Ask a Hotwife Thread, to be answered by VHWs only!

[Husbands Kandi]

Okay, I'm a very curious if any hotwife has ever fucked a guy that their husband didn't approve/disliked, and if so, why and did you ever tell your husband that you did? Thanks.
I've been a hotwife bull/fwb for the last 15years, been with 8 couples in that time, vanilla is not for me!

I've been fortunate that Kentros has never disliked/didn't approve of one of my lovers. He's been annoyed with a lover (well, so was I, this guy was flaky but I tolerated it for a while because he was such a good fuck). We've actually had the opposite happen once. I didn't think I was into a guy. Hubby wanted me to give him a 2nd chance/date. And boy, so glad I did!! He turned out to be one of my best lovers!! (The Wolf).

[Husbands Kandi]

I have a question for the ladies - and it's kind of "mechanical."

When I read of hotwives saying that their BF's / FWB's "pounded them" like their husbands do not / can't ........... what do you mean by that??

I ask this because I once saw a female on a talk show forcefully strike the shoulder of the male host with 3 fingers held tight together. She asked him if that felt great. She told him that neither does it feel great for women to be penetrated like that, and it's NOT what gets women to have orgasms. (I'm assuming she meant no clitoral stimulation?) She said a dull "thumping" against the cervix isn't pleasurable.

So ................ do some of you like to be "pounded" and prefer sex to be a bit "rougher" ?? Does being "pounded" hurt at all ??

Open to all LADIES' input!!

I think "pounded them" is going to vary as each hotwife has a different perspective of what "pounded " means. For me, it means getting the absolute best rough-ish sex. Kate88 makes a super important point about "warmed up and in a comfortable position." Most of the time you can't start pounding away. But eventually, I do love my cervix getting pounded.

[AlexWat]

I hope I'm not upsetting HW husbands, but I'm really only looking for comments from VHW's. My wife LouiseQ occasionally posts on here but refuses to be categorised as a HW, let alone a VHW, as she no longer indulges. She never entertained bulls, and refused to describe her sexual partners as FBs or even BFs. She was not interested in guys - no matter how sexually appealing - if she didn't feel she could have some kind of emotional connection. Of course, this is somewhat risky, and she was aware of the possibility that either she, or the person she was seeing, would become too emotionally attached, and was always ready to break the relationship off, no matter how painful. It helped that she and I enjoy an intense bond, and I know there is very little risk of that being broken. I suppose I am a stag, although I feel the term cuckold (or wittol) covers both husbands who approve and encourage, and also those who are given no choice in their wives affairs.

Long premable, for which I apologise! As a practising psychologist, I have long been interested in the HW/cuckold phenomenon, and I am happy to share my research if any members wish to pm me. My current interest is in female sexual satisfaction ie how many encounters, or how long a session, or how many orgasms constitute 'completion'. There are stories on the website of wives who keep a 'stable' of guys she can call on. Similarly, there are tales of wives who prefer marathon sessions which go on all night. I think in the uk that is called a 'roasting', where one guy follows another.

I am interested in hearing about VHW preferences. My own wife has participated in sex parties and has cavorted with both male and female partners, but her preference has always been to have one 'secondary husband' as she terms them. She is happiest when she experiences at least three orgasms, but rarely wants more than four. She is, of course, considerate of her partner's needs and always takes the time and trouble to ensure he is satisfied.

How do VHWs see this? How many lovers is too many, how long a session is too long and how many orgasms can you take?

Thanks and best wishes

Alex

[early-kink]

I have a question for the ladies - and it's kind of "mechanical."

When I read of hotwives saying that their BF's / FWB's "pounded them" like their husbands do not / can't ........... what do you mean by that??

I ask this because I once saw a female on a talk show forcefully strike the shoulder of the male host with 3 fingers held tight together. She asked him if that felt great. She told him that neither does it feel great for women to be penetrated like that, and it's NOT what gets women to have orgasms. (I'm assuming she meant no clitoral stimulation?) She said a dull "thumping" against the cervix isn't pleasurable.

So ................ do some of you like to be "pounded" and prefer sex to be a bit "rougher" ?? Does being "pounded" hurt at all ??

Open to all LADIES' input!!

A couple times I had to 'tap out' when having sex with my boyfriend because I thought his cock would break through my cervix, quite painful. Having said that, if we're warmed up and in a comfortable position, I love taking his big cock fast and furious, it shows how much he misses me and it's not something my husband can do.

Thank-you Kate88 for your insights!! You love the idea that your BF has missed you terribly, and so is giving you his cock "fast & furious." It's also an emotional connection for you. It seems some ladies like getting their cervix hammered - and others don't.

To me - and we guys can't feel what you ladies are feeling - it would seem that such a delicate, delicious area would not enjoy being "pounded" !!! Pain would seem to be a negative??

[early-kink]

I have a question for the ladies - and it's kind of "mechanical."

When I read of hotwives saying that their BF's / FWB's "pounded them" like their husbands do not / can't ........... what do you mean by that??

I ask this because I once saw a female on a talk show forcefully strike the shoulder of the male host with 3 fingers held tight together. She asked him if that felt great. She told him that neither does it feel great for women to be penetrated like that, and it's NOT what gets women to have orgasms. (I'm assuming she meant no clitoral stimulation?) She said a dull "thumping" against the cervix isn't pleasurable.

So ................ do some of you like to be "pounded" and prefer sex to be a bit "rougher" ?? Does being "pounded" hurt at all ??

Open to all LADIES' input!!

I think "pounded them" is going to vary as each hotwife has a different perspective of what "pounded " means. For me, it means getting the absolute best rough-ish sex. Kate88 makes a super important point about "warmed up and in a comfortable position." Most of the time you can't start pounding away. But eventually, I do love my cervix getting pounded.

Thank-you, Husbands Kandi for your insights!! I know ladies need to be well warmed-up and every woman has her own favorite position. You said you love to have your cervix pounded. It's not painful?? Or are you one of the ladies who enjoys that cervical pain as a "pleasurable pain" - and thus a positive addition to your whole experience??

[Husbands Kandi]

I have a question for the ladies - and it's kind of "mechanical."

When I read of hotwives saying that their BF's / FWB's "pounded them" like their husbands do not / can't ........... what do you mean by that??

I ask this because I once saw a female on a talk show forcefully strike the shoulder of the male host with 3 fingers held tight together. She asked him if that felt great. She told him that neither does it feel great for women to be penetrated like that, and it's NOT what gets women to have orgasms. (I'm assuming she meant no clitoral stimulation?) She said a dull "thumping" against the cervix isn't pleasurable.

So ................ do some of you like to be "pounded" and prefer sex to be a bit "rougher" ?? Does being "pounded" hurt at all ??

Open to all LADIES' input!!

I think "pounded them" is going to vary as each hotwife has a different perspective of what "pounded " means. For me, it means getting the absolute best rough-ish sex. Kate88 makes a super important point about "warmed up and in a comfortable position." Most of the time you can't start pounding away. But eventually, I do love my cervix getting pounded.

Thank-you, Husbands Kandi for your insights!! I know ladies need to be well warmed-up and every woman has her own favorite position. You said you love to have your cervix pounded. It's not painful?? Or are you one of the ladies who enjoys that cervical pain as a "pleasurable pain" - and thus a positive addition to your whole experience??

The 2nd or 3rd time I had sex with my now poly lover, he said, "you're a cervix girl" and I was like, YEP!! I enjoy stimulation there (and lots of other places too, lol). I like sex to be a little rough - hard fucking-ish. So, the answer to your question is most likely yes

[VixenTIFFANYhubby]

Adult vacation, we are a true hotwife/stag couple. Looking to book our first vacation to an adult resort. Looking at desire or temptation. Curious what other hotwifes that have been thought. Specifically related to the dynamic of only she plays. Most of these resorts are couple only, and I don't play. Thoughts/advise/recommendations much appreciated! @vixentiffsanders

[Farmgirl]

I have a question for the ladies - and it's kind of "mechanical."

When I read of hotwives saying that their BF's / FWB's "pounded them" like their husbands do not / can't ........... what do you mean by that??

I ask this because I once saw a female on a talk show forcefully strike the shoulder of the male host with 3 fingers held tight together. She asked him if that felt great. She told him that neither does it feel great for women to be penetrated like that, and it's NOT what gets women to have orgasms. (I'm assuming she meant no clitoral stimulation?) She said a dull "thumping" against the cervix isn't pleasurable.

So ................ do some of you like to be "pounded" and prefer sex to be a bit "rougher" ?? Does being "pounded" hurt at all ??

Open to all LADIES' input!!

I think "pounded them" is going to vary as each hotwife has a different perspective of what "pounded " means. For me, it means getting the absolute best rough-ish sex. Kate88 makes a super important point about "warmed up and in a comfortable position." Most of the time you can't start pounding away. But eventually, I do love my cervix getting pounded.

Thank-you, Husbands Kandi for your insights!! I know ladies need to be well warmed-up and every woman has her own favorite position. You said you love to have your cervix pounded. It's not painful?? Or are you one of the ladies who enjoys that cervical pain as a "pleasurable pain" - and thus a positive addition to your whole experience??

The 2nd or 3rd time I had sex with my now poly lover, he said, "you're a cervix girl" and I was like, YEP!! I enjoy stimulation there (and lots of other places too, lol). I like sex to be a little rough - hard fucking-ish. So, the answer to your question is most likely yes

Can't agree with you on the "cervix girl" but, I can on the 'anal and other girl'!

[Husbands Kandi]

I think "pounded them" is going to vary as each hotwife has a different perspective of what "pounded " means. For me, it means getting the absolute best rough-ish sex. Kate88 makes a super important point about "warmed up and in a comfortable position." Most of the time you can't start pounding away. But eventually, I do love my cervix getting pounded.

Thank-you, Husbands Kandi for your insights!! I know ladies need to be well warmed-up and every woman has her own favorite position. You said you love to have your cervix pounded. It's not painful?? Or are you one of the ladies who enjoys that cervical pain as a "pleasurable pain" - and thus a positive addition to your whole experience??

The 2nd or 3rd time I had sex with my now poly lover, he said, "you're a cervix girl" and I was like, YEP!! I enjoy stimulation there (and lots of other places too, lol). I like sex to be a little rough - hard fucking-ish. So, the answer to your question is most likely yes

Can't agree with you on the "cervix girl" but, I can on the 'anal and other girl'!

LOL, for some reason I feel wet now!

[Spartan Shield]

Husband penis size - is it a motivator for wives to find a boyfriend?

I’m reasonably new here and a total beginner with resoect to this lifestyle. My wife has occasionally brought up the idea up of her having a boyfriend during our lovemaking and it has become a big fantasy for me too now (I bring it up during lovemaking more often than her now).

I’m not into SPH or anything like that, and she has only ever had one lover before me, who was also about my size (5 inches). We have a v loving and open relationship (we can tell each other anything). The reason I ask this question. Is that she never comes from penetrative sex and I only ever bring her to orgasm by going down on her). She has made a couple of comments in the past about my size (referring to my penis as “cute” or “pretty” which I thought was a bit odd at the time and has stayed with me. When I have asked her if she would prefer it if I were larger she has always said she likes it just the way it is and that I’m a similar size to her previous boyfriend.

Over the last couple of years she has told me about a couple of guys who have come on to her, but I’m pretty sure she has only fantasised about having a lover.

Really interested to get genuine feedback from the ladies on whether a husbands size was a factor in what motivated you to look for a boyfriend, or pointed in the direction of other threads that have already discussed this.

Cheers

[early-kink]

Thank-you, Husbands Kandi for your insights!! I know ladies need to be well warmed-up and every woman has her own favorite position. You said you love to have your cervix pounded. It's not painful?? Or are you one of the ladies who enjoys that cervical pain as a "pleasurable pain" - and thus a positive addition to your whole experience??

The 2nd or 3rd time I had sex with my now poly lover, he said, "you're a cervix girl" and I was like, YEP!! I enjoy stimulation there (and lots of other places too, lol). I like sex to be a little rough - hard fucking-ish. So, the answer to your question is most likely yes

Can't agree with you on the "cervix girl" but, I can on the 'anal and other girl'!

LOL, for some reason I feel wet now!

You girls are sooooooooo bad (great) !!!!! I'd love to buy all of you lunch and just shoot the breeze and learn how all of you think - hear all your kinky fantasies, etc. Of course if you needed other things besides lunch .................. wellllllllll ..................

I'm not feeling wet as mentioned above, but the thought of chatting sex with you girls has caused something to do the limbo under my belt!!!

[Sophie]

Husband penis size - is it a motivator for wives to find a boyfriend?

I’m reasonably new here and a total beginner with resoect to this lifestyle. My wife has occasionally brought up the idea up of her having a boyfriend during our lovemaking and it has become a big fantasy for me too now (I bring it up during lovemaking more often than her now).

I’m not into SPH or anything like that, and she has only ever had one lover before me, who was also about my size (5 inches). We have a v loving and open relationship (we can tell each other anything). The reason I ask this question. Is that she never comes from penetrative sex and I only ever bring her to orgasm by going down on her). She has made a couple of comments in the past about my size (referring to my penis as “cute” or “pretty” which I thought was a bit odd at the time and has stayed with me. When I have asked her if she would prefer it if I were larger she has always said she likes it just the way it is and that I’m a similar size to her previous boyfriend.

Over the last couple of years she has told me about a couple of guys who have come on to her, but I’m pretty sure she has only fantasised about having a lover.

Really interested to get genuine feedback from the ladies on whether a husbands size was a factor in what motivated you to look for a boyfriend, or pointed in the direction of other threads that have already discussed this.

Cheers

It was not an issue in the begining, but then I had nothing to compare his with being a virgin and only having been with my soon to be husband. Later after a few years of marriage, we talked about the sharing thing, well hubby started the talks. After I finally tried another man, it became one of the reasons to continue, the other reason is does the guy know how to and is able to use his cock. My husbands pencil is fairly long but sadly lacks girth and he has no sensation giving mushroom helmet, and he shoots before reaching my goal line.

Sophie.

[Farmgirl]

Husband penis size - is it a motivator for wives to find a boyfriend?

I’m reasonably new here and a total beginner with resoect to this lifestyle. My wife has occasionally brought up the idea up of her having a boyfriend during our lovemaking and it has become a big fantasy for me too now (I bring it up during lovemaking more often than her now).

I’m not into SPH or anything like that, and she has only ever had one lover before me, who was also about my size (5 inches). We have a v loving and open relationship (we can tell each other anything). The reason I ask this question. Is that she never comes from penetrative sex and I only ever bring her to orgasm by going down on her). She has made a couple of comments in the past about my size (referring to my penis as “cute” or “pretty” which I thought was a bit odd at the time and has stayed with me. When I have asked her if she would prefer it if I were larger she has always said she likes it just the way it is and that I’m a similar size to her previous boyfriend.

Over the last couple of years she has told me about a couple of guys who have come on to her, but I’m pretty sure she has only fantasised about having a lover.

Really interested to get genuine feedback from the ladies on whether a husbands size was a factor in what motivated you to look for a boyfriend, or pointed in the direction of other threads that have already discussed this.

Cheers

For me, it was not and is not a motivator. My Number1 is above average.
The right thing to do is to have a real talk with your wife about it. If you're not that comfortable talking to each other, it's time to learn how!

[Husbands Kandi]

The 2nd or 3rd time I had sex with my now poly lover, he said, "you're a cervix girl" and I was like, YEP!! I enjoy stimulation there (and lots of other places too, lol). I like sex to be a little rough - hard fucking-ish. So, the answer to your question is most likely yes

Can't agree with you on the "cervix girl" but, I can on the 'anal and other girl'!

LOL, for some reason I feel wet now!

You girls are sooooooooo bad (great) !!!!! I'd love to buy all of you lunch and just shoot the breeze and learn how all of you think - hear all your kinky fantasies, etc. Of course if you needed other things besides lunch .................. wellllllllll ..................

I'm not feeling wet as mentioned above, but the thought of chatting sex with you girls has caused something to do the limbo under my belt!!!

I'm sure it would be a lovely conversation! All the people sitting near us (well, you know, 6 feet but - still in ear shot) would be quite informed!

[Husbands Kandi]

Husband penis size - is it a motivator for wives to find a boyfriend?

I’m reasonably new here and a total beginner with resoect to this lifestyle. My wife has occasionally brought up the idea up of her having a boyfriend during our lovemaking and it has become a big fantasy for me too now (I bring it up during lovemaking more often than her now).

I’m not into SPH or anything like that, and she has only ever had one lover before me, who was also about my size (5 inches). We have a v loving and open relationship (we can tell each other anything). The reason I ask this question. Is that she never comes from penetrative sex and I only ever bring her to orgasm by going down on her). She has made a couple of comments in the past about my size (referring to my penis as “cute” or “pretty” which I thought was a bit odd at the time and has stayed with me. When I have asked her if she would prefer it if I were larger she has always said she likes it just the way it is and that I’m a similar size to her previous boyfriend.

Over the last couple of years she has told me about a couple of guys who have come on to her, but I’m pretty sure she has only fantasised about having a lover.

Really interested to get genuine feedback from the ladies on whether a husbands size was a factor in what motivated you to look for a boyfriend, or pointed in the direction of other threads that have already discussed this.

Cheers

Like Farmgirl, size wasn't the motivation for me either. Hubby/Kentros is above average. The 1st guy I fucked since my husband (Jay) was a little more than an inch shorter than Kentros. And it was the BRST sex I had ever had in my LIFE up to that point!!! For me it's the variety - type of sex, partner, how the lover makes me feel mentally and physically. And I LOVE how my husband and I talk about this LS.

If “cute” and “pretty” has stayed with you, you should chat with your wife about it. If it’s something that hurts your feelings a bit, she should know. If you don’t say something, how is she to course correct? If she stops saying it and then you miss it – let her know that too. We can’t figure these things out alone, that’s what makes having a primary partner SO fantastic! We can talk to them about anything and they help us grow.

[Husbands Kandi]

Adult vacation, we are a true hotwife/stag couple. Looking to book our first vacation to an adult resort. Looking at desire or temptation. Curious what other hotwifes that have been thought. Specifically related to the dynamic of only she plays. Most of these resorts are couple only, and I don't play. Thoughts/advise/recommendations much appreciated! @vixentiffsanders

I've got nothing to suggest, Sir. If they ladies are not answering on this one, they might not have a lot of info to provide. You may want to post this one in the main forum. Or do some google searching. I know there are a lot of options out there - just not something I have pursued myself.

[VixenTIFFANYhubby]

Adult vacation, we are a true hotwife/stag couple. Looking to book our first vacation to an adult resort. Looking at desire or temptation. Curious what other hotwifes that have been thought. Specifically related to the dynamic of only she plays. Most of these resorts are couple only, and I don't play. Thoughts/advise/recommendations much appreciated! @vixentiffsanders

I've got nothing to suggest, Sir. If they ladies are not answering on this one, they might not have a lot of info to provide. You may want to post this one in the main forum. Or do some google searching. I know there are a lot of options out there - just not something I have pursued myself.

No worries, I am pretty sure we have settled on desire.

[Spartan Shield]

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Later after a few years of marriage, we talked about the sharing thing, well hubby started the talks. After I finally tried another man, it became one of the reasons to continue

[/quote]

Thanks for your response Sophie.

Can I ask what took you from just talking about it to taking a lover? Did you do it just to please your husband or did you meet the right guy?

Many thanks,
S

[early-kink]

Can't agree with you on the "cervix girl" but, I can on the 'anal and other girl'!

LOL, for some reason I feel wet now!

You girls are sooooooooo bad (great) !!!!! I'd love to buy all of you lunch and just shoot the breeze and learn how all of you think - hear all your kinky fantasies, etc. Of course if you needed other things besides lunch .................. wellllllllll ..................

I'm not feeling wet as mentioned above, but the thought of chatting sex with you girls has caused something to do the limbo under my belt!!!

I'm sure it would be a lovely conversation! All the people sitting near us (well, you know, 6 feet but - still in ear shot) would be quite informed!

I was thinking of a "normal" time when we could just sit & talk while having a nice lunch. It'd be really fun to exchange ideas, thoughts & fantasies in a wide open face-to-face conversation!!! (Plus I'd be thrilled to be sitting next to several of you bona-fide sexy ladies!!!) This Covid-19 thing is pooping on everyone's fun.

[Sophie]

Later after a few years of marriage, we talked about the sharing thing, well hubby started the talks. After I finally tried another man, it became one of the reasons to continue

[/quote]

Thanks for your response Sophie.

Can I ask what took you from just talking about it to taking a lover? Did you do it just to please your husband or did you meet the right guy?

Many thanks,
S
[/quote]

To be honest, our talks excited me and I just thought what harm would it do. I checked with every possible way I could think of to see if hubby was really ok with me being with another guy. He passed them all.

The one that I knew would test him was when I said that it would only happen if the guy used condoms and I waited till he had orgasmed to state my requirement.

He tried every way to try to get me to allow the guy to not use a condom, at that point I knew he would be ok with me trying another guy. The other things really just confirmed beyond doubt for me.

Well plans were made long weekend away in a log cabin.

The guy turned up Saturday night, and he was good looking younger than us, nice size down below. No kissing was allowed my rule, big mistake on my part, he got ready, condom fitted entered me trust a few times, real good feelings for me, he went soft and it was over. The mind was willing, but the body not willing, he remained soft till he decided it was not going to happen.

Hubby and I fucked so many times it was like we were first timers all over again.

The one thing I knew for certain at that point was it was not going to be the last time to try another man.

I played it real cool with hubby, who was so upset it did not go well and I said not really my thing, I have done it for you and I hope you realise it's over.

He tried everything to change how I thought or how he thought I thought, as I wanted to control things going forward.

Yes I have had more than my fair share of other men, some married and some single, I think married is easier to organise as they don't pester and they follow our wishes without hassle.

The best have been long term as I wanted them to come back for more, and that they did. One got to me and as I have posted on here before nearly cost me my marriage and hubby now knows the signs and hits the veto button, when its going off rail. I trust him to do that as I love him so much.

Hope this answers your question Spartan Shield.

Sophie

[Spartan Shield]

Wow. Thanks for your response.

We are still just at the talking stage, and no idea if we will ever move beyond that, but it’s great to hear your experiences and get your thoughts.

[Spartan Shield]

Wow. Thanks for your response.

We are still just at the talking stage, and no idea if we will ever move beyond that, but it’s great to hear your experiences and get your thoughts.

[Spartan Shield]

Husband penis size - is it a motivator for wives to find a boyfriend?

I’m reasonably new here and a total beginner with resoect to this lifestyle. My wife has occasionally brought up the idea up of her having a boyfriend during our lovemaking and it has become a big fantasy for me too now (I bring it up during lovemaking more often than her now).

I’m not into SPH or anything like that, and she has only ever had one lover before me, who was also about my size (5 inches). We have a v loving and open relationship (we can tell each other anything). The reason I ask this question. Is that she never comes from penetrative sex and I only ever bring her to orgasm by going down on her). She has made a couple of comments in the past about my size (referring to my penis as “cute” or “pretty” which I thought was a bit odd at the time and has stayed with me. When I have asked her if she would prefer it if I were larger she has always said she likes it just the way it is and that I’m a similar size to her previous boyfriend.

Over the last couple of years she has told me about a couple of guys who have come on to her, but I’m pretty sure she has only fantasised about having a lover.

Really interested to get genuine feedback from the ladies on whether a husbands size was a factor in what motivated you to look for a boyfriend, or pointed in the direction of other threads that have already discussed this.

Cheers

Like Farmgirl, size wasn't the motivation for me either. Hubby/Kentros is above average. The 1st guy I fucked since my husband (Jay) was a little more than an inch shorter than Kentros. And it was the BRST sex I had ever had in my LIFE up to that point!!! For me it's the variety - type of sex, partner, how the lover makes me feel mentally and physically. And I LOVE how my husband and I talk about this LS.

If “cute” and “pretty” has stayed with you, you should chat with your wife about it. If it’s something that hurts your feelings a bit, she should know. If you don’t say something, how is she to course correct? If she stops saying it and then you miss it – let her know that too. We can’t figure these things out alone, that’s what makes having a primary partner SO fantastic! We can talk to them about anything and they help us grow.

Many thanks Kandi and Farmgirl - great advice.

Communication has definitely improved through this process, but thanks for your thoughts

[Sophie]

Wow. Thanks for your response.

We are still just at the talking stage, and no idea if we will ever move beyond that, but it’s great to hear your experiences and get your thoughts.

Your welcome.

Just keep chatting to each other, if she is interested it will happen.

Sophie.

[early-kink]

A question for all the sexy ladies here ...........

In what ways has being a hotwife improved your lives?? In what ways are you happier??

(It doesn't JUST have to be in sexual ways - Do you feel sexier/more desirable? Are you less stressed? Do you feel more of a woman? Do you savor the "new" & "different" of having BF's / FWB's? Does the change of scenery appeal to you? Do you feel less "boxed in" or confined? etc., etc.)

You may also - obviously - have sexual reasons and ways you're happier!!