My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

[Asterix42]

The ordinary part of our lives:

~ Des

Hate to say it Des, but from the way it's written, it doesn't appear that Gigi allows much time for you in her life. And as for saying things like "You have two parts of the brain, ‘left’ and ‘right’ — in the left side, it’s all sex between me and other guys and in the right side, there’s nothing left.” Well...

[Tracey52]

Wear her out Des.

[Scotch98]

Great update Des, Gigi is such an amazing Woman...... Thanks for sharing these details w/ us....

[Des 31]

The ordinary part of our lives:

~ Des

Hate to say it Des, but from the way it's written, it doesn't appear that Gigi allows much time for you in her life. And as for saying things like "You have two parts of the brain, ‘left’ and ‘right’ — in the left side, it’s all sex between me and other guys and in the right side, there’s nothing left.” Well...

That was just one of her jokes, Asterix. I and others she knows, and some of those with who she works, get one or more of those almost every day. But I get your point. It wasn't intended as a serious comment.

~ Des

[yielding william]

I often go back to read your wife's first affair with a coworker. My wife has been telling me for months she thinks half the people in her office have been involved in workplace affairs. At least two involved the bosses with the same receptionist. This seems to be a growing trend. My wife dates guys but steers clear of people she works with. I don't think any there could imagine she is having sex with other men.

[solstice]

by Asterix42
Hate to say it Des, but from the way it's written, it doesn't appear that Gigi allows much time for you in her life.
It is evident and consistent from you greatly appreciated post, that you do not doubt Gigi's love and devotion to you. how many of us are content with our married life experience as you are?
Philippians 4:11-13 Not that I speak from want, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. ... 1 Timothy 6:6-12 But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it.

[Des 31]

I often go back to read your wife's first affair with a coworker. My wife has been telling me for months she thinks half the people in her office have been involved in workplace affairs. At least two involved the bosses with the same receptionist. This seems to be a growing trend. My wife dates guys but steers clear of people she works with. I don't think any there could imagine she is having sex with other men.

Reply: ( and a couple of updates - only because I have little to do for a while this evening, so I hope I put no one to sleep)

Although I was the one who first told my wife I wanted her to have sex with other men, the ultimate incentive for her going all-in for it was her fucking a coworker for three months without my knowledge. She left that first job as a management trainee following the affair in order to stay away from the man she was involved with, which turned out to be a good career decision on her part. She attempted to terminate the affair, but neither could resist having sex twice more after the intended breakup. I didn't ask her to break up with him, but she thereafter agreed it would be difficult to avoid extramarital sex after that first hot affair. I had encouraged her to do that for about a year before she went through with it, but her suspicion I couldn't really handle it kept her from confessing it. I found out only by coming home from a business trip a day early and she didn't get home from being fucked at his place until around ten that evening.

With some minimal research, I later learned that sex between men and women working closely with each other, spending as much time together as with their spouses, has made extramarital sex rather common. The Journal of Marital and Family Therapy reported about 36 percent of men and women admit to cheating with coworkers. When I read reports like that, I wondered how many who were interviewed for that survey wouldn’t admit it. Maybe it’s really half or more.

Fatherly.love.com reported another interesting side aspect about that, which reads as, “. . . the better people are at their jobs, the more likely they are to cheat.” I’ve since found myself looking around our agency and wondering what might be going on with our best employees. It's happened with some at almost everywhere I have worked.

* * * * *

At my wife's bank, as in my own office, everyone is wearing face masks these days. She told this joke as an opener to a quick talk she gave to supervisors this week. A woman complained about the masks and added, “I can barely recognize some of the people here at work.” Gigi said, “I feel your pain. My husband and I went grocery shopping with our masks on. When we got home and took off our masks, I discovered I brought home the wrong husband.” (And, so some won't think her comment was serious, none of her response to that remark is true.)

* * * * *

My wife’s and the boss’ secretary will retire either at the end of August or two weeks later if she feels she should stay another couple of weeks to train the new secretaries for my wife. The secretary has been interviewing prospects and already hired her boss’ replacement. Of the four others sent over by an employment agency, she has been trying to decide which to hire for my wife. The best qualified has been working as a legal secretary for the city’s largest law firm. A neighbor of the secretary is a friend of a paralegal for the firm, so she took a long lunch hour today to talk to the woman about the secretary in question.

Her paralegal friend promised to say nothing about the secretary working for the firm but gave her a personal and personal information that turned out to be perfect for the bank’s position. The concern for my wife, the retiring secretary and their boss was their wish for an open-minded, discreet employee who would be dependably loyal and wouldn’t be a problem if she somehow suspected an affair between my wife and the boss. The applicant is coming in this evening for an after-hours interview with my wife and the boss. Gigi told me by phone it seems they couldn’t get a better choice and she’s reasonably sure the woman will be hired tonight.

~ Des

[Des 31]

My wife emailed me this quote:

"In order to avoid being called a flirt, she always yielded easily." - quote by Charles, Count Talleyrand[

She added, "That's why I never flirt."

~ Des

[Des 31]

My wife emailed me this quote from work:

"In order to avoid being called a flirt, she always yielded easily." - quote by Charles, Count Talleyrand[

She added, "That's why I never flirt."

~ Des

[solstice]

She added, "That's why I never flirt."

Gigi, come on now and stop pulling our chain! men are full of doubt in those days of harassment accusations, we need a pretty lady to fire the first shot to overcome our reticence, a personal answer would be appreciated, otherwise I shall refuse to cuddle up behind you, to console you on your lonely nights.

[Des 31]

She added, "That's why I never flirt."

Gigi, come on now and stop pulling our chain! men are full of doubt in those days of harassment accusations, we need a pretty lady to fire the first shot to overcome our reticence, a personal answer would be appreciated, otherwise I shall refuse to cuddle up behind you, to console you on your lonely nights.

Seriously, Solstice, she doesn't need to. With the exception of her workplace, guys approach her often elsewhere. I call her a man-magnet, but she thinks that's pretty much true for most women. Maybe the difference is that she's more willing to at least consider responding to come-ons.

[subtoall]

I call her a man-magnet, but she thinks that's pretty much true for most women. Maybe the difference is that she's more willing to at least consider responding to come-ons.

Yeah, I think there might just be some other magnetic differences....most women don't look like the woman in your avatar right now, for example.

[Des 31]

My wife said that last update was “borrring.” Apparently, I wrote too much of ourordinary, day-to-day lives. Some also may consider this as such.

Gigi crossed paths with Beau somewhere at work this morning. He has no Friday classes and will be working a full day of his part-time position with the bank on that day and two half-days during the week. His birthday party is tomorrow, and will leave this evening to drive to his parents’ home, about two and a half hours away. We’re told fewer will be attending this year. Some of his former high school friends are away at school, have moved for jobs or are now married and have conflicting plans; but at least a dozen will be on hand for the yard party his parents are hosting. Gigi won’t be able to attend this year but mailed a gift certificate from us to his mom to present to him after the guests leave tomorrow evening.

Gigi got home around ten last night and our phone rang within minutes after she arrived. She didn’t immediately recognized the voice on the phone as her former Kodokan instructor who had been fucking her when she was then one of his judo students. As a result of an oddly sexual dream about a gorilla and his substantially muscular body, she had once told him in an admiring way, “You big ape.” He began last night’s conversation with, “I’m the guy with the simian features.” She broke out in laughter and said she was glad to again hear from him.

She motioned for me to pick up another phone and pressed a finger to her lips as a code to tell me to listen. Sitting on our bed and listening on the bedside phone, I silently listened and stroked as they talked.

He has been living in New Mexico since shutting down his shutting down his studio. Because a management company wants to purchase his local three rental condos, he will be back in town for three days at the end of September to sign over the properties. Having received a generous separation bonus from his years in oil drilling, his livelihood is now from investments and rentals of his local luxury condos. He’s looking around various regions to move and begin anew. He had intended to retire early but found he couldn’t take not being productive and has been working half-time as an instructor for a martial arts studio.

He asked if she could get together with him a night or two when he gets to town. She responded, “Sure, I’d love that. If you like, you can stay with us while you’re in town.” He said he had already booked a hotel and doesn’t like imposing on others by staying more than a night at any home. She agreed she could spend those Friday and Saturday nights at his hotel room but said current work responsibilities may not allow her free during daytime hours Saturday. That seemed fine with him.

They went on talking about the last time they fucked before he closed his shop and moved away. I was jerking off madly as I listened.

When she hung up the phone, she strode to the bedroom where I was jerking off. She sat alongside me, pressed against my shoulder and pushed me onto my back. Reaching for my dick, she curled her fist around its breadth. She stroked slowly and said, “I’ll have him at our home one of those nights and you can watch us from the spy cams. He fucks good.” Pumping faster, she said she has often recalled him fucking her when having sex with others. She mentioned her pleasure as sucking his pole for a very long time before having sex. I couldn’t recall her bringing that before, but she insisted with certainty she has told me. Maybe I was so into fucking her at the time, the message didn’t register in my mind.

As experienced as my wife may be, she has only come across one with so large a dick. My body shuddered under her manipulations. I muttered, “You really liked his big cock in you, didn’t you?” She grinned and said, “Oh yeah. You may recall his first job was as an oil-field worker. I once told him after I had climaxed, “You haven’t lost your drilling skills.”

When I stopped laughing, she said, “I probably shouldn’t have joked at that moment. The distraction caused him to fuck another ten or more minutes before he ejaculated.” I said I can’t imagine why that could be a downside. She grinned and said, “It wasn’t.”

She removed her hand. Her head hovered above my groin, and she took my staff into her mouth. I gasped as she sucked. I could envision his big cock inside her widely stretched mouth and couldn’t hold back. I muttered, “I’m going to cum.” She whimpered, “Mmhmm!” as my lava erupted into her throat. She withdrew, swallowed, and said, “You enjoyed all that, huh?”

I nodded a “yes” and weakly thanked her for allowing me to listen in to their conversation. She removed her clothing, then mine. She rolled body over, straddled my waist, and gave me a full body rub while explaining her joy of being married. She said, “I don’t know what I ever did to deserve you as a husband. Don’t ever change.”

I responded I’m too set in my ways and don’t really want to change. She slapped my butt and said, “Good. I like everything just the way it is.”

I liked that.

* * * * *

After work a week from next Friday, we and Liz’s boyfriend will be on a two-night river trip in Liz and Ben’s cabin cruiser. Liz suggested that my wife invite Beau to again go with us. She hasn’t yet asked but is considering asking him with the sometime next week if feels he can get away that weekend.

~ Des

[Tracey52]

Man what time was it that you posted this post Des? It had to be very late or early? Do you often get calls at 10 at night?

[snooper56]

"I nodded a “yes” and weakly thanked her for allowing me to listen in to their conversation. She removed her clothing, then mine. She rolled body over, straddled my waist, and gave me a full body rub while explaining her joy of being married. She said, “I don’t know what I ever did to deserve you as a husband. Don’t ever change.”

I think that sums it up. If anyone who reads this entire post has or had any questions about your relationship, this should answer them.

A very nice update. Sounds like more fun is headed your way. I liked your last update. Not boring at all. The background info gives context to what is going on. Have a good weekend.

[Scotch98]

Great update Des, and I know she (and you) are looking forward to having her Judo instructor cum for a visit.... I just love to hear how she takes care of you and talks to you while she strokes your cock. very sexy and I know you both love it. Watching them fuck will be phenomenal I am sure. I hope you guys have an awesome Weekend...Cheers

[Des 31]

At the time my wife and her boss and were interviewing a secretarial applicant at the bank the other night, I was at home and came across a website that explained perfectly how the relationship between her and her boss came about. A separate link on that page was "cheating to cuckolding," which also mirrored how and why my wife was to become a hotwife. Reading those articles was like a time machine trip back to those days.

I had been hesitant to mention that here because I may be the only one who really cares; but if any long time followers are curious, the links for copying and pasting is as follows:
cuckoldmarriage.info/from-cheating-to-cuckolding/

and: cuckoldmarriage.info/the-office-hotwife/

In a way, it reads like that in our earlier experiences as posted years ago.

~ Des

[afagehi7]

@des - the idea of extramarital sex being a threat to the marriage is an interesting concept and one that makes sense.

[solstice]

Des wrote: My wife said that last update was “borrring.”

Much as I would like to refute you wife's comments, I will refrain, as I would not enjoy her pushing one of her guns up my jacksie, I appreciate all the background info as well as the stimulating details you generously write about. this latest account was heartwarming stimulating.

[Des 31]

@des - the idea of extramarital sex being a threat to the marriage is an interesting concept and one that makes sense.

Thanks, Afagehi. I try not to be a spoiler against hotwivery. My occasional remarks about it not being for everyone are a result of academic research I have come across over the years we have been involved in this. The majority of negative research studies I have encountered center mostly on the result of pregnancy by men outside the marriage. The essential conclusions have been that many men don't handle marriages well when they perceive their children lacking in apparent likenesses in appearances or behavior, which most people wrongly assume to be inherited. Another negative outcome is that of men who harbor excessive jealousy or insecurity after extramarital sex comes about, even if they personally encouraged it; those are for the most part the worse candidates of all for this lifestyle.

For the wife, the threat that is most often a cause of breakups during sex with others is their inability to separate sexual pleasure from love or their inability to understand the more important facets of a marriage. It isn't non-stop sex throughout their lives but instead the stability and other qualities inherent in successful marriages.

For the rest of us, it's . . . pretty good. I think wannabe couples should consider all those personality factors before diving into the deep end. Your comments were appreciated.

~ Des

[rascalnvixen]

Hey Des!!!!

I'm not going to worry about Gigi's concealed carry and her access to my jakesie, whatever that is!!! I will respectfully disagree with her assessment of your last update. It was a great update!!! And it seems that you enjoyed writing it more than you do most of the time. I don't have any empirical data to make that judgement, but more of a sense of the relaxed manner of your writing style. It seems that things are starting to get busy for you guys. With Sensei back for a visit, another trip with the boaters, Beau back in town, all combined with the ongoing times with Boss and Fred, it looks like the pattern is full for a while!!! I'm sure you and Gigi will make the best of it and I hope we all get an "enhanced" update on each event!!! Yes, I know it sounds like I think Gigi's getting ready for an Olympic event, but with that schedule, I don't think it is too far afield! Seriously, your recent update was a good one and I really do think you liked writing it more than some recently. Looking forward to the next one, as usual!!!

Rascal

[samlowen]

Hey Des!!!!

I'm not going to worry about Gigi's concealed carry and her access to my jakesie, whatever that is!!! I will respectfully disagree with her assessment of your last update. It was a great update!!! And it seems that you enjoyed writing it more than you do most of the time. I don't have any empirical data to make that judgement, but more of a sense of the relaxed manner of your writing style. It seems that things are starting to get busy for you guys. With Sensei back for a visit, another trip with the boaters, Beau back in town, all combined with the ongoing times with Boss and Fred, it looks like the pattern is full for a while!!! I'm sure you and Gigi will make the best of it and I hope we all get an "enhanced" update on each event!!! Yes, I know it sounds like I think Gigi's getting ready for an Olympic event, but with that schedule, I don't think it is too far afield! Seriously, your recent update was a good one and I really do think you liked writing it more than some recently. Looking forward to the next one, as usual!!!

Rascal

Perhaps the decathlon of sex? So many different events packed into a tight schedule, not much rest in between, gotta keep that stamina up!

[rascalnvixen]

Sam,

Maybe if they can arrange for all the guys to want to fuck her all on the same day an hour apart, she could do a marathon of fucking without them knowing what's going on!! All Des needs to do is drive her from one guy to another for a sequential gang bang that they will never forget!! Now that would be an Olympic event I'd definitely like to watch! I wonder what kind of 1st place medal we could provide for her??? Of course this is all a good fun fantasy. I hope Des and Gigi don't take offense to my spur of the moment comments from my imagination here!!! Des, I hope you have smile on your face!! Gigi, Don't shoot!!!

Rascal

[solstice]

jacksie - Urban Dictionarywww.urbandictionary.com › define › term=jacksie
Jacksie is Cockney Rhyming Slang. It means backside, bottom, arse... The word comes from : Jacksie = Jack and Danny = Fanny.

[rascalnvixen]

Thanks solstice!!! It's always an education to have you here!!!!

Rascal