Steel/Daphne Sex Journal

[36DDwife]

Uh oh, found a nudist "resort" close by near Spartanburg. Carolina Foothills Resort.

That’s a nice area...Spartanburg that is.

[SteelRidge]

Uh oh, found a nudist "resort" close by near Spartanburg. Carolina Foothills Resort.

That’s a nice area...Spartanburg that is.

Only ever driven by Spartanburg on the interstate. I think Daphne and I will do a day visit to the resort though "resort" is being used loosely.

[SteelRidge]

One thing I like about video chat sex is knowing multiple guys are stroking, jacking off and cumming by seeing Daphne. I suspect there are guys at her gym do the same thing thinking about her.

I've wondered if any posters here have jacked off and came while looking at her pictures in the Hottie section, thinking about fucking her.

It's such a turn on for me to know I'm married to a hottie that men desire to fuck.

[afagehi7]

One thing I like about video chat sex is knowing multiple guys are stroking, jacking off and cumming by seeing Daphne. I suspect there are guys at her gym do the same thing thinking about her.

I've wondered if any posters here have jacked off and came while looking at her pictures in the Hottie section, thinking about fucking her.

It's such a turn on for me to know I'm married to a hottie that men desire to fuck.

Some pussy pics would help us along. Hahha

[SteelRidge]

Tonight will be shared room experience #2. This is with a different couple that we did a video sex chat with last week. This couple had a couple FFM experiences which ended up being more FMF or just the husband fucking another woman while his wife watched. She said she likes watching her husband fucking other women. Maybe she can convince Daphne of the benefits.

Daphne is super horny (indeed all four of us are) coming off her period. With no PiV sex for a week she says she is going to take Winston just in case.

I don't think I'll have much problem getting hard but will have some backup Viagra just in case.

[afagehi7]

Tonight will be shared room experience #2. This is with a different couple that we did a video sex chat with last week. This couple had a couple FFM experiences which ended up being more FMF or just the husband fucking another woman while his wife watched. She said she likes watching her husband fucking other women. Maybe she can convince Daphne of the benefits.

Daphne is super horny (indeed all four of us are) coming off her period. With no PiV sex for a week she says she is going to take Winston just in case.

I don't think I'll have much problem getting hard but will have some backup Viagra just in case.

This could be your chance,!!!

[36DDwife]

Tonight will be shared room experience #2. This is with a different couple that we did a video sex chat with last week. This couple had a couple FFM experiences which ended up being more FMF or just the husband fucking another woman while his wife watched. She said she likes watching her husband fucking other women. Maybe she can convince Daphne of the benefits.

Daphne is super horny (indeed all four of us are) coming off her period. With no PiV sex for a week she says she is going to take Winston just in case.

I don't think I'll have much problem getting hard but will have some backup Viagra just in case.

This could be your chance,!!!

I was thinking the same thing

[afagehi7]

Tonight will be shared room experience #2. This is with a different couple that we did a video sex chat with last week. This couple had a couple FFM experiences which ended up being more FMF or just the husband fucking another woman while his wife watched. She said she likes watching her husband fucking other women. Maybe she can convince Daphne of the benefits.

Daphne is super horny (indeed all four of us are) coming off her period. With no PiV sex for a week she says she is going to take Winston just in case.

I don't think I'll have much problem getting hard but will have some backup Viagra just in case.

This could be your chance,!!!

I was thinking the same thing

I'd say let the boundaries be pushed however Daphne is comfortable. Maybe the girls will be willing to swap for some oral...

[SteelRidge]

Last night was OK. The other couple was very nice and we hit it off pretty good. We had dinner together which works good for getting to know the more vanilla part of each other. We then go to the hotel and we ended up talking another hour or so with some of the same vanilla subjects. At the hotel I think we should be talking about about sex, fucking, swinging, fantasies, desires and etc. The topics would certainly come up, but somebody who shall remain nameless would turn the subject to something less sexy. The last thing I remember talking about was my 13 yo daughters sex education. I could feel he excitement being wrung out off me.

Thankfully the other couple (who haven't shared a room before) finally just said, "how shall we start?" I told Daphne to get her PJs on, I went to the bathroom for a minute and the other couple started making out. Daphne comes out in her bra and panties and the other couple we're already sexing up. I had no mojo and soft dick. I decided to eat Daphne's pussy, but I had in my head the talk about my daughter's sex education! It actually pissed me off a little. Daphne popped out a couple of orgasms and I went up to kiss her and she looks down to see me still soft.

She mounts me and humps me while soft and I start getting hard. Then I get hard enough to roll her over and start fucking. All this time the other couple is going at it pretty hard. Eventually both of us couples are going at doggy style.

We rest for a few minutes and the other couple had to leave early because of a medical issue the wife has that flared up.

[afagehi7]

Last night was OK. The other couple was very nice and we hit it off pretty good. We had dinner together which works good for getting to know the more vanilla part of each other. We then go to the hotel and we ended up talking another hour or so with some of the same vanilla subjects. At the hotel I think we should be talking about about sex, fucking, swinging, fantasies, desires and etc. The topics would certainly come up, but somebody who shall remain nameless would turn the subject to something less sexy. The last thing I remember talking about was my 13 yo daughters sex education. I could feel he excitement being wrung out off me.

Thankfully the other couple (who haven't shared a room before) finally just said, "how shall we start?" I told Daphne to get her PJs on, I went to the bathroom for a minute and the other couple started making out. Daphne comes out in her bra and panties and the other couple we're already sexing up. I had no mojo and soft dick. I decided to eat Daphne's pussy, but I had in my head the talk about my daughter's sex education! It actually pissed me off a little. Daphne popped out a couple of orgasms and I went up to kiss her and she looks down to see me still soft.

She mounts me and humps me while soft and I start getting hard. Then I get hard enough to roll her over and start fucking. All this time the other couple is going at it pretty hard. Eventually both of us couples are going at doggy style.

We rest for a few minutes and the other couple had to leave early because of a medical issue the wife has that flared up.

You should have done the guy thing and high fived each other whilst y'all were in it doggie.

Sorry it didn't go through great. Maybe if y'all do a second date it'll go better.

[SteelRidge]

Last night was OK. The other couple was very nice and we hit it off pretty good. We had dinner together which works good for getting to know the more vanilla part of each other. We then go to the hotel and we ended up talking another hour or so with some of the same vanilla subjects. At the hotel I think we should be talking about about sex, fucking, swinging, fantasies, desires and etc. The topics would certainly come up, but somebody who shall remain nameless would turn the subject to something less sexy. The last thing I remember talking about was my 13 yo daughters sex education. I could feel he excitement being wrung out off me.

Thankfully the other couple (who haven't shared a room before) finally just said, "how shall we start?" I told Daphne to get her PJs on, I went to the bathroom for a minute and the other couple started making out. Daphne comes out in her bra and panties and the other couple we're already sexing up. I had no mojo and soft dick. I decided to eat Daphne's pussy, but I had in my head the talk about my daughter's sex education! It actually pissed me off a little. Daphne popped out a couple of orgasms and I went up to kiss her and she looks down to see me still soft.

She mounts me and humps me while soft and I start getting hard. Then I get hard enough to roll her over and start fucking. All this time the other couple is going at it pretty hard. Eventually both of us couples are going at doggy style.

We rest for a few minutes and the other couple had to leave early because of a medical issue the wife has that flared up.

You should have done the guy thing and high fived each other whilst y'all were in it doggie.

Sorry it didn't go through great. Maybe if y'all do a second date it'll go better.

Unfortunately they don't live very close. We plan on some video sex but in person will be difficult. Would definitely like to do it again with them.

The basic issue is getting the ball rolling.

Seems like some guidelines should be made:

Put on PJs or lingerie on immediately when entering the hotel room.

No or minimal vanilla talk when in a the hotel room, focus on sex

[36DDwife]

Last night was OK. The other couple was very nice and we hit it off pretty good. We had dinner together which works good for getting to know the more vanilla part of each other. We then go to the hotel and we ended up talking another hour or so with some of the same vanilla subjects. At the hotel I think we should be talking about about sex, fucking, swinging, fantasies, desires and etc. The topics would certainly come up, but somebody who shall remain nameless would turn the subject to something less sexy. The last thing I remember talking about was my 13 yo daughters sex education. I could feel he excitement being wrung out off me.

Thankfully the other couple (who haven't shared a room before) finally just said, "how shall we start?" I told Daphne to get her PJs on, I went to the bathroom for a minute and the other couple started making out. Daphne comes out in her bra and panties and the other couple we're already sexing up. I had no mojo and soft dick. I decided to eat Daphne's pussy, but I had in my head the talk about my daughter's sex education! It actually pissed me off a little. Daphne popped out a couple of orgasms and I went up to kiss her and she looks down to see me still soft.

She mounts me and humps me while soft and I start getting hard. Then I get hard enough to roll her over and start fucking. All this time the other couple is going at it pretty hard. Eventually both of us couples are going at doggy style.

We rest for a few minutes and the other couple had to leave early because of a medical issue the wife has that flared up.

You should have done the guy thing and high fived each other whilst y'all were in it doggie.

Sorry it didn't go through great. Maybe if y'all do a second date it'll go better.

Unfortunately they don't live very close. We plan on some video sex but in person will be difficult. Would definitely like to do it again with them.

The basic issue is getting the ball rolling.

Seems like some guidelines should be made:

Put on PJs or lingerie on immediately when entering the hotel room.

No or minimal vanilla talk when in a the hotel room, focus on sex

That’s what we did last time. Basically skipped foreplay. My wife was the first one nekkid. Go figure.

[SilverStag]

Getting to that stage of play is always awkward unless one couple is mire aggressive or open than the other. We have been to swingers conventions, where everyone was well versed in playing with others and still observed that most folks have trouble in the "transition".

Sometimes it is easiest to have an "ice breaker" to start things rolling (we carry a pair of dice with a body part on ne and an action on the other IE: kiss, breasts). O if yo are feeling bold, just stand behind the other's spouse and start caressing them.

Isn't it ironic that you all know and agree to why you are there, but for some reason ,no one makes the first move?

[afagehi7]

How far away are they? I'd do whatever I could to strike while the iron is hot. Get Daphne to blow him... And see where it goes from there... You want a swap someone has to make the first move.

[SteelRidge]

How far away are they? I'd do whatever I could to strike while the iron is hot. Get Daphne to blow him... And see where it goes from there... You want a swap someone has to make the first move.

I asked if she wanted to try some and she said "hell no".

But the hot part happened after the other couple left. Daphne and I were talking and she recounted a guy that tried to pick her up at her gym yesterday. This guy is married to another gym member that hates Daphne, so much so that she was pretty loud about Daphne doing squats and showing her ass off (talk about jealous). Daphne said she (Daphne) turn her head and said "bitch" as the woman left.

Anyway this guy was hitting on her so hard she started fantasizing about him on the way home. So I had her recount her fantasy about this guy while she was fucking me (woman on top). It was pretty intense.

[SteelRidge]

Erectile Dysfunction - mental background

As most readers know I sometimes have a problem getting the cock hard and keeping it hard. I honestly don't recall having any problem getting hard until the beginning of this year. Daphne and I would fuck about once a week and I'd jack off to porn about 3 times a week or more. I would reliably get hard and when fucking Daphne many times I'd have to think about some vanilla subject to keep from cumming to quickly, but I'd still stay hard. The ED is still with me but has subsided substantially.

Because the ED appearing was so quick, coinciding with a heart to heart talk about sex with Daphne in which I confessed all my masturabatory fantasies (porn, women I've listed after), I have to attribute most of my ED to mental side of things. I also don't get hard when just thinking about fucking when lusting after women (easily done until this year). Now I almost always require physical stimulation such as foreplay in order to have an erection.

The ED seems to be somewhat disassociated from my conscious thought and based upon more on a subconscious level. I have to say that because my desire to fuck Daphne and other women is at a peak. Yet sometimes my cock will go soft in the middle of sex and, most annoyingly, right when I'm about to stick it in her pussy. There is no other thought in my head other than to please Daphne and feel good. I've thought maybe there was some anxiety but Daphne has told me to grind her whether hard or soft, she doesn't care so me being hard or not isn't a deal breaker for sex and nothing to be anxious about.

One of the most reliable ways for me to get hard is to think of Daphne fucking other men. It's practically the whole reason I joined this board. I attribute this now to training my sexual response through years of watching pornography. Watching other people fuck and the associated jacking off has trained me to be a spectator. Going down the rabbit hole of BBC porn only amplified that response. Even now I get turned on just thinking about other men hitting on her, being turned on by her, jacking off to her (yep it's getting hard as I write this sentence).

On the other hand, our sexual encounters have increased dramatically. I'd say we try to fuck at least every other day when Daphne isn't on her period and the other days there is some other sexual activity like pussy eating. I'm willing to consider my body physically can't keep up but I'll cover that on a different post.

[SteelRidge]

Getting to that stage of play is always awkward unless one couple is mire aggressive or open than the other. We have been to swingers conventions, where everyone was well versed in playing with others and still observed that most folks have trouble in the "transition".

Sometimes it is easiest to have an "ice breaker" to start things rolling (we carry a pair of dice with a body part on ne and an action on the other IE: kiss, breasts). O if yo are feeling bold, just stand behind the other's spouse and start caressing them.

Isn't it ironic that you all know and agree to why you are there, but for some reason ,no one makes the first move?

Yeah, I think without a clear plan it becomes more awkward to transition. I asked Daphne if she was ready and she looked at me and didn't say anything. Later she told me the look was a "yes" but I was expecting to hear her say yes or no! Because I didn't hear anything I thought she was still a no.

[nnjcpl2002]

So how old are you, Steel? Aging and ED are surely related. Of course, many of us here get hard when watching or even visualizing our wives getting it on with another man. Works for me !

[afagehi7]

SR - next time you are having problems, not minor but bigger problems, ask Daphne to talk about fucking that guy at the gym and see what happens. I wouldn't try it on a minor power outage but a major power outage to see if the lights come back on. That may answer some of your questions. If nothing else is working and this does then you know it's in your head.

Honestly I think some of it may be in your head but I think it's more something else... Namely age.

[SteelRidge]

So how old are you, Steel? Aging and ED are surely related. Of course, many of us here get hard when watching or even visualizing our wives getting it on with another man. Works for me !

I'm 50 (51 in a few weeks) and have read up enough to know that age is a factor. I haven't had my testosterone checked but I suspect it is normal level for my age. I get morning wood regularly which I use to hump Daphne's ass crack practically every morning for 15 to 20 minutes.

I'll post more later on the physical side of ED.

[SteelRidge]

SR - next time you are having problems, not minor but bigger problems, ask Daphne to talk about fucking that guy at the gym and see what happens. I wouldn't try it on a minor power outage but a major power outage to see if the lights come back on. That may answer some of your questions. If nothing else is working and this does then you know it's in your head.

Honestly I think some of it may be in your head but I think it's more something else... Namely age.

I can tell you I have done that before, back when the ED was way worse. Yes, it would get hard. I have also been able to get it hard during bad periods just by me pretending to be another man, Daphne not even knowing it.

I don't particularly mind that way of me getting hard. I just want my desire for her to get me just as hard as reliably.

I think it's 2/3 mental and 1/3 physical. I think for me the physical more relates to the quantity and length of sexual activity.

Honestly do guys my age actually attempt to fuck daily for an hour or more?

Statistics I've read is for my age are about once a week with about 10 minutes of foreplay and 5 minutes of coitus. My life would be a living hell if that's all I put out for Daphne.

[afagehi7]

SR - next time you are having problems, not minor but bigger problems, ask Daphne to talk about fucking that guy at the gym and see what happens. I wouldn't try it on a minor power outage but a major power outage to see if the lights come back on. That may answer some of your questions. If nothing else is working and this does then you know it's in your head.

Honestly I think some of it may be in your head but I think it's more something else... Namely age.

I can tell you I have done that before, back when the ED was way worse. Yes, it would get hard. I have also been able to get it hard during bad periods just by me pretending to be another man, Daphne not even knowing it.

I don't particularly mind that way of me getting hard. I just want my desire for her to get me just as hard as reliably.

I think it's 2/3 mental and 1/3 physical. I think for me the physical more relates to the quantity and length of sexual activity.

Honestly do guys my age actually attempt to fuck daily for an hour or more?

Statistics I've read is for my age are about once a week with about 10 minutes of foreplay and 5 minutes of coitus. My life would be a living hell if that's all I put out for Daphne.

You definitely put in the effort. Hopefully she understands that. Hopefully she returns it in some way.

[SteelRidge]

Had an interesting night. Daphne and I were on SLS chat doing our exhibitionism thing. I typically pick the video streams to watch. There are not a lot open to everyone and I pick the women over the men (which is mostly men jacking off). The women aren't that great either as most just sit there and talk with the occasional flashing. As I've said elsewhere, it's really not conducive to interactive sex. We are satisfied with going at it and having people comment to us on the written chat.

So last night I had a couple of women up, one could only be described as a goddess and she was bare chested. Daphne and I start going at it with me eating her pussy. After about 20 minutes of foreplay we start fucking with me on top. I'm alternating between hard pounding and slow fuck. About half way through I look at the screen and see this goddess cumming all over the place, licking her ample tits, clearly in the throes of passion. I'm thinking, "she is watching us and can't help herself" (that is the kind of thought that turns me on to the max), so I start fucking Daphne even harder. Daphne eventually needs a break from the orgasms she's blowing out so we stop to cuddle.

I whisper text to this goddess "that was pretty hot" thinking she may not even be watching us. Well she texts back "you two are so hot". Shit, she was watching us. I immediately started getting harder so I send a private AV chat request to her. We have general chit chat about how people on this board don't participate and we are glad to find someone into it. She's married and her husband is there. She is a true Hotwife. Me and her are texting back and forth (thank you Daphne for letting me) and I tell her we are ready to go back at it.

Daphne gets on her knees and I start fucking her doggy style. All the while this goddess gets more and more turned on. She is sitting down and her husband gets behind her and works her up. We had our own video stream up so I can see myself fucking Daphne and this other woman in ecstasy at the same time. Holy hell was it hot.

She texting "I want to fuck you so much daddy", "your so hot", "I want to make you cum", etc. All that just makes me more hard. We end up stopping again and text back and forth. Come to find out she has a thing for older men, even a strict 50+ policy (yea I qualify). She's only 28. Completely down to earth. Total package. Alas Daphne would never approve of me stepping out.

[afagehi7]

How far away is she? Daphne should give you a hall pass because it's a once in a lifetime opportunity

[SteelRidge]

How far away is she? Daphne should give you a hall pass because it's a once in a lifetime opportunity

She is so jealous, she'd put a bullet in us. Maybe worth it.