAT pathetic? Jeez...but sounds hot so sure". Once your wife knows you're into this I think it will be a natural process with you and her boyfriend.

[stubbyhubby]

The first 4 months of our marriage we had sex some, but she didn't want to get pregnant and I refused to wear a condom, so I always had to pull out early and finish myself off.

Once she became active with other men the sex stopped. I got an occasional blowjob (still had to "pull out" before I came) or handjob on my birthday or our anniversary. That eventually became just a handjob after a few years.

Then about 6.5 years ago she began hooking up with a guy who was really into owning her and being the man of the house. He was at our house daily. One day he suggested to her that the occasional handjobs should stop and they did. A few weeks later they agreed that I shouldn't cum at all. I asked to be locked, but she refused. She said she expected me to do it as a symbolic gesture of my dedication to her happiness and added that since my dicklet can give no pleasure then it was logical that it deserved none. I could not argue with her logic or reasoning, so I agreed.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum stubbyhubby.

[thisis4us1125]

The first 4 months of our marriage we had sex some, but she didn't want to get pregnant and I refused to wear a condom, so I always had to pull out early and finish myself off.

Once she became active with other men the sex stopped. I got an occasional blowjob (still had to "pull out" before I came) or handjob on my birthday or our anniversary. That eventually became just a handjob after a few years.

Then about 6.5 years ago she began hooking up with a guy who was really into owning her and being the man of the house. He was at our house daily. One day he suggested to her that the occasional handjobs should stop and they did. A few weeks later they agreed that I shouldn't cum at all. I asked to be locked, but she refused. She said she expected me to do it as a symbolic gesture of my dedication to her happiness and added that since my dicklet can give no pleasure then it was logical that it deserved none. I could not argue with her logic or reasoning, so I agreed.

How long has it been since you’ve cum? It’s an intriguing idea but I love my sexual release so not sure I could do it. I’d probably have to be locked because I don’t think I could exercise the self control. If I simply lived in a sexless marriage it wouldn’t be as difficult, but knowing that my wife is getting all the cock she wants and needs is beyond arousing (makes me feel 15 instead of 45, lol). I think I’d have a constant case of painful blue balls if I was no longer allowed to cum.

[charingiscaring2020]

I think it's right that all of you who are cuckolds are denied sex. The longer the time period the better.

[LockedCock]

I have not had intercourse with my wife in over seven years.

Seven years ago she had a major stroke. It was a couple of years before she wanted to start having sex again. During those two years I stumbled onto the cuckold fetish and chastity. For the second year I started wearing a cage all day for about eight to ten days at a time then take a break for a few days and start over again.

I told her that I had performance issues before her stroke and they had gotten worse over time and suggested that she have sex with other men. She was against this idea but allowed me to purchase a strap-on that I would wear during our love making. It was flesh colored and seven inches long and she named it Alex.

This worked quite well and she reluctantly agreed with my idea to deny me any oral and only one handjob a month. After a few month she got into denying me after realizing that that was what I really wanted. She then started saying that she had decided to cut me off from getting any of her pussy and because of that she was keeping my cock locked up as it was useless to her.

I performed oral on her anytime she wished and she let me know when she wanted to "date" Alex. This went on for a couple of years and then I got her a new guy to date in the form of a nine inch black cock. She named him Eric and he has become her favorite lover.

As for me, she has really taken charge and ordered that I stay locked up 24/7 starting on September 1st and going through December 31st. And now, instead of cumming every 30 days, it will be every 90 days but at least I will get a ruined orgasm every 30 days. After the new year she will evaluate how I handled extended chastity and possibly keep me locked up for 24/7/365 for good. I really hope I can handle it because I would really love having my cock locked up and stay pussy and blowjob free for the rest of my life.

[little man]

my wife does things for boyfriend she doesnt do for me, like blow jobs with swallowing and facials,he gets to fuck her big boobs, she will fuck him more than once in a night,once they teased me together about my small penis